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Re: let me run this by the pub (opinions on home situation) [Re: st1llnox] * 3
    #18865321 - 09/19/13 09:42 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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if this isn't a first world problem I don't know what is.




How about being addicted to cough syrup?

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Re: let me run this by the pub (opinions on home situation) [Re: st1llnox]
    #18865325 - 09/19/13 09:43 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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did the OP ever answer if he had a job or paid for bills and or groceries?

OP, do you help around the house at all?




Ugh :facepalm:



deleterious human interaction with random inanity.




I guess that means no contributions by OP in thesaurus speak...:begger: . . . :peace:




what? :lol:
EDIT: oh, you want an answer. no, i don't have any money. so i don't pay for the good old Walmart steaks. i do however help around the house; as if that is supposed to entail that i should get a free meal, but never really thinking about it, because to think about it like that would be fucking moronic bullshit. but yeah... pretty much, like i said, deleterious human inanity. you think something is owed to you because you've provided for someone. NOT. that's fucking stupid.

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I may be drinking on top of a prescription tranquilizer, but DAAYUMN SON... if this isn't a first world problem I don't know what is.



i hope you're not saying it's MY problem. the point of this thread was to show how first world fucked my parents.

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Absolutely. Everyone needs to be out at some point or another.
When it reaches steak-fights, chances are that it is now that time.



:lol: chances are, that's the situation.

PS: in case anyone wants to read and respond to this shite. case and point. there was still steaks in the fridge; and A: the parents knew about that B: they aren't adverse to defrosting steak in the microwave, because they do it all the time, so timing and effectiveness of "Steak" isn't really an issue, and C: they still chose to erupt on me over a non-issue.

are my parents fucked or is this absolutely something they should have done? and why. go!

chances are nobody is gonna care about this garbage, so i'm just gonna go sulk in my carhole. :sad:


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Re: let me run this by the pub (opinions on home situation) [Re: akira_akuma]
    #18866924 - 09/20/13 09:52 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

you sound a bit spoiled and bratty.


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Re: let me run this by the pub (opinions on home situation) [Re: Not Responding]
    #18866930 - 09/20/13 09:54 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

explain. please.

and explain how yelling over a missing steak, when there is still steak to eat, isn't bratty, too. explain that too, if you're so well versed in this subject.

also, keep in mind, before you go judging what you don't know, i was in a tizzy over this seemingly benign circumstances because i had almost gotten into fisticuffs with my step-dad over his raising his voice and getting exasperated over a missing steak... which he still had plenty of. (it was even cooking when this was happening)

go for it. do eet, man, i am waiting for your response. you've bumped this for a reason, brosalem.


HURRY HURRY MY SPOILED ASS CAN'T WAIT ANYMORE.

man, i am starting to lose my faith here. it can't take this long to explain what you meant, in a few sentences... oh well, i'm patient.

EDIT: oh well, seems like you really just wanted to try and bring up bullshit that you can't defend.

PS: this is why i don't post my personal problems on the shroomery. 1: they are retarded problems, and 2: people will take every opportunity to miscomprehend everything, with impunity to being told that they should listen to an explanation that they can base their arguments off of, instead of personalized associations with my member status on said Shroomery forums. :lol:


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Re: let me run this by the pub (opinions on home situation) [Re: akira_akuma] * 1
    #18867274 - 09/20/13 11:31 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Its probably more so about pecking order than anything, in his mind you weren't being respectful.  I obviously don't know if that's the case, but its my opinion based on the limited amount of information I have.  I would suggest trying to be proactive and not let it bother you, older people get set in a certain mindset that might not be driven by logic as much as old habits.


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Re: let me run this by the pub (opinions on home situation) [Re: fapjack]
    #18867307 - 09/20/13 11:39 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

agreed completely. i wanna just drop it, because i'm over it now, but... i have to make some things clear here, make a better picture.

i've been told by my step dad to just do waht he does... he eats some bagel and cream cheese for dinner sometimes, and he's like "that's all i need".

i get told by mommy-kins that "just look in the fridge and find something, scrounge!"; so i do let i was taught, and what do i get for it? yelled at.

another thing, my mom tells me to just "take a steak out the freezer and defrost it, and no need to be picky"; and there wasn't a lack of steak in this case, for anyone. as you can see from the pic, there was two other steaks left in the fridge (enough for the whole family!1) and all she had to do was follow her own discourse. instead they had it in their minds to just get pissed at me.

me and my family have been through this before and I THOUGHT things had changed. they apparently haven't, because one little moment of disregard, over something as silly as leaving only one thawed steak in the fridge, sends them off the rails.

i know it's their home, and they're adults and lalala... doesn't mean you can act like a child and be right about it, just because it's YOUR STUFF. that's asinine. if i had ACTUALLY done something wrong, my attitude would be different.

in this case though, it wasn't like i did anything wrong... i just made a simple error in calculation. hell, it's not like they didn't check the freezer or fridge the day before, when i had nothing to eat but (what was it again?) noodles and... shit, i think that was it... for the whole day. :facepalm:

talk about inane, A_A.


