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Anonymous #1
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Weird experience with friend advice
#18856666 - 09/18/13 03:27 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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As I'm writing this im coming down from a very fucked up trip. I got into an argument with my mother and called her a bunch of regret able things and made a huge scene in out apt building. Anyway after I decided to shroom with a friend from hs, we didn't chill much but both are into music so have been talking lately. I'm 21 also, thought I'd say that. Anyway everything was going fine till said friend started to try to get me in his bed. Im a straight man who has zero problem with other men who happen to like men, just not my thing. After a very awkward "Nap" (in which I used a backpack as a pillow and stayed very far away from him) said friend started to descend down a path of hostility, becoming very demanding. Made me go outside to smoke cig, throw cig out when he was done n i wasnt and overall just being a tool. Trust me I gave it multiple tries told him he was making me uncomfortable and asked him to relax. Once I had reached my limit of weird some what homo interaction followed by temporary psychosis I told the friend I was leaving friend then attempted to restrain me and long story short I ended up running out of his garage into a gated community in the middle of a very dangerous Midwestern city, thought the cops were looking for me and had a very shitty time. For a very strange reason I think this was all karma for having messed with my amazing mother and almost don't blame the kid. I contacted this friend said I wasn't into dudes and apologized for giving him shrooms.
Question is do I give this friend another chance or what? I have lots of gay friends and I do respect his music and ideals on life, early trippin conversation was great until it got weird. I honestly was two seconds from fighting him in his own crib tho, so I'm pretty unsure. Hard trip mistake, or irreconcilable advances?
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Weird experience with friend advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18856672 - 09/18/13 03:31 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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*note friend may be a closeted bisexuals as I know many women he has slept with but no doubt in my mind he was trying to fuck me
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Weird experience with friend advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18856691 - 09/18/13 03:54 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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what exactly do you mean he was trying to get you into his bed? ... are you sure you weren't just tripping...I mean you were, but are you sure you just weren't reading into things too much/ hallucinating some suggestive looks? I mean, it is possible. Has he veer had any advances toward you when you weren't tripping? what was his reaction when you accused him?
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Weird experience with friend advice [Re: Anonymous #2]
#18856936 - 09/18/13 07:29 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Kept steering the conversation towards sexuality, excessive touching for no apparent reason, at one point was playing "Footsie" with me at one point.. had to get up and move my chair two feet away. During the "Nap" literally asked me to lay down in his bed and said, "I'm jus trying to make something Happen" I was tripping no doubt about that but either he was trying to fuck me or I know nothing about sexual advances. Twas the first and def last time we well ever trip together. When I confronted him he simply stated im not into you, i dont care im sober now and don't wish to put myself in that situation ever again.
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Anonymous #3
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Re: Weird experience with friend advice [Re: Anonymous #1] 3
#18857167 - 09/18/13 09:19 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Lucky he didn't steal some of your energy.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Weird experience with friend advice [Re: Anonymous #3] 1
#18857433 - 09/18/13 10:58 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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My friend told me about this time that his two male friends were shroomin pretty hard and ended up fucking each other. They still say they are straight, date girls, but straight up said that they were frying so hard it seemed like a good idea. Maybe the shrooms do make ya gay?
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Weird experience with friend advice [Re: Anonymous #2]
#18857441 - 09/18/13 11:00 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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And his reply was just " im not into you " meaning im into guys but not into you anymore since you shot me down... he never flat out said he wasn't gay?
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Anonymous #4
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Re: Weird experience with friend advice [Re: Anonymous #2]
#18857575 - 09/18/13 11:34 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Could just be the shrooms bro. on yours or his parts.
I've read into things and thought people were making advances when they werent.
I've also had gay thoughts during one of my trips, nothing to act on, but maybe your buddy couldnt realize he was just tripping and tried to bang you.
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Anonymous #5
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Re: Weird experience with friend advice [Re: Anonymous #4]
#18857641 - 09/18/13 11:49 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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fucking retarded people. jesus. how do you peeps get into this shit?
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Anonymous #6
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Re: Weird experience with friend advice [Re: Anonymous #5]
#18859466 - 09/18/13 05:50 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #5 said: fucking retarded people. jesus. how do you peeps get into this shit?
Into what exactly?
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Anonymous #7
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Re: Weird experience with friend advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18859505 - 09/18/13 05:57 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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dude don't trip with him and apologize to your mom duh
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Anonymous #3
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Re: Weird experience with friend advice [Re: Anonymous #7]
#18859921 - 09/18/13 07:27 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I don't know how you guys who've talked about sex while shrommin can do it. My ex girfriend wanted to get a lay once while i was trippin and i couldn't even get a hard on. It was ridiculous. She tried rubbing it, pullin it, tried sucking it; but nothing!
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Weird experience with friend advice [Re: Anonymous #3]
#18860410 - 09/18/13 09:19 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I apologized to my mom were back in good terms, building neighbors hate me but that doesn't matter. Not going to trip or provably hang out with this friend anymore, not because of sexuality but aggressive nature. I'm over 6 ft and athletic he is not and I don't want to have to fight him. Thanks for not flaming and actual insight guys. This was also my first post couple months lurking and seems like/is one of the better url communities I've ever found. Plan on a proper 1st and introduction soon, thanks again.
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Anonymous #8
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Re: Weird experience with friend advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18860491 - 09/18/13 09:33 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yea OP you seem like a cool dude, you know what was goin on. Fuck that guy
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Anonymous #9
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Re: Weird experience with friend advice [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18860696 - 09/18/13 10:19 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I would definitely steer clear of that guy, seems a little rapey to me...
I mean I've had gay thoughts while trippin' but never anything like that-
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Anonymous #10
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Re: Weird experience with friend advice [Re: Anonymous #9]
#18860885 - 09/18/13 10:59 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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yeah u got creepy uncled bro
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Anonymous #8
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Re: Weird experience with friend advice [Re: Anonymous #10] 1
#18860888 - 09/18/13 11:00 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #10 said: yeah u got creepy uncled bro
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