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Saw my sister making out with my best friend
#18877106 - 09/22/13 05:58 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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My sister is 19 years old and my friend is 22. We went to a mutual friend's birthday party over the weekend and got totally shitfaced.
I didn't want to go because every time I get drunk with that group of people it ends up being a massive, disastrous shit show. This time around my mom begged me to go because my sister was dead set on driving 4 hours away to the city our friend lives in and she didn't want anything to happen to her. My mom is constantly under a lot of stress because she works 80-100 hour weeks, so I do what I can to try to get her to stay relaxed. My sister isn't a totally crass bitch, but the only times she is all on board with respecting my mom's wishes is when it's at her own convenience. In this case, she couldn't give a fuck how much stress she would cause our entire household so long as she could drive 4 hours away to get obliterated.
Anyway, since my best friend, my sister and myself are all friends with the birthday girl we all decided to go to the party. Inevitably, everyone got drunk as fuck and everything was going fairly well. However, at some point while we were all bar hopping, I stumbled upon my sister and my friend making out with each other. I didn't let it affect me too much in that moment, but after about 5 minutes what I witnessed sank in and shifted my state of mind 180 degrees into a state of pure belligerency.
My friend tried to take my sister back to the place we were staying with a taxi while I was left behind with our group of friends. They didn't have a key to get inside so they were stuck outside of the house for a few hours until we all met back up with each other.
Anyway, before I digress too far, this morning my friend called to apologize for what happened that night and he told me he doesn't want this to get in the way of our friendship. I accepted his apology, but I don't know if I can really forgive him. I cannot get that fucking image out of my mind and I feel as though he betrayed my trust. I am furious at both him and at my sister and I really have no idea what to do about it.
As a good friend, I know it is my duty to forgive him and to just take what happened as a common mistake caused by alcohol abuse, but the thought of what happened is making it very difficult for me to do that.
What should I do?
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Re: Saw my sister making out with my best friend [Re: Anonymous #1] 5
#18877116 - 09/22/13 06:00 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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DSHSB? Threesome?
Seriously though, it's not really any of your business. You shouldn't be angry about it. It's none of your business. They are both people who can make their own decisions. You have nothing to do with it.
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Re: Saw my sister making out with my best friend [Re: nooneman] 5
#18877130 - 09/22/13 06:02 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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nooneman said: DSHSB? Threesome?
Seriously though, it's not really any of your business. You shouldn't be angry about it. It's none of your business. They are both people who can make their own decisions. You have nothing to do with it.
Exactly... Time to grow up OP..
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Re: Saw my sister making out with my best friend [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18877135 - 09/22/13 06:03 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Why wouldn't you want your best friend to be the one to be with your sister? I've never understood why it's such a deal.
I don't agree with nooneman, that it is none of your business, as it deals with two people you are in a close relationship with. Lay down the rules saying that if he wants to show your sister respect and isn't going to fuck her, knock her up and run, that you guys can still be friends and he can try to make something work with your sister, and you can still be friends afterwords if things don't work out.
I mean, if you were to get married this guy would probably be your best man at your wedding, why wouldn't you want your sister to have an opportunity with the best man you know?
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Re: Saw my sister making out with my best friend [Re: nooneman] 1
#18877174 - 09/22/13 06:10 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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nooneman said: Seriously though, it's not really any of your business. You shouldn't be angry about it. It's none of your business. They are both people who can make their own decisions. You have nothing to do with it.
This. What do you have to "forgive" your friend for? Your sister and friend are adults who can make their own decisions. You sound very immature.
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Re: Saw my sister making out with my best friend [Re: pwnasaurus]
#18877252 - 09/22/13 06:26 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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It was a little disrespectful for the both of them to do that in front of you. They should've told you first that they had da hotss for each other first. Really they should both be embarrassed for getting that shitty and doing something like that in front of you. Your friend doesn't respect you as much as he claims either. What would your sister do if you made out with one of her friends?
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Re: Saw my sister making out with my best friend [Re: Shining Cosmos]
#18877286 - 09/22/13 06:30 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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The guy is a friend, so you obviously think highly of him as a person. So why wouldn't you want your sister to potentially be with a good guy instead of some dirtbag stranger.
While it may be a bit weird for you, I don't see why you can't forgive him. Actually what I mean to say is tat there's nothing going on here that warrants forgiveness. I'm also concerned that you believe that he has betrayed your trust. How, exactly?
