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banned207
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Tripping during a breakup
#18869759 - 09/20/13 09:34 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I think I know the answer to this. I'm in the middle of a break, more likely a slow breakup. Now that we are spending some time apart we're getting rational and realizing how different we are.
The saddest part is over, but she's still on my mind continuously.
Haven't had a strong trip in a while, and would like to have one, but am concerned I will just torture myself during it. During the peak of my last trip it was like my ex girlfriend was there with me, and we'd been apart for 8 months after dating only 3.
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Staplerhead
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Re: Tripping during a breakup [Re: banned207]
#18869769 - 09/20/13 09:37 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I think you know the
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Re: Tripping during a breakup [Re: Staplerhead]
#18869774 - 09/20/13 09:39 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Save the trip for when you're content and peaceful
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Blazer420
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Re: Tripping during a breakup [Re: Agentchewy]
#18869804 - 09/20/13 09:47 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yeah not worth it now.. You will loose the plot
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phaded
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Re: Tripping during a breakup [Re: Blazer420]
#18869826 - 09/20/13 09:53 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Usually if you're apprehensive about tripping due to negativity in your life you're gonna have a bad time. Being apprehensive is a sign that you should probably wait until you're completely sure about how you feel.
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Re: Tripping during a breakup [Re: phaded]
#18869881 - 09/20/13 10:12 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Agentchewy said: Save the trip for when you're content and peaceful
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phaded said: Usually if you're apprehensive about tripping due to negativity in your life you're gonna have a bad time. Being apprehensive is a sign that you should probably wait until you're completely sure about how you feel.
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refried

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Damn, not in your boat, but just ate some shrooms earlier and then my wife and I got into a fight now I'm on silent treatment. It's a bummer dude, I'd rather not have tripped.
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ShroomDoom
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I dunno man. I'm going to go against conventional judgement on these things and say go for it. It could be awful... however you said yourself the worst is over and this could be a good way to get a fresh perspective on things. Possibly you could go for some alone time in deep introspection... review a little bit and find improvements to make. A rebirth type experience is the best thing to have after a breakup in my opinion. Im actually speaking for myself too I'm in the same boat as you and on a "break". I'm going to eat enough peyote tomorrow night to clear any cobwebs I have left over from this relationship. I wish you the best on your journey.
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Re: Tripping during a breakup [Re: ShroomDoom]
#18870801 - 09/21/13 04:19 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I tripped just after a break up, and to be honest it was the best thing I could have done. Really helped me come to terms with what was happening and reassured me that it was all for the best. But it wasn't a particularly strong trip. If you're going to do it, it could be beneficial, but I wouldn't recommend jumping in the deep end. A light to moderate dose would probably do the trick. If things do get difficult at least you'll be in a better position to handle it.
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Re: Tripping during a breakup [Re: refried]
#18870807 - 09/21/13 04:28 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Edited by rikuni (03/16/14 05:01 AM)
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rikuni

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Re: Tripping during a breakup [Re: banned207]
#18870810 - 09/21/13 04:31 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Edited by rikuni (03/16/14 05:01 AM)
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Into The Woods
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Re: Tripping during a breakup [Re: banned207]
#18870867 - 09/21/13 05:16 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I've seen this said quite a few times around here -
If there's any doubt in your mind, the answer is no.
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l33t
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Eat the mushrooms and truly realize why you aren't together. See the truth while you put your instincts on the side. I smoked weed and tripped after we broke ( 2 yr relationship ) , it helped me overcome everything. Sure, you might think of the relationship while you are tripping but as I said it will probably help you. Then again I'm one of those guys that want to face things and understand what went wrong and understand, not let time heal things and forget about it. So,it depends.
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JacksonMetaller
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Re: Tripping during a breakup [Re: l33t]
#18871374 - 09/21/13 09:40 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sit the painful part through. That is an important time in your life and tripping is not going to play nice with it. It's okay to trip when you still miss her, but not when you're hurting.
