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Wife scratched entire right side of face up....
#18806238 - 09/06/13 05:14 AM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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Although, I didn't lay a finger on her. Its *really* bad looking - if I had a job, or something, it'd certainly look bad.
I have a grow going, just 1 tub and its not fruiting. I wanted to call the cops to get her out of my life (or in jail) but I'm afraid of my grow discovery etc (wife doesnt know about it...)
ANy advice appreciated, these scabs/ scars will be here for at least a week.
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Re: Wife scratched entire right side of face up.... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18806274 - 09/06/13 05:49 AM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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Never call the cops.
How sure are you wife doesn't know?
Domestic dispute = "we smell marijuana" = you in a cage paying her the rest of your life if you have a kid.
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Re: Wife scratched entire right side of face up.... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18806949 - 09/06/13 10:52 AM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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Damn dude you alright?
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Re: Wife scratched entire right side of face up.... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18807788 - 09/06/13 03:10 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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You do not need to call the cops to get her out. Just get her out on your own. Give her a couple weeks notice, if she does not want to leave talk to a lawyer and maybe find another place.
However you should move the grow NOW, whether or not you call the cops. She might do something crazier tomorrow and you could come home to find cops there.
It is only safe to grow if you have a super chill and informed girlfriend. Since you are having issues, your house is absolutely not safe until she is gone, and gone for a couple months.
Also I would not count on her not knowing. She could stumble across it and save it as her ace in the hole. Really it should move SOON. And be super nice to her until it moves and avoid all confrontations. If you have grow in the house and she tries anything violent, run! And stay the night at a friends house.
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Re: Wife scratched entire right side of face up.... [Re: Alan Rockefeller]
#18808121 - 09/06/13 04:37 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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Alan Rockefeller said: You do not need to call the cops to get her out. Just get her out on your own. Give her a couple weeks notice, if she does not want to leave talk to a lawyer and maybe find another place.
However you should move the grow NOW, whether or not you call the cops. She might do something crazier tomorrow and you could come home to find cops there.
It is only safe to grow if you have a super chill and informed girlfriend. Since you are having issues, your house is absolutely not safe until she is gone, and gone for a couple months.
Also I would not count on her not knowing. She could stumble across it and save it as her ace in the hole. Really it should move SOON. And be super nice to her until it moves and avoid all confrontations. If you have grow in the house and she tries anything violent, run! And stay the night at a friends house.
IDK if other states have massively different laws, but where I live you can't just kick someone out with "a couple weeks" notice. Even if it's 100% your house, or only your name on the rental agreement, etc. If she has any proof that she's been living there for more than a couple/few months, that does give her some right to stay there. Or at least it would in my state.
If I were OP I'd check my local laws about that.
Of course, he could always ask her to leave-- but if she's putting scratches on his face, I get the impression she's not too agreeable.
Absolutely agree with the rest of your post, though.
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Re: Wife scratched entire right side of face up.... [Re: Alan Rockefeller]
#18808869 - 09/06/13 07:09 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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Alan Rockefeller said: However you should move the grow NOW, whether or not you call the cops. She might do something crazier tomorrow and you could come home to find cops there.
+1... honestly if I were you I'd toss the grow immediately. Can't tell through the years how many threads I've seen about women blowing the whistle on a grow when the relationship goes south. A grow can land you in jail for 5-20, with tens of thousands in associated legal costs. A new grow can be finished before the end of the year.
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Also, check out this vid, especially starting at 3:05. It's funny; but, as they say, many a truth is said in jest. If she's clawing at your face, she'd love nothing better than to see you get your ass kicked:
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Re: Wife scratched entire right side of face up.... [Re: CidneyIndole]
#18809096 - 09/06/13 07:55 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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CidneyIndole said: IDK if other states have massively different laws, but where I live you can't just kick someone out with "a couple weeks" notice. Even if it's 100% your house, or only your name on the rental agreement, etc. If she has any proof that she's been living there for more than a couple/few months, that does give her some right to stay there. Or at least it would in my state.
Absolutely correct. But maybe she does not know that. Usually when you tell someone to leave, they do. Sometimes they do not, and in that case you need to consult the law. Hopefully it will not come to that.
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If I were OP I'd check my local laws about that.
For sure, but chances are that she has not.
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Of course, he could always ask her to leave-- but if she's putting scratches on his face, I get the impression she's not too agreeable.
Agreeable is circumstancial. One minute she will want to leave, the next she will want to stay as long as she can.
Usually people do not consult the law.
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Re: Wife scratched entire right side of face up.... [Re: Alan Rockefeller] 1
#18810014 - 09/06/13 11:51 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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Under these facts, he could get an ex parte restraining order effective immediately, followed by a temporary restraining order. Either/both make it illegal for her to reside there
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Re: Wife scratched entire right side of face up.... [Re: Enlil]
#18811605 - 09/07/13 01:27 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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Enlil said: Under these facts, he could get an ex parte restraining order effective immediately, followed by a temporary restraining order. Either/both make it illegal for her to reside there
But he would have to file a police report and she would likely be prosecuted, correct?
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Re: Wife scratched entire right side of face up.... [Re: Alan Rockefeller]
#18811770 - 09/07/13 02:21 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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Not necessarily. People get restraining orders all the time without filing a police report. There's no requirement to prosecute someone, but it helps in terms of proof. Here, he's got a fucked up face, and pictures of that along with his testimony is all he's likely to need unless she goes to the hearing and outright lies about it.
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