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Confused sexuality
#18879632 - 09/23/13 08:45 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Hello everyone!
First of all, to everyone who knows me in real life, I'm straight. But I am definitely more attracted to men. Sexually and emotionally. But I'm so confused. I want to marry a woman someday, and have a nice family and be a happy couple. Im emotionaly attracted to girls, but not sexually. I have never practiced sex, having a deep Baptist background. But I fear I may succumb to it very soon. I do masturbate often, to gay porn. And I talk to gay guys thru text and online. However, EVERY TIME, after ejaculation, I lose all my "gay feelings" and im left digusted with myself.
Has anyone here ever felt the same as me? It's miserable.
Thank you for reading
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FruitOfLife
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I dont know how to explain that other than the fact that you are Bisexual at least.
I think what you really need to do is go out and fuck some hott ass female, wait a week and think about how you felt with a woman. Then go out and fuck a guy, then see which experience made you feel better.
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topdog82
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Anonymous said: Hello everyone!
First of all, to everyone who knows me in real life, I'm straight. But I am definitely more attracted to men. Sexually and emotionally. But I'm so confused. I want to marry a woman someday, and have a nice family and be a happy couple. Im emotionaly attracted to girls, but not sexually. I have never practiced sex, having a deep Baptist background. But I fear I may succumb to it very soon. I do masturbate often, to gay porn. And I talk to gay guys thru text and online. However, EVERY TIME, after ejaculation, I lose all my "gay feelings" and im left digusted with myself.
Has anyone here ever felt the same as me? It's miserable.
Thank you for reading
Werd^
I understand you have a baptist background, but that is the only way you can figure things out
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koods
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Re: Confused sexuality [Re: topdog82]
#18879875 - 09/23/13 09:59 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Dude, all men lose any interest in sex after they come. That's the way it works. Straight guys want their naked girlfriends to leave them alone.
Sounds like you are gay, man. You need think about why you want the wife and the traditional straight marriage. Is it what you really want, or is it what you are expected to have and you want it so you don't disappoint anyone. If you live for other people, you are going be miserable. You are pretty lucky though. Almost nobody gives a shit whether someone is gay anymore. If your family is a little behind the times, they almost will certainly have to surrender to the reality of the world when there's a gay dude in their lives.
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koods
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FruitOfLife said: I dont know how to explain that other than the fact that you are Bisexual at least.
I think what you really need to do is go out and fuck some hott ass female, wait a week and think about how you felt with a woman. Then go out and fuck a guy, then see which experience made you feel better.
You don't have to test out the merchandise to know whether you are gay or not. People know what they want.
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Re: Confused sexuality [Re: koods]
#18880075 - 09/23/13 10:54 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sounds like you want some dick. My guess is you're not emotionally attracted to any dudes because you're surrounded by are probably not likely to approve of that. I can't really tell you where or how to meet different guys, but I can tell you that they're out there.
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koraks
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Agree with koods; OP seems as gay as it gets.
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EdibleStereos
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Re: Confused sexuality [Re: koraks]
#18880225 - 09/23/13 11:35 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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OP have you ever felt sexually attracted to females?
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Anonymous #2
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it happens. best thing to do is not label yourself and just go with what feels right. if you find a nice women, go on some dates with her. same goes for man. one of the biggest cultural illusions is believing that this stuff actually matters.
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koods
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Anonymous said: it happens. best thing to do is not label yourself and just go with what feels right. if you find a nice women, go on some dates with her. same goes for man. one of the biggest cultural illusions is believing that this stuff actually matters.
Yeah. It does. I bet it's not an illusion to OP's baptist family and friends.
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NotSheekle said “if I believed she was 16 I would become unattracted to her”
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Re: Confused sexuality [Re: koods]
#18880531 - 09/23/13 01:03 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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koods said:
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Anonymous said: it happens. best thing to do is not label yourself and just go with what feels right. if you find a nice women, go on some dates with her. same goes for man. one of the biggest cultural illusions is believing that this stuff actually matters.
Yeah. It does. I bet it's not an illusion to OP's baptist family and friends.
Yes but the fact that their opinions ultimately matter is an illusion
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koraks
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That's bullshit. Every sane person I have come across wanted to be loved and accepted by his/her family. Of course their opinions matter.
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Anonymous #3
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bro, i feel you about the last part. sometimes i get, you know, really horny and decide to watch gay porn, but i don't do this always. after beating it i feel weird and what not, and ive done some really gay things too. i im only attracted to women sexually and emotionally. i think its just us dudes being really horny, or, in your case, your bisexual i guess. good luck homes, just helping out my fellow baptists
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Cabinet_Sanchez
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Jacking it to gay porn, doing really gay things, and sexually talking to dudes on the internet isn't "just being really horny" bro. It means you're attracted to men, aka, you're kind of gay. It's not a big deal.
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koods
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I really feel it should be emphasized that feeling guilty about whatever after jerking off is really a meaningless sign. Every dude on the planet has a massive change in attitude the moment they come. We're built that way.
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Re: Confused sexuality [Re: koods]
#18882092 - 09/23/13 08:08 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Don't worry bro. Everyone feels gross after ejaculating. There's nothing more sobering than blowing a load.
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