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fucked my friends ex
#18862727 - 09/19/13 11:59 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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My friend and his ex, we'll call L, broke up a few weeks ago. A few nights ago, I'm hanging out with L & my girlfriend, K (they are best friends), and things get wild. We start painting each other with edible body paint and then start eating the edible body paint off each other and then they are both sucking my dick. I fuck both of them and have a fucking amazing night, as would be expected when you have a threesome with beautiful women.
My friend would be so hurt if he found out. K told me afterward that she & L had been planning for the threesome to happen. Im having mixed feelings right now. I know that I am not without blame, in fact I am very much to be blamed as I am in control of my actions. I am a shithead and Im not trying to opt out of blame. However, both of them premeditated a situation that they know would break my friends heart were he to acquire knowledge. I would not have fucked L if K had not been there instigating the situation as L would not have come onto me nor I her. K has shown a tendency to make sexual decisions regardless of the fact that they will hurt those close to her (she has done so to me countless times).
I feel used in her deviant sexually and emotionally manipulative plots once again... She has a complete disregard for the feelings of others and when I am around her I begin to embody that disregard. Your significant other is supposed to bring out the best in you.. Im beginning to think she is a sociopath and I dont want to be a part of her life any longer...
Edited by Anonymous (09/19/13 12:13 PM)
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Lammen Gorthaur



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Some time in couples therapy might be the ticket to a new relationship with K.
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Chuckfinely
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Your friend broke up with the other girl. Not dating = fair game
This is just coming from personal experience but k sounds like trouble. If your gf is alright with you fking another girl(even with her there), then i doubt its anything that is going to last.
Again I'm just speaking from my personal experiences, but I would lose K before she hurts you, someone else, or both. Also shell probably take all your money when she does leave. Sounds like the kind of girl that would go let someone else bust in her then come and try to fk you too. Crossing dicks is super gross to me lmao
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Anonymous #1
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Chuckfinely said: Your friend broke up with the other girl. Not dating = fair game
Other way around which I think makes it worse.
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Chuckfinely
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I suppose, but in short amount of time he'll realize that its for the best. If she left him then shes obviously no good and at least he got out before she could take everything he owns and turn his friends on him 
Imo, both girls sound like some hoe's. I would get out while you still can, find a girl that likes you and doesn't want to share you with another girl. That's usually a sign that she's a keeper.
If i read your post right k has slept with other people while with you already
maybe 1 in 2 million girls is not going to take all your money and kids, so you really need to be careful with these girls nowadays
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You never can tell how things will work out. Relationships are like jobs, if you want a good outcome you have to be willing to bust your butt and sweat a little.
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Re: fucked my friends ex [Re: mpd]
#18863125 - 09/19/13 01:38 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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i'd leave K. tahts just me
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Re: fucked my friends ex [Re: memes]
#18863356 - 09/19/13 02:41 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Fuck all the other shit. THREESOME!
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Chuckfinely
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Re: fucked my friends ex [Re: memes]
#18863406 - 09/19/13 03:00 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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memes said: i'd leave K. tahts just me
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youre fucked. if youre young, youre doubley fucked. can you say balls as earrings? insert its a trap meme here.
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Anonymous #1
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So its been a few days. I was planning on going to a show that my friend was going to but I took a bunch of acid earlier in the day and then realized I can't face him and not tell him. Instead I went to party at Ks house. The love is completely gone. She makes me feel really bad about myself. There was a point where she was trying to make out with me and I couldn't help but feel like she is a succubus trying to enslave my soul. So I pulled away and just cuddled with our kittens instead.
I dont want to be in a relationship with this girl anymore but I cant leave her.. Ive tried so many times and she always sucks me back in. I feel like Im stuck in a lifestyle that is corroding my heart and health. I dont see any way out... no matter how much I just want to stop caring about her, something comes up. I used to think I deserved a better life but lately Ive been beginning to doubt that. What the fuck am I supposed to do?
IM LOSING MY FUCKING MIND!
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Well consider yourself lucky. One of my best friends broke up with his girlfriend in the beginning of the year and moved to a new city for college. Thus he was completely out of the picture and she was still hanging out with me and my friends. I have had countless chances to fuck her! She throws herself at me and its bullshit! I can't even do it. if we were completely alone I would fuck her no problem but this is never the case. She is hot too which makes it harder. We have this weird connection now though, which is cool. The only thing that I completely hate is the fact that when I see her do anything with anyone else I get jealous!? I know its the same with her too. fucked up man.. I kinda just want to fuck her and get it over with because I feel like its been a drawn out process....she's even brought up conversations about needing a fuck buddy. haha gawd damnnnnnnnnn
I got some good advice though.. if you keep her as a friend she'll be in your life longer, then just a simple fuck buddy..
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Chuckfinely
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@anon #1:
GET THE FUCK OUT!@!@
It doesn't matter how much she cries, how bad it makes you feel, how many times shes says you'll never find anyone else, or even if you end up losing a couple connections through her; SHE IS DEFINITELY NO GOOD FOR YOU.
To me love and dating is kind of an all or nothing thing. If she makes you feel bad about yourself and you feel hesitant to make out with her then it def wont work out and you're just letting it build and build making it harder and harder. Eventually its going to end and you should do it now because it will only get worse. I ab-so-fucking-lutely guarantee you'll be over it within a week and feel like a free man once again.
@anon #3
She sounds like a slut if she is just throwing herself at you while fucking other guys, not even trying to hide it from you at all but still pretending to get jealous over you? Don't waste your energy on this girl she sounds like trouble and the cheating type.
