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Anonymous #1
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ive finally lost it
#18889012 - 09/25/13 12:12 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I have mental problems that I just started dealing with and last night I was told that my wife slept with someone else. I fucking lost it and beat her up. I dont know why I did. I am checking myself to a loony bin in an hour or 2. I know I lost her forever and I am loosing my mind right now.
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MrMagicMushroom
Lysergic connoisseur


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You beat your now ex-wife. You are going to jail bud,i hope ya know that
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Anonymous #1
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I know and deserve it
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JamesSpawned
Fart smeller! Wait...



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Hope your not in the south, them good ole boys might just beat ya back. On a more positive note, it's just sex bubba. It's not like she left you for him. On a more negative note the positive note is disregardable because you sure fucked that relationship up.
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Kinko
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Anonymous said: I know and deserve it
how bad was it? did she end up in the hospital? is she pressing charge?
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Anonymous #1
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Re: ive finally lost it [Re: Kinko]
#18890999 - 09/25/13 08:15 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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It wasnt bad no hospital not even bruising, I still did it. And yes I did find out she was leaving me for him till I scared him off the dick contacted me out of the blue to talk shit so I talked shit back and it ended up him telling me things that just made sense so I confronted her about it. She finally told me the truth and I was confused but then I took 4 xanax and a bunch of rum. She was sleeping on the couch and I grabbed her sheets and told her to get the fuck out. She told me to fuck off went to the bathroom and I pushed her. She fell down into the shower got up and slapped her, I drank more rum and passed out. When I woke up I got on here then decided I needed to do something so I checked myself into a loony bin but I wasnt bad enough and told me to go home, I wanted to stay. She picked me up and gave me a kiss, I do not deserve her I think we are done but it just doesnt seem like it right now. I am going to have a hard time breaking it off
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Black_Sunset
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Sounds like she may be giving you a chance to apologize and get let off easy
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MystiqueMushroom

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Clearly not a healthy relationship. Time to move on and learn from the time you had together. Relationships like this are addictive and deep down you know it's not right and should move on. If you can move on and learn about this time in your life you will become a MUCH stronger being. Good luck!
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Global_Roaming
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Dude, I don't think a psychedelic mushroom forum is really the right place for you at the moment. Go camping for a few days somewhere secluded, and don't bring any substances with you - just find some quite time in nature to try and make some sense of it all.
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Anonymous #1
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I know it seems odd and unhealthy but we are talking 25 years together. She is still here and I have nightmares about what happened every night. I am not that person and I would like to blame it on the pills and booze but I am the one that did it. She says its over and we are done but she is still here, we had sex and we sleep together everynight. I want to tell her to hit the road because of it but I cant and when I tryed to leave she hid my keys. I think I am going to have a nervous breakdown and not taking my pills and drinking I am going to serious withdraws. I just want a tab and whiskey right now but I flushed everything. What to do, fuck
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TheOptical
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I feel for ya dude. I'm going through my own personal issues right now, and while there's nothing that I can say that can actually help you, just know that I wish you the best, and I hope that things get better for you. Good luck, and don't give up!
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Anonymous #1
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Quote:
MystiqueMushroom said: Clearly not a healthy relationship. Time to move on and learn from the time you had together. Relationships like this are addictive and deep down you know it's not right and should move on. If you can move on and learn about this time in your life you will become a MUCH stronger being. Good luck!
How? I would like to do whats right but it is hard.
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MystiqueMushroom

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Completely separate yourself from the person.
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MoxyOx
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You cannot run from this OP. You've shown her a side that she loves, she wants you now. PM me if you would like someone to talk to.
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MystiqueMushroom

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Re: ive finally lost it [Re: MoxyOx]
#18899901 - 09/27/13 06:15 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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MoxyOx said: You cannot run from this OP. You've shown her a side that she loves, she wants you now. PM me if you would like someone to talk to.
Wtf are you talking about?
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Anonymous #1
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We are done, I had a long talk with her and its over.
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MystiqueMushroom

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Good for you OP!
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Anonymous #1
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She is still fucking here, I am trying not to get mad but she wont leave.
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MystiqueMushroom

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Do you share a house/apartment or what? Who's name is on lease/file?
Is it clear to her your DONE?
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Anonymous #1
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Its my house, where she goes isnt my problem but it is mine premarital asset. She can have any of this crap she wants and I will deliver but she is still here telling me she is done but wont leave.
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MystiqueMushroom

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Idk all the details, do you want her out tonight or do you care if you she takes a day to get out?
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Almond Flour
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You are only human bro, not saying hitting her was the right thing to do, but you are by NO means a monster. People do ALLOT worse in your situation, often times killing someone. You MIGHT go to jail for a bit but checking yourself into a loony bin will help your case should she press charges.
You need to clear your mind though asap. And I cant imagine how tough it must be with an unfaithful women
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Almond Flour
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Anonymous said: Its my house, where she goes isnt my problem but it is mine premarital asset. She can have any of this crap she wants and I will deliver but she is still here telling me she is done but wont leave.
Leave the house and go crash at some friends. Give her anything and everything she wants.
,.....Its in the bible. In doing so you will pour coals on her head
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Almond Flour
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I honestly cant tell you how bad I feel for you bro. One thing is for certain I highly suggest you get out of that environment. Its done, dont go to the loony bin go to rehab if you need to, just get the fuck away from her man
-------------------- Hippies and Liberals love Pope Francis, so why dont I quote him for you guys. "There is NO SALVATION outside the Catholic Church"
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Anonymous #1
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She made arrangements to go somewhere else but decided to stay till monday? Dont make sense to me especially the sex last night and this morning. We had a good marriage up until a few years ago when the pills and booze got bad, I broke my leg bad and just started with painkillers but went to anything that fucked you up with painkillers and booze on the side.
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MystiqueMushroom

