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Anonymous #1
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Lost
#18821214 - 09/09/13 10:43 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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So theirs a ladyy at my work that I got my eye on. The story goes like this. She works for the cable company at my place. The first day I seen her, I was strollin by her table she stands at and she came up to me and asked what kind of cable I had lol really.. I threw a short sentence n walked away or whatever. Didn't really think too much of it. So again, later the same day, I was strolling by with some boxes once again and I kinda dropped em on purpose right in front of her to see what she'd do. Little to my surprise, she came bolting up to help me pick em up. Small talk I think for a short minute and twas done.
I've seen her there a few times here and there
until today. I was planning on doing something but didnt really know what yet. I just got done from working in the back for two hours so I was tired, walked out the doors and there she was. She looked straight at me and I looked away. Went on break and came back in. I was still trying to form some kind of plan but I had nothing.. So I said fuck it, ima stroll past one more time and see what happens. This time, im coming from the side and she sees me. She smiled at me and suddenly said "I thought you left?" as she dropped two papers or w/e. I said nah, I went on lunch. By the time the papers hit the floor, I was on the other sider of her with the floor jack in front of me so I couldnt even pick it up for her.. but basically just small talk for a min. I felt the conversation die alittle so I started stepping back n eventually it died so we both parted. I threw out my garbage and came back out, she was packing up to leave. I got closer, she seen me and smiled again, gave her one back and said see ya later. she said bye. Done.
so im getting mixed signals man.. idk wtf to do. I don't know if its just wishful thinking that she feels something too or it's just because shes friendly and used to it from being a sales lady. I am planning on doing something though which I dare not speak the name of my plans because Ima do it either way lol but I just wanted input on whether you think she may or may not be interested. I already asked another person about this whole thing and they said yea she is but im still skeptic.
in all honesty too. Im new to this whole "out her to come out with you" scene shit. personally I don't like it at all. I think its stupid honestly. It just seems so routine and fkn boring. So thats why I developed my own plan to be different. Back then when we were alittle younger, it was much different and much easier lol age is wisdom now though 
thanks guys!
Edit: I'd like to add that.. I've been alone for some years now too. So me actually being attracted to somebody.. Thats even been years too. This girl coming into my life would be a miracle. It just seems too good to be true. but maybe it isn't, I dont know. Im just a loser kid lost in a lonely world just patiently waiting. Faith.
Edited by Anonymous (09/09/13 10:47 PM)
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sillycyben
im 27 fuck me



Registered: 01/19/13
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For the love of god just dont puss out and get all quiet and passive, Im still kickin myself for all the shit Ive missed out on in life/women cause I was a shy little bitch and was too 'scared' to let them know what I really wanted. Trust me even getting straight up rejected isnt as bad as forever thinking "Fuuuuck why didnt I do anything??!"
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sillycyben
im 27 fuck me



Registered: 01/19/13
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Also, how old are you?
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Lynnch
Strangerer



Registered: 04/29/09
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Quit fooling around and just ask her out. You can get creative when you're actually on a date, but there's really only one way to say "Hey, want to hang out?"
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Anonymous #1
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Quote:
sillycyben said: For the love of god just dont puss out and get all quiet and passive, Im still kickin myself for all the shit Ive missed out on in life/women cause I was a shy little bitch and was too 'scared' to let them know what I really wanted. Trust me even getting straight up rejected isnt as bad as forever thinking "Fuuuuck why didnt I do anything??!"
QFT
im 23. I feel like im 70 lol
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The5thElement
Smile Friends :)



Registered: 07/01/12
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Yeah man just ask her if she would like to hang out sometime, just do it casually like start some small talk with her again and then sometime throughout the day ask her. Sounds like she'll probably say yes and if not, well at least you know then right?
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Anonymous #1
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thing is. i think its more awkward just starting small talk and then suddenly asking her to chill. it seems so... sudden. it just seems like this..
Me: hey Her: whats up. and then what.. unless she says something..
its not really rejection im afraid of. its more of the asking part because thats what confuses me.
what if i walk up and just flat out say. your beautiful lol i wouldnt really.
but what if i just walked up n said "coffee?" or something.
I suck at breaking ice. it only seems to ever work if I get a good conversation going and eventually just say, you seem pretty cool, mind if I get your number? Out of all the cases, that's usually what happens.
conversations suck lol thats why I usually develop my own different plans to get her attention. always seems alot easier.
im going back to work tomorrow so maybe shell be there and if so, its my chance but if not, ill wait again.
ill report back on what happens when our schedules click again, hopefully tomorrow...
prayers.
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The5thElement
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Ya man just keep chatting her up and then when it feels right ask her to hang out or whatever, the same thing happened to me tonight actually. I made some small talk with this chick and ended up asking her out, long story short it was a loss but whatever no biggie.
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Into The Woods
Quarantine King


Registered: 04/20/13
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If you get off the island, you're going regret not trying harder.
And once you realise that, you'll realise you have to get back to the island.
Edited by Into The Woods (09/12/13 03:32 AM)
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The5thElement
Smile Friends :)



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Is that a "lost" reference, because I only watched season two so I don't quite know for sure
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