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Anonymous #1

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    #18899263 - 09/27/13 03:39 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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OfflineJamesSpawned
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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18899282 - 09/27/13 03:45 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Watch a few episodes of Dr. Phil, youll figure it out.


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Anonymous #2

Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18899290 - 09/27/13 03:46 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Depends. Only you and your gf kno whats best and can answer that question. dealing with a clingy girl is kind of shitty. You inevitably feel like an asshole but it needs to be done

Some questions to ask yourself:
Could you picture having a normal adult-like conversation
Is she  still madly in love with you?
How long has it been after the breakup?


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: JamesSpawned]
    #18899300 - 09/27/13 03:49 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Don't see her man.

My ex gf came over the other night to drop off some of my shit and it was bad. We both became very emotional and upset. She then brought up old shit and it was like adding fuel to a fire. My advice give it more time.


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Sham87]
    #18899365 - 09/27/13 04:08 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

You know damn well you shouldn't. One month is nothing, I don't even know this chick but I can tell you that her seeing you again is gonna send butterflies in her tummy and get her thinking again. It's too soon to reenter her life again. Give it more time to let the dust settle and for her to move on.


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18899373 - 09/27/13 04:09 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
I broke up w/ my gf a few months ago, I wanted to remain friends, but she's desperately in love with me, so I thought the best thing to do would be not talk to her, let her know forreal it's over, no chance of getting back together. I'm going back home for a few weeks soon, she wants to catch up. I know it will just end up being an awkward as fuck "why don't you love me?" crying drama and I'm sure it won't do her any good, open old wounds etc, but I don't wanna be that asshole who just disappears when it's over. What do?




yeah, dont go for it.

it sucks, but that time has passed, it belongs with every other ex.

if anything say your not ready to start talking again - and if anything in the future years from now would be better, if she happens to cross your path again..


i feel like when people break up and get back together there not getting butterflies, there going to whats pumpin them with adrenaline, whats pumpin them with adrenaline are bursts of anxiety. im talking about the real-bad relationships, everyone has a tipping point, unfortunately it takes years to heal that tipping point if it ever heals- so think about that before rekindling any spark.

i feel like alot of it has to be with literally being addicted to the drama and anxiety..


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: itchmynipple]
    #18899393 - 09/27/13 04:14 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I guess i'm in the minority in thinking that it would be cool to catch up with her as a friend and function normally

I dunno lawl


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    #18899432 - 09/27/13 04:25 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18899551 - 09/27/13 04:54 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
It's been 3 months now, will be four nearly five when I go back home. Oh yeah, she's madly in love with me. I'm worried about being stalked if I go home tbh. Ha, I might actually just tell her then, that I'm staying at a distance for her, when she's moved on we can catch up, be friends, whatever. I don't really wanna see her, cbf w/ the drama, just don't wanna be a complete asshole.



that works


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Sheekle]
    #18902136 - 09/28/13 09:57 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I got both sides of the "lets jut be friends" situation.  Ironically....both ends with the same girl....
When it happened to me, yea man it hurt. Stopped talking to her for a year. When I saw her again, old emotions surfaced.

OP if you honestly care about her feelings, be aware that her perception is biased through the blindness of love. Set everything on the table about where you want the relationship to be. But don't be harsh, just be honest.


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: TwinEclipse]
    #18902275 - 09/28/13 10:51 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Need WAY more info.

Why did you break up and how long did you date?


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18905720 - 09/29/13 03:25 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
I don't really wanna see her, cbf w/ the drama, just don't wanna be a complete asshole.



Stop worrying about seeming like an asshole.  The only way to make it clear to a girl that you only want to be friends when they want more, is to be an asshole.

Why do you care about how you seem to other people that you don't want to have a deep relationship with anyway?


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: DeeBee]
    #18909384 - 09/29/13 10:55 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

No.

Wait a year.


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18915340 - 10/01/13 09:58 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

OP...How does she even know that you'll be home? If you care about her as a person and wish for her well being, please leave her alone.She will get over you....no one is that fckn amazing that she will forever be broken without you.:rolleyes:


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Thayendanegea]
    #18919799 - 10/02/13 07:15 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

What about baby Jesus?


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: TwinEclipse]
    #18920242 - 10/02/13 10:08 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

You gotta be cruel to be kind...I've tried to stay friends with exes not too long after a break up, and trust me, it's always ended up being more painful for both of us.  Every single time.


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: PocketLady]
    #18921036 - 10/02/13 01:03 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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You gotta be cruel to be kind...I've tried to stay friends with exes not too long after a break up, and trust me, it's always ended up being more painful for both of us.  Every single time.