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Anonymous said: She made arrangements to go somewhere else but decided to stay till monday? Dont make sense to me especially the sex last night and this morning. We had a good marriage up until a few years ago when the pills and booze got bad, I broke my leg bad and just started with painkillers but went to anything that fucked you up with painkillers and booze on the side.
Why would you have sex with her if your trying to separate yourself from the unhealthy relationship to have a better life?
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Because she is the best at it and I have a penis, dont know what else to tell you. I didnt do shit but she kept rubbing on it last night so I did and no man can say no to morning sex
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JamesSpawned
Fart smeller! Wait...



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Anonymous said: Because she is the best at it and I have a penis, dont know what else to tell you. I didnt do shit but she kept rubbing on it last night so I did and no man can say no to morning sex
Sounding prickish here he-man woman beater, let's not forget the reason for this thread. Your already widely regarded as a piece of shit for your previous actions now your going to continue on with more of your selfish bullshit? Separate yourself from her before your unintelligent brutishness puts her at physical risk again. You've already proved you cannot resolve things in a civil manner through empathy and understanding it's time for you to do something manly and walk away.
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Me_Roy
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OP, clearly you are responsible for some domestic violence. Clearly you're remorseful for it. However it doesn't sound like you "beat up" your wife.
And, at risk of "blaming the victim," it sounds like your wife's trying to manipulate you with sex and a prolongation of the relationship. I wouldn't take that bait if I were you. It's a bad relationship and you're both suffering as part of it. End it now.
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MystiqueMushroom

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Anonymous said: Because she is the best at it and I have a penis, dont know what else to tell you. I didnt do shit but she kept rubbing on it last night so I did and no man can say no to morning sex
Weakness
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Anonymous #1
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If you wanted to piss me off you shouldve tryed it a couple days ago when I was going through wd. She knew she fucked up and I know I fucked up. After 27 years together and 25 years marriage we have done good. We are seperating and going to marriage counseling to work things out to get back together if we deem it wise. So some prick talking shit behind a keyboard really doesn't bother me when he really doesnt know shit. Thank you everyone else you helped me through a tough situation and helped me with what I think is a wise decision, we got her shit to her moms tonight and counsling start next Wednesday.
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JamesSpawned
Fart smeller! Wait...



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Whoah! Take it easy OP, there's no one to beat up on the web! Just remember that tempers what got you here in the first place...
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Anonymous #1
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You think your funny but your just a troll, good luck on the next one buddy
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EdibleStereos
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JamesSpawned said: Whoah! Take it easy OP, there's no one to beat up on the web! Just remember that tempers what got you here in the first place...
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JamesSpawned said: Whoah! Take it easy OP, there's no one to beat up on the web! Just remember that tempers what got you here in the first place...
You're only just to provoke a negative response with this, and I believe this is exactly what you wanted.
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Cpt.Crunch
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Man, you need to get out of this relationship, she is unfaithful, that is fucked up to you..
Don't go nuts over a female, there are plenty of others (better than her) out there man, it might be hard, or it might feel like the end of the world, but trust me, its not.
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JamesSpawned
Fart smeller! Wait...



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Re: ive finally lost it [Re: Cpt.Crunch]
#18906213 - 09/29/13 08:45 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Alright guys ill stop, I wasn't trolling though. I really believed OPs story about not being a violent dude or being a regular hothead in the relationship. I WAS trying to provoke him to see if his behavior with a heckler would mesh with what he says his regular behavior is in a relationship. He didn't rise to the bait and I applaud that. OP my only useful piece of input to your situation is to take time apart but not push for a permanent separation. You two have been together for a LONG time, I'm sure a bond is built between you two that cannot easily be broken. Maybe she sought the comfort of another man because your relationship lost some of its fire? It certainly seems that your passionate (albeit violent) outburst got HER all fired up about you again. I don't remember anyone asking if you had kids together? That would further complicate things but is not a matter of huge concern IMOP, parents split all the time.. The point is you two have been together so long it would be foolish to think that this is the way things are going to have to end. Take time apart, at least emotionally and reflect on the storm passing over your relationship. I'd have to say you seem like you are not soon going to become physical again but you should still spend some more time reflecting on that and what urges you felt you could not control and why. Most of all seek out the answers you need to find about where the spark was lost, if you still want her spend all your time nurturing that spark again. Good luck OP, I think you guys will be fine though I'm sure you now have a bad taste in your mouth for my opinions...
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I took 4 xanax and a bunch of rum. She was sleeping on the couch and I grabbed her sheets and told her to get the fuck out. She told me to fuck off went to the bathroom and I pushed her. She fell down into the shower got up and slapped her, I drank more rum and passed out.
Sounds like you have a healthy lifestyle and outlook, I don't know what could have pushed her to screwing other men. Alcohol is known to improve long term relationships, you're very smart for using it
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For truly, I say to you, many prophets and righteous people longed to see what you see, and did not see it, and to hear what you hear, and did not hear it. - Matthew 13:16
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