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Offlinebrianstequila
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she left after 17 years *DELETED*
    #18849528 - 09/16/13 02:56 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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Re: she left after 17 years [Re: brianstequila]
    #18849580 - 09/16/13 03:06 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

I read it.  I hope these coming days/weeks are bearable for you, old friend.  Life will be tough, but it will get easier.


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OfflineRewindicus
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Re: she left after 17 years [Re: memes]
    #18849642 - 09/16/13 03:21 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Dint get caught up in coulda, shoulda, woulda scenarios. Whats done is done. Its time to move forward. The only constant in life is change man.


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Re: she left after 17 years *DELETED* [Re: Rewindicus]
    #18849666 - 09/16/13 03:26 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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Every citizen should be a soldier. This was the case with the Greeks and Romans, and must be that of every free state.
Thomas Jefferson

Not My trade list i aint got shit anymore
:drunkdriver:http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/19161913:drunkdriver:


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Re: she left after 17 years *DELETED* [Re: brianstequila]
    #18851502 - 09/16/13 09:49 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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Every citizen should be a soldier. This was the case with the Greeks and Romans, and must be that of every free state.
Thomas Jefferson

Not My trade list i aint got shit anymore
:drunkdriver:http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/19161913:drunkdriver:


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Re: she left after 17 years [Re: Rewindicus]
    #18851910 - 09/16/13 11:33 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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Rewindicus said:
Dint get caught up in coulda, shoulda, woulda scenarios. Whats done is done. Its time to move forward. The only constant in life is change man.



Wise words.


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Re: she left after 17 years [Re: koraks]
    #18851996 - 09/17/13 12:01 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

All I can tell you is EVERYTHING happens for a reason. Lessons to be learned. Growth to be had!

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OfflineJacksonMetaller
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Re: she left after 17 years [Re: MystiqueMushroom]
    #18852879 - 09/17/13 09:49 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

The way you talk at the end sounds like a little space is helping. Perhaps it's not so hopeless. I mean, don't get caught up in hopes of anything happening. Just do your thing and be you and accept life as it comes... But it seems like you've still got something to work with. Best of luck bud.

edit: btw I think you should take her up on the couples counseling. I think this is absolutely necessary for a lot of people. I come out of counseling feeling like I'm on an MDMA roll. It just does so much good to talk shit out, and I imagine talking it out together with a guiding median would be even better. tl;dr counseling is actually the highlight of my week, not something to be offput by


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Re: she left after 17 years [Re: brianstequila]
    #18853111 - 09/17/13 10:51 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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brianstequila said:
I asked him last night to be a man and give me a chance, he did it and told her he didnt want to see her again. Why do I feel bad because she cried for  someone else, I feel like I just ruined a little bit more of the chance of us



I hear ya.  That's gotta be tough.

Are you being open and honest with her about how you feel regarding all this?  Are you guys communicating about it?  How does she feel?  Does she see your desire to be different now as just another "I swear i'll change" attempt?


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Re: she left after 17 years *DELETED* [Re: memes]
    #18853154 - 09/17/13 11:07 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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Every citizen should be a soldier. This was the case with the Greeks and Romans, and must be that of every free state.
Thomas Jefferson

Not My trade list i aint got shit anymore
:drunkdriver:http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/19161913:drunkdriver:


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Re: she left after 17 years *DELETED* [Re: brianstequila]
    #18854356 - 09/17/13 04:37 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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Every citizen should be a soldier. This was the case with the Greeks and Romans, and must be that of every free state.
Thomas Jefferson

Not My trade list i aint got shit anymore
:drunkdriver:http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/19161913:drunkdriver:


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Re: she left after 17 years [Re: brianstequila]
    #18854945 - 09/17/13 06:54 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

I hear ya on that.  GL.  Let us know how things play out


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Re: she left after 17 years [Re: memes]
    #18854946 - 09/17/13 06:54 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

also:  take the meds!


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Re: she left after 17 years [Re: memes]
    #18856825 - 09/18/13 06:06 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

I say take the best moments of your 17 year experience and move forward finding a suitable companion.

Everything must come to an end, whether it be on earth, or when the universe eventually cools down enough. It's inevitable.

Look forward....that's the only advice I can give. Break ups made me feel like poo poo and kept me in a regressed mental state, only thinking about her. But that part goes away with time, I promise you.

You have an exciting future ahead of you. So don't feel so bad. We are here :heart:


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Re: she left after 17 years *DELETED* [Re: TwinEclipse]
    #18857195 - 09/18/13 09:28 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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Every citizen should be a soldier. This was the case with the Greeks and Romans, and must be that of every free state.
Thomas Jefferson

Not My trade list i aint got shit anymore
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Re: she left after 17 years *DELETED* [Re: brianstequila]
    #18858224 - 09/18/13 01:58 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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Every citizen should be a soldier. This was the case with the Greeks and Romans, and must be that of every free state.
Thomas Jefferson

Not My trade list i aint got shit anymore
:drunkdriver:http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/19161913:drunkdriver:


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Re: she left after 17 years *DELETED* [Re: brianstequila]
    #18858412 - 09/18/13 02:32 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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Every citizen should be a soldier. This was the case with the Greeks and Romans, and must be that of every free state.
Thomas Jefferson

Not My trade list i aint got shit anymore
:drunkdriver:http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/19161913:drunkdriver:


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Offlineamilibertine
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Re: she left after 17 years [Re: brianstequila]
    #18858550 - 09/18/13 02:57 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

If you're skipping your appointments (and she is the one that wants you to go) it's not helping your chances.  Women like to test men like this. You going with her is fine, but I'm betting she wants you to go alone. She surely was disappointed.

If you want to fix this relationship you are going to have to do things you don't feel like doing, anxiety or no. You're going to have to make the effort and it would help for her to see that you WANT to do these things for yourself and not just for her (if you are, I dunno).

Just my opinion.

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Re: she left after 17 years [Re: Rewindicus]
    #18860455 - 09/18/13 09:27 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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Rewindicus said:
Dint get caught up in coulda, shoulda, woulda scenarios. Whats done is done. Its time to move forward. The only constant in life is change man.




This is the only advice you will get that actually matters.

That is heavy stuff man. Spend the next couple months just eating ice cream, watching your favorite shows and have a ton of friends over. This will require a lot of grieving, just get it over with now. Don't string yourself along. After you get a lot of that shit out start getting out and talking to some ladies man. That will help immensely.


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Re: she left after 17 years *DELETED* [Re: CounterCulturest]
    #18862810 - 09/19/13 12:16 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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Every citizen should be a soldier. This was the case with the Greeks and Romans, and must be that of every free state.
Thomas Jefferson

Not My trade list i aint got shit anymore
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