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koods
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Well, despite my doubts about how I would handle an open relationship, I also don't think long term monogamy is a realistic goal for a lot of people, including myself,
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shallowbastard
the friendly puppet


Registered: 01/15/09
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Re: I'm a shitty person [Re: koods]
#18824296 - 09/10/13 05:05 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Why do some men wanna have sex with other women when they're in relationship?
It happens to me sooner or later, but i'm working on it and as time goes by i can control my urges more and more.
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pwnasaurus
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Registered: 07/16/08
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Loc: Canada
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shallowbastard said: Why do some men wanna have sex with other women when they're in relationship?
It happens to me sooner or later, but i'm working on it and as time goes by i can control my urges more and more.
Every person in the history of time has wanted to have sex with another person while they were in a relationship. There is a very big difference between "wanting" and "doing" though.
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HeroMike
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Re: I'm a shitty person [Re: pwnasaurus]
#18824809 - 09/10/13 07:06 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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pwnasaurus said:
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shallowbastard said: Why do some men wanna have sex with other women when they're in relationship?
It happens to me sooner or later, but i'm working on it and as time goes by i can control my urges more and more.
Every person in the history of time has wanted to have sex with another person while they were in a relationship. There is a very big difference between "wanting" and "doing" though.
Routine in a relationship kills the romanticism . I think having kids makes routines a main part of the relationship by default . Which may be why statistically married people with kids cheat more the those without .
The "difference" is the amount of respect and value of your partner is worth to you at any given moment . Then deciding that value is higher/lower then your need for biological fulfillment .
All my opinion though ^_^
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shaggyp
California Hottboi



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Re: I'm a shitty person [Re: HeroMike]
#18824837 - 09/10/13 07:14 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm surprised nobody really addressed the fact that you're not getting the affection you want at home.
You have nothing to lose, so try talking to your wife and correct that problem. Try being more affectionate with her, bring that spark back. Work at it!!!
If you do nothing about this problem, you'll get more of the same. If you don't get what you want from your marriage, you'll look for it elsewhere. Have you ever tried talking to your wife about your desire to have a more affectionate, physical relationship with her? What was her response?
My wife and I kinda have an understanding. We're not exactly "monogamous" because we have fooled around with a couple guys together. I watch all the porn I want and flirt all I want, and we draw the line at secretive sexual encounters. I've been tempted before, but since I feel free to express myself sexually in a variety of ways we're both okay with, I don't have such a hard time sticking to it.
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CounterCulturest
-Positive Mental Attitude-

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Re: I'm a shitty person [Re: Bawks]
#18824982 - 09/10/13 07:47 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Bawks said: Maybe you should just stay single until you know you want to be in a committed relationship.
Yeah no shit right ? how effin obvious is that...
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Anonymous #1
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I really appreciate all the replies guys, it means a lot to me. Honestly
I'll stay back on the right path & I will try hard to avoid temptations
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Anonymous #4
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