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Anonymous #1
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Urge to hurt small animals 1
#18867057 - 09/20/13 10:30 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Let me first say, I've never really acted on this urge.
It just kinda freaks me out when I see pictures of helpless kittens or dogs and all I want to do is pin them down and listen to them struggle.
I would never do it to my own pets, because I know them. But random helpless animals almost make me angry inside. I dunno what to do with these feelings, other than not share them with close friends of course
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Anonymous #2
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That's messed up man.
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It just kinda freaks me out when I see pictures of helpless kittens or dogs and all I want to do is pin them down and listen to them struggle. Quote:
That makes me want to hold you down and hurt you just to hear you struggle.
go see a psychiatrist.
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Anonymous #3
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animal cruelty is part of the serial killer trio. def talk to somebody if you'd prefer not to act on these.
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Anonymous #4
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There was a guy out here who would go snatch peoples cats for no reason and kill them. He was caught on camera.
That's really sad. Killing basically someones family member for what? I bet you'd kill a small child, too.
Sick fuck. Burn in hell.
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Anonymous #1
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you'd all condemn me even though I've never acted on it?
sweet. glad I came here with my problems.
It's so easy to say "burn in hell sick fuck," just because you don't understand.
Edited by Anonymous (09/20/13 11:19 AM)
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Anonymous #5
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See a therapist. Express yourself. Don't bottle it up. Create accountability.
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous #5 said: See a therapist. Express yourself. Don't bottle it up.
now theres a constructive response. I'm considering it.
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Anonymous #1
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I'm thinking maybe there is something Darwinian about it. there's definitely some incredibly interesting psychological issue at the center of this.
Or just close your mind to new information because i can "go to hell," since you guys have nothing new to learn apparently.
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Anonymous #6
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I have the same problem, it runs in my family evidently, because both of my brothers both have it as well. I dunno what it is, just a weird urge. Recognizing it is the healthy thing to do, the unhealthy thing to do would be to just pretend like it isn't there. Just because you have urges doesn't mean you have to act on them. I have all kinds of weird urges, like when I'm using a power saw I'll have the urge to touch the blade while it's moving.. It used to bother me, but it doesn't so much anymore. It's just one of my many idiosyncrasies.
I don't really have any advice to give you (that you haven't gotten already: see a therapist) just wanted you to know you're not alone I guess. Just ignore the people who are getting all irate about it, it's the sign of a weak human mind to just get angry at what you can't/don't understand. Not worth worrying about.
I bet they're all homophobes who get mad at gay people and go scream at gay people's funerals. (Generalizations are fun, aren't they?)
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous #6 said: I have the same problem, it runs in my family evidently, because both of my brothers both have it as well. I dunno what it is, just a weird urge. Recognizing it is the healthy thing to do, the unhealthy thing to do would be to just pretend like it isn't there. Just because you have urges doesn't mean you have to act on them. I have all kinds of weird urges, like when I'm using a power saw I'll have the urge to touch the blade while it's moving.. It used to bother me, but it doesn't so much anymore. It's just one of my many idiosyncrasies.
I don't really have any advice to give you, just wanted you to know you're not alone I guess. Just ignore the people who are getting all irate about it, it's the sign of a weak human mind to just get angry at what you can't/don't understand. Not worth worrying about.
I bet they're all homophobes who get mad at gay people and go scream at gay people's funerals. (Generalizations are fun, aren't they?)
they are. Just one person seeing it a different way helped me immensely. I'll be much more likely to talk to the right people about it when people are supportive and helpful like you 
generalizations ARE fun
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Anonymous #7
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Re: Urge to hurt small animals *DELETED* [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18867343 - 09/20/13 11:49 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Post deleted by AnonymousReason for deletion: Not something I agree with, really.
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Anonymous #2
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No need to get butt hurt op. most everyone has told you to see a psychiatrist.
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Anonymous #9
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Re: Urge to hurt small animals [Re: Anonymous #1] 3
#18868216 - 09/20/13 03:23 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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just remember harry's code dude.
