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Another, "How do I talk to this girl in my class" thread
#18898803 - 09/27/13 01:46 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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The thing is, I'm taking 2 - 3 credit classes. English and Human Sexuality. Girl I that has my attention is in Human Sexuality.
It's an hour 15 minutes every Tuesday and is only notes or lecture or video. No student to student interaction. She sits right next to me in the back row where the clock would obviously be right behind me. Why that important yo?
I'm trying both to figure out if she's trying to get MY attention and even how to talk in a quite classroom. I can see her looking at me in the corner of my eye, sometimes I feel she is intentionally sitting closer to me by laying on the desk. Sometimes I feel her leg brush SLIGHTLY on my pants and she doesn't move. Sometimes she looks back at the clock then turns back forward a bit but takes a good 2 second glance at me first.
I know, I know man up. But am I just looking too much into it or is does she want me to talk to her?
I guess in truth the reason this one girl is bothering me so much isn't because of her looks (which she is very pretty) but that I'm new to the state and have no friends and really haven't had a real relationship in my life. I just don't know how to talk to girls in Community College or even make friends there. I started at a university living in the dorms so this is much different.
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Re: Another, "How do I talk to this girl in my class" thread [Re: Atrium]
#18898865 - 09/27/13 02:04 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Just talk to her, introduce yourself, don't expect anything. You'd probably be good saying you just moved there, and ask where things are (mall, restaurants etc.), maybe she (or anyone else for that matter) will help you out or physically show you. Even if you already know where it is .
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Re: Another, "How do I talk to this girl in my class" thread [Re: K1ngSp4de]
#18898940 - 09/27/13 02:23 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yes, you are reading too much into it. Yes, she wants to talk to you- she's a girl, you're a boy, you're in college; just talk to her already. Show up early and say Hi when she walks in, stuff like 'did you do the homework' is a super easy in. Don't confuse yourself by trying to read signals, just treat her like a friend; be interested in getting to know her. Simple as that.
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Re: Another, "How do I talk to this girl in my class" thread [Re: Atrium]
#18898946 - 09/27/13 02:26 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Just talk to her during class. When the professor tells you to quiet diwn, invite her somewhere where y'all can talk.
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Re: Another, "How do I talk to this girl in my class" thread [Re: Atrium]
#18898952 - 09/27/13 02:27 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Your having problems talking to a girl sitting beside you in a human sexuality class?  Just start talking to her about sex 
No seriously just start talking to her about the class and the conversation will eventually drift on into different topics, and before you know it you have yourself a friend . Like your sitting beside her in a class FFS, talk to her for 5 minutes about the class and you'll learn that talking to her about anything will be as natural as walking
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Re: Another, "How do I talk to this girl in my class" thread [Re: Lynnch]
#18898991 - 09/27/13 02:36 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'm in an almost identical situation myself. The first 2 weeks I thought she was attractive but didn't think too much about it. Over the last 2-3 weeks though I feel she really wants me to talk to her, but I haven't yet for whatever reason (I feel I'm trying to time it all perfect like when that prob won't happen). Waiting a week in between class really helps me dwell on it too 
I was thinking of this approach:
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Lynnch said: Yes, you are reading too much into it. Yes, she wants to talk to you- she's a girl, you're a boy, you're in college; just talk to her already. Show up early and say Hi when she walks in, stuff like 'did you do the homework' is a super easy in. Don't confuse yourself by trying to read signals, just treat her like a friend; be interested in getting to know her. Simple as that.
Find an obvious common interest like the class or whatever. Did you do your HW? What score did you get on the test? etc just to get a conversation started. But then last week I was thinking if it wasn't too forward maybe I'd just be a little more direct "I like your hair" or something like that that is a little more direct about my intentions. At this point I've just confused myself and don't know which idea is better lol. She's given that eye like "yes I want to fuck you" so a tasteful compliment would probably be appreciated too, but I really don't want to feel I'm coming on too strong either. That's why I'm just gonna take some benzos for my next class and not overthink it and just say what feels natural, cuz honestly HOW you say it means more than anything. Doesn't really matter what you say if you make it awkward as fuck, lol.
