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OfflineSteelPanther


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Finally talking to a girl!
    #18797024 - 09/03/13 10:34 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Its pretty lame that this is basically the first girl I'v really talked to besides when some one asks me something, but its a start. On my first day of school in calculus class. To tell the truth I was tripping pretty hard that morning on accident ( I wanted an ever so slight psychedelic glow to the day, but I could barely see around me). So I took 1.5mg of clonazepam and when I got to calculus I talked to a good looking girl and asked if she wanted to trade numbers since were in the same class. She used lots of smiley faces and stuff when I texted her to give her my number later. Iv been trying to talk to her every day of class but so far iv only talked to her half of the days. I really want to keep things flowing and have it build up momentum, any tips? So far Iv only talked to her a couple times about the class and texted her once when I gave her my number. Also does anyone know how fast I should progress with things like talking longer when to ask if she wants to hang out or something.


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Re: Finally talking to a girl! [Re: SteelPanther]
    #18797037 - 09/03/13 10:37 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

"Hey are you doing anything later?"


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OfflineSteelPanther


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Re: Finally talking to a girl! [Re: Lynnch]
    #18797049 - 09/03/13 10:39 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Thanks, generally when would you say that. After having talked to her for only 30 seconds 5 times? or when you have talked to her like 5 times for a whole minute? Im completely serious, I'm trying to work up how long I talk to her.


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Re: Finally talking to a girl! [Re: SteelPanther]
    #18797088 - 09/03/13 10:47 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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SteelPanther said:
Thanks, generally when would you say that. After having talked to her for only 30 seconds 5 times? or when you have talked to her like 5 times for a whole minute? Im completely serious, I'm trying to work up how long I talk to her.



One time, two times, five times, go for it.


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Re: Finally talking to a girl! [Re: mylfgur]
    #18797098 - 09/03/13 10:50 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

But if I go for it before she has ever gotten comfortable with talking to me it seems like she wouldn't want to hook up


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Re: Finally talking to a girl! [Re: SteelPanther]
    #18797122 - 09/03/13 10:56 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

I wouldn't think of it in terms of a number of minutes. How far have your conversations progressed? Do you know anything about her beyond whether or not she did her homework last night?

There's a girl (actually two, similar situations) that I met and had a pleasant conversation with the last time I was at the gym. We chatted for long enough for me to get an idea of who she was; where she was from, where she works, what her major is etc -more than just 'hey hows it goin'- and she seemed interested enough in me. But we left it at that, and she left before it progressed any further. So, the next time I see her, if she recognizes me and wants to talk more, I'll probably ask if she wants to grab a drink...

Don't be so focused on hooking up. Actually try to get to know this chick and the rest will follow.


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Re: Finally talking to a girl! [Re: Lynnch]
    #18797146 - 09/03/13 11:02 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Ok thanks


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Re: Finally talking to a girl! [Re: SteelPanther]
    #18797159 - 09/03/13 11:06 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Dont think just feel....whatever feels right. Every guy or girl has different tips. Different strokes for different folks hehe.. Never cut any bridges in life- socially or professionally-  they intertwine and if you and her don't connect on a sexual level she might have a perfect friend to introduce you to...


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Re: Finally talking to a girl! [Re: InfiniteToker]
    #18798055 - 09/04/13 05:27 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Is it better to be casual about it and say something like "wana grab lunch" or be more direct about it and say "wana go out with me?"


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Re: Finally talking to a girl! [Re: kakashi68]
    #18798548 - 09/04/13 09:55 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Maybe ask her if she's had breakfast/ lunch yet (whatever time of day it is) just after discussing each others calculators.:wink:


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Re: Finally talking to a girl! [Re: Thayendanegea] * 1
    #18798776 - 09/04/13 11:14 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

You could ask her to lunch or something, that's pretty standard.  If you want to be bold though, ask her to do whatever it is you do as a hobby.  If you ride a bike, ask her if she wants to go on a bike ride.  If you play board games, ask her if she wants to do that.  Etc.  If she shares the hobby, she should be psyched.  If she thinks it's a fucking lame idea and you're lame by extension, well, she probably would never have been much fun anyway.


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Re: Finally talking to a girl! [Re: TheWiz]
    #18800107 - 09/04/13 05:04 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Thanks for the advice, I was stupid though today, I didn't say a word to her. I know its not odd to talk about the class your in with a girl, but would a girl find it odd if you talked to her about stuff unrelated to the class? From what people have said it seems like the answer is no, but it still feels a bit odd since we don't know each other. My hobbies are drugs and chemistry (but I only know gen chem 1 and 2), so I'm not going to talk about either one.


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Re: Finally talking to a girl! [Re: SteelPanther]
    #18800148 - 09/04/13 05:11 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Just remember K.I.S.S. -Keep it simple stupid. It's perfectly fine to ask her something like what else she is taking or what she did over the weekend. You should be asking yourself this: What do you actually want to find out about her?


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Re: Finally talking to a girl! [Re: Lynnch]
    #18803276 - 09/05/13 12:59 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Better to act sooner than later


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Re: Finally talking to a girl! [Re: SteelPanther]
    #18803347 - 09/05/13 01:21 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

How could you go your whole life never talking to girls, like all throughout school years you never be-friended any female classmates or had any girl neighbors growing up or anything? I dunno i guess its a common thing but it just strikes me as odd but thats beside the point

Maybe try going to class tripping balls again if that put you in a good flow lol


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Re: Finally talking to a girl! [Re: Sheekle]
    #18804297 - 09/05/13 05:32 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

I have talked to girls, but just to ask a question once in a while such as what the teacher just said. I have talked to my sisters friends but not much. This is simply the only girl Iv made an effort to talk to. Sadly I didn't talk to her today either so I need to tomorrow. When I was little I talked to girls at school but I don't count that. I actually think its the benzo's that help and now that I think about it I have talked to one other girl when I happened to only sleep a couple hours for a couple days so I took a couple milligrams of clonazepam. I got her number but that was a long time ago and it never went anywhere.


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Re: Finally talking to a girl! [Re: SteelPanther]
    #18804603 - 09/05/13 06:50 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

How long do you need to talk to her?

Anywhere between a minute to several days.


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Re: Finally talking to a girl! [Re: Lynnch]
    #18804610 - 09/05/13 06:52 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

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Lynnch said:
"Hey are you doing anything later?"




That's how you "build momentum" in classroom settings. There are lots of good places to eat around colleges anywho :shrug:


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Re: Finally talking to a girl! [Re: TwinEclipse]
    #18820527 - 09/09/13 08:07 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Its sorta sad but we took a small test in the class today... she was very sad looking at her paper and I bet she got an D by the look on her face. She looked over at me a couple times.. I was on a little amphetamine (7.5mg after a summer break) so I was speeding though the test like it was nothing while bouncing my leg. I including the bouncing leg because it seemed kinda funny to be doing that while speeding though a test. So Im thinking I may ask her if she wants some help with math. Does anyone have a reason why this is a good idea or a bad idea? Hopefully the look on her face reflects accurately how she did on her test.


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Re: Finally talking to a girl! [Re: SteelPanther]
    #18820679 - 09/09/13 08:35 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

How fast we're you tapping your leg? :lol: that happens to me when I get real anxious. Sometimes I get triple multiplier taps if I focus on it.

tests are usually very quiet, and my prof gets :megacrankey: when someone says bless you to a sneeze.


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