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I could use some date ideas
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I met this girl the other day, and it went barely well enough that she wants to see me again.
I want this next time to actually be fun for her. Like we actually go somewhere and do something. I was thinking maybe dinner, but then someone suggested bowling, and that seemed like a really good idea to me.
I mean, you can play a game thats pretty fun for a good while, you can order food and drinks there, we can smoke buds before-hand. She's a stoner, how does that sound?
With the idea of playing a game being fun just because theres a girl, what other places might be fun to go? Or maybe something to do afterward that's not sex.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr] 1
#18905165 - 09/28/13 11:53 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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DSHSB
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Shins]
#18905179 - 09/28/13 11:55 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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dick suck her slit boy
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18905182 - 09/28/13 11:55 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Bowling's a good choice, if she's into it. If you have a Dave & Buster's or Gameworks near you that can be a lot of fun. I'd also recommend apple picking at an apple orchard.
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Involve gelato.
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Shining Cosmos said: Involve gelato.
like ice cream? thats a great idea dude. Ice cream and bud goes great together.
And i can watch her lick ice cream. And watch her bowl. I really lucked out, as she has one of the biggest butts I have ever seen.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18905208 - 09/29/13 12:07 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Bowling is NOT a first date thing, maybe it couldve been if you didnt just meet this girl, which you said was the case.
A first date is going out to eat, talking, if the lunch/dinner goes well, continue the date by going out to a do something of your choice, easier a decision if you are in the city.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18905212 - 09/29/13 12:09 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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You should get dinner somewhere better than the bowling ally. Girls don't really like eating at places like that. Then go to the bowling ally after. THEN DSHSB
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Congrats! Its there second and it sounds fine blaze and play, eat and drink, maybe use the game as bargaining, like if i get more pins i get this if you do than ill do this, keep it polite and flirty get hands on but not pervy good luck
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr] 1
#18905235 - 09/29/13 12:17 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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You seem like a nice guy from what ive seen you post, do not take this woman bowling.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Chowder963]
#18905257 - 09/29/13 12:23 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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you might get more responses in the relationships and sexuality forum
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: psyconaught]
#18905277 - 09/29/13 12:30 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Chowder whats up man i have seen you around. I have never had issues with bowling, friendly competition conversation its not to loud there's food, why do you say no go?
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Chowder963]
#18905280 - 09/29/13 12:31 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Chowder963 said: You seem like a nice guy from what ive seen you post, do not take this woman bowling.
Not even if we went there after eating? which is probably a good call.
why so against the bowling?
and seriously, whats DSHSB
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr] 1
#18905282 - 09/29/13 12:33 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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LOL Dry smash her SH*T box
I had to look it up a month ago
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Beside the Garden said: LOL Dry smash her SH*T box
I had to look it up a month ago
god if i actually pull this off and get to mate with her butt I'm going to die
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18905291 - 09/29/13 12:35 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Why is she infected
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no shes just got the best butt around.
I thought of a good one, since she really likes art, I could take her to our local art museum!!
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18905316 - 09/29/13 12:45 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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rbalzer said: I met this girl the other day, and it went barely well enough that she wants to see me again.
I want this next time to actually be fun for her. Like we actually go somewhere and do something. I was thinking maybe dinner, but then someone suggested bowling, and that seemed like a really good idea to me.
I mean, you can play a game thats pretty fun for a good while, you can order food and drinks there, we can smoke buds before-hand. She's a stoner, how does that sound?
With the idea of playing a game being fun just because theres a girl, what other places might be fun to go? Or maybe something to do afterward that's not sex.
if you just met her brother, take it slow. don't rush things. Have a fun night out, maybe keep it simple, meet up for a drink, get to know each other a little bit better. You need to show interest, you need to show her that you are more exciting/interesting than the next guy..don't fake it though ha.
feel her out, see what she likes generally getting to know each other questions and whatnot. you can share this experience at a bar or a bowling alley. In my experiences meeting the girl at a bar or restaurant or a mall has always worked. Share your time with her, grab some coffee, relax.
I have done many different approaches before. They all seem to work fairly well, depending on the girl i will either fuck her the second or third date, then we decide if we want a relationship. Usually the ones that last out with sex are the keepers, keep an eye out for this. Don't think with your dick man. Do not lead her onto anything, unless she is this type of girl. The ones that i fucked very fast in the dating process, did not last very long.
It will happen, just let it flow naturally. If you guys are stoners, that is a good commune activity. Have fun out there, don't be too tense man! Life is good
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: i95fl]
#18905334 - 09/29/13 12:51 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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If the art thing is something out of character for you it might seam try hard, chill on that on and if things continue to go well tell her you would like to take her, probably be sweet.