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Anonymous #4
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Sorry op I just really love animals
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Anonymous #10
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May I ask, were you abused as child? The reason I ask is because someone I know was, severely. He went on to torture small animals and ended up in the slammer for an atrocious crime against a woman.
It's the whole nature vs. nurture thing.
Please do seek professional help though OP!!
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous #2 said: No need to get butt hurt op. most everyone has told you to see a psychiatrist.
i don't remember getting butthurt. I defended my position in a rational way. 

I was abused as a kid but in a non-conventional way. More verbal punishments, and being isolated OFTEN. (if you can even call that abuse, I just am right now for simplicity)
I'm the result of stewing in my own thoughts for 20 some years. So talking to you people can really help me
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Anonymous #11
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Anonymous #9 said: just remember harry's code dude.
Ahaha.
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous #9 said: just remember harry's code dude.
Ahaha.
idk what that is?
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Anonymous #6
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Dexter.
Harry's code is a set of rules that allow Dexter to be a serial killer and avoid the morality issues Harry had with him killing people and to keep Dexter from getting caught.
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Anonymous #10
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Anonymous #2 said: No need to get butt hurt op. most everyone has told you to see a psychiatrist.
i don't remember getting butthurt. I defended my position in a rational way. 

I was abused as a kid but in a non-conventional way. More verbal punishments, and being isolated OFTEN. (if you can even call that abuse, I just am right now for simplicity)
I'm the result of stewing in my own thoughts for 20 some years. So talking to you people can really help me
I'd definitely call verbal abuse abuse. In fact, it can be more hurtful than physical abuse and the harm longer lasting. At least that has been my experience as I have suffered both as well.
Keep talking about this to whoever you choose, just keep talking. I think you are less likely to act on this if you are open and honest about it.
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Anonymous #12
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The act of seeing a HELPLESS animal whine and cry in pain is a symptom of being a BITCH.
Your entire life you've been shit on and nobody gives a fuck about you. You're always the person who nobody lets win or pick on because you're an easy target. You can't express your own ideas with authority and you fear retribution from those that hurt you.
So what do you do? You see something like a helpless animal that is weaker than you (inferiority complex). You do this because it's the only thing you can stick up to because it's weaker than you are just like when you are around others.
After a while, you will HAVE to act on this urge and it'll start simple. Just small torture of animals and you will be begin to feel power. Something you have never felt in your life before. Now that you start feeling power, you will begin to get confident and finally be able to move to humans. You will "get back at the world" by killing random people until finally one day you die or get caught.
Go see a therapist....
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Anonymous #6
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No after awhile you don't have to act on the urge.. That's just nonsense.
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Anonymous #13
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Yeah it a key component in the serial killer mentality. I would go see someone asap. I can barely even handle seeing a dead kitten let alone causing it.
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Anonymous #14
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Re: Urge to hurt small animals *DELETED* [Re: Anonymous #13] 1
#18881837 - 09/23/13 07:11 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous #14 said: OP: I occasionally have thoughts like this.
There's a book, "Imp of the mind" all about this. This obsessive thought takes many forms and I think it's pretty common.
Have you ever had the thought like "well what would happen if I just jerked the wheel of my car to the right and slammed into that telephone pole?". I sure have, a billion times. But I haven't hit a telephone pole yet.
Often times I'd get the urge to punch my boss in the face. Unfortunately I never did this, cause he sure was a prick.
I've also had rape fantasies at times.
I've had a few cats and I absolutely loved them. I still love cats, and nothing cuts to my core deeper than seeing a dead cat on the road. Seeing a dead cat makes me deeply emotional and sometimes I'll think about it the whole day after seeing it.
But at the same time, on occasion I'll get the thought that I should snuff out or otherwise harm a cat. I think how it would sound for the cat to struggle.
I have never acted on this, and don't think I'm a sociopath. I think thoughts like these are well within the range of human thought. I just see it as a circus in my mind - the human brain thinks tens of thousands of thoughts in a day.
