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Psilosopherr
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I have a date for the first time in like 2 years
#18863638 - 09/19/13 04:09 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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And I'm pretty fucking excited. But also really nervous. I'm gonna need to right down a bunch of conversation topics so I don't get lost saying nothing.
Anyone have any suggestions? I'm pretty socially retarded so I won't take offense if you say things that seem obvious.
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Re: I have a date for the first time in like 2 years [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18863649 - 09/19/13 04:13 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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ur gonna write down a bunch of conversations? man don't treat it like a job interview, don't even think about it at all.
ur turning it into some like official formal thing just go with the flow like any other day of your life doing anything else
legitimately don't care about the outcome of the date and it will go just fine
I think
I dunno
it could go fine either way
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Re: I have a date for the first time in like 2 years [Re: Sheekle]
#18863655 - 09/19/13 04:14 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Re: I have a date for the first time in like 2 years [Re: Shortknight]
#18863670 - 09/19/13 04:17 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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No dude, do treat it like a job interview! Bring a notebook, hold it so that she can't see, and write down a word or two when she's talking. Also nod and go "hm." or "okay." during. Make her feel like she really really has to impress you.
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Re: I have a date for the first time in like 2 years [Re: Sheekle]
#18863677 - 09/19/13 04:18 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Sheekle said: ur gonna write down a bunch of conversations? man don't treat it like a job interview, don't even think about it at all.
ur turning it into some like official formal thing just go with the flow like any other day of your life doing anything else
legitimately don't care about the outcome of the date and it will go just fine
I think
I dunno
it could go fine either way

I wish I could just do that dude, I really really wish I had the social skills to just make it be that easy. But if I don't prepare at least one or two topics, I am much more likely to just blank out, not have anything to say, and just be awkward as fuck..
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Re: I have a date for the first time in like 2 years [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18863681 - 09/19/13 04:19 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Have fun buddy!
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Re: I have a date for the first time in like 2 years [Re: KremrBigSikter]
#18863686 - 09/19/13 04:19 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Ask her questions, work, family, travels, school, ect. Let her do the talking.
Always have another question ready, it's really not that hard.
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Re: I have a date for the first time in like 2 years [Re: KremrBigSikter]
#18863688 - 09/19/13 04:20 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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KremrBigSikter said: No dude, do treat it like a job interview! Bring a notebook, hold it so that she can't see, and write down a word or two when she's talking. Also nod and go "hm." or "okay." during. Make her feel like she really really has to impress you.
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Re: I have a date for the first time in like 2 years [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18863691 - 09/19/13 04:20 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Just think of a few topics to talk about... don't write out whole conversations though, it's unnecessary and probably won't work out the way you want it too.
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Re: I have a date for the first time in like 2 years [Re: Psilosopherr] 2
#18863696 - 09/19/13 04:21 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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don't molest her
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Re: I have a date for the first time in like 2 years [Re: The5thElement]
#18863706 - 09/19/13 04:23 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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If you start to fumble and have nothing to say just whip your dick out. Not only will their be something to talk about but she will be super impressed with your manly confidence.
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Re: I have a date for the first time in like 2 years [Re: JohnnieYen]
#18863708 - 09/19/13 04:24 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Re: I have a date for the first time in like 2 years [Re: JohnnieYen]
#18863711 - 09/19/13 04:24 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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JohnnieYen said: don't molest her
Once she consents to a date, it's impossible to molest a female, she already agreed.
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Re: I have a date for the first time in like 2 years [Re: Psilosopherr] 1
#18863720 - 09/19/13 04:26 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Make sure you walk on the outside of her.
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Re: I have a date for the first time in like 2 years [Re: JohnnieYen]
#18863722 - 09/19/13 04:27 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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JohnnieYen said: don't molest her
lol, o.p, when on your date just keep saying to yourself in your head
its just a dream, its just a dream
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Re: I have a date for the first time in like 2 years [Re: MystiqueMushroom]
#18863728 - 09/19/13 04:28 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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man I know it's gonna be tough by try to just relax and have the mind set that she's lucky enough to be on a date with you!! not vice versa! ask her about her interests and compliment her. only if she's worthy though!! good luck man!!
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Re: I have a date for the first time in like 2 years [Re: JohnnieYen]
#18863745 - 09/19/13 04:32 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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JohnnieYen said: don't molest her
haha, did you see my other thread from earlier? 
Maybe I need to focus on what not to do or say. I really need to try not to objectify women in any way, and not talk about drugs or how important drugs are to me.
Can't allow myself to look at anything but her face. Can't talk about...alot of things
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Re: I have a date for the first time in like 2 years [Re: the mad machinest] 1
#18863751 - 09/19/13 04:33 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Talk about how you wish they made condoms in an bigger size than magnum because of your whopping dong.
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Re: I have a date for the first time in like 2 years [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18863753 - 09/19/13 04:34 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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rbalzer said: Can't allow myself to look at anything but her face.
You're setting yourself up for friend zone.
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Re: I have a date for the first time in like 2 years [Re: Psilosopherr]
#18863776 - 09/19/13 04:38 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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rbalzer said: And I'm pretty fucking excited. But also really nervous. I'm gonna need to right down a bunch of conversation topics so I don't get lost saying nothing.
Anyone have any suggestions? I'm pretty socially retarded so I won't take offense if you say things that seem obvious.
What are you gonna do if she doesnt follow the script?
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