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Anonymous #1

god damnit....
    #18815343 - 09/08/13 01:54 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

So I'm supposed to be studying right now but I can't focus because of a little situation I'm in with this girl, I could be making something out of nothing, but I need to try getting this out of my system somehow so you be the judge...

I have been working with this girl for like half a year now, she is on for the majority of my shifts so we have gotten a lot of time to get to know eachother, and we really seem to hit it off in conversation and also personality wise. Going back to last year, she started dating this other guy from my work, however this was long before I started getting to know her. Anyways she is still dating this guy, and obviously this is the main reason why I haven't pursued her in a romantic way, all though we inevitably end up flirting innocently, though I would NEVER try to hang out with her alone or something because to me that just seems wrong and totally unfair to the guy she is seeing, hes not a bad dude or anything, and I also do not believe she is the type of girl to cheat.

So.... besides the innocent flirting I wasn't expecting our relationship to go anywhere besides friends at work, up until last night that is... I was working just like any other night, and so was she and we were making small talk and joking around and stuff like we always do, I mean I do that with most people at work. But then towards the end of the night I realized she kept on coming into the back of the restaurant to wash dishes and talk to me and the flirting and stuff was becoming more overt. And the double meanings oh god... Our conversations were full of them. Now I'm not sure if this is totally me over thinking some of the things she was saying but it really seemed like either she was consciously trying to tell me something or maybe it was unconscious, after all not everyone is aware of some of the automatic associations the brain can make. One example is this, she started telling me she was feeling tired and she didn't know why, and then a few minutes later she came into the back and made this noise like she was stressed, and then I playfully said "what do ya need girl?" then she sort of ran her finger along my back as she was walking away and said, "couldn't think of anything", and laughed. I mean god that seemed pretty obvious to me. We also got on to the topic of high school at some point and prom and I told her I could never get anybody to go to prom with me (I never really tried cause I was a weird fuck) she said something along the lines of, "really? I figured you would have no problem." So then before we were closing up that night her boyfriend comes in because he is buying alcohol for some other girl we work with and she says hi to him and hugs him and everything, then he leaves to go get the alcohol and all of a sudden she starts asking me about my love life and (which I don't really have atm) telling me about bad relationships she had been in in the past (why did seeing her boyfriend remind her of bad relationships?) and telling me I'm a great guy and stuff. Then as I was about to leave that night I say bye and then she gives me a big hug and says "sorry about your cat" because I was telling her earlier in the day how I had to get my cat put down the other night..........

Well jesus sorry about that wall of text but I can't stop thinking about her and I've had that shroomy loved up feeling going since last night and I really felt a deep connection with her and maybe I'm just crazy but I think she felt it too. It is very hard to communicate some of the subtleties of these types of interactions through words...

So do you think I'm misreading her signals or do you think there is something there? Also what do you think the best course of action is here? I am feeling infatuated with her and I want to just tell her how I feel, however then I have thought of a couple negative possibilities this could yield. I just don't know what to do. Waiting is hard but I don't want to ruin this other dudes trip, or effect my friendship/potential future relationship with this girl. I am working with her in a couple of days so I suppose I will see how she acts then, I feel like I reached a deeper layer of communication with her last night and I want to see if that persists.... Thanks guys.


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Re: god damnit.... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18815364 - 09/08/13 01:59 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

sounds like you're not overthinking things to me. If things happened as you described them, you're either  a really good friend or she wants the D


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Re: god damnit.... [Re: Psilosopherr]
    #18815423 - 09/08/13 02:20 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

with girls that are relationships, i see it very easy for the love she has for another to easily get passed onto another fella, having that fella think of it as something special because he is not entangled in his own loving relationship.  personal experiences of past girls that met and felt a great love for soon show their love of another that is of greater value.  being single i still cater towards well health; mental, physical.  a pleasure it is to know the girl and her fella knowing the truth of the matter.

really check yourself, because this situation is not a very desirable situation to be in.  i would flirt with all my coworkers and loved them all.  all very innocent actions but very much from the heart.


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Re: god damnit.... [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18815446 - 09/08/13 02:26 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

at the least tell her how you feel boss, but make it perfectly clear your not the kinda guy to ever let your situation become awkward regardless of her feelings back at you.

sometimes your cards aint worth a dime if you dont lay em down!


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