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Friend crossing the line?
#18804091 - 09/05/13 04:42 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yesterday I had a really good friend over that I have grown up with since we were little kids. We were both home schooled so we had that in common, so we hung out a lot as kid, and still do from time to time. So like I said, yesterday he came over and all in all it was a pretty good time; we played a lot of League of Legends, some Magic the Gathering, and went in my pool. What I'm concerned wasn't even necessarily the semi frequent creepy sexual comments from him, it's the fact that after he left there were two of my panties missing. (Cute ones at that.) When we went outside to swim he also unexpectedly took a picture of me in my swimming suit and refused to delete it. I also found my lotion on the ground next to the toilet in my bathroom, which could only mean one thing.
I don't know guys, am I being oversensitive? What should I say to him, or should I not bring it up at all? I really feel like he was crossing the line and honestly being a bit creepy, but I have known the guy forever.
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: SARAtonin] 1
#18804122 - 09/05/13 04:50 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sounds like he crossed the line three times.
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: Futuresight]
#18804154 - 09/05/13 04:59 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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It depends. Do you want to fuck him? If so, it's pretty apparent how he feels, so go ahead.
If not... that's hella creepy. He stole your panties?
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: SARAtonin]
#18804160 - 09/05/13 05:01 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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lol wtf that's pretty weird i'd talk to him about that if I was you
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: TheWiz]
#18804313 - 09/05/13 05:36 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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TheWiz said: It depends. Do you want to fuck him? If so, it's pretty apparent how he feels, so go ahead.
If not... that's hella creepy. He stole your panties?
Not at all, I'm lesbian.
And ya I'm agreeing with you guys, he did cross the line. Just don't really sure what to say beside stop being fucking creepy.
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: SARAtonin]
#18804352 - 09/05/13 05:48 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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SARAtonin said:
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TheWiz said: It depends. Do you want to fuck him? If so, it's pretty apparent how he feels, so go ahead.
If not... that's hella creepy. He stole your panties?
Not at all, I'm lesbian.
And ya I'm agreeing with you guys, he did cross the line. Just don't really sure what to say beside stop being fucking creepy.
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: FruitOfLife]
#18804628 - 09/05/13 06:55 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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That made my day lol. Stole the panties to huh ? Hahah. Call him out on all this shit. He definitely crossed the line.
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Panty snatching is an unusual behavior
I can't believe people actually do that. I thought it was only in movies and spongebob.
What the fudge can you do with a darn panty? Say you stole it? OP, I guess your friend knows the answer to that.
In conclusion... if he honestly respects you and you enjoy his company, being friends is just fine. However, if he makes you feel uncomfortable, you should speak up. If you don't, he will continue to do so.
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: TwinEclipse]
#18804693 - 09/05/13 07:07 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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TwinEclipse said: Panty snatching is an unusual behavior
I can't believe people actually do that. I thought it was only in movies and spongebob.
What the fudge can you do with a darn panty? Say you stole it? OP, I guess your friend knows the answer to that.
In conclusion... if he honestly respects you and you enjoy his company, being friends is just fine. However, if he makes you feel uncomfortable, you should speak up. If you don't, he will continue to do so.
I know right ? I love playing with my girls panties. But if I play with them for any longer than a minute I feel like a perv. The only thing I could see OP's friend doing with them is wearing them, smelling them and masterbating in them LOLOL. He might sleep in them or something ? LOL. Put them on his head. Who knows...LOL.
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It sounds like he masturbated over her panties & that pictures he took, and the scent of her lotion. In her bathroom. Now he's probably sniffing her panties and rubbing another one out. That's fucking weird. I'd call him out on it if I were you OP.
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: Dark_Star]
#18804739 - 09/05/13 07:19 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Lol to the hypothetical situations of Mr. panty snatcher
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: TwinEclipse]
#18804928 - 09/05/13 08:11 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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There's a whole section on reddit of people selling their panties now it's fucking hilarious
this is the digital age people
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: Sheekle]
#18804972 - 09/05/13 08:27 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sheekle said: There's a whole section on reddit of people selling their panties now it's fucking hilarious
this is the digital age people
Like a bunch of chicks wearing the panties then selling them to people ?
