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Anonymous #1

I'm a shitty person
    #18817596 - 09/09/13 01:26 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

I've always had a problem with women. Wholeheartedly loving the person I'm with but being too weak to resist having sex with other sexy girls.
I thought I was past this shit but according to last nights romps I'm still a moron.
I let myself down yet again.
I actually don't do anything to get women to claw at me but I somehow refuse to tell them "im not single" 
    I mean, this chick last night was so fucking hot it was like the ultimate test for me.
I failed miserably & I really let myself down...again


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Re: I'm a shitty person [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18817655 - 09/09/13 02:00 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Maybe you should just stay single until you know you want to be in a committed relationship.


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Re: I'm a shitty person [Re: Bawks]
    #18817691 - 09/09/13 02:40 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Or find a girl who is down with open relationships.


My question is are you rawdogging these other girls then rawdogging the girl your dating? If so, thats fucked up an in my book would make you a pretty bad person.


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Anonymous #1

Re: I'm a shitty person [Re: Rewindicus]
    #18817716 - 09/09/13 03:06 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

No its not like that. I'm married w kids actually. My wife is a good girl too & I really love her.
I have no complaints other than lack of affection.
I just need to keep myself away from other girls at all costs.
    Its like a crackhead struggling with the rock.  I'll get through th shit somehow.
Do I deserve enyone at all? no


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Re: I'm a shitty person [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18817726 - 09/09/13 03:12 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Thoughts/desires/emotions are a prison you must escape

The more you do them, the more they trap you and the more suffering they bring

Moderation

If you can't control them, you can't be yourself
maybe you're stressed / missing some part of yourself

do you appreciate life?

it's normal to be happy most days, appreciate everything you see, love yourself and others, have fun/be playful  , without needing anything, the only thing you need is to be yourself

stress / abuse of things can get us away from ourselves

simple lifestyle,meditation,nature  , doing what you love,  everyday, that would be good
there are other values in life than sex :-)

find your true values in life and do what you love, then you find yourself

houseplants,pets,guitar , nature .. everyday , there are no bad days  :-)


Edited by lessismore (09/09/13 03:24 AM)


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Re: I'm a shitty person [Re: lessismore]
    #18817735 - 09/09/13 03:18 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

No. He just doesn't give a shit about what he does until he shoots his load. Then he goes "whoops, I shouldn't have done that. Look how shitty I am"


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Re: I'm a shitty person [Re: koods]
    #18818294 - 09/09/13 09:38 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Wanting to fuck a bunch of women doesn't make you a bad person, but you probably shouldn't tell any one of them (wife included) that she's the only one.


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Anonymous #1

Re: I'm a shitty person [Re: TheWiz]
    #18818828 - 09/09/13 12:54 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

I guess there's some truth to what everyone's saying. I dont go out looking. It's like once a year I slip up though.
If I have too many beers, its like that little voice that says "don't do this" remains silent.
I'll just try harder and avoid all situations like that too. I can beat this problem


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Anonymous #2

Re: I'm a shitty person [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18818928 - 09/09/13 01:34 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

its all in your head man,

ive been with my girl for a few years
and ive had girls tell me they wanted me or that they
know i got a gf and just want a friend with benefits and i had
to shoot em down, you know how hard that is?! lol


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Anonymous #1

Re: I'm a shitty person [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #18819307 - 09/09/13 03:23 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Howd you do it??  I could do it sober I'm sure. Its hard when they're grabbing at you in the dark


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Re: I'm a shitty person [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18819319 - 09/09/13 03:26 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

dont go to the dark areas with them.











DO NOT try to make it seem like you're the victim because YOU'RE
the one doing it.


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Re: I'm a shitty person [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18819407 - 09/09/13 03:59 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous said:
Howd you do it??  I could do it sober I'm sure. Its hard when they're grabbing at you in the dark



It's simple - you need some moral fibre.  OK, so maybe it's not so simple for some people...


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Re: I'm a shitty person [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18820403 - 09/09/13 07:45 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

Anonymous said:
No its not like that. I'm married w kids actually. My wife is a good girl too & I really love her.
I have no complaints other than lack of affection.
I just need to keep myself away from other girls at all costs.
    Its like a crackhead struggling with the rock.  I'll get through th shit somehow.
Do I deserve enyone at all? no



You're married with kids and porking pigs?  You are beneath contempt and you know it.


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Re: I'm a shitty person [Re: zappaisgod]
    #18820437 - 09/09/13 07:50 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Pigs? never.
Its nothing I do regularly. & yes I admit sometimes losing the battle of self vs. self
  I think sometimes we all face that battle


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Re: I'm a shitty person [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18820480 - 09/09/13 07:58 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

DUDE you need to tell your WIFE about how unfaithful you are. IMO you dont deserve your wife and you need to either commit to your marriage, or get a divorce and remain single until you figure out what you really want in a relationship.

There is no excuse for having an affair and betraying someone!


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Re: I'm a shitty person [Re: FruitOfLife]
    #18820523 - 09/09/13 08:06 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

There is no excuse for having an affair and betraying someone!




Actually, there are tons
















:douchewink:



He doesn't have to tell her anything.  God I tell you, the monogamous preachers on this site are rather relentless.

But I do think this is great advice,

Quote:

either commit to your marriage, or get a divorce and remain single until you figure out what you really want in a relationship.




I say he gets a divorce because it's obvious he isn't happy and it isn't the first time.  But that's just me.

I have had some transgressions in the past myself.  I wish I would of just stayed single until I was ready to attempt monogamy with the right attitude.


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Re: I'm a shitty person [Re: Masked]
    #18820542 - 09/09/13 08:09 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

Masked said:
He doesn't have to tell her anything.  God I tell you, the monogamous preachers on this site are rather relentless.



Nobody is saying monogamy is the only way to live your life.  The sentiment is that if you tell your partner that you are in a monogamous relationship then you're an asshole if you betray their trust.


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Re: I'm a shitty person [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18820546 - 09/09/13 08:10 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

this sounds like another failed marriage in the making. i did hear something about the divorce rate being higher these days so at least you can take comfort in your misery.


your life would probably be even more rediculous if your wife was cheating too. maybe you could set her up with a friend or something to give yorself some ammo if she finds out you like to fuck other women in your free time. LOLZ


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Re: I'm a shitty person [Re: pwnasaurus]
    #18820567 - 09/09/13 08:14 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

The sentiment is that if you tell your partner that you are in a monogamous relationship then you're an asshole if you betray their trust.




agreed :shrug:

I still think there are a lot of "monogamous preacher tendencies" around here.


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Re: I'm a shitty person [Re: Masked]
    #18820716 - 09/09/13 08:41 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

You must redefine your relationship. It's the 21st century, y'all ain't muurrried

Kidding. But on a serious note, sometimes temptation ensues. You got to think about what matters more and compare your behaviors to it.

:peace:


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