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rbalzer said:
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Beside the Garden said: LOL Dry smash her SH*T box
I had to look it up a month ago
god if i actually pull this off and get to mate with her butt I'm going to die
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Beside the Garden said: Why is she infected
 
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18905338 - 09/29/13 12:51 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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make a movie night. i suggest the movie Teeth.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: broken]
#18905346 - 09/29/13 12:54 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Smoke weed, get dinner, bowl, get ice cream, DSHSB
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: broken] 1
#18905350 - 09/29/13 12:54 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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oh a quick word of advice. ALWAYS masturbate before a first date if your intentions with this woman extends beyond physical attraction.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: psyconaught] 3
#18905353 - 09/29/13 12:56 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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psyconaught said: oh a quick word of advice. ALWAYS masturbate during a first date if your intentions with this woman extends beyond physical attraction.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: NotTheDevil]
#18905355 - 09/29/13 12:57 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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psyconaught said: oh a quick word of advice. ALWAYS masturbate during a first date if your intentions with this woman extends beyond physical attraction.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: NotTheDevil]
#18905358 - 09/29/13 12:57 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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NotTheDevil said:
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psyconaught said: oh a quick word of advice. ALWAYS masturbate during a first date if your intentions with this woman extends beyond physical attraction.
hahahaha shit i meant before not during
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: i95fl]
#18905364 - 09/29/13 12:58 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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i95fl said:
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rbalzer said: I met this girl the other day, and it went barely well enough that she wants to see me again.
I want this next time to actually be fun for her. Like we actually go somewhere and do something. I was thinking maybe dinner, but then someone suggested bowling, and that seemed like a really good idea to me.
I mean, you can play a game thats pretty fun for a good while, you can order food and drinks there, we can smoke buds before-hand. She's a stoner, how does that sound?
With the idea of playing a game being fun just because theres a girl, what other places might be fun to go? Or maybe something to do afterward that's not sex.
if you just met her brother, take it slow. don't rush things. Have a fun night out, maybe keep it simple, meet up for a drink, get to know each other a little bit better. You need to show interest, you need to show her that you are more exciting/interesting than the next guy..don't fake it though ha.
feel her out, see what she likes generally getting to know each other questions and whatnot. you can share this experience at a bar or a bowling alley. In my experiences meeting the girl at a bar or restaurant or a mall has always worked. Share your time with her, grab some coffee, relax.
I have done many different approaches before. They all seem to work fairly well, depending on the girl i will either fuck her the second or third date, then we decide if we want a relationship. Usually the ones that last out with sex are the keepers, keep an eye out for this. Don't think with your dick man. Do not lead her onto anything, unless she is this type of girl. The ones that i fucked very fast in the dating process, did not last very long.
It will happen, just let it flow naturally. If you guys are stoners, that is a good commune activity. Have fun out there, don't be too tense man! Life is good 
YEah I was really hoping for this to work out in the long run, and was trying to take is slow physically.
But she was wayy hotter than I expected.
And that tip of masturbating before hand is a great idea!
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: psyconaught] 2
#18905372 - 09/29/13 01:01 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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if you live near a pumpkin patch do that right around halloween and the do carve the pumkins at her house or your house
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18905405 - 09/29/13 01:11 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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rbalzer said:
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i95fl said:
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rbalzer said: I met this girl the other day, and it went barely well enough that she wants to see me again.
I want this next time to actually be fun for her. Like we actually go somewhere and do something. I was thinking maybe dinner, but then someone suggested bowling, and that seemed like a really good idea to me.
I mean, you can play a game thats pretty fun for a good while, you can order food and drinks there, we can smoke buds before-hand. She's a stoner, how does that sound?
With the idea of playing a game being fun just because theres a girl, what other places might be fun to go? Or maybe something to do afterward that's not sex.
if you just met her brother, take it slow. don't rush things. Have a fun night out, maybe keep it simple, meet up for a drink, get to know each other a little bit better. You need to show interest, you need to show her that you are more exciting/interesting than the next guy..don't fake it though ha.
feel her out, see what she likes generally getting to know each other questions and whatnot. you can share this experience at a bar or a bowling alley. In my experiences meeting the girl at a bar or restaurant or a mall has always worked. Share your time with her, grab some coffee, relax.
I have done many different approaches before. They all seem to work fairly well, depending on the girl i will either fuck her the second or third date, then we decide if we want a relationship. Usually the ones that last out with sex are the keepers, keep an eye out for this. Don't think with your dick man. Do not lead her onto anything, unless she is this type of girl. The ones that i fucked very fast in the dating process, did not last very long.
It will happen, just let it flow naturally. If you guys are stoners, that is a good commune activity. Have fun out there, don't be too tense man! Life is good 
YEah I was really hoping for this to work out in the long run, and was trying to take is slow physically.
But she was wayy hotter than I expected.
And that tip of masturbating before hand is a great idea!
i am telling you right now man. i have fucked some of the most beautiful women in my life here in brazil. Listen, you will automatically know when you get to talking on your 'first date' what she wants with you. It's easy, keep your ears open. Listen to her! If she is leading you onto anything, take the bait. Don't rush her, unless she is giving you body language. Don't be shy to lightly touch her, if she is feeling it, and the moment is right she is definitely digging you.. I hope you guys have made out already? this happens with me on the first time i meet the girl at a club or a bar. The 'first date' is to get to know the women, does she want a casual relationship (wine and dine, then fuck) , or does she want a relationship that's official? be careful what you wish for my friend..If you want to make her your sex slave let her know, if you want to make her your wifey well than get your serious face on!