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Sheekle said: There's a whole section on reddit of people selling their panties now it's fucking hilarious
this is the digital age people
Like a bunch of chicks wearing the panties then selling them to people ?
yep lmfao
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: SARAtonin]
#18805534 - 09/05/13 10:26 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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so this creepy behavior is just out of nowhere? has he shown creep tendencies before?
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I'll confront him about it tomorrow.
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claraclairvoyant said: so this creepy behavior is just out of nowhere? has he shown creep tendencies before?
I havn't hung out with him in some while. He has always been really antisocial and quarky, but noting really like this before.
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: SARAtonin]
#18805764 - 09/05/13 11:20 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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SARAtonin said: He has always been really antisocial and quarky
haha that's funny from one extreme to the other lie that, keeping to himself and then all the way to creeper status
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: Sheekle]
#18809472 - 09/06/13 09:25 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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SARAtonin said: He has always been really antisocial and quarky
haha that's funny from one extreme to the other lie that, keeping to himself and then all the way to creeper status
Its called being awkward. This man just wants some affection and the world has shown him none hes acting out.
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SARAtonin said: He has always been really antisocial and quarky
haha that's funny from one extreme to the other lie that, keeping to himself and then all the way to creeper status
Its called being awkward. This man just wants some affection and the world has shown him none hes acting out.
ya that's prolly true I agree
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: SARAtonin]
#18810275 - 09/07/13 02:03 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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SARAtonin said: it's the fact that after he left there were two of my panties missing. (Cute ones at that.)
My GF has had a guys steal her panties and its funny because she also complains that they always went for the best ones.
Also lived with a girl who did that online thing. She put pics of her body out there (ex stripper) and yes guys would pay her to send them the worn panties from the photo.
Sorry to hear, this it is sticky Have a serious conversation with him, firm but sensitive you don't want to hurt the guy. Hes clearly going through some stuff, it will be embarrassing and awkward. Let him know he is valued, but that this will not be the dynamic. Sounds like he is acting out i also agree, being such a long term friend your in a uneek position to be understanding and help him or scar him badly. If it is to much and to sticky walking away without saying much and putting distance might be the least emotionally messy approach. Set boundaries.
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this a another good example of why guys get a bad rap as a whole. yeh its true some of do some sick shit like this.
i myself wouldnt. but hey im not a user and sure as fuck am not your every day joe blow. still though i kinda get sick of hearing about twisted shit and asshole behavior like this from friends or the news or whatever.
sorry to go off topic OP but its no wonder theres so much duality of the sexes or a hiiden war between some men and some women. if thats too complex a term. my last ex literally hated the world because of all the shit she went through from past loves. so maybe its just because we are a infantile species in ways of evolving to true equality. maybe a lot of us are just instinctually and inherently evil. after all love is a relatively unique to being human and big part of why we became more civil. clearly we have a lot to to improve on still.
by the way op. you seem pretty naive. and i dont wanna freak you out but this guy probably has wanted to get with you since he met you. and now he just might be obsessed. and if hes bi-polar or schizo to boot that could be trouble. i would be wary and maybe stay away if thats close to the truth. i would definitely let some people you trust know like another friend or your family and get their opinion first.
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: SARAtonin]
#18810594 - 09/07/13 05:50 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I think everybody already confirmed it for ya Sara but yeah, pretty damn creepy. Dude appears to have swiped your underwear, took a photo of you in your swimsuit, and masturbated to them. I don't know about you but if I were yourself I would probably have a hard time looking at this person with a straight face while having a normal conversation with them in the future.
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#18811894 - 09/07/13 03:03 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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why is everybody labeling stealing panties as creepy? is great! he's a great friend, mind you, he'll mastubate smelling your panties, possibly licking them, and i ask, where was the harm done?
c'mon panties can't be that expensive unless they're from victoria secret...
smelling panties is great
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Was he plastered? Sounds like plastered behavior. If he wasn't plastered I'd say let him down gently. Maybe ask him to buy you new ones. plasteredlol
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: Yage]
#18814726 - 09/08/13 11:10 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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OR...maybe he's just stealing said panties and then gifting them to some disadvantaged, panty-less hobo girl downtown. You know, like a Robin Hood kind of thing. Sounds like a pretty selfless and altruistic kind of guy to me (I tend to give the benefit of the doubt to people I've never met before).