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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: DeeBee]
    #18924338 - 10/03/13 02:47 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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Quote:

Anonymous said:
I don't really wanna see her, cbf w/ the drama, just don't wanna be a complete asshole.



Stop worrying about seeming like an asshole.  The only way to make it clear to a girl that you only want to be friends when they want more, is to be an asshole.

Why do you care about how you seem to other people that you don't want to have a deep relationship with anyway?




obviously because hes not a asshole and he probably cares about hurting her feelings. pretty simple.


anyways thats not how you make a lady want to stay friends thats how you make them hate you. LOL you gotta be serious dipshit to treat a girl you care about that DOESNT deserve to be treated that way and manipulate them by being a prick so they go away.

this sounds like something eric cartman would say in the schoolyard on south park or even high school dating tactics. HAHA



seriously the best way to keep it friendly and not intimate is to just avoid being alone with them and keep it platonic when you socialize. i think it shows better character and a real image that your not a pussy but trying to be mature about the situation. but to each their own. a lot of adults do act like children sometimes over the issue of breakups anyways to so its not like its uncommon.


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: PocketLady]
    #18925791 - 10/03/13 01:05 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

So you have to post anonymously just to call me a pussy dipshit eric cartman? Look at my sig for more info.
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You gotta be cruel to be kind...I've tried to stay friends with exes not too long after a break up, and trust me, it's always ended up being more painful for both of us.  Every single time.



It just doesn't work unless you have a year or two of complete non contact.  You will still have feelings for each other whether you think it or not.  Unless you completely break it off and reconnect with a long break from thinking about them.  One of you two WILL catch feelings.  Girls like to imagine a perfect world where you can just be friends, but more often than not life doesn't work out that way.


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: DeeBee]
    #18927518 - 10/03/13 07:20 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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So you have to post anonymously just to call me a pussy dipshit eric cartman? Look at my sig for more info.
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PocketLady said:
You gotta be cruel to be kind...I've tried to stay friends with exes not too long after a break up, and trust me, it's always ended up being more painful for both of us.  Every single time.



It just doesn't work unless you have a year or two of complete non contact.  You will still have feelings for each other whether you think it or not.  Unless you completely break it off and reconnect with a long break from thinking about them.  One of you two WILL catch feelings.  Girls like to imagine a perfect world where you can just be friends, but more often than not life doesn't work out that way.




This is good advice! If after a year or so and you have both seen other people and lived some life apart, then you may be able to ease back into the casual friendly acquaintances realm.


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: DeeBee]
    #18928104 - 10/03/13 09:02 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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So you have to post anonymously just to call me a pussy dipshit eric cartman? Look at my sig for more info.
Quote:

PocketLady said:
You gotta be cruel to be kind...I've tried to stay friends with exes not too long after a break up, and trust me, it's always ended up being more painful for both of us.  Every single time.



It just doesn't work unless you have a year or two of complete non contact.  You will still have feelings for each other whether you think it or not.  Unless you completely break it off and reconnect with a long break from thinking about them.  One of you two WILL catch feelings.  Girls like to imagine a perfect world where you can just be friends, but more often than not life doesn't work out that way.




actually its a anonymous post because i quit posting here and just chime in once in awhile when i see something i absolutely have to say. not like im scared to show a anonymous name on the internet but i just dont want anyone to think im "back".

i can tell you are one angry sob though (maybe thats why you cant stay friends with a ex) as i wasnt calling you shit. i was simply saying it sounded like a immature and insensitive outlook on how to not act like a gentleman to someone you have real feelings for and act like a grown up man child. clearly by your retarded retort to "look at your sig" i am most likely spot on.

thats about all i have to say in this thread. :tongue2:


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #18928980 - 10/03/13 11:51 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

I am not "one angry sob" and I actually am friends with several long term ex's of mine.  Per my advice.  It works. 
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dstout84 said:
This is good advice! If after a year or so and you have both seen other people and lived some life apart, then you may be able to ease back into the casual friendly acquaintances realm.



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PocketLady said:
You gotta be cruel to be kind...I've tried to stay friends with exes not too long after a break up, and trust me, it's always ended up being more painful for both of us.  Every single time.



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Cabinet_Sanchez said:
No.

Wait a year.



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Sham87 said:
Don't see her man.

My ex gf came over the other night to drop off some of my shit and it was bad. We both became very emotional and upset. She then brought up old shit and it was like adding fuel to a fire. My advice give it more time.