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Re: Another, "How do I talk to this girl in my class" thread [Re: Atrium]
#18899590 - 09/27/13 05:04 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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One thing I've realized is the more you think about it the harder it will be and you may even convince yourself not to talk to her which is no good, I actually blew an opportunity because I kept hesitating and never ended up talking to the girl. I would just causally introduce my self and ask her about the class.
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Re: Another, "How do I talk to this girl in my class" thread [Re: brokentv]
#18900841 - 09/27/13 09:38 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I think I might load up on a couple capsules of Kratom before class on Tuesday and that should make me feel comfortable to talk. I don't NEED it, I just noticed in class on Thursday (english) I felt more sociable and personable so might work again. Overall I just want friends and I'm missing that "touch of a woman" I used to get every weekend or so in that university. So hard to meet people in CC honestly
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Re: Another, "How do I talk to this girl in my class" thread [Re: Atrium]
#18900874 - 09/27/13 09:47 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Jamesdnh said: The thing is, I'm taking 2 - 3 credit classes. English and Human Sexuality. Girl I that has my attention is in Human Sexuality.
It's an hour 15 minutes every Tuesday and is only notes or lecture or video. No student to student interaction. She sits right next to me in the back row where the clock would obviously be right behind me. Why that important yo?
I'm trying both to figure out if she's trying to get MY attention and even how to talk in a quite classroom. I can see her looking at me in the corner of my eye, sometimes I feel she is intentionally sitting closer to me by laying on the desk. Sometimes I feel her leg brush SLIGHTLY on my pants and she doesn't move. Sometimes she looks back at the clock then turns back forward a bit but takes a good 2 second glance at me first.
I know, I know man up. But am I just looking too much into it or is does she want me to talk to her?
I guess in truth the reason this one girl is bothering me so much isn't because of her looks (which she is very pretty) but that I'm new to the state and have no friends and really haven't had a real relationship in my life. I just don't know how to talk to girls in Community College or even make friends there. I started at a university living in the dorms so this is much different.
If shes brushing her legs against you and your not just imagining this shit she wants you, bad. Go for it dude.
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Re: Another, "How do I talk to this girl in my class" thread [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#18908364 - 09/29/13 06:43 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Bodhi of Ankou said:
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Jamesdnh said: The thing is, I'm taking 2 - 3 credit classes. English and Human Sexuality. Girl I that has my attention is in Human Sexuality.
It's an hour 15 minutes every Tuesday and is only notes or lecture or video. No student to student interaction. She sits right next to me in the back row where the clock would obviously be right behind me. Why that important yo?
I'm trying both to figure out if she's trying to get MY attention and even how to talk in a quite classroom. I can see her looking at me in the corner of my eye, sometimes I feel she is intentionally sitting closer to me by laying on the desk. Sometimes I feel her leg brush SLIGHTLY on my pants and she doesn't move. Sometimes she looks back at the clock then turns back forward a bit but takes a good 2 second glance at me first.
I know, I know man up. But am I just looking too much into it or is does she want me to talk to her?
I guess in truth the reason this one girl is bothering me so much isn't because of her looks (which she is very pretty) but that I'm new to the state and have no friends and really haven't had a real relationship in my life. I just don't know how to talk to girls in Community College or even make friends there. I started at a university living in the dorms so this is much different.
If shes brushing her legs against you and your not just imagining this shit she wants you, bad. Go for it dude.
Maybe I am just imagining this brushing on my leg? :/
It's definitely not deliberate like throwing her leg on top of mine but just a good 10 second long touch then a slow movement away.
Whatever, I'll just talk to her on Tuesday. I just want friends, if she turns out sexually interested I'm game.
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Re: Another, "How do I talk to this girl in my class" thread [Re: Atrium]
#18910258 - 09/30/13 07:41 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Dont be taking drugs to be able to talk!
How can you not be talking to some girl setting next to you in class??? Being new in town has absolute nothing to do with it. I think most people start new studies with a room full of people they have never met 
I guess you are a bit late though. By now it has been a couple of classes with you being this quiet brooding presence in the back of the class. Don 't you introduce yourself when you sit next to someone you dont know?
