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TheWiz
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Re: can an open relationship work? [Re: koods]
#18818369 - 09/09/13 10:07 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Masked said:Experimenting with it to "save" a marriage probably = a mess.
I agree with that statement.
As for my experience on the matter in general: I live with a girl whom I love very much. We fuck other people quite often, sometimes friends, sometimes strangers, sometimes separate, sometimes together(group sex is the greatest thing on earth, bar none). I wouldn't have it any other way.
Does jealousy ever creep into these situations?
Nah. We get plenty of attention from each other. Living like this, you realize pretty quickly that neither love nor sex come in limited quantities that need to be rationed.
It's possible that one day we'll be apart (in fact, we have had significant stretches of just that because one of us wanted to travel...), but that will be because one or both of us wanted to go, not because some malicious outsider ruined us. Ya dig?
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Re: can an open relationship work? [Re: TheWiz]
#18818475 - 09/09/13 10:49 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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that's awesome wiz im happy ur in a good healthy relationship like that
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Re: can an open relationship work? [Re: Sheekle]
#18818665 - 09/09/13 12:02 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I assumed most people would be somewhat similar to me in that I would eventually be plagued with doubts about the relationship or just feeling like I was losing out to someone else. I guess I am more insecure than the average person.
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Re: can an open relationship work? [Re: TheWiz]
#18818721 - 09/09/13 12:21 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Masked said:Experimenting with it to "save" a marriage probably = a mess.
I agree with that statement.
As for my experience on the matter in general: I live with a girl whom I love very much. We fuck other people quite often, sometimes friends, sometimes strangers, sometimes separate, sometimes together(group sex is the greatest thing on earth, bar none). I wouldn't have it any other way.
Would you feel the same if you had children together, or it makes no difference?
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Re: can an open relationship work? [Re: koods]
#18818855 - 09/09/13 01:07 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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koods said: I assumed most people would be somewhat similar to me in that I would eventually be plagued with doubts about the relationship or just feeling like I was losing out to someone else. I guess I am more insecure than the average person.
What makes you say that? I would say that is absolutely the average person's sentiment. I feel the same way. As I said earlier in the thread, it is a tiny minority of people who can make an open relationship work.
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Re: can an open relationship work? [Re: pwnasaurus]
#18818876 - 09/09/13 01:13 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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koods said: I assumed most people would be somewhat similar to me in that I would eventually be plagued with doubts about the relationship or just feeling like I was losing out to someone else. I guess I am more insecure than the average person.
What makes you say that?
The insecurities I just referenced.
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Re: can an open relationship work? [Re: qman]
#18818923 - 09/09/13 01:33 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I disagree respectfully.
One look at the nations divorce rate and statistics of unfaithfulness will show that healthy monogamy is the minority :shrugs:
I think many people just have too many insecurities as well as an unhealthy, programmed view on what and how a relationship should be(starts at a young age too). This also includes me. But im slowly working on it. Getting more and more comfortable with the thought.
I think the couples who make it work, and I still maintain it's not as rare as you think, deserve a bravo!
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Re: can an open relationship work? [Re: koods]
#18819208 - 09/09/13 02:57 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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koods said: I assumed most people would be somewhat similar to me in that I would eventually be plagued with doubts about the relationship or just feeling like I was losing out to someone else. I guess I am more insecure than the average person.
What makes you say that?
The insecurities I just referenced.
Most people have those insecurities though. I disagree with your conclusion that you are necessarily more insecure than average - you are referencing traits shared by the majority of people IME, myself included.
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Re: can an open relationship work? [Re: pwnasaurus]
#18819287 - 09/09/13 03:17 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Masked, I don't think it would work between us.
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Re: can an open relationship work? [Re: koods]
#18819323 - 09/09/13 03:27 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Re: can an open relationship work? [Re: Masked]
#18819397 - 09/09/13 03:55 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I went through with it. Fucked her for 3 and a half hours straight last night and made her cum atleast 10 times. I should be in porn or something i have insane endurance. But man i am sore. Then we had more fun this morning haha...
So yeah were planning to do it again soon.
