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i think my friend may have a little bit of gay in him...
#18830799 - 09/12/13 12:18 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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he is into photography and the other day tells me i have a nice psysique and offers to take pictures of me. thinking he was kidding i said sarcastically that i would do it only if i were naked, but he says "yea man we could do that", and he wasn't kidding..
now, i know there are many artists who appreciate these kinds of things and really do it for the art, but i get the feeling this guy isn't in that mindset. he brought it up a few times during the day when we were hanging out.
seriously, i really don't think im model material, if that were true i would have had numerous girlfriends in high school, to which i had none. so...what is this dude trying to play?, ive known him on and off for about 2 years. he's a nice guy but he's is starting to make me wonder of his intentions..
what do you think?..
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Re: i think my friend may have a little bit of gay in him... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18830815 - 09/12/13 12:22 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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So what if he was? If you don't feel comfortable with him taking naked pictures of you, don't do it.
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Re: i think my friend may have a little bit of gay in him... [Re: Lynnch]
#18830853 - 09/12/13 12:36 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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i said that as a joke and would never take naked pictures..
anyway i have nothing against him being gay, its just that i would like to know if he is.
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Re: i think my friend may have a little bit of gay in him... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18830878 - 09/12/13 12:49 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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check it, if he's gay, ok, you not, i take it. he may be not be. sounds like he could be a good friend feeding you some good self esteem where he sees lacking. now, if he could take good pictures of you in true colors, and pass them out to selectable women. bang, bang, shoot, shoot. SCORE!!!
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Re: i think my friend may have a little bit of gay in him... [Re: WhoManBeing]
#18830885 - 09/12/13 12:53 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Why dont just just ask him if hes gay?
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Re: i think my friend may have a little bit of gay in him... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18830896 - 09/12/13 12:59 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Maybe he's been thinking the same about you. No girlfriends in highschool, you say?
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Re: i think my friend may have a little bit of gay in him... [Re: Anonymous #2]
#18830902 - 09/12/13 01:03 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: i think my friend may have a little bit of gay in him... [Re: Rewindicus]
#18830915 - 09/12/13 01:13 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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WhoManBeing said: check it, if he's gay, ok, you not, i take it. he may be not be. sounds like he could be a good friend feeding you some good self esteem where he sees lacking. now, if he could take good pictures of you in true colors, and pass them out to selectable women. bang, bang, shoot, shoot. SCORE!!!
i like the way you think. 
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Anonymous said: Maybe he's been thinking the same about you. No girlfriends in highschool, you say?
yea..good pun. but that is why i am wondering whether i should make it clear to him that i am not. maybe by pounding my big hairy chest with my fists?
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Rewindicus said: Why dont just just ask him if hes gay?
i would be too uncomfortable.
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Re: i think my friend may have a little bit of gay in him... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18830936 - 09/12/13 01:30 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Lol. What are you 12 years old? Come on.
Just be like "hey its cool if you are but are you gay? Only askin cuz I never seen you with girls or date any an you buggin me bout takin pics makes me wonder if you like dong."
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Re: i think my friend may have a little bit of gay in him... [Re: Rewindicus] 1
#18835549 - 09/13/13 03:14 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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YOU are the one who suggested you take your clothes off.
Let's see if we can find OP's friend's anonymous thread about his friend who wants to get naked with him.
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i would be too uncomfortable.
You are comfortable suggesting a nude photo shoot.
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Re: i think my friend may have a little bit of gay in him... [Re: koods]
#18835554 - 09/13/13 03:21 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I want to see his photography portfolio, then I'll form a conclusion.
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Re: i think my friend may have a little bit of gay in him... [Re: ilus]
#18837249 - 09/13/13 02:46 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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lol whenever im on acid one of my friends always mentions me getting nakedlol
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Re: i think my friend may have a little bit of gay in him... [Re: Sheekle]
#18838236 - 09/13/13 07:01 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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koods said: YOU are the one who suggested you take your clothes off.
Let's see if we can find OP's friend's anonymous thread about his friend who wants to get naked with him.
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i would be too uncomfortable.
You are comfortable suggesting a nude photo shoot.
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Sheekle said: lol whenever im on acid one of my friends always mentions me getting nakedlol
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Re: i think my friend may have a little bit of gay in him... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18846905 - 09/15/13 11:14 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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so now things are looking clearer. he keeps talking about going on some "man-dates", and today he mentioned out loud that he took some pictures while we were at the beach and that i looked "strong", pretty much saying i looked sexy...gadar went off like crazy on that one, my other friends who were around caught it too..
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Re: i think my friend may have a little bit of gay in him... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18846919 - 09/15/13 11:17 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: so now things are looking clearer. he keeps talking about going on some "man-dates", and today he mentioned out loud that he took some pictures while we were at the beach and that i looked "strong", pretty much saying i looked sexy...gadar went off like crazy on that one, my other friends who were around caught it too..
You sound hot.
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Re: i think my friend may have a little bit of gay in him... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18846920 - 09/15/13 11:17 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sooooooooo did you nut up an ask him if hes gay? Lol no of course not you big strong lookin man you!
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Re: i think my friend may have a little bit of gay in him... [Re: Rewindicus]
#18846928 - 09/15/13 11:19 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Lets see some pics OP me an koods can give an opinion on how strong you look. Also throw up a pic of your bud. If hes got gay face we will be able to spot it!
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Re: i think my friend may have a little bit of gay in him... [Re: Rewindicus]
#18846938 - 09/15/13 11:22 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Rewindicus said: Sooooooooo did you nut up an ask him if hes gay? Lol no of course not you big strong lookin man you! 
lol but all jokes aside you should hint to him you're into woman
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Re: i think my friend may have a little bit of gay in him... [Re: geazerpleaser]
#18846961 - 09/15/13 11:28 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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yea man, this is awake up call, i need to get off my lazy ass and start chasing women, or peeps are gonna get the wrong idea..
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Re: i think my friend may have a little bit of gay in him... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18847860 - 09/16/13 06:42 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: he is into photography and the other day tells me i have a nice psysique and offers to take pictures of me. thinking he was kidding i said sarcastically that i would do it only if i were naked, but he says "yea man we could do that", and he wasn't kidding..
Don't jump to conclusions man. I have a dry sense of humor and unusual interests, open mind and good taste in clothing, quite frankly. I've been mistaken for being gay sadly several times. I am in no way interested in a sexual relationship with a man, and am purely into women. Sometimes it's flattering, such as when i get hit on by other men, how ever it's sad because women think it too sometimes and instantly put me in an off limits zone (working on improving this by the way). If you're friend has a dry sense of humor like me, it's very possible, he was hoping for some real shots for his photography: you gave him shit and he through it straight back at you, and you didn't catch it.
Ultimately there's only one thing to do.
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Rewindicus said: nut up an ask him if hes gay? Lol no of course not you big strong lookin man you! 
If i'm right, he'll be comfortable with his sexuality and he'll be able to handle the question. If i'm wrong and he is gay, and you ask him: he's already offered enough hints that he won't be surprised by the question. In the end he may even be relieved you asked, so that way you two can settle your sexualities for sure. That's right, it's also possible he's gay, and you've sent mixed messages and he's curious.
If this guy does turn out gay, don't let that denture you. Any person can retain them selves sexually; and at the very least he can offer you an ego boost when you need it. Gay men also offer often un thought of benefits. I have no gay men friends for example, but am currently looking for a gay man hair dresser due to their general good sense of style, and yet at the same time ability to relate to other men. lol at the same time, it's these views i hold that perhaps contribute to others thinking i am gay.
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