Find yourself a nice girl that takes at least 10 days to bed and you know is only interested in you
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Anonymous said: So its been a few days. I was planning on going to a show that my friend was going to but I took a bunch of acid earlier in the day and then realized I can't face him and not tell him. Instead I went to party at Ks house. The love is completely gone. She makes me feel really bad about myself. There was a point where she was trying to make out with me and I couldn't help but feel like she is a succubus trying to enslave my soul. So I pulled away and just cuddled with our kittens instead.
I dont want to be in a relationship with this girl anymore but I cant leave her.. Ive tried so many times and she always sucks me back in. I feel like Im stuck in a lifestyle that is corroding my heart and health. I dont see any way out... no matter how much I just want to stop caring about her, something comes up. I used to think I deserved a better life but lately Ive been beginning to doubt that. What the fuck am I supposed to do?
IM LOSING MY FUCKING MIND!
Bro get the fuck out of there, my ex was a fucking energy sucking slut as well. GET THE FUCK OUT
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Neither of you seem to have it that bad 
I fucked my best friends wife after he asked me to (they are supposed to be in an open relationship and he insisted he was ok with it) and now i can see signs of jealousy from him and she said he thinks i will try to steal her from him eventually. Now i have to bail out of the situation and try to salvage my friendship with him before its too late while she still wants to fuck me. And I have to come up with an excuse cuz if i say im out because of his jealousy it will surely lead to them fighting because they are supposed to trust eachother in there "open relationship". They were fighting alot and broke up around a month ago before getting back together in an open relationship so it is a very fragile situation.
I should have said no from the start But i guess this is how you learn these life lessons.
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Anonymous said: Neither of you seem to have it that bad 
I fucked my best friends wife after he asked me to (they are supposed to be in an open relationship and he insisted he was ok with it) and now i can see signs of jealousy from him and she said he thinks i will try to steal her from him eventually. Now i have to bail out of the situation and try to salvage my friendship with him before its too late while she still wants to fuck me. And I have to come up with an excuse cuz if i say im out because of his jealousy it will surely lead to them fighting because they are supposed to trust eachother in there "open relationship". They were fighting alot and broke up around a month ago before getting back together in an open relationship so it is a very fragile situation.
I should have said no from the start But i guess this is how you learn these life lessons.
Getting involved in an already unhealthy relationship focused on sex, bad idea
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OP: has threesome, finds some way to feel bad about it. Did these feelings occur before or after they were sucking your dick? Whatever man, in the grand scheme of things this is hardly something to feel bad about. Its not like you were helping her cheat on him. Chalk it up to being young and wild.
From what you describe otherwise it sounds like you aren't happy. So let it go. No amount of pussy is worth being unhappy. She isn't sucking you back in, you're just letting her and your dick control you. Break up. Don't 'take a break' or 'get some space'. End it. No contact. Break. up.
All you have to do is walk away. There will be a better life out there if you man up and find it for yourself.
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Anonymous said: Neither of you seem to have it that bad  ... I should have said no from the start But i guess this is how you learn these life lessons.
I'm 90% sure you made a thread about this, and we told you that would happen.
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Re: fucked my friends ex [Re: Lynnch]
#18875457 - 09/22/13 10:54 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Maybe you should elaborate on the ways that you feel she is using you... aside from just this time i mean. And don't try to read into it while you're on acid, your mind is already stuck on one thought and LSD is going to amplify it
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Anonymous #3
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Chuckfinely said: @anon #1:
GET THE FUCK OUT!@!@
It doesn't matter how much she cries, how bad it makes you feel, how many times shes says you'll never find anyone else, or even if you end up losing a couple connections through her; SHE IS DEFINITELY NO GOOD FOR YOU.
To me love and dating is kind of an all or nothing thing. If she makes you feel bad about yourself and you feel hesitant to make out with her then it def wont work out and you're just letting it build and build making it harder and harder. Eventually its going to end and you should do it now because it will only get worse. I ab-so-fucking-lutely guarantee you'll be over it within a week and feel like a free man once again.
@anon #3
She sounds like a slut if she is just throwing herself at you while fucking other guys, not even trying to hide it from you at all but still pretending to get jealous over you? Don't waste your energy on this girl she sounds like trouble and the cheating type.
Find yourself a nice girl that takes at least 10 days to bed and you know is only interested in you
Not hardly man. She isn't a slut. She is a good friend probably ranks up there with one of my best friends. The reason she even has hooked up with anyone is because I have denied her. Hooking up with one guy in a year isn't a slut move in any way. She is an adult and can do whatever she pleases. Plain and simple. I can't even explain our relationship because it's complicated. I feel like I'd be a dick for fucking my friends ex girlfriend. Now I know he doesn't give a fuck so now I'm pissed I put her in perma friend zone.
Still a good friend though fucking her or not fucking her.
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Chuckfinely
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Chuckfinely said: To me love and dating is kind of an all or nothing thing. If she makes you feel bad about yourself and you feel hesitant to make out with her then it def wont work out and you're just letting it build and build making it harder and harder. Eventually its going to end and you should do it now because it will only get worse. I ab-so-fucking-lutely guarantee you'll be over it within a week and feel like a free man once again.
Find yourself a nice girl that takes at least 10 days to bed and you know is only interested in you
My opinion still is to bail. You say its only 1 guy in a year yet she's the type to throw herself at someone? Yeah you only know of 1 guy is more like it 
All women are whores and if you aren't with them they're probably off with someone else's dick inside them right now. Like i said besides that 1 in 2 million chance every girl is just going to end up sucking the life and money right out of you, especially when she leaves. You shouldn't invest into a relationship too heavily cause some evil succubus will take advantage of it
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