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Re: can an open relationship work? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18819436 - 09/09/13 04:04 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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So they break up and get back together just to keep fucking other people. doesn't sound like either of them want to be together. and trow in a third and fourth element... shits risky man.
i know i couldn't do it.
and that statement^ jumping head first in the shallow end. has her man fucked someone else yet?
This whole thing just makes me uncomfortable.
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Re: can an open relationship work? [Re: qman]
#18819489 - 09/09/13 04:16 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Masked said:Experimenting with it to "save" a marriage probably = a mess.
I agree with that statement.
As for my experience on the matter in general: I live with a girl whom I love very much. We fuck other people quite often, sometimes friends, sometimes strangers, sometimes separate, sometimes together(group sex is the greatest thing on earth, bar none). I wouldn't have it any other way.
Would you feel the same if you had children together, or it makes no difference?
Can't imagine things would be any different with kids. If you're suggesting that it's every parents' job to raise their kids in a good wholesome nuclear family environment, then I say to you, "Eat a dick!"
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Re: can an open relationship work? [Re: omegafaust]
#18819495 - 09/09/13 04:17 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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omegafaust said: So they break up and get back together just to keep fucking other people. doesn't sound like either of them want to be together. and trow in a third and fourth element... shits risky man.
i know i couldn't do it.
and that statement^ jumping head first in the shallow end. has her man fucked someone else yet?
This whole thing just makes me uncomfortable.
Just because it makes you feel uncomfortable doesnt mean it works that way for everybody 
And i dont see how it is relevant which one of them gets laid first.
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Re: can an open relationship work? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18819499 - 09/09/13 04:18 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: I went through with it. Fucked her for 3 and a half hours straight last night and made her cum atleast 10 times. I should be in porn or something i have insane endurance. But man i am sore. Then we had more fun this morning haha...
So yeah were planning to do it again soon.
You're awesome where was your friend? (The husband)
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Re: can an open relationship work? [Re: koods]
#18819510 - 09/09/13 04:21 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: I went through with it. Fucked her for 3 and a half hours straight last night and made her cum atleast 10 times. I should be in porn or something i have insane endurance. But man i am sore. Then we had more fun this morning haha...
So yeah were planning to do it again soon.
You're awesome where was your friend? (The husband)
He was at his home watching his daughter... and yeah he knows what we were doing. He is ok with it i made sure many times.. if for whatever reason he isnt i told him to tell me. Hes my best friend hes not gana get pissed off at me for something he suggested when i offer him every way out.
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Re: can an open relationship work? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18819528 - 09/09/13 04:26 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: I went through with it. Fucked her for 3 and a half hours straight last night and made her cum atleast 10 times. I should be in porn or something i have insane endurance. But man i am sore. Then we had more fun this morning haha...
So yeah were planning to do it again soon.
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Re: can an open relationship work? [Re: koods] 1
#18819541 - 09/09/13 04:28 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: I went through with it. Fucked her for 3 and a half hours straight last night and made her cum atleast 10 times. I should be in porn or something i have insane endurance. But man i am sore. Then we had more fun this morning haha...
So yeah were planning to do it again soon.
You're awesome where was your friend? (The husband)
Why the eyeroll? Hush your insecurities koods :p
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Re: can an open relationship work? [Re: koods]
#18819695 - 09/09/13 05:03 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: I went through with it. Fucked her for 3 and a half hours straight last night and made her cum atleast 10 times. I should be in porn or something i have insane endurance. But man i am sore. Then we had more fun this morning haha...
So yeah were planning to do it again soon.
You're awesome where was your friend? (The husband)
Watching and masturbading. Just kidding, they aren't freaks for crying out loud!
Yet...
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Re: can an open relationship work? [Re: Masked]
#18819737 - 09/09/13 05:14 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: I went through with it. Fucked her for 3 and a half hours straight last night and made her cum atleast 10 times. I should be in porn or something i have insane endurance. But man i am sore. Then we had more fun this morning haha...
So yeah were planning to do it again soon.
You're awesome where was your friend? (The husband)
Why the eyeroll? Hush your insecurities koods :p
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