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Hey whatsup man.
Idk guys its just bowling seems too quirky/childish for people that dont know eachother well, its more of a "we've been together for a really long time and this will be fun/cute" situation. The fact that she smokes makes it a little better, smoking before will make it a "hey we can do this" situation.
The weed and the date going well after eating and deciding to go bowling after would possibly work, I was just warning against going there first for a first date. I'd choose put put golf over bowling if you are going down that path.
Best bet is if the lunch/dinner goes well, ask her what she wants to do.
These are all just my opinions.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18905416 - 09/29/13 01:17 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Try taking her to a Haunted House since this is the season. Bar before and bar/restaurant afterwards.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18905436 - 09/29/13 01:22 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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DO NOT MASTURBATE BEFORE A DATE.
This causes your eyes to look baggy and have a tired/pervy look to them. Look up mugshots of pedophiles and rapists, they all have this look usually.
Im not lying, dont jack off for a day, then take a picture of yourself, then jack off, and take a picture of yourself.
Dont jack off, dress stylish, wash face, act confident. Take her to a halloween type place where they have houses and stuff since its halloween.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Gumby]
#18905443 - 09/29/13 01:24 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Its true.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Chowder963]
#18905466 - 09/29/13 01:30 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Chowder963 said: Hey whatsup man.
Idk guys its just bowling seems too quirky/childish for people that dont know eachother well, its more of a "we've been together for a really long time and this will be fun/cute" situation. The fact that she smokes makes it a little better, smoking before will make it a "hey we can do this" situation.
The weed and the date going well after eating and deciding to go bowling after would possibly work, I was just warning against going there first for a first date. I'd choose put put golf over bowling if you are going down that path.
Best bet is if the lunch/dinner goes well, ask her what she wants to do.
These are all just my opinions.
Not childish at the least. I am pretty sure couples have fun bowling together with a few beers and fun. Me personally always a bar, restaurant, a vibing atmosphere. Nothing serious bro! Get to know each other.
And where did this masturbating shit come from? Definitley do not masturbate the night before unless you have high testostorone levels. Well, OP i don't know if viagra is OTC in your country but always have one of those fuckers handy. When you give her what she wants and then some, she will always be coming back for more. Be prepared bro, don't wanna fuck it up with a in and out in 10 minutes.
Like i said in my post above, its not a life or death situation, there are so many women out there looking for a man, you just need to keep your eyes open! If it does not set well, its okay. But don't whip out your dick on the dinner table telling her your feelings.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: i95fl]
#18905474 - 09/29/13 01:33 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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i95fl said:
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rbalzer said:
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i95fl said:
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rbalzer said: I met this girl the other day, and it went barely well enough that she wants to see me again.
I want this next time to actually be fun for her. Like we actually go somewhere and do something. I was thinking maybe dinner, but then someone suggested bowling, and that seemed like a really good idea to me.
I mean, you can play a game thats pretty fun for a good while, you can order food and drinks there, we can smoke buds before-hand. She's a stoner, how does that sound?
With the idea of playing a game being fun just because theres a girl, what other places might be fun to go? Or maybe something to do afterward that's not sex.
if you just met her brother, take it slow. don't rush things. Have a fun night out, maybe keep it simple, meet up for a drink, get to know each other a little bit better. You need to show interest, you need to show her that you are more exciting/interesting than the next guy..don't fake it though ha.
feel her out, see what she likes generally getting to know each other questions and whatnot. you can share this experience at a bar or a bowling alley. In my experiences meeting the girl at a bar or restaurant or a mall has always worked. Share your time with her, grab some coffee, relax.
I have done many different approaches before. They all seem to work fairly well, depending on the girl i will either fuck her the second or third date, then we decide if we want a relationship. Usually the ones that last out with sex are the keepers, keep an eye out for this. Don't think with your dick man. Do not lead her onto anything, unless she is this type of girl. The ones that i fucked very fast in the dating process, did not last very long.
It will happen, just let it flow naturally. If you guys are stoners, that is a good commune activity. Have fun out there, don't be too tense man! Life is good 
YEah I was really hoping for this to work out in the long run, and was trying to take is slow physically.
But she was wayy hotter than I expected.
And that tip of masturbating before hand is a great idea!
i am telling you right now man. i have fucked some of the most beautiful women in my life here in brazil. Listen, you will automatically know when you get to talking on your 'first date' what she wants with you. It's easy, keep your ears open. Listen to her! If she is leading you onto anything, take the bait. Don't rush her, unless she is giving you body language. Don't be shy to lightly touch her, if she is feeling it, and the moment is right she is definitely digging you.. I hope you guys have made out already? this happens with me on the first time i meet the girl at a club or a bar. The 'first date' is to get to know the women, does she want a casual relationship (wine and dine, then fuck) , or does she want a relationship that's official? be careful what you wish for my friend..If you want to make her your sex slave let her know, if you want to make her your wifey well than get your serious face on!
you hope we made out already? I only hung out with and talked to her for an hour or two.