Edit: on a side note... if you've got deemz, pick a nice calm time and fire up. Changa the night before my breakup really helped out. But of course I didnt smoke it while I was bawling my eyes out. I was at a point where I knew it had to be done and it was time to come to terms.
Edited by JacksonMetaller (09/21/13 09:42 AM)
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Universe
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I had a highschool sweetheart. We were together all through my junior and senior years. She was a grade below me. We were really in love, we had a mock-engagement. I got her a cheap ring and we never set a date. During those years I was really into tripping. Then I went away to college and we fell apart.
She basically led me on and dumped me at the same time. It really sucked. I did a lot of tripping as it all went down and it left a huge impression on me, emotionally. I was really in love with her and when I tripped, I'd analyze the whole thing from every angle. The memories of when things were good, the fights we had, the way she acted towards me while our relationship fell apart, and then how much I missed her now that she was gone. I think those late nights tripping and thinking of her burned the impression of her into my soul even more than the time we spent together. Maybe too much.
This all went down 30 years ago. Since then I married someone else, had kids, got old.. but all along, my feelings for her never went away, they faded into the distance but I can call up memories like they happened yesterday. I think of her every single day, many times. I wonder if it's because the 17-19 year old me is still in love with her, or it's because of all the tripping, it fucked with my emotions. I wonder - without the psychedelics during that fragile time, would it have been easier to get over her?
We didn't talk for almost 30 years until she wrote to me on Facebook. Right when I thought she faded from my life, she came back in and now I'm more obsessed with her than I was. We write long messages back and fourth ever week or two and I always look forward to hearing from her... I check my email 20 times a day looking for her reply and when she writes, I do the happy dance and I spend way too much time carefully crafting my next message. Now she tells me that she hates her husband, she regrets hurting me, and she hopes we can meet again one day. She's the most beautiful woman I was ever with and she still looks great.. I'm so fucked. it's a good thing for my marriage that she lives 1,000 miles away. Someone needs to design a drug that helps you get over someone..
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Re: Tripping during a breakup [Re: Universe]
#18871519 - 09/21/13 10:40 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Universe said: I had a highschool sweetheart. We were together all through my junior and senior years. She was a grade below me. We were really in love, we had a mock-engagement. I got her a cheap ring and we never set a date. During those years I was really into tripping. Then I went away to college and we fell apart.
She basically led me on and dumped me at the same time. It really sucked. I did a lot of tripping as it all went down and it left a huge impression on me, emotionally. I was really in love with her and when I tripped, I'd analyze the whole thing from every angle. The memories of when things were good, the fights we had, the way she acted towards me while our relationship fell apart, and then how much I missed her now that she was gone. I think those late nights tripping and thinking of her burned the impression of her into my soul even more than the time we spent together. Maybe too much.
This all went down 30 years ago. Since then I married someone else, had kids, got old.. but all along, my feelings for her never went away, they faded into the distance but I can call up memories like they happened yesterday. I think of her every single day, many times. I wonder if it's because the 17-19 year old me is still in love with her, or it's because of all the tripping, it fucked with my emotions. I wonder - without the psychedelics during that fragile time, would it have been easier to get over her?
We didn't talk for almost 30 years until she wrote to me on Facebook. Right when I thought she faded from my life, she came back in and now I'm more obsessed with her than I was. We write long messages back and fourth ever week or two and I always look forward to hearing from her... I check my email 20 times a day looking for her reply and when she writes, I do the happy dance and I spend way too much time carefully crafting my next message. Now she tells me that she hates her husband, she regrets hurting me, and she hopes we can meet again one day. She's the most beautiful woman I was ever with and she still looks great.. I'm so fucked. it's a good thing for my marriage that she lives 1,000 miles away. Someone needs to design a drug that helps you get over someone..
forget me nows can work... depending on the situation. But i think that's an interesting point, a drug to help us forget. I can see many a time it could be useful.
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