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Dakotaap0



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How to deal with incest?
#18867859 - 09/20/13 01:50 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Ok so I moved back home from college about two months ago to help be a full time care giver for my grandfather who had a stroke. I love being around him and taking him to therapy, however I have a HUGE issue with my grandmother. My grandma has always been a little touchie feelie and I'm a very introverted guy. It's always kind of creeped me out the way she touches my leg and tells me how sexy I look but since my grandpa's stroke things have gotten worse. Every day when she sees me I end up getting cornered into some form of inappropriate physical contact whether it's her running my hand way up my thigh or rubbing my neck, along with other inappropriate questions about my sex life. I've told my family before and they've told her that I like my personal space but that just seems to antagonize her to the point of ramping things up even more because she knows it bugs me. I really want to be there for my family to help out with my grandpa and I really enjoy the extra time I get to spend with him but this is becoming too much to handle on a daily basis. Does anyone on here have any ideas with how I could attack this problem?? Thanks for all your help and Happy Tripping 
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Re: How to deal with incest? [Re: Dakotaap0] 1
#18867913 - 09/20/13 02:05 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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wow that's really weird i'd be like
"grandma stop fucking trying to molest me"
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Re: How to deal with incest? [Re: Sheekle]
#18867964 - 09/20/13 02:17 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Have you asked her to stop?
If you have, you should lightly slap her hand just before she goes in to grope your ass.
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Dakotaap0



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Yeah it's really strange. My dad and I spent the afternoon trying to make sense of it Froidian style. I have and she just laughs and says to get over it.
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Re: How to deal with incest? [Re: Dakotaap0] 1
#18868303 - 09/20/13 03:46 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Dakotaap0 said: I have and she just laughs and says to get over it.
WOW!
That's kind of funny, sad, and creepy at the same time dude!
Maybe she just stopped caring about what people think?
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Dakotaap0



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I guess so. Yeah it's caused a lot of issues for me growing up, kinda reminded me why I moved away the first time. Lol I guess it's better to laugh about it than cry, just needed to vent a little.
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Re: How to deal with incest? [Re: Dakotaap0] 2
#18868386 - 09/20/13 04:03 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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tell her you're gay?
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Re: How to deal with incest? [Re: urbannerd]
#18868399 - 09/20/13 04:05 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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dawg wtf? of all people your grandma? you sure she doesn't have dementia or something. It's just totally out there for a Women to do such things let alone a grandmother!
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Re: How to deal with incest? [Re: Gorlax]
#18868483 - 09/20/13 04:24 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Re: How to deal with incest? [Re: psyconaught]
#18869542 - 09/20/13 08:43 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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pay a hooker to be your girlfriend for a day trick that saggy old bitch haha just kidding my advice to you is drink away your problems? actually dont do the either
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Dakotaap0



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Re: How to deal with incest? [Re: kinkaku]
#18873702 - 09/21/13 08:24 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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She's always been weird like that but I think its getting worse is a combination of her dementia and lack of sex due to my grandfather's paralysis. Lol trying not to give her any gay fantasies. The crying idea isn't bad haha it's just hard to vent about without making my mother totally decompinsate or creeping out people so I keep most of it repressed. Drinking it away didn't help the first time I tried it before things got bad so I don't think it'll help now. Thanks for the advice anyway I just needed someone else's perspective on this
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Re: How to deal with incest? [Re: Dakotaap0]
#18873974 - 09/21/13 09:38 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Raise your voice, let her know it's not okay
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psyconaught
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keep your pimp hand strong!
all joking aside though i have absolutely do idea what to say. I can't even imagine that happening to me
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Re: How to deal with incest? [Re: psyconaught]
#18875139 - 09/22/13 09:15 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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'Oh Grandma, what big hands you have' 'All the better to embrace you with, my dear.'
A personal defense system i pull up sometimes, when someone makes me feel uncomfortable, i do something outrages that makes them feel even more uncomfortable. It's hard to do but they never expect it and back away quick smart (at least in my few times i've had to use it). Tell your grandma not to touch you like that. Then proceed to tell her how a girl you used to see used to always touch you like that when she wanted to get some. For bonus points, continue to describe something dirty, like how she always liked you to finish off by exploding in her arshole. The best part is, once she gives you the horrid look; smile back and say, gotcha, and laugh. She'll laugh too, but now the thought's there, it'll make her feel uncomfortable in the future; just in case there was some truth in it... Or if she really does want you, (which i doubt) she'll get worse; in which case you need to be crystal clear with her about your disinterest.
For the record, if she has roots in a different culture, such as the French or Italian, then that is why she's like it, and you just need to relax, and embrace it; it means nothing.
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Re: How to deal with incest? [Re: Magenta]
#18875249 - 09/22/13 09:55 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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French or Italian?
Since when do French or Italian people have sexually deviant dirty grandmas?
Edited by Into The Woods (09/22/13 09:57 AM)
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Yeah, if she has dementia then it probably will only get worse. Start farting in front of her? Make an ad for her on plenty of fish? Buy her a vibrator? DSHSB?
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Quote:
Into The Woods said: French or Italian?
Since when do French or Italian people have sexually deviant dirty grandmas? 
I meant that they have a much more touchy feely culture and the op may be reading too much into it.
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Re: How to deal with incest? [Re: Magenta]
#18877275 - 09/22/13 06:29 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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knightron said:
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Into The Woods said: French or Italian?
Since when do French or Italian people have sexually deviant dirty grandmas? 
I meant that they have a much more touchy feely culture and the op may be reading too much into it.
true I'm french and my mom and grandparents used to make me kiss them on the lips up untill a few years ago.
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Re: How to deal with incest? [Re: kinkaku]
#18879002 - 09/23/13 01:45 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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My daddy says I French kiss best.
Seriously, OP, you need to get your grandmother into a retirement community. Apparently, there is a lot of casual sex gong on in those places.
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Dakotaap0



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Re: How to deal with incest? [Re: koods]
#18896074 - 09/26/13 09:19 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yeah shes Polish. I'm just sucking it up, shes not going to be around for much longer...
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