I was pretty scared to even try to touch her. Like even her hand. And I don't think I know how to flirt at all.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: i95fl]
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i95fl said:
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Chowder963 said: Hey whatsup man.
Idk guys its just bowling seems too quirky/childish for people that dont know eachother well, its more of a "we've been together for a really long time and this will be fun/cute" situation. The fact that she smokes makes it a little better, smoking before will make it a "hey we can do this" situation.
The weed and the date going well after eating and deciding to go bowling after would possibly work, I was just warning against going there first for a first date. I'd choose put put golf over bowling if you are going down that path.
Best bet is if the lunch/dinner goes well, ask her what she wants to do.
These are all just my opinions.
Not childish at the least. I am pretty sure couples have fun bowling together with a few beers and fun. Me personally always a bar, restaurant, a vibing atmosphere. Nothing serious bro! Get to know each other.
And where did this masturbating shit come from? Definitley do not masturbate the night before unless you have high testostorone levels. Well, OP i don't know if viagra is OTC in your country but always have one of those fuckers handy. When you give her what she wants and then some, she will always be coming back for more. Be prepared bro, don't wanna fuck it up with a in and out in 10 minutes.
Like i said in my post above, its not a life or death situation, there are so many women out there looking for a man, you just need to keep your eyes open! If it does not set well, its okay. But don't whip out your dick on the dinner table telling her your feelings. 
I really don't think that masturbating lowers your testosterone levels 
Edit: or makes you look different. that seems ridiculous to me
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Gumby]
#18905485 - 09/29/13 01:36 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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He's been saying this a long time.
considering 99% of men masturbate I guess we all look like peodphiles
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18905504 - 09/29/13 01:42 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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oh man, shiiiiiiit. lets get back to the basics then.
you are obviously over-thinking everything. I understand what is going through your mind, a rollercoaster of emotions. Listen, everytime i met a girl at a club or bar i always make out with them. When i invite them out for the "first date" , i always have butterflies in my stomach, its normal. But once you are with her, let everything flow naturally. Let her do most of the talking, ask questions dude. Don't have to be hitting on her immediately, that comes later on. IF everything is going smoothly, and the conversations are sure-fired. This is a good start.
One thing i will stress, is that keeping eye contact(Not creepy eye contact) is very important as well as listening to her intently. Secondly body language is very important from both sides, mostly from the dominant male. When you are talking and starting to hit on her, lightly touch her hand softly or something to this sort. This will send messages to her, not only are you confident and well spoken at this point, but you are already two more steps to home plate.
So since you have not made out with her, this is your chance. USE BODY LANGUAGE! If she is not feeling you don't be a creep. Let her know how you feel about her, etc etc..It really is simple dude, you sound shy and nervous. But this is normal. You say she is hot, perfect for you. Don't let this fuck with your thinking, because it can, easily. Have normal conversations, then start to hit on her.
My brother..Keep calm! You will pass with flying colors, take my advice
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
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Chowder963 said: Hey whatsup man.
Idk guys its just bowling seems too quirky/childish for people that dont know eachother well, its more of a "we've been together for a really long time and this will be fun/cute" situation. The fact that she smokes makes it a little better, smoking before will make it a "hey we can do this" situation.
The weed and the date going well after eating and deciding to go bowling after would possibly work, I was just warning against going there first for a first date. I'd choose put put golf over bowling if you are going down that path.
Best bet is if the lunch/dinner goes well, ask her what she wants to do.
These are all just my opinions.
Not childish at the least. I am pretty sure couples have fun bowling together with a few beers and fun. Me personally always a bar, restaurant, a vibing atmosphere. Nothing serious bro! Get to know each other.
And where did this masturbating shit come from? Definitley do not masturbate the night before unless you have high testostorone levels. Well, OP i don't know if viagra is OTC in your country but always have one of those fuckers handy. When you give her what she wants and then some, she will always be coming back for more. Be prepared bro, don't wanna fuck it up with a in and out in 10 minutes.
Like i said in my post above, its not a life or death situation, there are so many women out there looking for a man, you just need to keep your eyes open! If it does not set well, its okay. But don't whip out your dick on the dinner table telling her your feelings. 
I really don't think that masturbating lowers your testosterone levels 
Edit: or makes you look different. that seems ridiculous to me
No, i never said it lowers testostorone. I fucked my girlfriend about 8 hours before a male hormonal panel, and my test levels were still higher than normal.
If you are worried about your performance(fucking her) , i would jack off the night before get a load out, and then have a fresh system for the next night. Or just take a viagra if you know you are going to the boom room, works well.
If you have abnormally high testostorone levels, you should have no issues fucking about 5 times a day with no worries, performance issues bro, don't rush your dick into her pussy. Dont be that anxious guy, unless she is giving it up.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Chowder963] 1
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Chowder963 said: DO NOT MASTURBATE BEFORE A DATE.
This causes your eyes to look baggy and have a tired/pervy look to them. Look up mugshots of pedophiles and rapists, they all have this look usually.
Im not lying, dont jack off for a day, then take a picture of yourself, then jack off, and take a picture of yourself.