He does sound purty creeps furrealz tho.
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Anonymous said: by the way op. you seem pretty naive. and i dont wanna freak you out but this guy probably has wanted to get with you since he met you. and now he just might be obsessed. and if hes bi-polar or schizo to boot that could be trouble. i would be wary and maybe stay away if thats close to the truth. i would definitely let some people you trust know like another friend or your family and get their opinion first.
Lol where did that come from ?
How did it go from " maybe he just likes you " to " be careful he's probably a schizo and he's obsessed with you " ?
Okay, it's pretty weird, but chill the fuck out, it doesn't mean he's gonna rape her.
Trust me, there's weirder shit than that out there.
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: Yage]
#18815114 - 09/08/13 12:48 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Pretty weird but not much harm done IMO... Just do this (ask him to buy you new ones )
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Yage said: Was he plastered? Sounds like plastered behavior. If he wasn't plastered I'd say let him down gently. Maybe ask him to buy you new ones. plasteredlol
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: SARAtonin]
#18816217 - 09/08/13 06:22 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yeah man stealing from you is not cool, I'd confront him about that and tell him
NO MORE PANTIES!
unless he pays for them 
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bangpowboomers said: Its called being awkward. This man just wants some affection and the world has shown him none hes acting out.
I'd keep this in mind OP. The poor guy is probably massively attracted to you but knows he can't get any so he gets goes full on pantysniffer and shit 
If you want to be a friend to him you could try and help him get laid, take him out clubbing and shit. Having a gay, female "wingman" can be really, really helpful. Once he starts getting laid more frequently his unwanted sexual tension toward you will dry up faster than a mushroom in the sun. And he'll probably be a happier person and better friend to boot
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: Dawks]
#18816855 - 09/08/13 09:29 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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call him on his psycho-sicko shit. that whole day seems like it was just a big violation of you for him.
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: funegi]
#18817672 - 09/09/13 02:15 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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This thread just got weirder and weirder the more I read on
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: Constantine]
#18817685 - 09/09/13 02:30 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: by the way op. you seem pretty naive. and i dont wanna freak you out but this guy probably has wanted to get with you since he met you. and now he just might be obsessed. and if hes bi-polar or schizo to boot that could be trouble. i would be wary and maybe stay away if thats close to the truth. i would definitely let some people you trust know like another friend or your family and get their opinion first.
Lol where did that come from ?
How did it go from " maybe he just likes you " to " be careful he's probably a schizo and he's obsessed with you " ?
Okay, it's pretty weird, but chill the fuck out, it doesn't mean he's gonna rape her.
Trust me, there's weirder shit than that out there.
i just thought h sounded like a creepo stalker kinda. or at least one in the making considering hes probably a kid. plus shes probably told him shes not into guys but i bet hes hitting on her or patheticaly tryn to from the way she descibed it.
seems kinda like douchebag move right there but the other stuff is what makes it creeper status i think. and if he is a schizo or mental then that would make it even more likely the dudes a creeper.
also i know theres tons of scumbagsi in the world thats what my post was about also. and also why i and others get tired of dealing with the bullshit that it entwines into every day life. glad you got the point though.
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: Soularize]
#18818346 - 09/09/13 09:58 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Dawks said: Yeah man stealing from you is not cool, I'd confront him about that and tell him
NO MORE PANTIES!
unless he pays for them 
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bangpowboomers said: Its called being awkward. This man just wants some affection and the world has shown him none hes acting out.
I'd keep this in mind OP. The poor guy is probably massively attracted to you but knows he can't get any so he gets goes full on pantysniffer and shit 
If you want to be a friend to him you could try and help him get laid, take him out clubbing and shit. Having a gay, female "wingman" can be really, really helpful. Once he starts getting laid more frequently his unwanted sexual tension toward you will dry up faster than a mushroom in the sun. And he'll probably be a happier person and better friend to boot
This is good advice if the dude's willing to own up to what he did. If he denies it and keeps pulling stunts, then he can't be trusted, sad to say.
