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How to Attract Women Without Doing Anything
    #18841067 - 09/14/13 01:06 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

just sharing a article i find clean and useful :smile:

Do you ever wonder why girls just don't seem to express interest in you even though you seem to give them everything they want? Well, there's a reason for that. Here is just some advice and a few tips you can keep in mind to add some substance to your love life without making an effort.
Picture the stereotypical guy that all the girls want. What is he like? Blond hair and blue eyes? Curly hair? You're wrong. None of those things actually play a big role. It doesn't matter what your eye color is, or how much acne you have (well... if you have so much you look like a mutant, that could be a problem), as long as you hit a few key points that girls are attracted to. I'll show you how to become much more attractive by focusing on yourself instead of the girls, which I think is much easier to do.




1 Girls are naturally attracted to the alpha male. This is the leader, the most powerful one in the pack, and the one that can provide the most for them. This means strength. Not necessarily physical strength (although it helps), but more importantly the emotional stability. A guy needs to be strong enough to take care of himself in order to take care of her, and a girl can easily spot which ones fit the picture.




2 Be independent. Remember that guy I had you imagine in the intro? We'll call him "The Alpha" for easier reference later on. Would he go cry in a corner if his friends weren't there, or crumble under peer pressure and do what everyone tells him to? Definitely not. Be strong enough to say no, and be strong enough to survive on your own. If someone tells you to smoke crack or shoot heroin or something stupid that you don't want to do, say so. Your judgement is as good as anyone else's, and no one has the right to make you do something you don't want.



3 Be individual. Would The Alpha go and buy the shoes and jeans and shirt that 99% of insecure guys are buying? No. He doesn't care what others think about him (don't overdo this part, as you'll see in the next point) and gives in to his own sense of style. No girl would want a generic guy that can be replaced by someone else and not see any difference.


4 Respect yourself. This is very important. When I said you shouldn't care what others think about your appearance, that doesn't mean toss on a random raggedy T shirt and not comb your hair just because you're too lazy to. A girl can tell when a guy cares about his appearance, and that shows he knows how to take care of himself. Which brings us back to one of my original points, that you can't take care of anyone else without taking care of yourself first. Shave. Put on a slight scent or deodorant (don't overdo this either, read the desperation point). Groom yourself. Stand up straight. Pick neat clothes that fit you. Also, don't curse (or at least not when you can help it), but don't be 100% conservative orthodox either. Just be a gentleman and have a life at the same time.


5 Respect others. Treat both the girls you're interested in and those that you're not in the same way. This doesn't mean flirt with every girl, but don't ignore or be dismissive towards those that don't tickle your fancy as much. Also, don't be too pressing when talking about personal things, and don't be judgemental of others (at least... don't voice it). If you're with a girl, don't comment on how pretty or hot another girl is, because that will make them question their own appearance.


6 Don't appear desperate. This includes wearing too much smell. A smell shouldn't ever be used to bring a girl to you, but only to bring her closer after you've already gotten her attention. If someone can smell you from 3 feet away, you're wearing too much.


7 Don't complain about things you can't fix (like the weather). You can mention how gloomy it is or something but don't constantly say how much you wished the sun would come out. Don't spread rumors or talk about people behind their backs. This makes the person you're with question whether or not you talk about them in the same way when they're not around. Stay classy.
8MOST IMPORTANTLY: Don't have ANY expectations. What? Then why did I just tell you all this if you aren't even supposed to expect a change? I'll tell you. Having an expectation influences your behavior immensely. If you start talking to a girl, don't expect to get her number, or ask her out, or anything. Then you'll feel pressure, and you'll start to become uncomfortable, which causes you to not fully be yourself. You'll inevitably say or do awkward things. Just talk to her. Treat her as a friend. Think about all the things I told you as things you do to improve yourself, and not to get a date.




Basically, it means don't have any dating interest in anybody. It's harder than it sounds. You just have to hold it back until you are comfortable with the girl, and then it'll be easier for both of you.
If a guy came up to you at the mall and tried to make friends with you, what would you do? Blush and stutter and do awkward things? Probably not. If a girl comes up to you, even if she's drop-dead gorgeous, treat her the same way. It'll have her coming back for more.