I'd seek help if it is causing a lot of distress for you. I'm gonna say, you're not a psychopath if you recognize these impulses as bad, and don't have trouble stopping yourself from acting.
that makes a lot more sense that what most people said. I get all of that, except the crashing car one. Used to though
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Anonymous #15
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#1, do you use hard drugs?
Edited by Anonymous (09/24/13 09:53 PM)
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Anonymous #16
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Every single time I see a Chihuahua or similar "artificially created abomination" whose owner calls it a dog, I would absolutely love to stomp the fuck out of it. I hate these little bulging eyed, yapping, pissing little fucks. They fucking deserve to die.
As for your desire to kill small animals, it is totally natural. It is a basic primordial instinct found in most predatory species. You probably would have been some type of hunter in a hunter/gatherer population prior to "civilized" society taking over. And by civilized I mean those that abhor hunters and those that kill. All the while eating their steaks, bacon, walking with leather shoes, handbags and purses, and of course using medications, and cosmetics that were tested on small animals which were often tortured for years to test their products.
Of course that is different. Out of sight out of mind.
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Anonymous #2
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There is a difference in killing for necessity, hunters, and just having the urge to kill small hellpless animals is a bad sign
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Anonymous #16
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Native Americans used to injure birds rendering them unable to fly and let their children "play" with them. Of course they played with them until they quit moving.
Who can walk past a car with a little yapping chihuahua in it and NOT want to smack the hell out of it?
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Anonymous #2
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Smacking the hell out of it and holding it down and hurting it just to hear it cry and enjoying it is a very unhealthy mental problem.
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Anonymous #10
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Who can walk past a car with a little yapping chihuahua in it and NOT want to smack the hell out of it?
I don't want to smack the chihuahua. I want to smack the stupid fucking owners for buying the damn little ankle nippers, thus, perpetuating the breeding of these vile little creatures.
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Anonymous #12
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Anonymous #16 said: Native Americans used to injure birds rendering them unable to fly and let their children "play" with them. Of course they played with them until they quit moving.
Who can walk past a car with a little yapping chihuahua in it and NOT want to smack the hell out of it?
Where did you get that one? A white person's history book trying to portray Native Americans as vile beings? BITCH PLEASE 
There's a difference between killing for necessity and killing for pleasure. Killing for necessity is a NATURAL process required for predatory species to acquire energy. Killing for pleasure is a process only found in deranged humans who have severely underdeveloped cerebral hemispheres of the brain. So basically killing for pleasure is form of mental retardation because the brain can't control its own outlandish desires.
That's like saying "The bear attacked the man because he was in the mood for killing and seeing the man suffer under his enormous ego!" UMMM no. The bear attacked the man because he was most likely in the mood of hunger. Have you ever been so hungry that you would be willing to eat out of your comfort zone. Let's say you really enjoy chinese food but absolutely hate mexican food. Let's say you've been starved for 10 days and all of a sudden, a huge whopping entree of mexican food is presented to you. You eat it so fast and aggressively it almost looks like you're an animal in the process. There's an anology that you'll hopefully understand but since your brain is underdeveloped and likes to act on ego issues (yes, the desire to kill and attack is an ego/identity issue; the abused turns into the abuser in most cases of family violence), you most likely won't get the logic.
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Anonymous #6
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Dolphins have been shown to kill animals not for eating or protecting their territory. Humans are not he only species to kill for fun, much less the "deranged ones"..
And no I'm not saying that makes it okay for humans to do it just for the record. Just pointing out the fallacy in your post.
Edited by Anonymous (09/25/13 04:26 PM)
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Anonymous #18
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op, do you drink? i use to have that problem if my parents stressed me out when i was drinking(which was every day) now i only drink, alot less at a time and only on occasion, specially away from anyone that might yell/snap at me, and problem solved no weird thoughts
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Anonymous #19
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If someone came to me talking about an urge to hurt small animals, my first suggestion would be to try psychedelics. I've always felt that psychedelics causes a type of thought process that would kill any urge to bring harm to anything or anyone. I mean, I've tripped and felt intense compassion for intimate objects. Well... since it's being posted in this forum, I guess I must be wrong.
