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Beside the Garden


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My Ex Called :-)
#18884264 - 09/24/13 10:27 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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My ex called, I love this this girl I couldn't be more thrilled. She called my old phone that got passed on to my sister and my sister relaid the message.
Called her back today, Conversation went good wish i wasn't sick but whatever.
Shes asking me about my situation if i have a GF, I told her no. I stay chill but i really just want to be like I LOVE YOU WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN GET OVER HERE. Conversations with her are stimulating, the sex is amazing and our moments together can become ethereal without drugs, yeah she does it for me.
Later on in the convo she like I just want to tell you that i am with someone so its probable better if i call you, WTF Get out of here with that, why are you asking me if i got someone. It doesn't sound to serious with that guy more like situational stability.
Any ways i said i might call her in a week, and sent a text after we got off and said "call me whenever... I will always make time for you." To much? i didn't think so. If the possibility is there i want to take it
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Beside the Garden


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Oh i should add this call came after five years of not seeing each other haven't talked to her in over a year.
I don't want to mess this up if there is potential, what do you guys think, any advice?
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Lynnch
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Why did you guys break up?
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Beside the Garden


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Re: My Ex Called :-) [Re: Lynnch]
#18884491 - 09/24/13 11:21 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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A few reason. First time was her fidelity second time I concealed something, both of us where young. What ever we both seam to be past it all not holding resentment.
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I know the feeling, but from experience this almost never ends well. Tread lightly and without expectations or you are setting yourself up for major frustration.
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Beside the Garden


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I hear ya, I should have no expectations, I will look for other women of coarse. Im going to leave myself open to her though. Its an odd dynamic we have done this before, no contact for years then boom someone call and we pick right back up. Im just wondering if i should call in a week or just let some time pass?
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itchmynipple
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Beside the Garden said: I hear ya, I should have no expectations, I will look for other women of coarse. Im going to leave myself open to her though. Its an odd dynamic we have done this before, no contact for years then boom someone call and we pick right back up. Im just wondering if i should call in a week or just let some time pass?
Lol, well treat her like a good friend, dont think of her as your gf already or anyone your with. cause well your not Lol.
secondly, try not to think of her as much - if your glued to your phone for this girl, that is Bad. thats infatuation.
infatuation can make you do things you would never see yourself doing.
anyways - like with everything it can end well or shitty. mind as well give it a try and see for yourself, it will only make your path More clear and less full of regrets.
also, dont question what your saying lol, commit to whatever you say and pay attention to your feelings if you believe your in a good mental state, if not take a couple steps back and re-asses where your attention and focus needs to be.
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Beside the Garden


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^ this is sound .
I am a bit excited right now because this just happened but yeah i will chill. Not infatuation or anything unrealistic just good feelings
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memes
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she called to tell you that she was with someone. she asked if you were with someone hoping you would be, thus making it easier
i'd not get my hopes up.
that's just my take. only worth $0.02 so take it for what it is.
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Re: My Ex Called :-) [Re: memes]
#18885367 - 09/24/13 03:09 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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They're an ex for a reason.
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itchmynipple
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Re: My Ex Called :-) [Re: memes]
#18885504 - 09/24/13 03:46 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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memes said: she called to tell you that she was with someone. she asked if you were with someone hoping you would be, thus making it easier
i'd not get my hopes up.
that's just my take. only worth $0.02 so take it for what it is.
thats good logic mate,
to get straight to the point, she sounds like she might not know what she wants - n she probably won't know if she's not already concrete about it.
so OP, it sounds like she's trying to form 'options' to lessen a heartbreak that is forming
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In my experience, at some point in time unless your relationship went out in a hail of gunfire, ex's tend to come around again at least once.
I would go about it as nonchalantly as possible and keep most if not all remaining thoughts or feelings towards her inside till your 100% clear on the situation at hand.
I like many who've came before have experienced this and quite frankly I don't think it was worth it in the end, everything good and bad i ever felt from our prior relationship was instantly refreshed but like they say sometimes you just gotta learn the hard way.
Best of luck brother, play it by ear, and do what feels right
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Beside the Garden


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Re: My Ex Called :-) [Re: Rafiikii]
#18885784 - 09/24/13 04:54 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yes, She probably is forming options, shes is calculating person. On the phone i thought i played it cool, but she kept asking what i was thinking, how i felt about her calling and i said i said it was great to hear from her. Even if it stops there its validating to know i'm on her mind.
Rafiikii- yeah nonchalant till im sure whats up.
Calling after 5 years just to say shes with someone doesn't add up, it felt like she had interests, but i hear ya. I do wanna see what potential there is and not leave death bed questions. But yeah thanks guys i wont get my hopes up, I will just save her number in my phone and keep living life, see how or if it unfolds.
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