Dont jack off, dress stylish, wash face, act confident. Take her to a halloween type place where they have houses and stuff since its halloween.
yeah your full of shit does getting laid make you look pervy? Didnt think so. By you logic the best way to get laid is to avoid blowing your load? But then if that works you blow your load and look pervy therefore negating your chances of getting laid. The logic is not strong with this one.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: i95fl]
#18905554 - 09/29/13 02:02 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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i95fl said: oh man, shiiiiiiit. lets get back to the basics then.
you are obviously over-thinking everything. I understand what is going through your mind, a rollercoaster of emotions. Listen, everytime i met a girl at a club or bar i always make out with them. When i invite them out for the "first date" , i always have butterflies in my stomach, its normal. But once you are with her, let everything flow naturally. Let her do most of the talking, ask questions dude. Don't have to be hitting on her immediately, that comes later on. IF everything is going smoothly, and the conversations are sure-fired. This is a good start.
One thing i will stress, is that keeping eye contact(Not creepy eye contact) is very important as well as listening to her intently. Secondly body language is very important from both sides, mostly from the dominant male. When you are talking and starting to hit on her, lightly touch her hand softly or something to this sort. This will send messages to her, not only are you confident and well spoken at this point, but you are already two more steps to home plate.
So since you have not made out with her, this is your chance. USE BODY LANGUAGE! If she is not feeling you don't be a creep. Let her know how you feel about her, etc etc..It really is simple dude, you sound shy and nervous. But this is normal. You say she is hot, perfect for you. Don't let this fuck with your thinking, because it can, easily. Have normal conversations, then start to hit on her.
My brother..Keep calm! You will pass with flying colors, take my advice
Yeah, I'm a pretty shitty conversationalist too, but I'm gonna try my damndest.
Maybe I'll try to make myself hug her or hold her hand or something like that. And if i kiss her just peck her.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: i95fl]
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Chowder963 said: Hey whatsup man.
Idk guys its just bowling seems too quirky/childish for people that dont know eachother well, its more of a "we've been together for a really long time and this will be fun/cute" situation. The fact that she smokes makes it a little better, smoking before will make it a "hey we can do this" situation.
The weed and the date going well after eating and deciding to go bowling after would possibly work, I was just warning against going there first for a first date. I'd choose put put golf over bowling if you are going down that path.
Best bet is if the lunch/dinner goes well, ask her what she wants to do.
These are all just my opinions.
Not childish at the least. I am pretty sure couples have fun bowling together with a few beers and fun. Me personally always a bar, restaurant, a vibing atmosphere. Nothing serious bro! Get to know each other.
And where did this masturbating shit come from? Definitley do not masturbate the night before unless you have high testostorone levels. Well, OP i don't know if viagra is OTC in your country but always have one of those fuckers handy. When you give her what she wants and then some, she will always be coming back for more. Be prepared bro, don't wanna fuck it up with a in and out in 10 minutes.
Like i said in my post above, its not a life or death situation, there are so many women out there looking for a man, you just need to keep your eyes open! If it does not set well, its okay. But don't whip out your dick on the dinner table telling her your feelings. 
I really don't think that masturbating lowers your testosterone levels 
Edit: or makes you look different. that seems ridiculous to me
No, i never said it lowers testostorone. I fucked my girlfriend about 8 hours before a male hormonal panel, and my test levels were still higher than normal.
If you are worried about your performance(fucking her) , i would jack off the night before get a load out, and then have a fresh system for the next night. Or just take a viagra if you know you are going to the boom room, works well.
If you have abnormally high testostorone levels, you should have no issues fucking about 5 times a day with no worries, performance issues bro, don't rush your dick into her pussy. Dont be that anxious guy, unless she is giving it up.
you just kinda implied that it lowered it.
yeah I'll admit I'm pretty terrible at sex. I have to be thinking of horrible disgusting things the whole time just to make it last a decent amount of time. And that seems like something I shouldn't have to do...
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18905593 - 09/29/13 02:21 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yeah, I'm a pretty shitty conversationalist too, but I'm gonna try my damndest.
Maybe I'll try to make myself hug her or hold her hand or something like that. And if i kiss her just peck her.
man relax. i sounded like you about 5 years ago. I thought this, she thinks this, i think this. You are too into your mind brother. Let her pull the conversations, women love to talk, this is a fact. Ask questions, do not talk about yourself dude, no girl wants to hear your life stories unless she asks. So, my advice is to let everything flow naturally, this was my flaw many years back. I always thought about what i should say next, shit... Everything should just flow, don't feel forced out of nervousness to talk. Women love to talk about themselves, so ask questions. General shit bro, then move onto more intimate stuff if you feel it is appropriate.
DUDE..i am trying my best to help you here. When you see here i would hug her, and say hey beautiful nice to see you. Are you ready to have some fun? If this is not you, then think of something else to say. But i would definitley hug her and say "glad to see you" . Show confidence man, because you are a guy. Men are supposed to be alpha.
Good sir, there is no exact time when you should make moves. The attraction moves together, if you both have a really good vibe going on, you SHOULD feel it. At the end of the night i would kiss her on the cheek. It sounds as if you may not be making serious moves on this date. Have a cocktail together, get loose, let things flow my man..