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Re: Saw my sister making out with my best friend [Re: barong]
#18877396 - 09/22/13 06:55 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Been there, done that, TWICE. You need to get over it OP. Just think, maybe one day your best friend will be your brother in law? That would be cool
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Re: Saw my sister making out with my best friend [Re: barong] 1
#18877442 - 09/22/13 07:08 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I am overprotective of my younger sister. She has been an object of lust for my entire group of friends for as long as I can remember. I trusted this friend of mine because he was the only one who hadn't broken the one single boundary - do not fuck with my sister or mention fucking with my sister to my face.
Neither of them have any intention of dating each other, and if they do, they certainly aren't doing anything to make that a reality. What happened was something they both agree is an accident that occurred thanks to alcohol abuse.
I'm just very fucking furious right now. Hopefully by the end of this week I'll have gotten over it.
For the record, I'm disappointed in most of the responses you guys have given me. Obviously none of you can empathize with my situation and for you to actually tell me that I'm out of line for not having a hard time accepting the fact that my best friend tried to take advantage of the fact that my sister was drunk as fuck is pretty goddamn ridiculous.
The security of my family comes before letting my friend get off however he pleases. If you guys really cannot see how a boundary has been crossed then there is seriously something wrong with your sense of morality.
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Re: Saw my sister making out with my best friend [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#18877453 - 09/22/13 07:10 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Maybe you have a thing for your sister?
Let her make her own decisions homie. At least your friend thinks your sister is pretty and not a ugly ape.
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Re: Saw my sister making out with my best friend [Re: tarponio]
#18877537 - 09/22/13 07:28 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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tarponio said: Maybe you have a thing for your sister?
That's what I was thinking. This sounds like jealousy to me.
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Re: Saw my sister making out with my best friend [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18877676 - 09/22/13 07:59 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: I am overprotective of my younger sister. She has been an object of lust for my entire group of friends for as long as I can remember. I trusted this friend of mine because he was the only one who hadn't broken the one single boundary - do not fuck with my sister or mention fucking with my sister to my face.
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Anonymous said: For the record, I'm disappointed in most of the responses you guys have given me. Obviously none of you can empathize with my situation and for you to actually tell me that I'm out of line for not having a hard time accepting the fact that my best friend tried to take advantage of the fact that my sister was drunk as fuck is pretty goddamn ridiculous.
It seems to me like you would have a problem with it regardless of whether or not alcohol was involved. Otherwise why would you have that whole boundary thing with your friends going on?
So why does it bother you so much?
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Re: Saw my sister making out with my best friend [Re: Ballerium]
#18877695 - 09/22/13 08:03 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Is that you sheekle??? Oh sorry Ballerium, I just saw the profile pic at first
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Re: Saw my sister making out with my best friend [Re: FruitOfLife]
#18877751 - 09/22/13 08:13 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: Saw my sister making out with my best friend [Re: Ballerium] 1
#18877779 - 09/22/13 08:20 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Can I fuck your sister's face?
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Re: Saw my sister making out with my best friend [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#18877816 - 09/22/13 08:32 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: I am overprotective of my younger sister.
The word "overprotective" implies that it is a fault of YOURS not HERS.
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the fact that my best friend tried to take advantage of the fact that my sister was drunk as fuck
I don't see any mention of anyone taking advantage of someone else. It seems like it was a perfectly consensual act.
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The security of my family comes before letting my friend get off however he pleases. If you guys really cannot see how a boundary has been crossed then there is seriously something wrong with your sense of morality.
Security of your family? This has nothing to do with the security of your family. Your sister is an adult capable of making her own decisions. If anything it seems like you are trying to manifest ultimate control over your sister and your friends - that's not an attractive character trait.
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Re: Saw my sister making out with my best friend [Re: azur]
#18878006 - 09/22/13 09:17 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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azur said: Can I fuck your sister's face?
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Re: Saw my sister making out with my best friend [Re: Sheekle]
#18878106 - 09/22/13 09:41 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Too late. I already did.
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Re: Saw my sister making out with my best friend [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18878117 - 09/22/13 09:43 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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issues you have some look inside u will find the answer
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Re: Saw my sister making out with my best friend [Re: cheshirect666]
#18878264 - 09/22/13 10:16 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Lol, so basically what you are saying is that all your friends have joked about wanting to take your sister to pound town and in an extremely drunken state one of your buds actually went through with it.
So you have a hot sister. Big fucking deal. They both did something that was fun but they have no interest in pursuing, its not like you were dating her (as she is your sister). Im not going to be an ass and make a joke about you wanting to fuck her cause everyone has a right to their own feelings about their family. But for real man, you want us to defend your seemingly irresponsible slutty as fuck sister? Or your friend who has been joking for years he wants to fuck her? Or you, the asshole daddy complex brother who feels the need to protect a grown adult? Which is it mang?
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