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fucked my friends ex
#18862727 - 09/19/13 11:59 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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My friend and his ex, we'll call L, broke up a few weeks ago. A few nights ago, I'm hanging out with L & my girlfriend, K (they are best friends), and things get wild. We start painting each other with edible body paint and then start eating the edible body paint off each other and then they are both sucking my dick. I fuck both of them and have a fucking amazing night, as would be expected when you have a threesome with beautiful women.
My friend would be so hurt if he found out. K told me afterward that she & L had been planning for the threesome to happen. Im having mixed feelings right now. I know that I am not without blame, in fact I am very much to be blamed as I am in control of my actions. I am a shithead and Im not trying to opt out of blame. However, both of them premeditated a situation that they know would break my friends heart were he to acquire knowledge. I would not have fucked L if K had not been there instigating the situation as L would not have come onto me nor I her. K has shown a tendency to make sexual decisions regardless of the fact that they will hurt those close to her (she has done so to me countless times).
I feel used in her deviant sexually and emotionally manipulative plots once again... She has a complete disregard for the feelings of others and when I am around her I begin to embody that disregard. Your significant other is supposed to bring out the best in you.. Im beginning to think she is a sociopath and I dont want to be a part of her life any longer...
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Some time in couples therapy might be the ticket to a new relationship with K.
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Your friend broke up with the other girl. Not dating = fair game
This is just coming from personal experience but k sounds like trouble. If your gf is alright with you fking another girl(even with her there), then i doubt its anything that is going to last.
Again I'm just speaking from my personal experiences, but I would lose K before she hurts you, someone else, or both. Also shell probably take all your money when she does leave. Sounds like the kind of girl that would go let someone else bust in her then come and try to fk you too. Crossing dicks is super gross to me lmao
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Chuckfinely said: Your friend broke up with the other girl. Not dating = fair game
Other way around which I think makes it worse.
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I suppose, but in short amount of time he'll realize that its for the best. If she left him then shes obviously no good and at least he got out before she could take everything he owns and turn his friends on him 
Imo, both girls sound like some hoe's. I would get out while you still can, find a girl that likes you and doesn't want to share you with another girl. That's usually a sign that she's a keeper.
If i read your post right k has slept with other people while with you already
maybe 1 in 2 million girls is not going to take all your money and kids, so you really need to be careful with these girls nowadays
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Re: fucked my friends ex [Re: mpd]
#18863125 - 09/19/13 01:38 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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i'd leave K. tahts just me
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Re: fucked my friends ex [Re: memes]
#18863356 - 09/19/13 02:41 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Fuck all the other shit. THREESOME!
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Re: fucked my friends ex [Re: memes]
#18863406 - 09/19/13 03:00 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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youre fucked. if youre young, youre doubley fucked. can you say balls as earrings? insert its a trap meme here.
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So its been a few days. I was planning on going to a show that my friend was going to but I took a bunch of acid earlier in the day and then realized I can't face him and not tell him. Instead I went to party at Ks house. The love is completely gone. She makes me feel really bad about myself. There was a point where she was trying to make out with me and I couldn't help but feel like she is a succubus trying to enslave my soul. So I pulled away and just cuddled with our kittens instead.
I dont want to be in a relationship with this girl anymore but I cant leave her.. Ive tried so many times and she always sucks me back in. I feel like Im stuck in a lifestyle that is corroding my heart and health. I dont see any way out... no matter how much I just want to stop caring about her, something comes up. I used to think I deserved a better life but lately Ive been beginning to doubt that. What the fuck am I supposed to do?
IM LOSING MY FUCKING MIND!
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Well consider yourself lucky. One of my best friends broke up with his girlfriend in the beginning of the year and moved to a new city for college. Thus he was completely out of the picture and she was still hanging out with me and my friends. I have had countless chances to fuck her! She throws herself at me and its bullshit! I can't even do it. if we were completely alone I would fuck her no problem but this is never the case. She is hot too which makes it harder. We have this weird connection now though, which is cool. The only thing that I completely hate is the fact that when I see her do anything with anyone else I get jealous!? I know its the same with her too. fucked up man.. I kinda just want to fuck her and get it over with because I feel like its been a drawn out process....she's even brought up conversations about needing a fuck buddy. haha gawd damnnnnnnnnn
I got some good advice though.. if you keep her as a friend she'll be in your life longer, then just a simple fuck buddy..