Here in brasil you always kiss on both cheeks. But when i had american girlfriends, when i saw them for the first dates i would hug them, and just say whatever the fuck you think is appropriate.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18905612 - 09/29/13 02:28 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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you just kinda implied that it lowered it.
yeah I'll admit I'm pretty terrible at sex. I have to be thinking of horrible disgusting things the whole time just to make it last a decent amount of time. And that seems like something I shouldn't have to do...
well i am coked up i must have written incorrectly. and i feel like giving advice from a player to someone who needs help(no boast) haha
Because you already have the mindstate that you suck at sex, then you probably will be a floppy joe. It is called seduction, attraction, and conversation. Three things, not in the order it should be. But you want to show her you are interesting, trust me.
So, man how old are you? To be honest, if you are TRULY attracted to her, you will know it, you might pop a boner when even kissing her. In my experiences when attraction is whole, it is connected at every part of the body. She feels your good vibes, and you should as well, this is when you should go in for a kiss. ALWAYS keep eye contact dude, and listen to her, a good confident man is a good listener. Don't speak about yourself unless asked, and keep calm, don't think with your dick. The guy will pop outta his nest when need be!
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: i95fl]
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Yeah, I'm a pretty shitty conversationalist too, but I'm gonna try my damndest.
Maybe I'll try to make myself hug her or hold her hand or something like that. And if i kiss her just peck her.
man relax. i sounded like you about 5 years ago. I thought this, she thinks this, i think this. You are too into your mind brother. Let her pull the conversations, women love to talk, this is a fact. Ask questions, do not talk about yourself dude, no girl wants to hear your life stories unless she asks. So, my advice is to let everything flow naturally, this was my flaw many years back. I always thought about what i should say next, shit... Everything should just flow, don't feel forced out of nervousness to talk. Women love to talk about themselves, so ask questions. General shit bro, then move onto more intimate stuff if you feel it is appropriate.
DUDE..i am trying my best to help you here. When you see here i would hug her, and say hey beautiful nice to see you. Are you ready to have some fun? If this is not you, then think of something else to say. But i would definitley hug her and say "glad to see you" . Show confidence man, because you are a guy. Men are supposed to be alpha.
Good sir, there is no exact time when you should make moves. The attraction moves together, if you both have a really good vibe going on, you SHOULD feel it. At the end of the night i would kiss her on the cheek. It sounds as if you may not be making serious moves on this date. Have a cocktail together, get loose, let things flow my man..
Here in brasil you always kiss on both cheeks. But when i had american girlfriends, when i saw them for the first dates i would hug them, and just say whatever the fuck you think is appropriate.
I wish so much that I could just let her talk. We spent too much time in silence.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: i95fl]
#18905622 - 09/29/13 02:31 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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you just kinda implied that it lowered it.
yeah I'll admit I'm pretty terrible at sex. I have to be thinking of horrible disgusting things the whole time just to make it last a decent amount of time. And that seems like something I shouldn't have to do...
well i am coked up i must have written incorrectly. and i feel like giving advice from a player to someone who needs help(no boast) haha
Because you already have the mindstate that you suck at sex, then you probably will be a floppy joe. It is called seduction, attraction, and conversation. Three things, not in the order it should be. But you want to show her you are interesting, trust me.
So, man how old are you? To be honest, if you are TRULY attracted to her, you will know it, you might pop a boner when even kissing her. In my experiences when attraction is whole, it is connected at every part of the body. She feels your good vibes, and you should as well, this is when you should go in for a kiss. ALWAYS keep eye contact dude, and listen to her, a good confident man is a good listener. Don't speak about yourself unless asked, and keep calm, don't think with your dick. The guy will pop outta his nest when need be!
I'm alllmost 21. I get boners just seeing her.
If I kiss her it's definitely happening I thinks
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18905640 - 09/29/13 02:36 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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you just kinda implied that it lowered it.
yeah I'll admit I'm pretty terrible at sex. I have to be thinking of horrible disgusting things the whole time just to make it last a decent amount of time. And that seems like something I shouldn't have to do...
well i am coked up i must have written incorrectly. and i feel like giving advice from a player to someone who needs help(no boast) haha
Because you already have the mindstate that you suck at sex, then you probably will be a floppy joe. It is called seduction, attraction, and conversation. Three things, not in the order it should be. But you want to show her you are interesting, trust me.
So, man how old are you? To be honest, if you are TRULY attracted to her, you will know it, you might pop a boner when even kissing her. In my experiences when attraction is whole, it is connected at every part of the body. She feels your good vibes, and you should as well, this is when you should go in for a kiss. ALWAYS keep eye contact dude, and listen to her, a good confident man is a good listener. Don't speak about yourself unless asked, and keep calm, don't think with your dick. The guy will pop outta his nest when need be!
I'm alllmost 21. I get boners just seeing her.