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itchmynipple said:
yeah, dont go for it.

it sucks, but that time has passed, it belongs with every other ex.

if anything say your not ready to start talking again - and if anything in the future years from now would be better, if she happens to cross your path again..




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thedream said:
You know damn well you shouldn't. One month is nothing, I don't even know this chick but I can tell you that her seeing you again is gonna send butterflies in her tummy and get her thinking again. It's too soon to reenter her life again. Give it more time to let the dust settle and for her to move on.



I guess everyone above is acting like a grownup man child. :rolleyes:

Retarded retort? Clearly someone can't take a joke :lol:


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: DeeBee]
    #18929348 - 10/04/13 02:05 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

:noargument:


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: DeeBee]
    #18929367 - 10/04/13 02:18 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

ohhh ok so now you were telling me to look at your sig or FU as a joke. i get it. thats damn witty. HAHA

you sure seem like a level headed guy though from what i can tell. very open minded too. /sarcasm
maybe you should become a marriage counselor. im sure theyll be lining up for advice. and if they dont like what u say u can tellm to look at your sig too. bwahahahhha

do you actually smell this shit your shoveling man? or do just talk outta your ass naturally?



and yeh actually most guys are grown up man children. it takes dedication and sacrifice to be a real man or even a person in this world. not everyone has the will or what it takes to fully grasp that concept.


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #18929420 - 10/04/13 02:38 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Aww did someone get their feelings hurt? How cute :aweohyou:

And by the way, /sarcasm would end the sarcasm tone in your post.  Except you went on to be sarcastic.

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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #18929446 - 10/04/13 02:43 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

hah this one's clever.        i would give up now anon 3. bee will just wipe the floor with you.


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: DeeBee]
    #18929471 - 10/04/13 02:53 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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DeeBee said:
Aww did someone get their feelings hurt? How cute :aweohyou:

And by the way, /sarcasm would end the sarcasm tone in your post.  Except you went on to be sarcastic.

:themoreyouknow:




feelings? about a post on a site i hardly visit but decided to contribute because i thoough it was a common but important problem.


not in the slightest noob.

but i will say there is good reason i stopped posting here. one of which is it attracts noob idiots like you that i just soon rather not talk to or waste my time on. i run into enough people i cant stand in my everyday life.


have fun now young one good luck becoming a real man. LOL


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #18929490 - 10/04/13 02:58 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

your self entitlement is really unattractive man. but other than that you seem pretty damn swell. it's a shame you got scared off from here. i would really enjoy your posts                                                                                                                                                                                                                :feelsbadman:                                                                                                                                                      i hope you might at least reconsider:super:


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: JesusGoneRogue]
    #18929517 - 10/04/13 03:09 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Real maturity is realizing that you really aren't better than anyone else and everyone has value. We are all one and the same. To think anything else just contributes to the cesspool that is our society.

So I will take being a noob over being a self entitled anon.

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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: DeeBee]
    #18929525 - 10/04/13 03:11 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

:congrats:                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        FUCKING LOVE YOUR SIG BTW


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: DeeBee]
    #18929559 - 10/04/13 03:29 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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your self entitlement is really unattractive man. but other than that you seem pretty damn swell. it's a shame you got scared off from here. i would really enjoy your posts                                                                                                                                                                                                                :feelsbadman:                                                                                                                                                      i hope you might at least reconsider:super:




dude theres a differnce betwen self righteous and righteous. i dont beleive and act the way i do for my benifit. i do it because i like to show the people i care about that i really do care. ii try to lead by example and if that helps anyone i should meet then thats great but if not thats just life.


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Real maturity is realizing that you really aren't better than anyone else and everyone has value. We are all one and the same. To think anything else just contributes to the cesspool that is our society.

So I will take being a noob over being a self entitled anon.

:prettyflyforawhiteguy:




i bet you just graduated HS. tell you what? you go live life some and come back and tell me whats up with society in 20 years.
swear i feel a bit less intelligent every time i read and try to respond to your posts.


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: JesusGoneRogue]
    #18929560 - 10/04/13 03:29 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

:datass:
You sir have a great sig too.  Good meaning behind it.

Mila Kunis... Gawd she is one of the most beautiful women alive.


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: DeeBee]
    #18929584 - 10/04/13 03:42 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Fast forward three years, add engineering school, then you're in the right ballpark. Stop trying to pull the age/experience card when your logic is invalid.

If you're 40 years old, then there's no doubt that you might be able to stay friends right after a breakup. 

Around the OP's age (~18-20) I still stand by what I said. The girl is still emotionally attached, and will continue to be until it sinks in that there will never be the same connection between the two of them again.


