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    #18899263 - 09/27/13 03:39 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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OfflineJamesSpawned
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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18899282 - 09/27/13 03:45 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Watch a few episodes of Dr. Phil, youll figure it out.


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18899290 - 09/27/13 03:46 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Depends. Only you and your gf kno whats best and can answer that question. dealing with a clingy girl is kind of shitty. You inevitably feel like an asshole but it needs to be done

Some questions to ask yourself:
Could you picture having a normal adult-like conversation
Is she  still madly in love with you?
How long has it been after the breakup?


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: JamesSpawned]
    #18899300 - 09/27/13 03:49 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Don't see her man.

My ex gf came over the other night to drop off some of my shit and it was bad. We both became very emotional and upset. She then brought up old shit and it was like adding fuel to a fire. My advice give it more time.


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Sham87]
    #18899365 - 09/27/13 04:08 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

You know damn well you shouldn't. One month is nothing, I don't even know this chick but I can tell you that her seeing you again is gonna send butterflies in her tummy and get her thinking again. It's too soon to reenter her life again. Give it more time to let the dust settle and for her to move on.


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18899373 - 09/27/13 04:09 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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I broke up w/ my gf a few months ago, I wanted to remain friends, but she's desperately in love with me, so I thought the best thing to do would be not talk to her, let her know forreal it's over, no chance of getting back together. I'm going back home for a few weeks soon, she wants to catch up. I know it will just end up being an awkward as fuck "why don't you love me?" crying drama and I'm sure it won't do her any good, open old wounds etc, but I don't wanna be that asshole who just disappears when it's over. What do?




yeah, dont go for it.

it sucks, but that time has passed, it belongs with every other ex.

if anything say your not ready to start talking again - and if anything in the future years from now would be better, if she happens to cross your path again..


i feel like when people break up and get back together there not getting butterflies, there going to whats pumpin them with adrenaline, whats pumpin them with adrenaline are bursts of anxiety. im talking about the real-bad relationships, everyone has a tipping point, unfortunately it takes years to heal that tipping point if it ever heals- so think about that before rekindling any spark.

i feel like alot of it has to be with literally being addicted to the drama and anxiety..


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: itchmynipple]
    #18899393 - 09/27/13 04:14 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I guess i'm in the minority in thinking that it would be cool to catch up with her as a friend and function normally

I dunno lawl


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    #18899432 - 09/27/13 04:25 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18899551 - 09/27/13 04:54 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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It's been 3 months now, will be four nearly five when I go back home. Oh yeah, she's madly in love with me. I'm worried about being stalked if I go home tbh. Ha, I might actually just tell her then, that I'm staying at a distance for her, when she's moved on we can catch up, be friends, whatever. I don't really wanna see her, cbf w/ the drama, just don't wanna be a complete asshole.



that works


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Sheekle]
    #18902136 - 09/28/13 09:57 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I got both sides of the "lets jut be friends" situation.  Ironically....both ends with the same girl....
When it happened to me, yea man it hurt. Stopped talking to her for a year. When I saw her again, old emotions surfaced.

OP if you honestly care about her feelings, be aware that her perception is biased through the blindness of love. Set everything on the table about where you want the relationship to be. But don't be harsh, just be honest.


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: TwinEclipse]
    #18902275 - 09/28/13 10:51 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Need WAY more info.

Why did you break up and how long did you date?


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18905720 - 09/29/13 03:25 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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I don't really wanna see her, cbf w/ the drama, just don't wanna be a complete asshole.



Stop worrying about seeming like an asshole.  The only way to make it clear to a girl that you only want to be friends when they want more, is to be an asshole.

Why do you care about how you seem to other people that you don't want to have a deep relationship with anyway?


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: DeeBee]
    #18909384 - 09/29/13 10:55 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

No.

Wait a year.


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18915340 - 10/01/13 09:58 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

OP...How does she even know that you'll be home? If you care about her as a person and wish for her well being, please leave her alone.She will get over you....no one is that fckn amazing that she will forever be broken without you.:rolleyes:


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Thayendanegea]
    #18919799 - 10/02/13 07:15 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

What about baby Jesus?


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: TwinEclipse]
    #18920242 - 10/02/13 10:08 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

You gotta be cruel to be kind...I've tried to stay friends with exes not too long after a break up, and trust me, it's always ended up being more painful for both of us.  Every single time.


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: PocketLady]
    #18921036 - 10/02/13 01:03 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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You gotta be cruel to be kind...I've tried to stay friends with exes not too long after a break up, and trust me, it's always ended up being more painful for both of us.  Every single time.




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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: DeeBee]
    #18924338 - 10/03/13 02:47 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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I don't really wanna see her, cbf w/ the drama, just don't wanna be a complete asshole.



Stop worrying about seeming like an asshole.  The only way to make it clear to a girl that you only want to be friends when they want more, is to be an asshole.

Why do you care about how you seem to other people that you don't want to have a deep relationship with anyway?




obviously because hes not a asshole and he probably cares about hurting her feelings. pretty simple.


anyways thats not how you make a lady want to stay friends thats how you make them hate you. LOL you gotta be serious dipshit to treat a girl you care about that DOESNT deserve to be treated that way and manipulate them by being a prick so they go away.

this sounds like something eric cartman would say in the schoolyard on south park or even high school dating tactics. HAHA



seriously the best way to keep it friendly and not intimate is to just avoid being alone with them and keep it platonic when you socialize. i think it shows better character and a real image that your not a pussy but trying to be mature about the situation. but to each their own. a lot of adults do act like children sometimes over the issue of breakups anyways to so its not like its uncommon.


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: PocketLady]
    #18925791 - 10/03/13 01:05 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

So you have to post anonymously just to call me a pussy dipshit eric cartman? Look at my sig for more info.
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You gotta be cruel to be kind...I've tried to stay friends with exes not too long after a break up, and trust me, it's always ended up being more painful for both of us.  Every single time.



It just doesn't work unless you have a year or two of complete non contact.  You will still have feelings for each other whether you think it or not.  Unless you completely break it off and reconnect with a long break from thinking about them.  One of you two WILL catch feelings.  Girls like to imagine a perfect world where you can just be friends, but more often than not life doesn't work out that way.


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: DeeBee]
    #18927518 - 10/03/13 07:20 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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So you have to post anonymously just to call me a pussy dipshit eric cartman? Look at my sig for more info.
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PocketLady said:
You gotta be cruel to be kind...I've tried to stay friends with exes not too long after a break up, and trust me, it's always ended up being more painful for both of us.  Every single time.



It just doesn't work unless you have a year or two of complete non contact.  You will still have feelings for each other whether you think it or not.  Unless you completely break it off and reconnect with a long break from thinking about them.  One of you two WILL catch feelings.  Girls like to imagine a perfect world where you can just be friends, but more often than not life doesn't work out that way.




This is good advice! If after a year or so and you have both seen other people and lived some life apart, then you may be able to ease back into the casual friendly acquaintances realm.


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