If I kiss her it's definitely happening I thinks
i hope your not trolling bro..
you are old enough now. If you are popping boners dude you are in the win win. Now you just have to use your good speech if she is attracted to you, maybe asking questions is the best bet for you. Its not hard dude...seriously i feel ur pain u have butterflies and are nervous, but fuck that noise man. Get out there, we only live once. If this girl is not for you, there are plenty more. Don't play the i am so lonely card, this is the girl i will have a long term relationship with. Man, be yourself. Best advice i could give you..
if you pop a boner kissing her, this is a major bonus for her dude..whats ur other problems?
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: i95fl]
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lol I don't see how me getting hard from kissing her is beneficial to her. like "wow i must be hot"
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
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rbalzer said: lol I don't see how me getting hard from kissing her is beneficial to her. like "wow i must be hot"
you seem to not have many relationships with women. you have some flaws that need to be fixed. buddy, i gave you my advice. if you think with your dick you lose, if you pop a woody when you make out with her, obviously there is something more than just sex. this is called attraction at all levels. well of course, you have been abstinent from sex for a prolonged period of time. man all i can tell you is that, the times when i popped a woody with a women, i fucked them that night. Because when making out with them they can feel that shit grinding against there pussy and want it..I don't know how many women you have been with in your life. But i have been with a lot(no man whore), wine and dine, and serious relationships, i have had them all. All of them being 8+ /10 compared to american standards. I have very high standards, since i am very good looking and have a good speech as well, it helps a lot. (no dickhead)
If you don't want to take my advice, then its a lesson lost. =)
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18906275 - 09/29/13 09:05 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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rbalzer said: no shes just got the best butt around.
I thought of a good one, since she really likes art, I could take her to our local art museum!!
One of my fav dates is to blaze, do the local art walk,and then get gelato.
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rbalzer said: no shes just got the best butt around.
I thought of a good one, since she really likes art, I could take her to our local art museum!!
One of my fav dates is to blaze, do the local art walk,and then get gelato.
I looked up our local museum and it has a lot of bad reviews 
But theres a place where you can pick out and paint a clay pot/plate/mug whatever and paint it together, then get it glazed or baked or whatever they do. kinda expensive, but she loves painting. And I love art too, I'm not just doing artsy things FOR her
As long as we are outside observing something, it makes it wayy easier for me to talk though. I'm a commentator.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: i95fl]
#18907791 - 09/29/13 04:29 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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rbalzer said: I met this girl the other day, and it went barely well enough that she wants to see me again.
I want this next time to actually be fun for her. Like we actually go somewhere and do something. I was thinking maybe dinner, but then someone suggested bowling, and that seemed like a really good idea to me.
I mean, you can play a game thats pretty fun for a good while, you can order food and drinks there, we can smoke buds before-hand. She's a stoner, how does that sound?
With the idea of playing a game being fun just because theres a girl, what other places might be fun to go? Or maybe something to do afterward that's not sex.
if you just met her brother, take it slow. don't rush things. Have a fun night out, maybe keep it simple, meet up for a drink, get to know each other a little bit better. You need to show interest, you need to show her that you are more exciting/interesting than the next guy..don't fake it though ha.
feel her out, see what she likes generally getting to know each other questions and whatnot. you can share this experience at a bar or a bowling alley. In my experiences meeting the girl at a bar or restaurant or a mall has always worked. Share your time with her, grab some coffee, relax.
I have done many different approaches before. They all seem to work fairly well, depending on the girl i will either fuck her the second or third date, then we decide if we want a relationship. Usually the ones that last out with sex are the keepers, keep an eye out for this. Don't think with your dick man. Do not lead her onto anything, unless she is this type of girl. The ones that i fucked very fast in the dating process, did not last very long.
It will happen, just let it flow naturally. If you guys are stoners, that is a good commune activity. Have fun out there, don't be too tense man! Life is good 
This thread came at the right time. I'm in need of some date ideas myself. I'm thinking I'm going to suggest going to a local bar for a drink.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: brokentv]
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I'm not 21 yettt sadly
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
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rbalzer said: no shes just got the best butt around.
I thought of a good one, since she really likes art, I could take her to our local art museum!!
One of my fav dates is to blaze, do the local art walk,and then get gelato.
I looked up our local museum and it has a lot of bad reviews 
But theres a place where you can pick out and paint a clay pot/plate/mug whatever and paint it together, then get it glazed or baked or whatever they do. kinda expensive, but she loves painting. And I love art too, I'm not just doing artsy things FOR her
As long as we are outside observing something, it makes it wayy easier for me to talk though. I'm a commentator.
This is a great example of a perfect date. I know my girl would love it. Hell I could ask any girl to do this with me and they would love it. Good Idea man
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: TheMovement]
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rbalzer said: no shes just got the best butt around.
I thought of a good one, since she really likes art, I could take her to our local art museum!!
One of my fav dates is to blaze, do the local art walk,and then get gelato.
I looked up our local museum and it has a lot of bad reviews 
But theres a place where you can pick out and paint a clay pot/plate/mug whatever and paint it together, then get it glazed or baked or whatever they do. kinda expensive, but she loves painting. And I love art too, I'm not just doing artsy things FOR her
As long as we are outside observing something, it makes it wayy easier for me to talk though. I'm a commentator.
