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Should I have fought or walked away?
#18838888 - 09/13/13 09:19 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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So I was in a stadium tonight that has lots of security. I am twenty years old and I was with my girlfriend. As we were leaving I saw a guy that I've had problems with in the past but I thought we were fine now, he was staring at me and I nodded my head at him and kept walking. He yelled my name so I walked over to him and a little group he was in, still thinking everything is fine. He gets in my face and says "We got any problems?" To which I said no. He said "Good you don't want any." I was still kind of confused so I said "Any what?" and he chuckled and said "You still talking shit?" I said I never was talking shit. He said,"Good keep it that way." He could tell I was mad at this point. He said,"Are we gonna keep it like it is?" To which I replied,"How is it?" He then asked if I wanted to fight so I said,"We can." My girlfriend interrupted and said no. He then said no not here there's cops here. He asked if I was going to be around later and I said yea. He said he'd call me and walked away. What would you have done differently in this situation? Also what type of legal trouble would I be looking at if I hit him first?
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: terric]
#18838926 - 09/13/13 09:24 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Depends on the state. Your best bet is to not fight. The guy sounds like a lame ass immature douche bag. I fought a guy last year, he snitched on me and I hurt him really bad (fractured skull, among other things) I did six months in jail and got seven months probation, a grand fine and 50 hours community service. His friends would have said you started ha you won or worst case they'd have jumped in and beat you up. You did good, bro, don't sweat it. Freedom is better than jail, in jail you got no choice but to fight at least out here we got a choice.
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: terric]
#18838929 - 09/13/13 09:25 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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If you had fought around the stadium you would have been arrested
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: terric]
#18838932 - 09/13/13 09:25 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I would have defused his anger and be-friended
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: terric]
#18838945 - 09/13/13 09:27 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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You'd be looking at jail if you hit him first. If I was in the situation, I definitely would've walked away from that jackass but if I felt truly threatened, I would've knocked the shit out of him. Sounds like straight high school drama. Best to ignore it and move on. No respect would've been gained for fighting a douche like that any way, in my opinion.
No one was physically threatened or hurt. It should def stay that way, man.
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: Sheekle]
#18838951 - 09/13/13 09:29 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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That was gay as hell
Why'd you even walk up to him?
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: Konyap]
#18838973 - 09/13/13 09:32 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Oh nvm..
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: Konyap]
#18838979 - 09/13/13 09:34 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Seems like he was just trying to show off in front of his group.. I bet if you had hit him right then and there he'd of been more shocked than anything.
I wouldn't of even walked up to him.
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: Shroomslip]
#18838985 - 09/13/13 09:35 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Usually in a fight the person who is supposed to fight walks up to you not the other way around.
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: terric]
#18838986 - 09/13/13 09:35 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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terric said: So I was in a stadium tonight that has lots of security. I am twenty years old and I was with my girlfriend. As we were leaving I saw a guy that I've had problems with in the past but I thought we were fine now, he was staring at me and I nodded my head at him and kept walking. He yelled my name so I walked over to him and a little group he was in, still thinking everything is fine. He gets in my face and says "We got any problems?" To which I said no. He said "Good you don't want any." I was still kind of confused so I said "Any what?" and he chuckled and said "You still talking shit?" I said I never was talking shit. He said,"Good keep it that way." He could tell I was mad at this point. He said,"Are we gonna keep it like it is?" To which I replied,"How is it?" He then asked if I wanted to fight so I said,"We can." My girlfriend interrupted and said no. He then said no not here there's cops here. He asked if I was going to be around later and I said yea. He said he'd call me and walked away. What would you have done differently in this situation? Also what type of legal trouble would I be looking at if I hit him first?
You should've decked him in his smug fucking face by his second reply.
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#18838994 - 09/13/13 09:36 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Bodhi of Ankou said:
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terric said: So I was in a stadium tonight that has lots of security. I am twenty years old and I was with my girlfriend. As we were leaving I saw a guy that I've had problems with in the past but I thought we were fine now, he was staring at me and I nodded my head at him and kept walking. He yelled my name so I walked over to him and a little group he was in, still thinking everything is fine. He gets in my face and says "We got any problems?" To which I said no. He said "Good you don't want any." I was still kind of confused so I said "Any what?" and he chuckled and said "You still talking shit?" I said I never was talking shit. He said,"Good keep it that way." He could tell I was mad at this point. He said,"Are we gonna keep it like it is?" To which I replied,"How is it?" He then asked if I wanted to fight so I said,"We can." My girlfriend interrupted and said no. He then said no not here there's cops here. He asked if I was going to be around later and I said yea. He said he'd call me and walked away. What would you have done differently in this situation? Also what type of legal trouble would I be looking at if I hit him first?
You should've decked him in his smug fucking face by his second reply.
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: Bodhi of Ankou] 1
#18838998 - 09/13/13 09:37 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I would have been too shocked from all the sexual tension, but Yeah fucking head butt him right in the nose
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? *DELETED* [Re: terric]
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: TrentBoyett]
#18839122 - 09/13/13 10:16 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I never fight anymore. Only time I'm fighting is to defend myself. If everyone was like that the world would be a much more safe place. So yeah Id walk away.
