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extreme


Registered: 04/05/11
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When I have unimportant things to say...
#18819335 - 09/09/13 03:32 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I just talk to myself 
I guess I'm making this post because this girl I haven't seen in a long time just called me to chat. Well she asked me to go to a party for her best friend. But besides that, she's just one of those really chatty people, super extroverted, just likes to hear herself talk. Now I'm the complete opposite and I never care to make pointless conversation really. That doesn't mean I won't... I still managed to talk to her for like 10 minutes. But towards the end I just made up an excuse "yea I gotta go.." and she's cool and stuff and we have more things to talk about in person. But I hate talking on the phone, especially just to chat about useless shit. If we're gonna bullshit, I wanna at least see the dumb expression on your face.
This post is almost an expression of exactly what I mean. She probably has a really short attention span, has forgotten about me already, is still looking at outfits to wear this weekend (lol) to the party and is maybe calling another friend. She reminds me of derpina almost to a tee LOL. Just a happy careless girl.
I hung up basically so I could have a conversation with myself. She's basically a friend with benefits sorta girl I know... we met at a rave and I gave her molly and the rest is history. But since she's spent so much time with me on stimulants she probably thinks it's a large part of my personality to always be so chatty and stuff like that, but most of the time, I'm simply not like that. It's not like she'll see this post but I would defend her anyway and say I like her and she's a nice girl, because I'm not an asshole. But that still doesn't mean I think everything she says is interesting. Her mind just runs at a slightly different level than mine. She's mentioned adderall to me before in conversation and I dunno if she takes it regularly (if she did that would explain a lot) but she kinda has a tweaky personality like that. But she's pretty healthy looking so I don't think she takes it all the time but I dunno for sure.
Wasn't even sure what forum to put this in... I guess I'll stick it here since I'm discussing personalities and stuff. I don't know what else to comment on. I just thought my own behavior was kind of funny.. excusing myself so I could not have my thoughts interfered with 
I really don't like using phone calls just to have a conversation with people. Either talk about pertinent information or just don't talk at all. Bullshitting over the phone is just too much for me!
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Shroomism
Space Travellin



Registered: 02/13/00
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Loc: 9th Dimension
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Re: When I have unimportant things to say... [Re: extreme]
#18819532 - 09/09/13 04:27 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm the same way man. I can't hold a bullshit conversation to save my life. I absolutely hate talking on the phone except about raw facts. Who, what, where, when, why, bye. "Small talk" is too damn small for me.
Everything doesn't have to be super deep and profound, but at least have some damn substance. I don't care to gossip about what Bob and Sue are doing.
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FishOilTheKid
Ascended


Registered: 11/14/10
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Re: When I have unimportant things to say... [Re: Shroomism]
#18822254 - 09/10/13 07:14 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
"Small talk" is too damn small for me.

I notice myself saying the same repetitive phrases cause I just don't know what to do when shooting the shit. It goes, 'oh really, no way, really, right on' most of the time.
But a friend I went to high school with contacted me on facebook and we chatted for hours about Wicca and entities and shifting paradigms and medical models. Was really fulfilling.
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