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Re: What should I do, What should I do?! [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18790485 - 09/02/13 03:38 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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She kind of sounds like well, a little bit of an asshole dude..
Unless maybe theres something going on with her you don't know about?
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Re: What should I do, What should I do?! [Re: TheMule73]
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Your relationship sounds INCREDIBLY unhealthy. She sounds dramatic, immature, and very insecure. It doesn't sound like a relationship worth trying to salvage.
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Re: What should I do, What should I do?! [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18790946 - 09/02/13 05:28 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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You deserve a woman that will treat you with love.
If she's got a bad cig addiction and can't smoke then that's probably a big reason as to why she's being a bitch lately, but just because she feels bad that doesn't give her the right to treat you like shit.
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Re: What should I do, What should I do?! [Re: dontknow]
#18792918 - 09/03/13 01:09 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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bring her flowers and if she doesnt appreciate them then tell her you will leave her for a better girl if she doesnt start treating you better. I've been through this very same thing one time my old ex girlfriend got pissed off at me because I was pretty much on my deathbed with a cold. She didn't text or call me for like a week and in the meantime I found better girl who actually came to my house and brought me medicine,made me food, and just kept me company. well one day she texted me saying she wanted to hangout (totally oblivious to the fact that I had been suffering for a couple weeks with the cold) I told I couldn't because I was taking my girlfriend on a date
never heard from her again after a short fight.....i think she tried to kill herself
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Re: What should I do, What should I do?! [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18793509 - 09/03/13 09:02 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Kick her to the curb. There are more important things in life than appeasing people. Have goals for yourself, work on those instead. You don't need anyone if you take charge of your life. Be a man.
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Re: What should I do, What should I do?! [Re: pwnasaurus]
#18793880 - 09/03/13 10:58 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
pwnasaurus said: Your relationship sounds INCREDIBLY unhealthy. She sounds dramatic, immature, and very insecure. It doesn't sound like a relationship worth trying to salvage.
Yup. It took me a few relations to figure this out but I wouldn't change that for anything, as it shaped me into who I am, and my partner is pretty much everything I could have hope for. Break up, find out what you want in a person, and gain the confidence that you are not scared to be along / without a partner.
A lot of people decide to settle for emotional abuse because they fear being alone and they still love their gf / bf. And TBH from have seen and past relationships, you never lose those feelings for that person - you spent history together - but you can move on and look on it as a part of history, a learning experience. If you want to PM me, feel free to - I hate seeing people in similar situations that I was years ago, especially when I look at my relation now and know it's possible for them to.
Not to brag, but imo a relationship is supposed to the icing on the cake, not continuous sorrow. Case in point. After this really bad breakup I lived with (emotional abuse, severe jealosy, sex was good but sex is hardly everything) (we moved out late teens together) it was really hurtful and I blamed her for everything. But then I realized (actually through some therapeutic psychedelic trips - amusingly when I was using heavy K all the time, once acid trip I decided to look down the path I was heading and I was able to stop that addiction - it still took a lot of work though but I digress) that we were both to blame. So I had a period of reflection and a lot of heartbreak and it really molded me into the person I am today. I decided to go all out and have crazy set - threesomes with guys and girls (I am bi). Then I met this really cute girl, as as means as this sounds I only asked her out so I could have a one night stand (She has nice assets :lol). But we grew on each other, really liked each other, and decided to wait for sex for a few weeks, and now over three years later we live together, never seriously fight (OK some minor arguments but that's all). Also she buys me flowers because I love flowers, which makes me over the moon.
So my point is, yet - it's possible to find someone who is awesome - you just have to be willing to not settle and take the plunge to break up.
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Re: What should I do, What should I do?! [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18795940 - 09/03/13 07:21 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yup, REALLY doesn't sound healthy. But hey, nobody ever listens to advice here after posting a thread, so I'm not surprised.
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Re: What should I do, What should I do?! [Re: pwnasaurus]
#18799396 - 09/04/13 02:13 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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dude, no offense but shes an asshole.
why even bother honestly? shes just going to keep putting you down.
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Re: What should I do, What should I do?! [Re: urbannerd]
#18799472 - 09/04/13 02:30 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Abusive relationship.
Get the fuck out NOW!
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Re: What should I do, What should I do?! [Re: Patlal]
#18803291 - 09/05/13 01:02 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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People need to make their own mistakes and learn from them, the best you guys can do is give him advice and if he takes it or not that's up to him.
Plant the seed guys, that's all anyone can really do.
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Re: What should I do, What should I do?! [Re: The5thElement]
#18804237 - 09/05/13 05:17 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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so many factors that make a relationship good or bad. dont pinpoint, but see them all gathered together...
write them down,
the cons and pros of the relationship... and then make a decision.
just be ready for the Worst, dont think the worst is not probable. because it is, unfortunately she will become somebody you used to know and do not really really currently know, her decision are no longer based around the morale of you at all (sounds like there not based around you as it is), but at the same time, something better may or may not unfold, but its worth a shot for happiness
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