Remember, keep that Alpha mindset. Be a leader and a big figure. That doesn't mean to boss people around, but to act like you are the natural leader.
Be brave, stick up for yourself, and be secure.
Don't get bogged down on your insecurities or things you can't change. A lot of guys know that they are nice but become physically insecure, but it's important to avoid this because it hurts your game.
Basically, what I'm getting at here with this whole article is how you can change yourself to be a better bachelor. Follow my advice, and you'll probably find more attention. BUT DON'T GET EXCITED. Always keep your cool, remember who you are, how you should act, and you'll most likely be successful.
If you happen to start talking to a girl and you falter, and things get awkward or you start running out of things to say, walk away. Not rudely though. Avoid awkward moments at all costs, so if it happens, make up an excuse to leave. Then you can regain your composure and redeem yourself next time.



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Re: How to Attract Women Without Doing Anything [Re: x7x_x7x] * 7
    #18841265 - 09/14/13 02:30 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

How to attract women without doing anything:

-Do these eight things.








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Re: How to Attract Women Without Doing Anything [Re: memes]
    #18841576 - 09/14/13 04:30 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Why this theory fails:



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    #18841798 - 09/14/13 05:51 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I understand that this ATTRACTS females but this has absolutely no standing in the actual COURTING process... Yes, that's great that you can get girls to be attracted to you...

I'm 5'8", 130lbs with a muscular tone to my body and I am very young and attractive looking with those blue eyes that girls just can't go without getting a little wet in their pants... But I have absolutely not flirting skills or as we call it "game"....

What you expect that shit happens in the movies where "hot girl sees hot guy, both make eye contact, and there's already a relationship awaiting to happen without ANY words spoken"? Fuck no... Courting and mating is very complex process which not ONLY requires physical attraction but also certain conditions have to be met for the girl to actually want you to be in a relationship with her...

Sure you can be insanely attractive and confident in yourself but until you actually communicate and communicate effectively with a female, you'll get absolutely nowhere... :shrug:


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Re: How to Attract Women Without Doing Anything [Re: ziggity]
    #18841856 - 09/14/13 06:10 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I do all this fairly well and with ease but I think it actually makes girls less likely to approach me because I make them nervous. I've had two or three tell me so. But besides that I can always make the feel comfortable after a few moments of talking. Then again, whether I approach a girl or not is completely dependent on the circumstances. I rarely approach them although I find that I can comfortably speak when I do, more so than with males actually, it's more natural.


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Re: How to Attract Women Without Doing Anything [Re: x7x_x7x] * 4
    #18841984 - 09/14/13 06:41 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

BE TALL.

That's all you need.


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Re: How to Attract Women Without Doing Anything [Re: ch1ck3n.s0up]
    #18842293 - 09/14/13 08:08 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

That's true too.


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Re: How to Attract Women Without Doing Anything [Re: x7x_x7x]
    #18843075 - 09/15/13 12:47 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Re: How to Attract Women Without Doing Anything [Re: spore baby]
    #18843882 - 09/15/13 09:46 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I like the illustrations.

An interesting read:thumbup: thanks for sharing.

My ex girlfriend(she was sooo darn hot) liked me because I didn't make any moves on her, I only helped her with math. :shrug: it was a high school romance though. Had plenty of fun :bigyesnod:

I haven't had a girlfriend in 2 years, but that's only because I don't feel like I want one right now..hence me not trying. I don't see it as a bad thing. If an opportunity comes, however, I'll definitely consider it. An introvert open to extroversion :lol:


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Re: How to Attract Women Without Doing Anything [Re: TwinEclipse]
    #18843961 - 09/15/13 10:11 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I just rely on my 12" cock, wordgets around fast.


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Re: How to Attract Women Without Doing Anything [Re: tbagtag] * 2
    #18845909 - 09/15/13 07:16 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

This article sounds like it was written by someone that just attended a $150 seminar about how to attract women, but has never actually fucked one.


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Re: How to Attract Women Without Doing Anything [Re: tbagtag]
    #18845973 - 09/15/13 07:36 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

tbagtag said:
I just rely on my 12" cock, wordgets around fast.




Maybe you should try sign language.  It could be like a fishing story, but you are guaranteed to reel him in...


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