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Re: let me run this by the pub (opinions on home situation) [Re: akira_akuma] * 2
    #18867326 - 09/20/13 11:46 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

It might just be him taking his stress out on you, being an adult blows.  You can try talking about it to him again when he's in a good mood to see why he acted that way.


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Re: let me run this by the pub (opinions on home situation) [Re: fapjack]
    #18867333 - 09/20/13 11:47 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

solid advise. it won't work, because he distant as fuck. but nonetheless i'm probably gonna try to come to better understanding of how to handle that shitty stress. i predict, that he will be exerting more stress on me, in the future, so best be prepared.


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Re: let me run this by the pub (opinions on home situation) [Re: akira_akuma]
    #18867373 - 09/20/13 11:59 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

3 pages of complaints about someone complaining...no offense op but you need to start working towards getting your own place. It's not an insult but you're in a situation that causes you umecessary stress. By this point, you've focused on that one steak more than your parents.


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Re: let me run this by the pub (opinions on home situation) [Re: akira_akuma]
    #18867385 - 09/20/13 12:03 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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akira_akuma said:
solid advise. it won't work, because he distant as fuck. but nonetheless i'm probably gonna try to come to better understanding of how to handle that shitty stress. i predict, that he will be exerting more stress on me, in the future, so best be prepared.




Come home with a case of beer and try to get drunk with him, I don't know him but usually people are a lot more honest when they are drunk.  If he watches football its a lot easier to do this.


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Re: let me run this by the pub (opinions on home situation) [Re: fapjack]
    #18867388 - 09/20/13 12:05 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

you're right about that, but the steak is goddamn metaphor. it's really about how shiste my parents are at reserving their emotions over trivial things. i'm a helper. plus, so you know poster i've nevr noticed before, i rarely post threads, so don't complain about complaints about complaining in my one off thread of shit; it's not even usual for me. but other then that, thanks for your reply. i'm confident you're correct in your observation.
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solid advise. it won't work, because he distant as fuck. but nonetheless i'm probably gonna try to come to better understanding of how to handle that shitty stress. i predict, that he will be exerting more stress on me, in the future, so best be prepared.




Come home with a case of beer and try to get drunk with him, I don't know him but usually people are a lot more honest when they are drunk.  If he watches football its a lot easier to do this.



he can't drink, he's diabetic. (LOL now shit all over me for that one, yes, he's DIABETIC.)


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Re: let me run this by the pub (opinions on home situation) [Re: akira_akuma]
    #18867391 - 09/20/13 12:07 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Move out on your own.  Problem solved, OP.


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Re: let me run this by the pub (opinions on home situation) [Re: mpd]
    #18867394 - 09/20/13 12:08 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

wow, so lets discuss that. or not? dude, i know i have to move out. :lol: isn't that the most typical thing anyone would say. this isn't about me, it's about my parents upheaval over a steak.


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Re: let me run this by the pub (opinions on home situation) [Re: akira_akuma]
    #18867425 - 09/20/13 12:17 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

But these issues disappear when you get your own place....then you can eat all the steak you want! Unless your roomate sucks...but that's another story. May I ask how old you are? Your rents could be getting a little anxious that you're still in the nest. Even some of the coolest rents I know are always a little anxious about their kids being able to provide for themselves.


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Re: let me run this by the pub (opinions on home situation) [Re: akira_akuma]
    #18867431 - 09/20/13 12:18 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

I get pissed at my roommates when they eat my shit.  Fuckers never learn.

I don't think id ever get mad at a family member over eating my food though.

Who eats steak everyday anyways?


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Re: let me run this by the pub (opinions on home situation) [Re: akira_akuma]
    #18867451 - 09/20/13 12:25 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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explain. please.

and explain how yelling over a missing steak, when there is still steak to eat, isn't bratty, too. explain that too, if you're so well versed in this subject.

also, keep in mind, before you go judging what you don't know, i was in a tizzy over this seemingly benign circumstances because i had almost gotten into fisticuffs with my step-dad over his raising his voice and getting exasperated over a missing steak... which he still had plenty of. (it was even cooking when this was happening)

go for it. do eet, man, i am waiting for your response. you've bumped this for a reason, brosalem.


HURRY HURRY MY SPOILED ASS CAN'T WAIT ANYMORE.

man, i am starting to lose my faith here. it can't take this long to explain what you meant, in a few sentences... oh well, i'm patient.

EDIT: oh well, seems like you really just wanted to try and bring up bullshit that you can't defend.

PS: this is why i don't post my personal problems on the shroomery. 1: they are retarded problems, and 2: people will take every opportunity to miscomprehend everything, with impunity to being told that they should listen to an explanation that they can base their arguments off of, instead of personalized associations with my member status on said Shroomery forums. :lol:




normally you have to post then wait for a response. not sure how i can comment while you type before even posting...

anyway

your step dad got mad cause you ate some food that he was expecting to be there and instead of understanding why he is upset, you complain. you also tried getting smart when i asked if you helped out around the house or if you just sat around day and night not doing shit.

you not contributing + eating his steak = fight

i agree with everyone else. if you dont like it, get your own place.


