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how to attract being introvert?
    #18824018 - 09/10/13 03:54 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

How can I attract a girl with my boring life?


Im 18 never had a gf, im a virgin. although have had some oppertunities, girls say im good looking but its like I got a hidden personality, girls smile at me in public.

Basically im a boring guy but I dont care, I enjoy smoking weed, shrooms, nature, staying at home, researching things I find interesting, I have very few to no friends I enjoy being alone. I dont like going clubs or places with crowed people. I like meditating, reading. I like phiolosphical things. How do I find a girl like this, if their are any into a guy like me beyond phsical.
The problem is the way my outside and the I dress doesnt suit my personality, I dress in nice jeans, nice t, nice adidas trainers, casual trendy I take care of my apperence work out pretty built, everything. ... Girls always ask me how many gf ive had or they thing im out going and have loads of friends.

But im an introvert, and im scared of telling them im acctually a loner, so I carry on this front till they think im just boring, they get bored of me . I find it hard opening up to anyone if they put up this front for me, I dunno, how do I stop this, just tell them straight no im a loner?

Should I just carry on not give a fuck and wait till I find a girl or what?
I mean finding the girl is the easy bit, but once they find im boring wouldnt they be put off?
Any advice?


please no advice on taking stimulants or drugs


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Edited by elchegue (09/10/13 03:57 PM)


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Re: how to attract being introvert? [Re: elchegue]
    #18824038 - 09/10/13 04:02 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

boring? you seem to be into some very interesting things, the girl you're looking for is someone who shares those same interests, or maybe not so specifically the same basic nature of questioning that you have. you know?


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Re: how to attract being introvert? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18824083 - 09/10/13 04:16 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

I'm basically in the same boat as you but most of the advice you're going to get is to hang out in places where people are into the same things as you.  and more introverted type places.  like a library.


you're not necessarily a boring person just because you enjoy staying at home.  I know lots of boring people who do nothing but go to clubs and get drunk.
If you really are a boring person and tired of being boring, change that. 

There's absolutely nothing wrong with being introverted.  Some people(mainly extroverts-but definitely not all) may find you boring because they need more stimulation and to be constantly entertained.  Introverts are the opposite.


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Re: how to attract being introvert? [Re: tito123]
    #18824130 - 09/10/13 04:29 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Quote:

Should I just carry on not give a fuck and wait till I find a girl or what?




^ This

I'm 31, intensely introverted, and I'm married to an introverted person as well.

Carry on, and you will meet people this is unavoidable even tho you'll do your best to avoid people in general.


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Invisibleshallowbastard
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Re: how to attract being introvert? [Re: fungus_tao]
    #18824284 - 09/10/13 05:03 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

i would try faking being an extrovert from time to time. choose your battles like when you're in a party of something, but if you wanna meet someone, yeah you have to go out more.

trying doesn't hurt... too much i hope.


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Re: how to attract being introvert? [Re: shallowbastard]
    #18824317 - 09/10/13 05:09 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

yea fake who you are, especially trying to find someone your compatible with, very sound advice. ^This guy know what's up


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Re: how to attract being introvert? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18824544 - 09/10/13 06:01 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Todays society constantly seems to be stigmatizing the introvert to the point where people respect sports and movie stars over poets, scientists and writers. Today, charisma beats intellect. It's a sad fact for anyone, such as myself or apparently you, to constantly having to look for someone who can differentiate between being a loner/loser or an introverted person.

Good luck my friend, be yourself, keep to places that interest you, the people you meet should be interested in the same things as you


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