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Anonymous #1
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All I want is to be loved and valued
#18836532 - 09/13/13 11:22 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm so fucking lonely and yes I do a ton of activity and travel. But inside there's just this big dark pit of hopelessness.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: All I want is to be loved and valued [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18836558 - 09/13/13 11:32 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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me too bro. Just hold on to hope that one day some special person or people will come into your life and fill the void.
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Anonymous #3
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Re: All I want is to be loved and valued [Re: Anonymous #2] 2
#18836591 - 09/13/13 11:41 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Or just learn how to be happy on your own
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Anonymous #3
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Re: All I want is to be loved and valued [Re: Anonymous #3]
#18836593 - 09/13/13 11:42 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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You cant make someone else happy until you are happy with yourself
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Anonymous #4
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Re: All I want is to be loved and valued [Re: Anonymous #3]
#18836702 - 09/13/13 12:06 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #3 said: Or just learn how to be happy on your own
Quote:
Anonymous #3 said: You cant make someone else happy until you are happy with yourself
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Anonymous #1
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Re: All I want is to be loved and valued [Re: Anonymous #4]
#18836821 - 09/13/13 12:33 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I've spend the better part of my 32 yrs on this earth trying to be happy alone. We as humans aren't solitary creatures a person that chooses to be alone is not the average person. All over this world regardless of race, orientation, religion, economic standing, all the way from the amazon forest to a big city like Toyko humans seek out others to share their life with. I'm sick of pretending that I'm happy with being alone even though every time I see a couple holding hands I feel nothing but a deep ache in my heart.
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Anonymous #5
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Re: All I want is to be loved and valued [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18836844 - 09/13/13 12:40 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Intentional Community FTW.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: All I want is to be loved and valued [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18836927 - 09/13/13 01:05 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Learn to astrotravel.
Last night for example, I went for a fly around the world...than i flew into another total dimension were there was a lot of action happening.
I do it all the time.
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Anonymous #7
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Re: All I want is to be loved and valued [Re: Anonymous #6]
#18836950 - 09/13/13 01:13 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Find someone who has similar interests, who is down to be your partner in crime, so to speak. Im also 32, and have finally found someone who loves me unconditionally and is down for adventures in life together. Its a night and day difference from previous relationships ive had. It took looking all my life however.
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Anonymous #4
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Re: All I want is to be loved and valued [Re: Anonymous #6] 1
#18836966 - 09/13/13 01:19 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #6 said: Learn to astrotravel.
Last night for example, I went for a fly around the world...than i flew into another total dimension were there was a lot of action happening.
I do it all the time.
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Anonymous #8
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Re: All I want is to be loved and valued [Re: Anonymous #4]
#18837327 - 09/13/13 03:07 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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fill that void with jesus
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Anonymous #9
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Re: All I want is to be loved and valued [Re: Anonymous #8]
#18837340 - 09/13/13 03:11 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #8 said: fill that void with jesus
GTFO
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Anonymous #2
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Re: All I want is to be loved and valued [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18837949 - 09/13/13 05:55 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said: I've spend the better part of my 32 yrs on this earth trying to be happy alone. We as humans aren't solitary creatures a person that chooses to be alone is not the average person. All over this world regardless of race, orientation, religion, economic standing, all the way from the amazon forest to a big city like Toyko humans seek out others to share their life with. I'm sick of pretending that I'm happy with being alone even though every time I see a couple holding hands I feel nothing but a deep ache in my heart.
I know this feeling so well.
I am personally starting to think that the whole "you need to love yourself to love others, or be happy to make others happy," thing is total bullshit. No offense to the people who suggested this 
I mean, I too have spent the better part of my life trying to be happy alone. It's good to be able to be happy alone SOMETIMES, and to not be co-dependent.(big one)
But it's pointless to think you're not 'allowed' to be in a happy, healthy relationship just because your life feels empty without a significant other.
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Anonymous #10
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Re: All I want is to be loved and valued [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18838202 - 09/13/13 06:56 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said: I've spend the better part of my 32 yrs on this earth trying to be happy alone. We as humans aren't solitary creatures a person that chooses to be alone is not the average person. All over this world regardless of race, orientation, religion, economic standing, all the way from the amazon forest to a big city like Toyko humans seek out others to share their life with. I'm sick of pretending that I'm happy with being alone even though every time I see a couple holding hands I feel nothing but a deep ache in my heart.
Dude, your outlook is inaccurate, most people are alone, it's not the picture perfect world that is in your delusion mind.
If you can have just a few decent relationships in your lifetime, consider yourself very fucking lucky.
I have seen perfect marriages get destroyed, hearts completely broken, years of total isolation, get prepared for it dude, it's called life.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: All I want is to be loved and valued [Re: Anonymous #10]
#18841708 - 09/14/13 05:21 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I know I'm living proof that no matter how bad we want it some of us are destined to be alone.
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Anonymous #11
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Re: All I want is to be loved and valued [Re: Anonymous #3]
#18841789 - 09/14/13 05:49 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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OP, have no fear....Viva is here.
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Anonymous #9
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Re: All I want is to be loved and valued [Re: Anonymous #11]
#18841834 - 09/14/13 06:03 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Maybe those words would comforting if you showed your tits.
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Anonymous #10
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Re: All I want is to be loved and valued [Re: Anonymous #9]
#18841994 - 09/14/13 06:44 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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No shit, talk is cheap sweetie pie!!
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Anonymous #11
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Re: All I want is to be loved and valued [Re: Anonymous #10]
#18842010 - 09/14/13 06:48 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous #9
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Re: All I want is to be loved and valued [Re: Anonymous #11]
#18842032 - 09/14/13 06:52 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Not good enough! I want to see a pair of exposed breaticles with the words "To Anon 1 from Viva" written in sharpie.
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