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Re: How to deal with a drunk/angry person? [Re: Repertoire89]
    #18832255 - 09/12/13 12:23 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

^ Ok, I have have friends I have known since I was 4 years old and have gotten in minor scuffles with them. I'm not talking about beating each other unconscious but just a few punches..half the time they always miss anyways..all because we were fucking wasted. next morning we laugh about it.. If you got that alpha male mentality I see it hard to ever keep a friendship. :shrug: We're all equal dude


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Re: How to deal with a drunk/angry person? [Re: Gorlax]
    #18832412 - 09/12/13 01:10 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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^ Ok, I have have friends I have known since I was 4 years old and have gotten in minor scuffles with them. I'm not talking about beating each other unconscious but just a few punches..half the time they always miss anyways..all because we were fucking wasted. next morning we laugh about it.. If you got that alpha male mentality I see it hard to ever keep a friendship. :shrug: We're all equal dude




I've got a lot of friends, more than most because the nature of my travels. They're all transient though.
If someone yells at me or tries to become violent with me, they're cut off. Its only happened with a few people, out of thousands so I know they're not worth having around.

Letting someone get away with that kind of behavior, maybe when I was a kid but on the occasions its happened in the past few years I've walked away without a word and never spoke to those individuals again. That sort is 1 in 100, not worth my time.


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Re: How to deal with a drunk/angry person? [Re: Gorlax]
    #18832414 - 09/12/13 01:11 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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:shrug: We're all equal dude




Doesn't seem like your friend thinks that way, you're already walking on glass around him.


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Re: How to deal with a drunk/angry person? [Re: Repertoire89]
    #18832490 - 09/12/13 01:31 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

lol idk maybe are friendships are different. to me it's like two brothers arguing. I'm not talking about getting metal pipes and smashing each other over the head. :shrug:


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Re: How to deal with a drunk/angry person? [Re: Gorlax]
    #18832533 - 09/12/13 01:44 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

If one of my brothers acted like that towards me I wouldn't talk to them either, we're not kids anymore. I respect myself and expect my friends to as well, they don't get that from me and I won't tolerate it from them.

Its a matter of respect, its fine to spar for fun, to get in a fight over something serious, but the situation in OP crosses the line for me.


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Re: How to deal with a drunk/angry person? [Re: Repertoire89]
    #18832664 - 09/12/13 02:16 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Yeah that reason is stupid almost sounds like an opiate outburst.


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Re: How to deal with a drunk/angry person? [Re: Gorlax]
    #18833058 - 09/12/13 04:01 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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^ Ok, I have have friends I have known since I was 4 years old and have gotten in minor scuffles with them. I'm not talking about beating each other unconscious but just a few punches..half the time they always miss anyways..all because we were fucking wasted. next morning we laugh about it.. If you got that alpha male mentality I see it hard to ever keep a friendship. :shrug: We're all equal dude



yeah I feel this way too. There is no real "right" asnwer

If a little kid punches you, you arent gonna flip? Similarly, when you go out for a night of drinking, I think it is fair to expect some of us will be less lucid than otherwise had we been sober


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Re: How to deal with a drunk/angry person? [Re: topdog82]
    #18833088 - 09/12/13 04:06 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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If a little kid punches you, you arent gonna flip? Similarly, when you go out for a night of drinking, I think it is fair to expect some of us will be less lucid than otherwise had we been sober




A little kid is a little kid. A grown man is a whole other story, alcohol isn't an excuse for being a loser


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Re: How to deal with a drunk/angry person? [Re: Repertoire89]
    #18833101 - 09/12/13 04:07 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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If a little kid punches you, you arent gonna flip? Similarly, when you go out for a night of drinking, I think it is fair to expect some of us will be less lucid than otherwise had we been sober




A little kid is a little kid. A grown man is a whole other story, alcohol isn't an excuse for being a loser



I guess your entitledto your opinion. but onve again, i disagree


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Re: How to deal with a drunk/angry person? [Re: topdog82]
    #18833183 - 09/12/13 04:27 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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topdog82 said:

If a little kid punches you, you arent gonna flip? Similarly, when you go out for a night of drinking, I think it is fair to expect some of us will be less lucid than otherwise had we been sober




A little kid is a little kid. A grown man is a whole other story alcohol isn't an excuse for being a loser



I guess your entitledto your opinion. but onve again, i disagree



Me too Rep. To me it sounds like you have a very different idea of friendship than most people, and those thousands of friends you spoke of are probably not what I would consider friends.
What I would consider a friend is someone that I'd take a punch for.
Also the alpha/beta male thing is something to be :lol:'d at, especially while claiming others act like little kids. Personally, I'd rather be a child than a wild animal.