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Re: Another, "How do I talk to this girl in my class" thread [Re: Tripsurfer]
#18913575 - 09/30/13 10:19 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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All of those signs are not dead give away. They could just be random things that happened.
Don't be that fuck who is talking to the person next to them all lecture. You will just have to keep sitting where your at until you can say something "normal". Once that happens you can start to be friends and move from there.
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Re: Another, "How do I talk to this girl in my class" thread [Re: Atrium]
#18913629 - 09/30/13 10:32 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Find some funny fact as your opener.. like When a penguin wants to mate for life with another penguin, it gives that penguin a pebble. Ok, maybe not the appropriate one, but you get my meaning. Reddit has some huge threads on just interesting facts and funny coincidences.. Laughter is the best ice breaker.
Then tell her how long your tongue is with a very serious face.
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Re: Another, "How do I talk to this girl in my class" thread [Re: vertygo]
#18914558 - 10/01/13 04:06 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Step 1. Approach
Step 2. Engage
Step 3. ?????
Step 4. Profit!
But seriously its not hard. I just compliment them on anything that seems stands out. Clothing wise girls wear things that they wish to stand out, and if you just notice it isn't hard. After that just play off what they say. I get numbers pretty consistently ( my best was this saturday 4 in 45 minutes) most I dont even contact its just because I can.
For those 4 all I did was complimented what drew my eyes first. small talked for 2 minutes. Then just handed them my phone and said hey you should put your number in here.
Confidence my friend. It's not something god given it's something you earn.
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Re: Another, "How do I talk to this girl in my class" thread [Re: K1ngSp4de]
#18914891 - 10/01/13 07:28 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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K1ngSp4de said: Just talk to her, introduce yourself, don't expect anything.
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Re: Another, "How do I talk to this girl in my class" thread [Re: Enjoywho]
#18914896 - 10/01/13 07:30 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Enjoywho said: Step 1. Approach
Confidence my friend. It's not something god given it's something you earn.
it feels way different walking to class with your head up and your mind smiling at the world. You get approached more often
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Re: Another, "How do I talk to this girl in my class" thread [Re: TwinEclipse]
#18915167 - 10/01/13 09:11 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Well, headed to class today! I got this, life is good, I'm happy, my grades are good. I can get any girl I want! You guys listen to tech n9ne? In a song on his new cd he's got a line, "It feels like I'm on Molly Heart as big as my body" Love it, same feeling when you don't let negatives in the way of the positives.
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Re: Another, "How do I talk to this girl in my class" thread [Re: Atrium]
#18915313 - 10/01/13 09:51 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Embrace life! 
And since its a sexuality class you should totally be able to have a serious conversation about blowjobs and g-spots with her.
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Re: Another, "How do I talk to this girl in my class" thread [Re: Atrium]
#18915472 - 10/01/13 10:30 AM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Jamesdnh said: Well, headed to class today! I got this, life is good, I'm happy, my grades are good. I can get any girl I want! You guys listen to tech n9ne? In a song on his new cd he's got a line, "It feels like I'm on Molly Heart as big as my body" Love it, same feeling when you don't let negatives in the way of the positives.
Haven't checked out any new albums but 6's & 7's was a huge part of my life.
Get 'em tiger. To start just say hello to as many people as possible. Thats how I started now its 2nd nature.
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Re: Another, "How do I talk to this girl in my class" thread [Re: Enjoywho]
#18916393 - 10/01/13 02:07 PM (10 years, 3 months ago) |
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Well, sadly today she wasn't there. Same as last week when I originally asked I think. I just hope she hasn't dropped the class :/ whatever though, I really need to make some friends. I know how to but it's a bit hard at CC to me personally. You guys just run up and ask random people to chill or what's up? That's how I did at university and made tons of friends and got laid regularly with girls hitting me up. Since I left and have been to two separate CC's I feel the openness of people to meet new people into their lives is not there. IDK, I think I might move into the CC's dorms next year (strange situation, I'm on the three year plan apparantly.)
BTW that Lyric is from the Song E.B.A.H which is from the album Evil Brain Angel Heart that came out last year.
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