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: Magicman69]
#18839135 - 09/13/13 10:19 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: terric]
#18839144 - 09/13/13 10:21 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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terric said: So I was in a stadium tonight that has lots of security.
walked away
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I am twenty years old and I was with my girlfriend.
walked away
always, walk away
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: Prisoner#1]
#18839520 - 09/14/13 12:02 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Now you need to go to his house and rape him with a cactus when he's sleeping in his bed.
Really the only thing to do in this current situation
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: ganjfather]
#18839535 - 09/14/13 12:05 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yeah man some punk like that isn't even worth your time fuck em you got nothing to prove, just move on.
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: volcomstoner]
#18839560 - 09/14/13 12:12 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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OP you shouldn't have to ask.
of course you should walk away. fighting is for highschoolers and spouses of assault victims.
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: terric]
#18839599 - 09/14/13 12:20 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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>Should I have fought or walked away?
The answer is always to walk away OP. Always.
No matter how gratifying it can be to beat a bullies ass, every time you fight you're recklessly putting your life on the line. Every time you fight a single blow could end your entire universe and ruin the lives of your friends and family. Never fight unless your life is already in significant danger.
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: Dawks]
#18839721 - 09/14/13 01:11 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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always, walk away
Unless you hear a noise at 3am and find an intruder raping your 4 year old daughter.
Then... then you don't walk away.
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: Schmendrick]
#18839735 - 09/14/13 01:14 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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memes said: OP you shouldn't have to ask.
of course you should walk away. fighting is for highschoolers and spouses of assault victims.
QFT
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Schmendrick said:
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always, walk away
Unless you hear a noise at 3am and find an intruder raping your 4 year old daughter.
Then... then you don't walk away.
You sir, are a fucking douchebag.
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: volcomstoner]
#18839740 - 09/14/13 01:17 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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You sir, are a fucking douchebag.
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: Schmendrick] 1
#18840175 - 09/14/13 06:22 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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people who get into heated exchanges like the OP did need to just succumb to it and poke his mudhole.
all this "i'll kick yer ass" and "i wouldn't have walked away from that guy, i'd have kicked his ass" makes me laugh and shows how godamn insecure you jokers really are.
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: terric] 1
#18840183 - 09/14/13 06:31 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: istandalone]
#18840185 - 09/14/13 06:32 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anyone starting fights over minuscule issues such as this has some major insecurity problems. Not to mention anyone who can fight worth a damn isn't out trying to flaunt it by starting fights. Walk away and be the more evolved species. Who needs the aggravation that comes with fighting anyway.
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: terric]
#18840202 - 09/14/13 06:42 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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In the interest of winning the fight, you should always hit the other guy first.
In the interest of not going to jail, you should always let the other guy try to hit you first.
To me, not going to jail is more important than winning the fight.
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: Heffy]
#18840210 - 09/14/13 06:54 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Heffy said: In the interest of winning the fight, you should always hit the other guy first.
In the interest of not going to jail, you should always let the other guy try to hit you first.
To me, not going to jail is more important than winning the fight.
So in conclusion don't be dumb and get in to a fight
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: volcomstoner]
#18840213 - 09/14/13 06:55 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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That's not always an option.
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: Heffy]
#18840223 - 09/14/13 07:03 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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when there is no option, a concealed handgun comes in handy.
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: Heffy]
#18840230 - 09/14/13 07:09 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sometimes. Unless you're (for instance) in a crowded stadium full of people, and you don't have the range to use the gun effectively. Or you shoot a bystander by accident, since they are literally all around you.
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: Legend]
#18840233 - 09/14/13 07:10 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Well in OP's position it's definitely an option. And as long as you don't let your ego get in the way it's a pretty viable option more often than not.
But yes sometimes on the rare occasion, you gotta do what you gotta do.
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Legend said: when there is no option, a concealed handgun comes in handy.
Oh yeah, pull that thing out and people will shut up real fucking quick lol Can't wait to turn 21 so I can carry
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: Heffy]
#18840236 - 09/14/13 07:12 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Heffy said: Sometimes. Unless you're (for instance) in a crowded stadium full of people, and you don't have the range to use the gun effectively. Or you shoot a bystander by accident, since they are literally all around you.
Yes, but it's exactly that, a crowded stadium full of people. Why should a fight be taking place? It would be fucking dumb and completely pointless
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: volcomstoner]
#18840254 - 09/14/13 07:29 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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i mean, there is also pepper spray, not to mention tasers, knives, rape whistles,etc.
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Re: Should I have fought or walked away? [Re: GreySatyr]
#18840282 - 09/14/13 07:52 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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GreyMorph said: Depends on the state. Your best bet is to not fight. The guy sounds like a lame ass immature douche bag. I fought a guy last year, he snitched on me and I hurt him really bad (fractured skull, among other things) I did six months in jail and got seven months probation, a grand fine and 50 hours community service. His friends would have said you started ha you won or worst case they'd have jumped in and beat you up. You did good, bro, don't sweat it. Freedom is better than jail, in jail you got no choice but to fight at least out here we got a choice.
Damn, I can't believe you did that much time. That'll make me think twice as well. Not that I have gotten in a real fight since grade school. You never know if the opponent is carrying a knife either.
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