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Meeting new people and starting new relationship
    #18877076 - 09/22/13 05:52 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I felt the pub would be better to post this in hoping I would get more responds even if it's dick comments heh. So settled in my new place with roommates, New job is going well and finally coming to peace with my friend taking his life. I'm still kinda stuck on my GF of 5 years leaving me for what reasons I'm still not sure of. Anyway I was thinking it would be a good idea to try and find a new female friend that could possible turn into a relationship. I was thinking OKcupid or CL post but I'm not one for lurking around on the internet unless it's here at the Shroomery.  I tend to be self conscious and kinda think poorly of myself. After 5 years of being with one person I'm not really sure how to go about finding female friends. Maybe some of you guys could share some stories or advice into finding and meeting women.


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Re: Meeting new people and starting new relationship [Re: Beefcakemighty]
    #18877476 - 09/22/13 07:16 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Believe it or not, women are everywhere. Step outside and I'm sure you'll encounter a few.
Your real issue sounds like your self-consciousness and low self-esteem, and those will burden you wherever you go.

What, exactly, leads you to these thoughts? I'm certain it's something you can address, and once you feel better about yourself you won't have an issue with any social relationships.


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Re: Meeting new people and starting new relationship [Re: something super extreme]
    #18877592 - 09/22/13 07:40 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

:whathesaid:


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Re: Meeting new people and starting new relationship [Re: something super extreme]
    #18877608 - 09/22/13 07:44 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Same thing happened to me i was hung up on my "ex's". I've moved on though that's probably the hardest part. only cuz i was missing the pussy and boobs every night. once you figure out you don't need a girl 24/7 to feel good your gold!. some steps i took was start skating again getting back on my board was a good felt more relaxed and took my mind off the stupid cunts.  then i stated reading and working out. shit i even learned how to cook like a fucking chef. good quality's to have and im sure a women would appreciate a good cooked meal on a movie night. if your trying to impress her. The ladies are every where. i met one today at the bus stop talked a little made her smile and pushed on. don't get hung up on one girl. your going though the sad stage where you just want a girl for selfish reasons. i met this cool chick in my psychology class found out we have alot in common alot! and after class she was fallowing me and we talked tell i took off. see when your not consistently thinking about how much you want a girl to be your "girlfriend" they come around more often. only thing thats stopping me is since i dont have a car right now it bugs me to even ask a girl out because with out a car you cant pick her up and there's no way ill have a girl pick me up for a date unless shes offering. IDK if that helps much im just saying you should work on your confidence so do things that make you feel good. psychical activities basketball ,some catch with friends maybe some 2 hand touch football, mountain  bike riding ,and weight lifting girls will take notice.  i think girls can pick up on your vibe and your might be scaring them off. so just work on the confidence dude and your be gold . forget the EX im sure she's moved on you gotta do the same.PUSSY IS ONLY PUSSY MONEY OVER BITCHES


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Re: Meeting new people and starting new relationship [Re: Megatrondon]
    #18877630 - 09/22/13 07:49 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

:downswords:

"money over bitches" would be a lot more convincing if you had anything to show for it besides a puerile rant about how women are stupid cunts.

Sounds like you still have some issues to work on there, Freud. Let's hope that community college psych class pays off.


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Re: Meeting new people and starting new relationship [Re: something super extreme]
    #18880622 - 09/23/13 01:26 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Well I have a few female friends but they are more FWB/playmates. Random hookups are fun but I would like to meet someone for more then just bedtime fun.

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Believe it or not, women are everywhere. Step outside and I'm sure you'll encounter a few.
Your real issue sounds like your self-consciousness and low self-esteem, and those will burden you wherever you go.

What, exactly, leads you to these thoughts? I'm certain it's something you can address, and once you feel better about yourself you won't have an issue with any social relationships.




I tend to feel like I'm going nowhere in life. Every time I get one step a head I get pushed two steps back. Like all I do is fail. I  think part of it is my GF leaving after 5 years. After those 5 years I don't know how or what to do as far a women go now lol

Also it feels like woman don't really share any of the same interests as me.


There is this cute girl working at this little food place I stop at from time to time. About a week ago I told her " Your cute and I hope you have a great day." just before walking out. haven't gone back since cause I feel like a ass haha.


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