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@anon #1:
GET THE FUCK OUT!@!@
It doesn't matter how much she cries, how bad it makes you feel, how many times shes says you'll never find anyone else, or even if you end up losing a couple connections through her; SHE IS DEFINITELY NO GOOD FOR YOU.
To me love and dating is kind of an all or nothing thing. If she makes you feel bad about yourself and you feel hesitant to make out with her then it def wont work out and you're just letting it build and build making it harder and harder. Eventually its going to end and you should do it now because it will only get worse. I ab-so-fucking-lutely guarantee you'll be over it within a week and feel like a free man once again.
@anon #3
She sounds like a slut if she is just throwing herself at you while fucking other guys, not even trying to hide it from you at all but still pretending to get jealous over you? Don't waste your energy on this girl she sounds like trouble and the cheating type.
Find yourself a nice girl that takes at least 10 days to bed and you know is only interested in you
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Anonymous said: So its been a few days. I was planning on going to a show that my friend was going to but I took a bunch of acid earlier in the day and then realized I can't face him and not tell him. Instead I went to party at Ks house. The love is completely gone. She makes me feel really bad about myself. There was a point where she was trying to make out with me and I couldn't help but feel like she is a succubus trying to enslave my soul. So I pulled away and just cuddled with our kittens instead.
I dont want to be in a relationship with this girl anymore but I cant leave her.. Ive tried so many times and she always sucks me back in. I feel like Im stuck in a lifestyle that is corroding my heart and health. I dont see any way out... no matter how much I just want to stop caring about her, something comes up. I used to think I deserved a better life but lately Ive been beginning to doubt that. What the fuck am I supposed to do?
IM LOSING MY FUCKING MIND!
Bro get the fuck out of there, my ex was a fucking energy sucking slut as well. GET THE FUCK OUT
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Neither of you seem to have it that bad 
I fucked my best friends wife after he asked me to (they are supposed to be in an open relationship and he insisted he was ok with it) and now i can see signs of jealousy from him and she said he thinks i will try to steal her from him eventually. Now i have to bail out of the situation and try to salvage my friendship with him before its too late while she still wants to fuck me. And I have to come up with an excuse cuz if i say im out because of his jealousy it will surely lead to them fighting because they are supposed to trust eachother in there "open relationship". They were fighting alot and broke up around a month ago before getting back together in an open relationship so it is a very fragile situation.
I should have said no from the start But i guess this is how you learn these life lessons.
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I fucked my best friends wife after he asked me to (they are supposed to be in an open relationship and he insisted he was ok with it) and now i can see signs of jealousy from him and she said he thinks i will try to steal her from him eventually. Now i have to bail out of the situation and try to salvage my friendship with him before its too late while she still wants to fuck me. And I have to come up with an excuse cuz if i say im out because of his jealousy it will surely lead to them fighting because they are supposed to trust eachother in there "open relationship". They were fighting alot and broke up around a month ago before getting back together in an open relationship so it is a very fragile situation.
I should have said no from the start But i guess this is how you learn these life lessons.
Getting involved in an already unhealthy relationship focused on sex, bad idea
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OP: has threesome, finds some way to feel bad about it. Did these feelings occur before or after they were sucking your dick? Whatever man, in the grand scheme of things this is hardly something to feel bad about. Its not like you were helping her cheat on him. Chalk it up to being young and wild.
From what you describe otherwise it sounds like you aren't happy. So let it go. No amount of pussy is worth being unhappy. She isn't sucking you back in, you're just letting her and your dick control you. Break up. Don't 'take a break' or 'get some space'. End it. No contact. Break. up.
All you have to do is walk away. There will be a better life out there if you man up and find it for yourself.
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I'm 90% sure you made a thread about this, and we told you that would happen.