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Anonymous #18
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i think psychedelics would help when your on them, the comedown the next day might leave them worse off though
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Anonymous #20
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OP, are you mellowparty?
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Anonymous #5
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mellowparty seems fucked enough for it.
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Anonymous #21
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i usually dont participate in finding solutions to ones problem on this forum since i belive i wouldnt do much diffrence without having an open conversation with a person. but since u are getting very shitty answers ill tell u my opinion. i read some books meant for therapists so i got the general idea about aproach to problems like this.
1. therapist is good thing, LOTS of people should talk to one, nothing to be ashamed of. IMO it isnt easy to find good one, i personally would look for someone with transactional analysis education.
2. the best answer you got yet was from mister #14. i find myself having impulses like the ones he decsribed too. i do sometimes look at my parents dog and i have thoughts of harming it but i would never do this. very common reaction to an impulse like that is fear. (i use word "impulse" and not urge, i think its more adequate as term and word "urge" has some mystical buff; "one has too control his urges or he is nothing but an animal" and stuff like this.) as i was saying, when you realize what an impulse you just had common reaction is some form of frustration, usually fear (u are emotional about your emotions). panicking after having impulse isnt good since you become even more stressed. more frustrating emotions at the same time can combine and than your mood can get very affected - vicious circle.
3. IT IS VERY IMPORTANT TO UNDERSTAND THAT EVERY EMOTION IS RATIONAL. there is no irrational emotion/impulse . dont get me wrong, in you case u wanting to harm you cat is very bad and yet your thinking has its logic. everything does. if you figure out the logic why you wish to harm small animals, you can "eventually" stop haveing impulses like this. but before everything else, you really have to understand WHY this is happening. it could be because of bad experience in the past (like some people mentioned) but i wouldnt really count on it, this explanation is too stereotypical).
4. human mind is complex and it stores many information (just think about how many informations you are receiving at the moment, all your senses are giving information to your brain and most of them you will never be aware of). this is why terapist is good because there are many possible reasons for you impulses and the can be identified mostly through talking.
5. and yeah, google OCD. i belive people with ocd think like op or #14 (or me for that matter). but ocd is phase where you have much less control over the impulses, so i wouldnt say we have ocd.
6. some people fear that they can loose control to their impulses. this is not true. but beliving in something like this makes it more possible to really lose control.
7. if you are interested in psychology, i recommend transactional analysis.
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Anonymous #21
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ah yes and one last thing, someone earlier i think metioned eating psychedelics could help you with your problem. i strongly disagree with this, it could actually make it worse. unless you know exactly what your doing.
and ye, no offense, but #12 is telling only bullshit. he doesnt really understand you to begin with. i wouldnt give much on what he says.
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Anonymous #21 said: ah yes and one last thing, someone earlier i think metioned eating psychedelics could help you with your problem. i strongly disagree with this, it could actually make it worse. unless you know exactly what your doing.
and ye, no offense, but #12 is telling only bullshit. he doesnt really understand you to begin with. i wouldnt give much on what he says.
I agree..some weirdos are bound to go nuts on mushrooms and actualy get violent due to them.
And no, I do not drink. No I am not that guy you mentioned, I'm relatively new here.
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Anonymous #5
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Are you a wizard?!
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Anonymous #20
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Wizards don't hurt small animals; they DESTROY them!!!
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Anonymous #5
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So you're not the guy with the wizard avatar and sig? Schmeckle or w/e
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Anonymous #1
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Hey guys. OP here.
So, I was alone with my friends small dog for the first time ever today. The one that really made me realize how much I wanted to hurt small animals sometimes.
I had all the time in the world alone with it too. But I didn't hurt it, I kinda wanted to, but then I picked it up, and felt no urge to.
So, I guess we'll see how this progresses now.