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: DeeBee]
    #18929671 - 10/04/13 04:43 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

Mila Kunis <3 she makes me drool if i think about her too much. and anon 3 you've got my respect man okay. lighten up a little:grin:                              please


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: DeeBee]
    #18929676 - 10/04/13 04:47 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

you got a long way to go before you can tell me how myy attitude contributes to society. youll need to find true love, lose that love, bury family.live awhile alone. all that wonderful shit.

anyways back to the point. so you think its ok to act like a jackass if youre in your 18-20s by by being cruel or whatever?
well i think thats a lame ass way to rationalize it. its a cop out to treating someone right. call it waht you will but that type of shit can come back on you in the future bacause like you said youre knowingly being a asshole. every action has a equal reaction.
and if you cant figure out how to breakup with chick that doesnt deserve to be treaed like shit in a nice way then i dont think you should be dating no matter what age you are. some people do only learn the hard way though. thats a fact.


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: JesusGoneRogue]
    #18929718 - 10/04/13 05:12 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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JesusGoneRogue said:
and anon 3 you've got my respect man okay. lighten up a little:grin:                              please




thats cool mang. glad you can dig it.

and im light as a a feather haha. i just float on :wink:


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #18929727 - 10/04/13 05:16 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

unfortunately i seem to learn the hard way only. lol i currently have a fractured skull and a busted eardrum. sigh, i really needa quit being so damn hard headed.


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Anonymous #3

Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: JesusGoneRogue]
    #18929786 - 10/04/13 05:42 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

least youre alive to contemplate it all. and you know a lot the trouble of sovling a problem is realizing you have it or maybe its admitting it. or maybe its both. good luck healing your melon though. :tongue2:


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Anonymous #4

Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18929938 - 10/04/13 07:08 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

No.

Exes are exes for a reason.

That off and on again shit never ever works in reality.

Once I break up with someone we stay broken up. There's usually not even any contact after the fact.

In some VERY RARE cases, if you are both mature enough.. and were good friends, then you could stay friends in the future. But that is extremely rare.
But to try and become lovers again, after you have already broken it off once. I have NEVER seen that work.
And I've seen a LOT of cases of BF/GF breaking up, getting back together, breaking up, getting back together.
Been there myself before.
It always end catastrophically. Save yourself the torment.


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #18930336 - 10/04/13 09:32 AM (10 years, 3 months ago)

thanks anon 3. and anon 4 is a prime example of someone you DON'T want to act like everybody. people that think like anon 4 will never accomplish anything truly spectacular in life. their attitude automatically sets them up for failure.                                                                                                                          and i'm sure you'll get butthurt reading this anon4, so fuckin bring it. i'm not in a good mood currently, and would absolutely love to relieve some stress on some anonymous piece of shit. give me your best shot


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Re: Should I see my ex? [Re: Anonymous #4]
    #18933348 - 10/04/13 09:39 PM (10 years, 3 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
No.

Exes are exes for a reason.

That off and on again shit never ever works in reality.

Once I break up with someone we stay broken up. There's usually not even any contact after the fact.

In some VERY RARE cases, if you are both mature enough.. and were good friends, then you could stay friends in the future. But that is extremely rare.
But to try and become lovers again, after you have already broken it off once. I have NEVER seen that work.
And I've seen a LOT of cases of BF/GF breaking up, getting back together, breaking up, getting back together.
Been there myself before.
It always end catastrophically. Save yourself the torment.




the off and on relationships Doesn't work, its Tormenting as fuck.

My sister and her boyfriend broke up a year in, got back together shortly after and have been getting stronger as a couple over two years.
so they've been together for 3-4 years, and i have to say i hope they continue down this path and get married. he's 28, shes 24.

i think there are two relationships. the type that can get there shit together because they know what/who they want in this life(usually older more experienced people), and the type that don't get there shit together because there not sure if its worth it entirely (younger, less experienced people)

TIME is a huge factor in relationships, some people feel too young halfway through there lifespan of the relationship, so they need to get out before its too late... some people feel there getting older and its getting to late to not be in a relationship..

all in all - i think if two people get into the  relationship with Great intentions and no bulshit and Mean/feel what they do/say, you will last years if not till the end. Don't tell your fucking girlfriend you love her if your not sure. nah mean? - communicate this to her, eliminate that stress/naggyquestion if you love her or not, n let the relationship grow- and maybe you will actually fall in love with her, but if you lie, the lies build up as nagging doubts and thoughts till you need a release and its just to late to just 'talk' to your partner about your problems because your minds already made and your current partner is nothing but a permanent stress producer


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