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Re: fucked my friends ex [Re: Lynnch]
#18875457 - 09/22/13 10:54 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Maybe you should elaborate on the ways that you feel she is using you... aside from just this time i mean. And don't try to read into it while you're on acid, your mind is already stuck on one thought and LSD is going to amplify it
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Chuckfinely said: @anon #1:
GET THE FUCK OUT!@!@
It doesn't matter how much she cries, how bad it makes you feel, how many times shes says you'll never find anyone else, or even if you end up losing a couple connections through her; SHE IS DEFINITELY NO GOOD FOR YOU.
To me love and dating is kind of an all or nothing thing. If she makes you feel bad about yourself and you feel hesitant to make out with her then it def wont work out and you're just letting it build and build making it harder and harder. Eventually its going to end and you should do it now because it will only get worse. I ab-so-fucking-lutely guarantee you'll be over it within a week and feel like a free man once again.
@anon #3
She sounds like a slut if she is just throwing herself at you while fucking other guys, not even trying to hide it from you at all but still pretending to get jealous over you? Don't waste your energy on this girl she sounds like trouble and the cheating type.
Find yourself a nice girl that takes at least 10 days to bed and you know is only interested in you
Not hardly man. She isn't a slut. She is a good friend probably ranks up there with one of my best friends. The reason she even has hooked up with anyone is because I have denied her. Hooking up with one guy in a year isn't a slut move in any way. She is an adult and can do whatever she pleases. Plain and simple. I can't even explain our relationship because it's complicated. I feel like I'd be a dick for fucking my friends ex girlfriend. Now I know he doesn't give a fuck so now I'm pissed I put her in perma friend zone.
Still a good friend though fucking her or not fucking her.
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Chuckfinely said: To me love and dating is kind of an all or nothing thing. If she makes you feel bad about yourself and you feel hesitant to make out with her then it def wont work out and you're just letting it build and build making it harder and harder. Eventually its going to end and you should do it now because it will only get worse. I ab-so-fucking-lutely guarantee you'll be over it within a week and feel like a free man once again.
Find yourself a nice girl that takes at least 10 days to bed and you know is only interested in you
My opinion still is to bail. You say its only 1 guy in a year yet she's the type to throw herself at someone? Yeah you only know of 1 guy is more like it 
All women are whores and if you aren't with them they're probably off with someone else's dick inside them right now. Like i said besides that 1 in 2 million chance every girl is just going to end up sucking the life and money right out of you, especially when she leaves. You shouldn't invest into a relationship too heavily cause some evil succubus will take advantage of it
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Chuckfinely said: All women are whores and if you aren't with them they're probably off with someone else's dick inside them right now. Like i said besides that 1 in 2 million chance every girl is just going to end up sucking the life and money right out of you, especially when she leaves. You shouldn't invest into a relationship too heavily cause some evil succubus will take advantage of it 
Wow. There is so much sexism on this site, and some people are just unbelievable about it. You must have had some bad experiences in your lifetime. Such sweeping generalizations about women it's baffling.
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My advice is to give me K and L's numbers. I'll take them off your hands for you. Sounds like they don't need a bunch of prude pricks making them feel like shit for enjoying dynamite sex.
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Re: fucked my friends ex [Re: TheWiz]
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TheWiz said: My advice is to give me K and L's numbers. I'll take them off your hands for you. Sounds like they don't need a bunch of prude pricks making them feel like shit for enjoying dynamite sex.

Most of the comments in this thread have just come completely out of left field.
OP: "I had a threesome with my girlfriend." Response: "Dump that slutty bitch ass hoe!"
I can't even begin to understand how you come to such a conclusion.
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Re: fucked my friends ex [Re: pwnasaurus]
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Most of the comments in this thread have just come completely out of left field.
OP: "I had a threesome with my girlfriend." Response: "Dump that slutty bitch ass hoe!"
I can't even begin to understand how you come to such a conclusion.