This is a great example of a perfect date. I know my girl would love it. Hell I could ask any girl to do this with me and they would love it. Good Idea man
you talking about the painting ceramics one?
or blaze, art gallery, blaze, then ice cream?
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18908260 - 09/29/13 06:23 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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The ceramics one. The art gallery one would work as well, but the ceramics one is a blow her socks off type of deal.
I'd suggest keeping weed out of the relationship until (if?) you guys get more comfortable together. In my experience, getting stoned doesnt allow for the best communication skills. And the first few dates should be all about getting to know the girl, so lots of conversing will be had.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18909001 - 09/29/13 09:09 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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I dunno I think painting ceramics together is a little more involved than I would want that early in the relationship. You don't wanna come off as needy and stuff.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: nicechrisman]
#18919481 - 10/02/13 02:34 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Final thoughts?
It's been arranged. I told her it would be a surprise without officially deciding what I was going to do.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18919496 - 10/02/13 02:45 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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rbalzer said: Final thoughts?
It's been arranged. I told her it would be a surprise without officially deciding what I was going to do.
be spontaneous dude..i don't know what kind of guy you are. But don't be normal, be something new to her. Use your imagination
walks on the beach, grab a drink something casual man. i gave you all you need, but you seem to avoid my advice
if you want to succeed in this race, don't be 'unsure, or letting her decide' , it won't last long
smoking weed is something you do later on after a good night, only if you kick it off right
suprises are good, makes her waiting on her tippy toes, don't disappoint bro. the simple things in life are appreciated
don't impress her off the bat with all your strength
good luck dude
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18919498 - 10/02/13 02:47 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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rbalzer said: I met this girl the other day, and it went barely well enough that she wants to see me again.
I want this next time to actually be fun for her. Like we actually go somewhere and do something. I was thinking maybe dinner, but then someone suggested bowling, and that seemed like a really good idea to me.
I mean, you can play a game thats pretty fun for a good while, you can order food and drinks there, we can smoke buds before-hand. She's a stoner, how does that sound?
With the idea of playing a game being fun just because theres a girl, what other places might be fun to go? Or maybe something to do afterward that's not sex.
I normally go out and build a fire, find glow worms Nd tea h about the stars, smoke z couple joints and cook on the fire. Most peopy don't get out like that anf and can really earth them. Also seeing me chop wood and gather plants like a wild man helps their fantasy haha. Finding a shallow water crossing in darkness is good as you can carry them over like a goddamn hero.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: i95fl]
#18919802 - 10/02/13 07:17 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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fuck you i95, i wanted to give you +5 for your advice in this thread.
damn opt out!
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Fire is Born]
#18919915 - 10/02/13 08:13 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Fire is Born said:
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rbalzer said: I met this girl the other day, and it went barely well enough that she wants to see me again.
I want this next time to actually be fun for her. Like we actually go somewhere and do something. I was thinking maybe dinner, but then someone suggested bowling, and that seemed like a really good idea to me.
I mean, you can play a game thats pretty fun for a good while, you can order food and drinks there, we can smoke buds before-hand. She's a stoner, how does that sound?
With the idea of playing a game being fun just because theres a girl, what other places might be fun to go? Or maybe something to do afterward that's not sex.
I normally go out and build a fire, find glow worms Nd tea h about the stars, smoke z couple joints and cook on the fire. Most peopy don't get out like that anf and can really earth them. Also seeing me chop wood and gather plants like a wild man helps their fantasy haha. Finding a shallow water crossing in darkness is good as you can carry them over like a goddamn hero.
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Fire is Born]
#18920028 - 10/02/13 08:53 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Popped a boner reading this thread
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Konyap]
#18927864 - 10/03/13 08:23 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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your advice paid off everybody, it went super duper well! Thank you for the votes of confidence and all that 
I still can't believe I mated with such a fine lady. She seems so out of my league
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18927910 - 10/03/13 08:32 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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rbalzer said:
I still can't believe I mated with such a fine lady. She seems so out of my league 
hahaha i know the feeling
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18928383 - 10/03/13 09:57 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: nicechrisman]
#18929103 - 10/04/13 12:25 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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What did you do?
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Shining Cosmos said: What did you do?
well, she just came over the night before the date was scheduled and asked if i wanted to hang out. We drank a little bit, went to a park to go on a walk on the riverside.
After getting back to the car we made out a little, and then, much to my surprise, she shoved my hand in her pants, so I rubbed her a little.
Then when we were about to go do something else her car wouldn't start, so that created an adventure in itself. Getting someone to jump-start us so that we could get back to her place to fuck.
We both live with our parents, which kinda sucks 
On another note, I have never performed half as well at sex as I did last night. First girl I've ever made cum, and it made me feel like ssucch a man
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Psilosopherr]
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Re: I could use some date ideas [Re: Chowder963]
#18930882 - 10/04/13 11:52 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Nice man! Good for you.......wasn't as hard as you thought, am I right?
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D8 idea - d8 me
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Shining Cosmos said: Involve gelato.
What he said
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