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Re: let me run this by the pub (opinions on home situation) [Re: Shining Cosmos]
    #18867455 - 09/20/13 12:26 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

well, if that was the case, they surely didn't make that very clear. :lol:

i don't buy the whole "provide for yourself scaredom", if i can get a job and make some money, i can find some place to live. it's not like any of my parents are parent of the year or anything, you know... they can't expect me to just up and head out into the world and hustle major bank and a stupendous job, with location location location on my mind, when i couldn't even get good grades in school. so they shouldn't even worry. really what it is is they're conditioned to think that they "need to worry" and since i've told them many times over how they shouldn't, they are seemingly finding less and less reason to have THAT be the reason. i haven't heard any "provide for" disclaimers for a long while now. perhaps they just hate me being there, but it's not like i'm taking up much space or food. ok, i could help with paying rent... but not by much though, considering we just moved to new house and i couldn't make a dent in the mortgage; so that's like their job. pay for food, maybe? sure, but i abstain from eating too much of their food, and really alot more food ends up being wasted in this house then ends up being eaten by me, and that's THEIR FAULT. hell, if i had the grocery plan, i could make straight ahead, scrumptious meals for less then they probably spend on their packs of steaks. (but then again, i supposed i'd have to proof that to them.)

i actually don't do anything in their home but maybe hang in my room, listen to music, and use the internet. i should pay for my internet? well, ok, i'll pay a made-up fee, to the extent that I use the internet for... sure, that sounds sensible.

none of this has been made any mention, though. it's just this one off event for now, long time coming, from being cool with them for so long, so far. until yesterday. :lol:


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Re: let me run this by the pub (opinions on home situation) [Re: Not Responding]
    #18867488 - 09/20/13 12:33 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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explain. please.

and explain how yelling over a missing steak, when there is still steak to eat, isn't bratty, too. explain that too, if you're so well versed in this subject.

also, keep in mind, before you go judging what you don't know, i was in a tizzy over this seemingly benign circumstances because i had almost gotten into fisticuffs with my step-dad over his raising his voice and getting exasperated over a missing steak... which he still had plenty of. (it was even cooking when this was happening)

go for it. do eet, man, i am waiting for your response. you've bumped this for a reason, brosalem.


HURRY HURRY MY SPOILED ASS CAN'T WAIT ANYMORE.

man, i am starting to lose my faith here. it can't take this long to explain what you meant, in a few sentences... oh well, i'm patient.

EDIT: oh well, seems like you really just wanted to try and bring up bullshit that you can't defend.

PS: this is why i don't post my personal problems on the shroomery. 1: they are retarded problems, and 2: people will take every opportunity to miscomprehend everything, with impunity to being told that they should listen to an explanation that they can base their arguments off of, instead of personalized associations with my member status on said Shroomery forums. :lol:




normally you have to post then wait for a response. not sure how i can comment while you type before even posting...

anyway

your step dad got mad cause you ate some food that he was expecting to be there and instead of understanding why he is upset, you complain. you also tried getting smart when i asked if you helped out around the house or if you just sat around day and night not doing shit.

you not contributing + eating his steak = fight

i agree with everyone else. if you dont like it, get your own place.




A: there were steaks; it was a misconception of what steaks were left thawed, and how my mother USUALLY thaws the steak in the fridge, but alot of times, doesn't and just throws in the microwave. how do you explain this?

B: i never complained to him or my mother. i was asked by my mom why i didn't just defrost a chicken breast instead; and when i tried to give her the reason (because we're usually stocked on steaks, and still was; and i didn't thaw more steaks when i ate them, and my mom usually doesn't even get requested to thaw the steaks, she just thaws them quickly in the microwave, get it?) my step-dad threw into a rage about telling me to be quiet and how "what if i wanted to eat a steak with your mom" which he still could have; if my mom would have just thawed a steak in the microwave in 3 minutes like normally.

seriously, your reasoning holds no water, yet. so can you explain to me, how i A: ate some food that he was expecting to be there and B: instead of understanding why he is upset, complained?

can you really? or are you just spouting off?

PS: i do cleaning, floors, windows, and dishes, and my laundry. sometimes cook for my lovely fam-jams. what else should i do?


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Re: let me run this by the pub (opinions on home situation) [Re: akira_akuma]
    #18867528 - 09/20/13 12:38 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

It's all about the attitude. You seem a little too defensive about things. It seems like you feel a little entitlement to be cared for. I'm guessing you're close to 20 years old. Your parents are probably worried about you being "a productive member of society"...it's all bs but you still need to have survival skills. What would you do if they died? Would you starve?

I think that's where your rents are coming from. Maybe you should find a job. Start saving money for a car or getting your own place, or chipping in with some expenses. You might be able to ease the vibe by showing them that you are taking steps in the 'right' direction. I'm going through a similar situation and that's how I'm solving the problem.


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Re: let me run this by the pub (opinions on home situation) [Re: Shining Cosmos]
    #18867541 - 09/20/13 12:41 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

damn you and flawless logic. i am gonna be looking into (of all places!!@!@!) a smoke shop in town, try and get some work there. :yesnod: place sells all sorts of neato stuff, i'd love to sell.


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