A girl willing to share me obviously doesn't love me. If you loved someone would you let anyone but yourself have sex with them?
threesome's are a pretty slutty thing to do. Not only are there multiple partners involved, but there's multiple partners all at once. Pretty slutty, for both the male and female parties, if you ask me 
And please provide me evidence that males usually end up getting a better settlement in a divorce than the female, and do not have to fight to see their children, let alone get custody. Cause the VAST majority goes in the favor of the female, regardless of how much better a parent the father is
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Chuckfinely said: A girl willing to share me obviously doesn't love me. If you loved someone would you let anyone but yourself have sex with them?
That is not "obvious" to anyone but you. It is entire based on your personal beliefs and views on love and relationships. Would I share my partner? Maybe. I haven't in the past, but I'm not entirely closed off to the idea.
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threesome's are a pretty slutty thing to do. Not only are there multiple partners involved, but there's multiple partners all at once. Pretty slutty, for both the male and female parties, if you ask me 
So you are opposed to group sex - not everybody is. A lot of people don't have a problem being labelled a slut by uptight, closed-minded people like yourself.
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And please provide me evidence that males usually end up getting a better settlement in a divorce than the female, and do not have to fight to see their children, let alone get custody. Cause the VAST majority goes in the favor of the female, regardless of how much better a parent the father is 
This comment is even remotely relevant to the thread.
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Re: fucked my friends ex [Re: pwnasaurus]
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JacksonMetaller said: Maybe you should elaborate on the ways that you feel she is using you... aside from just this time i mean. And don't try to read into it while you're on acid, your mind is already stuck on one thought and LSD is going to amplify it
I dont even know if using me is the right term. She is really manipulative. I broke up with her a while back and she fucked a friend of mine within the week to get back at me. Then, she started throwing herself at one of my best friends telling me how she wants to date him and he falls into the trap because he doesnt get laid ever. It broke my heart because I love her and, because Im a worthless depressed piece of shit, I got back with her instead of doing what is right for me, which is to not have her in my life anymore. She doesnt even give a fuck about him anymore, its like hes not there, so it makes it quite seem like she was just doing that because she knew it would get to me. Ive tried to break up with her a few more times after that and it never lasts. We have the same group of friends and she shows up to all of the events and parties that I play at or attend. Im not in love with her anymore but I do love her so every time she throws herself at me we end up fucking and its back to square one again. The last time that we got back together, I didnt want to break up with her again because I hate seeing her alternating between sad and then trying to do fucked up shit to get to me it really fucks with my head. Now Im feeling really shitty about myself and I dont know how the fuck to do this again, Im so tired of the fucking drama and the bullshit I just want to be comfortable.
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Most of the comments in this thread have just come completely out of left field.
OP: "I had a threesome with my girlfriend." Response: "Dump that slutty bitch ass hoe!"
I can't even begin to understand how you come to such a conclusion.
Its not the threesome that I feel bad about. Weve had threesomes with others of her friends, I fuckin love it. Im all for threesomes, I would even share a girl of mine with another guy in the right circumstances. Im a kinky motherfucker! What I feel bad about is fucking my friends ex shortly after she broke up with him, especially since Ive had 3 different girls in the last year fuck my friends right out of our relationship and I know it feels like shit. What I feel bad about is that Im in a relationship with an alcoholic, hedonistic girl that doesnt take other people's feelings into consideration. What I feel bad about is that Im too much of a fucking pussy to make decisions that will ultimately better my life. It has nothing to do with the number of partners that my girlfriend chooses to involve in our mutual sex life, in fact the incredible sexual experiences are probably a huge part of the reason why Im having so much trouble leaving this girl.
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Chuckfinely said: A girl willing to share me obviously doesn't love me. If you loved someone would you let anyone but yourself have sex with them?
Yes, I would. In fact it sounds fun.
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What about anal? Is a girl slutty if she lets you fuck her in the ass because you want to and she wants you to be happy? What if you take it out of her ass and put it in her mouth? Is that slutty? Or is that passion? What if we fuck in a public place where somebody might find us, like a field or an elevator? Is that slutty or is that just hot? What if she lets me cum on her face? Is she a slut? What if she lets me cum on her face in that public place? What if we have sex in a car? What if we have sex in your car? While you are driving? What if I put a remote controlled vibrator in her pussy before we go out and then activate it at random when we are in public? Is that slutty? What makes a sex act slutty?
