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Anonymous #1
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Would it be weird ?
#18829841 - 09/11/13 08:44 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I met this girl the other day. She was working the desk at some office. She seemed pretty eager and gave me her full name and cute smiles. I don't know her personally. Would it be weird for me to add her on FB and talk to her. She's a coupple years younger than me, 20 and i'm 24. I don't want to seem like freak stalker.
Thanks.
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Anonymous #2
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office you work at? If not, and its just some random office... what did she give you her full name for?
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Anonymous #1
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I was signing up for motorcycle classes and we ended up talking for a half hour.
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Anonymous #3
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and within that half'n'hour it hadn't crossed your mind to pursue then?
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Anonymous #4
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you talked for a half hour and you didn't get the vibes to ask her for her number? Dude I'm not a virgin and have been on a dry streak for three years. The main reason is because I seem to always be too late picking up on ques to go for it. So dude, you blew it this time (for a girl to actually want to talk to you for 30 minutes when she JUST met you, is a sign that she's interested), but the next time a girl talks to you for 30 minutes, I'm sure you'll play it out all different. Good luck to you my friend.
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Anonymous #1
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Yeah but by then i was not the only one waiting in line. So should I or should I not.
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Anonymous #1
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Anonymous #4 said: you talked for a half hour and you didn't get the vibes to ask her for her number? Dude I'm not a virgin and have been on a dry streak for three years. The main reason is because I seem to always be too late picking up on ques to go for it. So dude, you blew it this time (for a girl to actually want to talk to you for 30 minutes when she JUST met you, is a sign that she's interested), but the next time a girl talks to you for 30 minutes, I'm sure you'll play it out all different. Good luck to you my friend.
Yeah i kinda get that feeling too. But hey i'm gonna have to go sign up for the second phase of the classes and i'll probably meet her again then. I'll be quicker off the mark next time. Thanks for the responce.
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Anonymous #2
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Anonymous #1 said: Yeah but by then i was not the only one waiting in line. So should I or should I not.
So you mean after that half hour some people showed up behind you in line?
If she talked to you for a half hour when she didnt have to, i think its safe to add her.
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Anonymous #5
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Yeah dude if you have contact with her in real life DO NOT switch up and add her on facebook.
get her number. ask her for coffee/lunch don't puss out trust me i have forced myself to do these things before and i was like if you dont do it man im gonna chop your balls off and i swear man if it takes u 20 minutes to work up the courage to ask atleast you had the balls to do it. and man girls like that kinda confidence, facebook is not confident . delete your facebook.
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Anonymous #6
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There is no reason not to. You can be up front by asking the girl how she feels about you. It will be a good experience for you.
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Anonymous #1
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Nahh i'll wait for the occasion to go talk to her in persona again.
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Anonymous #6
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Um. If you wait around until you just happen to see her again, it might give her the wrong impression. Unless you are really not sure if you like her that much. (facebook has led to several marriages in my family )
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Anonymous #7
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Just fucking show up at her work, wait in line and ask her out.
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Anonymous #8
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yeah just ask her out. dont add her on facebook. ever.
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Anonymous #2
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Anonymous #7 said: Just fucking show up at her work, wait in line and ask her out.
And then let us know how it works out.
At least youll know whats up right then an there.
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Anonymous #6
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Asking someone out at work is a bit weird in itself. Let her know you are not there to buy anything before busting out your proposal. A general principle of dealing with women, other than ignoring and belittling them of course, is to ask them a question about themselves and declare an interest. Just came here to chat you up. How you doing? I like your face.
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Anonymous #1
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Don't worry about me. I can talk to girls better than most!
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Anonymous #9
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Then why are you posting this on here? You seem perfectly capable of figuring this out on your own.
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