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He does sound purty creeps furrealz tho.
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: TheWiz]
#18822014 - 09/10/13 04:19 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Explain how you feel and address that he's crossed the line, men will keep pushing until something happens good or bad
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: Ilift]
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Thank you everyone who has contributed their opinion and advice to this thread. I took all of your thoughts into consideration when having my talk with him. Sorry it has taken me a while to reply to this thread, but it took me a while to get around to confronting him. But today, before I went to Denver to go see my girlfriend I finally stopped by his place.
The conversation was about as awkward as I thought it would be. I let him know first and for most that I valued him very much as a friend and that nothing I was going to say was going to change that. But I let him know that what happened last time he was over was completely over the line. He denied nothing which I appreciated, and he offered to erase the photo, but I said I don't really care. The point is I'm pretty sure that now he has the message.
I'll give it a week so it will not be awkward and then I'll hit him up again and see if he wants to chill.
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: SARAtonin]
#18824314 - 09/10/13 05:09 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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SARAtonin said: Thank you everyone who has contributed their opinion and advice to this thread. I took all of your thoughts into consideration when having my talk with him. Sorry it has taken me a while to reply to this thread, but it took me a while to get around to confronting him. But today, before I went to Denver to go see my girlfriend I finally stopped by his place.
The conversation was about as awkward as I thought it would be. I let him know first and for most that I valued him very much as a friend and that nothing I was going to say was going to change that. But I let him know that what happened last time he was over was completely over the line. He denied nothing which I appreciated, and he offered to erase the photo, but I said I don't really care. The point is I'm pretty sure that now he has the message.
I'll give it a week so it will not be awkward and then I'll hit him up again and see if he wants to chill.
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: Sheekle]
#18824888 - 09/10/13 07:25 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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You handled that pretty well.
I've stolen panties before, it happens. It's rude, but not that weird. He'll probably ease off now that you confronted him about it.
On a side note, I am now married to the girl I stole panties from. I eventually washed the panties and gave them back, now she wears them. Hot.
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: shaggyp]
#18824963 - 09/10/13 07:44 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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That is pretty hot LOL
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I was gonna say you should throw the guy a blowjob, but your idea probably worked better.
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: SARAtonin]
#18841276 - 09/14/13 02:34 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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SARAtonin said: I'll give it a week so it will not be awkward and then I'll hit him up again and see if he wants to chill.
Maybe a week until it's not awkward for you, but dont be surprised if homedude doesn't run to the phone when you call to hang out.
Odds are he was keeping his face locked while you were there, but I'd imagine he feels pretty fucking dumb as shit right now - with residual awkwardness hanging around for a good long while.
lets hope not
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: SARAtonin]
#18842362 - 09/14/13 08:30 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Disgusting creeper
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I blame homeschooling.
Ps. try to hook him up with someone and maybe he'll divert his creepyness that way.
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Good luck, Sara! It looks like you have your hands full. Man, stealing panties...weirder and weirder.
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: SARAtonin]
#18848381 - 09/16/13 10:20 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Did you get your panties back or are you gonna call it a loss?
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Re: Friend crossing the line? [Re: danlennon3]
#18850103 - 09/16/13 04:46 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I would have asked what the gesture meant and why he did it. If it was for sexual reasons, point him to those websites that sell used panties. if it was for some fetish aimed at you, it might retain the awkwardness next meeting or any other meeting after that. Being called on it could also produce the effect of severe distance as many guys will befriend women, fall for them, then get an awkward conversation of where the line of friendship is. Many subsequently stop the friendship then and there because they wanted a romantic/sexual relationship the entire time and don't consider the feelings of the friend they just broke up with. Other times, a good friendship can remain because better boundaries have been established.
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^^^ "if it was for sexual reasons"... dude... jacking off in her bathroom, taking pictures of her and stealing her panties. It was definitely sexual man. LOL I have extreme doubt that he was stealing those panties to give to his girlfriend.
Btw what did these panties look like ?
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I've seen some clients that did it for the thrill of "dirtying" up the clothing "with my filthy seed". Yet, these people did it with any target in mind, and not a specified person. Most didn't even want the person whose clothing they did it with.
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