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Hey if you like ass holes and your girl likes to taste her own shit then go for it...I suppose? Idk sounds un-sanitary to me.
I don't think fucking in public is an issue of slutty or hot I think its indecent exposure and I sure as hell don't want to see some guys bare ass while walking in the park or opening an elevator 
And honestly having sex in a moving car would be a distraction. What if you crashed and hurt some body? Having sex in a car is just a good way to become a sex offender  I'm not saying don't be freaky, you know whatever floats your boat, but I think your example of public sex isn't too great of an argument. Kids sure as hell don't need to see you being nasty in public so you can get an extra little thrill, that's what closed doors are for.
And I'm pretty sure the definition of slutty would be someone who sleeps around, or keeps multiple partners at once, or is easily coerced into sex. I really don't think it means you have to have some uber drab sex life to not be slutty.
Why has everyone taken this as me saying you're slutty if you like anything besides missionary under the sheets with the lights off
Fact is slutty girls(and guys for that matter), the ones having threesomes and keeping multiple partners, the ones that take a half a beer and a smile to get into bed, are many times more likely to not be loyal in the long run. I think the girl that wants me to her self might be a little less likely to cheat on me then one who thinks its alright for me to sleep with other girls 
I wouldn't want some other guy fucking my girl, but I guess I'm the only one here who doesn't get off on crossing dicks?
Pwn, you said something about my generalizing all women as being succubi. Oke, it might not be entirely fair to say all women are just out to drain you, but the vast majority are. I don't have a single peer give or takes 10 years of age that has parents that are still married. In 90% of the cases the father was cut in pieces and the mother did whatever with the kids. I know one man who has to address his child support checks to the guy his wife cheated on him with, divorced him for, and is now living with and is playing dad to his 3 kids. This guy makes 10k$ more per year than the one paying the child support.
You might find that 1 in a million girl but you should be careful with the rest
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You keep on pulling out this "fact is" "statistics say" bullshit. Fact is, you're talking out of your ass. You are lumping a whole bunch of situations together. A person who has threesomes is not necessarily a person who holds multiple partners or a person who is easily woo'd into bed. A threesome is an act of sex. Having multiple partners is a lifestyle choice (a confusing, stressful, dirty lifestyle choice in my personal experience). I would agree that a person who holds multiple partners would be less likely to be particularly loyal to any single one of their partners. However, I think that it is completely ridiculous to assume that simply because a person is open to having a threesome with their partner that they are more likely to cheat on their partner. I would go as far as to say that, were neither partner having the threesome with the intention of fucking somebody they are engaged in emotional infidelity with, it would be more likely that they would be loyal to each other because they have an open and communicative sex life. Although really, sex and relationships are so damn complex that all of this is making black and white out of gray matter.
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Yeah I basically have bailed, I denied her as nicely as I could but still am her good friend.. but honestly that vision of every girl being a slut whore isn't true. I could never date this girl anyways..
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I dont even know if using me is the right term. She is really manipulative. I broke up with her a while back and she fucked a friend of mine within the week to get back at me. Then, she started throwing herself at one of my best friends telling me how she wants to date him and he falls into the trap because he doesnt get laid ever. It broke my heart because I love her and, because Im a worthless depressed piece of shit, I got back with her instead of doing what is right for me, which is to not have her in my life anymore. She doesnt even give a fuck about him anymore, its like hes not there, so it makes it quite seem like she was just doing that because she knew it would get to me. Ive tried to break up with her a few more times after that and it never lasts. We have the same group of friends and she shows up to all of the events and parties that I play at or attend. Im not in love with her anymore but I do love her so every time she throws herself at me we end up fucking and its back to square one again. The last time that we got back together, I didnt want to break up with her again because I hate seeing her alternating between sad and then trying to do fucked up shit to get to me it really fucks with my head. Now Im feeling really shitty about myself and I dont know how the fuck to do this again, Im so tired of the fucking drama and the bullshit I just want to be comfortable.
Well did that clear things up for people in this thread?!
Dude you gotta let go... That's just too much for a man to handle unless you like that life of uncertainty and constantly watching your ex/gf get fucked. Put her in the past and leave her there. You can certainly find someone better than that, but not if you keep going back for sloppy seconds.