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Re: How to deal with a drunk/angry person? [Re: HalfLight]
    #18833432 - 09/12/13 05:33 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

If it starts to get serious, then I say, do you want to take this outside? Well? Do ya?


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Re: How to deal with a drunk/angry person? [Re: Yage]
    #18833782 - 09/12/13 06:58 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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If it starts to get serious, then I say, do you want to take this outside? Well? Do ya?




You talkin' me?



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Re: How to deal with a drunk/angry person? [Re: HalfLight]
    #18833804 - 09/12/13 07:06 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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topdog82 said:

If a little kid punches you, you arent gonna flip? Similarly, when you go out for a night of drinking, I think it is fair to expect some of us will be less lucid than otherwise had we been sober




A little kid is a little kid. A grown man is a whole other story alcohol isn't an excuse for being a loser



I guess your entitledto your opinion. but onve again, i disagree



Me too Rep. To me it sounds like you have a very different idea of friendship than most people, and those thousands of friends you spoke of are probably not what I would consider friends.
What I would consider a friend is someone that I'd take a punch for.
Also the alpha/beta male thing is something to be :lol:'d at, especially while claiming others act like little kids. Personally, I'd rather be a child than a wild animal.




Well come to the jungle. 



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Re: How to deal with a drunk/angry person? [Re: LunarEclipse]
    #18833969 - 09/12/13 07:45 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Ok lets get drunk and i will fuck you up to show you that I'm the alpha male.

:goodluckwiththat2:


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Re: How to deal with a drunk/angry person? [Re: HalfLight]
    #18833980 - 09/12/13 07:48 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Me too Rep. To me it sounds like you have a very different idea of friendship than most people, and those thousands of friends you spoke of are probably not what I would consider friends.
What I would consider a friend is someone that I'd take a punch for.
Also the alpha/beta male thing is something to be :lol:'d at, especially while claiming others act like little kids. Personally, I'd rather be a child than a wild animal.




I found that last comment about being a child versus wild animal pretty ironic, I'm too civilized to tolerate someone yelling at me or physically confronting me. Its grounds to cut the person off permanently.

My idea of a friend is someone who respects me, someone I respect. You do not yell at someone you respect without damn good reason, alcohol is not a valid reason and neither is adjusting a seat.

Have fun hanging out with ignorant brutes.


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Re: How to deal with a drunk/angry person? [Re: topdog82]
    #18834150 - 09/12/13 08:19 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

There is no reasoning with drunk people once they get to a certain point.


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Re: How to deal with a drunk/angry person? [Re: Gorlax]
    #18834207 - 09/12/13 08:28 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Ok lets get drunk and i will fuck you up to show you that I'm the alpha male.

:goodluckwiththat2:




Whatever.  You would pass out long before actually taking a swing at me.  Drink for drink, then bring it on.  I could fucking drink you under the table.  Fuck me up?  Yeah after you die of fucking alcohol poisoning.  I'm sure.


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Re: How to deal with a drunk/angry person? [Re: InTiMiDaToRdInO]
    #18834221 - 09/12/13 08:30 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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There is no reasoning with drunk people once they get to a certain point.




You are so full of it.  Gimmmeeee a fucckkkingg breeaaakkk.  (gotta make clear mods know this is sarcasm, as i've already been warned once this week)


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Re: How to deal with a drunk/angry person? [Re: LunarEclipse]
    #18834371 - 09/12/13 09:04 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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InTiMiDaToRdInO said:
There is no reasoning with drunk people once they get to a certain point.




You are so full of it.  Gimmmeeee a fucckkkingg breeaaakkk.  (gotta make clear mods know this is sarcasm, as i've already been warned once this week)




Yeah I have to agree with you, even if you can't control yourself past a certain point its your responsibility not to get to that point. As an adult

Personally I've drunk to blackout many times and know full well that I have more control than that, alcohol isn't a blanket excuse for being a loser


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Re: How to deal with a drunk/angry person? [Re: Repertoire89]
    #18834403 - 09/12/13 09:10 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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LunarEclipse said:
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InTiMiDaToRdInO said:
There is no reasoning with drunk people once they get to a certain point.




You are so full of it.  Gimmmeeee a fucckkkingg breeaaakkk.  (gotta make clear mods know this is sarcasm, as i've already been warned once this week)




Yeah I have to agree with you, even if you can't control yourself past a certain point its your responsibility not to get to that point. As an adult

Personally I've drunk to blackout many times and know full well that I have more control than that, alcohol isn't a blanket excuse for being a loser




Yeah we understand, you are capable of getting blackout drunk, many times, yet will never forgive a friend who threatens you once.

You are frankly someone who I wouldn't want to drink with. 

You seem willing to call someone a loser for losing it even once. 

Blanket excuse this.  I would say it in Italian, but don't speak Italian.


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