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Anonymous #22
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You feel angry.. and not just like laughing? Angryness I would see a therapist for.. if you feel like it is simply enjoyable that it gives you a rush, it is because you have vampireblood.
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Anonymous #23
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Start hunting. Problem solved.
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Anonymous #22 said: You feel angry.. and not just like laughing? Angryness I would see a therapist for.. if you feel like it is simply enjoyable that it gives you a rush, it is because you have vampireblood.
good question.
I think it is more of anger. I don't think I could laugh in the face of an animal i was hurting.
I dunno, its all so weird
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Anonymous #22
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Hunting? Poor animals.. only thing i would recreationaly hunt is humans.. hunt humans.... they bring nothing but suffering..
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Anonymous #22 said: Hunting? Poor animals.. only thing i would recreationaly hunt is humans.. hunt humans.... they bring nothing but suffering..
Could start with you
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Anonymous #22
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I am no human. I am a deity.
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Anonymous #24
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Anonymous #1 said: Let me first say, I've never really acted on this urge.
It just kinda freaks me out when I see pictures of helpless kittens or dogs and all I want to do is pin them down and listen to them struggle.
I would never do it to my own pets, because I know them. But random helpless animals almost make me angry inside. I dunno what to do with these feelings, other than not share them with close friends of course 
Are you saying that you like to feel angry? Seeing random animals in helpless state makes you angry, yet you desire to put random animals into a state of helplessness - so, logically, you desire to feel angry. Why is that?
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Anonymous #20
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Anonymous #24 said: you desire to feel angry. Why is that?
Mummy issues.
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Anonymous #25
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Anonymous #24 said: you desire to feel angry. Why is that?
Mummy issues.
Small penis.
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Anonymous #15
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Anonymous #24 said: you desire to feel angry. Why is that?
Mummy issues.
Small penis.
No penis, it was dismembered in an unfortunate shmelting accident.

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Anonymous #26
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I love animals and I've had that feeling before as well. The only time that stands out in my mind was when I was a kid and I watched Bambi. I liked Thumper, but there were certain shots/scenes of him where I had this intense urge to strangle the life out of him. I was like 4 or 5 maybe? I remember it disturbed me for a second then I just kept watching the movie.
It sounds like an instrusive thought, which is a symptom of OCD. Nothing to worry about but if they bother you or you feel like acting on the urge then you should talk to a professional.
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Anonymous #20
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Anonymous #1 said: Hey guys. OP here.
So, I was alone with my friends small dog for the first time ever today... I didn't hurt it, I kinda wanted to, but then I picked it up, and felt no urge to.
The dog obviously isn't a Pomeranian then.
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Re: Urge to hurt small animals *DELETED* [Re: Anonymous #5]
#19370387 - 01/04/14 09:29 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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Anonymous #27 said: its true u are a sick fuck. i hope someone strangles you the same way you wish to strangle animals. your a sick fuck cause you use little laughing smiley faces with you posts about wanting to kill helpless animals.
You probably didn't read nearly enough of the thread to know this, but these feelings have been resolved.
I was alone with the dog I fantasized about hurting, and I did nothing to it. I just hugged it
I could see where you're coming from though. If I'd never had these feelings before, but heard someone else had them, I might have a similar reaction.
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Anonymous #27 said: its true u are a sick fuck. i hope someone strangles you the same way you wish to strangle animals. your a sick fuck cause you use little laughing smiley faces with you posts about wanting to kill helpless animals.
You probably didn't read nearly enough of the thread to know this, but these feelings have been resolved.
I was alone with the dog I fantasized about hurting, and I did nothing to it. I just hugged it
I could see where you're coming from though. If I'd never had these feelings before, but heard someone else had them, I might have a similar reaction.
If you look at who he was replying to, it was anon #5, come on OP, don't be so self centered. I don't blame them, have you seen what that sick fucker #5 wrote.
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Gee god!!! Enough to make you sick.
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I have an urge to kill all large spiders I find in my house.
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lol; lame
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