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A girl willing to share me obviously doesn't love me. If you loved someone would you let anyone but yourself have sex with them?
You sound like a modern and enlightened fellow.
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Re: fucked my friends ex [Re: koods]
#18900653 - 09/27/13 08:58 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Well, Im about to break it off. By this time tomorrow, I will be a free and hopefully much happier man. Wish me luck!
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Anonymous said: youre fucked. if youre young, youre doubley fucked. can you say balls as earrings? insert its a trap meme here.

look on the bright side. you already went through the doubley fucked stage and now your just fucked.
good luck getting your balls back though.
like the saying goes though "nothing ventured, nothing learned." im sure you learned how to spot a slut pretty good.
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Ya sounds like your a great friend i wouldnt care enough to fight about it i would tell you your a peice of shit friend bros before hos and never hang with you again. Let me know hows those stds work out for ya sluts gets around thats why there called sluts 3/4 of americans have an std.
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Notfromarkansas said: Ya sounds like your a great friend i wouldnt care enough to fight about it i would tell you your a peice of shit friend bros before hos and never hang with you again. Let me know hows those stds work out for ya sluts gets around thats why there called sluts 3/4 of americans have an std.
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bitter much?
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Bitter ? perhaps. Honest expression of how I feel about those actions of the OP ? yes. Can't help how we feel. He was trying to put the blame on her in the last few sentences. I'm high though maybe Im not understand it correctly. I take stuff like this seriously. I can't help but act bitter about it. Selfish actions like that cause a lot of harm.
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Re: fucked my friends ex [Re: Enjoywho]
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Re: fucked my friends ex [Re: fbi365]
#22007414 - 07/27/15 11:14 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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just an update. so i did break up with her but we got back together. things actually got quite a bit better over the last year until about 3 months ago when she lost her home and had to move in with me. i won a lot of money in a car accident and that sounds good but then our relationship went down almost exactly like someone said at the start of the thread. she left the state but not before draining all of my money except for $100. then she broke up with me although it was relatively mutual. now she is living with her parents and fucking someone else. honestly tho we are now on much better terms than we were when she left. im not too bummed because its nice to be free and do whatever the fuck i want. it would be nice to get laid though.
oh yeah and we definitely got an STD from L... slutty friend gave us chlamydia!!! good thing was a curable one!!!

also i have no regrets and wouldnt change a thing about it.
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thread delivers
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Mr.PhilCybin said: thread delivers
im glad that you can find pleasure in my misfortunes!!
the fucked thing is i still totally miss the fuck out of her. nobody really gets me like she does. we are both kinky freaks.
Edited by Anonymous (07/28/15 04:56 PM)
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gross. find a classy woman who isnt going to give you diseases or take your money, or make your life generally worse. as long as youre a decent human being too, anyone else shouldnt be worth the time, imo.
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Mr.PhilCybin said: thread delivers
im glad that you can find pleasure in my misfortunes!!
the fucked thing is i still totally miss the fuck out of her. nobody really gets me like she does. we are both kinky freaks.
that's how it always is man 
you'll get over her in time. sounds like it was toxic and didn't bring out the good things in you.
bummer she stole all your cash, but everyone (including you) totally saw it coming, so just don't let it happen again in the future and it's all good 
now go slay some strange man.
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Ha I wish I could. I'm too broke and too depressed to try to meet women. Id totally love to get laid but I don't have time for games.. I'm just trying to get my life back on track.
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this is going to sound really harsh, but know that it comes from a place of love, from someone who's been there.
-you can feel sorry for yourself, and stay in that hole as long as you want to, but one day, you'll grow tired of it, and it's as simple as deciding to get over it, and move on with your life.
I promise you you'll wonder why you didn't do it sooner, and you'll be happy again.
note - this is in reply to your deleted message.
Just force yourself to go outside and be social here and there. the social skills get rusty quick, but they come back quick too. I think it's just healthy to go out in interact with humans/girls in general. It's the classic, once you don't care/don't want the women, they'll flock in herds.
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