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Anonymous #1
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need some advice on a bad situation
#18797795 - 09/04/13 02:36 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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. Delete thread thanks
Edited by Anonymous (09/04/13 10:07 AM)
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koraks
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Re: need some advice on a bad situation [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18798009 - 09/04/13 04:49 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Another option: hang out with her, don't actively make a move and just see where things go, and also hang out with your friend and don't actively engage him on the subject. Don't ask, don't tell; that sort of thing. Maybe nothing much happens between you and the girl, or maybe you just have sex once and are done with each other. Pretty hard to tell what will happen.
Or just take things really slow on both ends; don't meet up with either person too frequently, see how things pan out, don't take initiative, let them come to you. Also a viable option. Also with its own risks, obviously.
From a moral viewpoint, there really is no higher ground in this situation, so nobody can tell you what would be the 'right' thing to do.
Between you and this girl, is it just about lust, or do you envision the two of you as a couple?
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Anonymous #2
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Re: need some advice on a bad situation [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18798264 - 09/04/13 07:35 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I would wait and keep my distance. This chick may have all kinds of crazy stuff in her head. She may just want to hurt her ex or make him jealous. Don't get in the middle of this.
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FruitOfLife
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Re: need some advice on a bad situation [Re: Anonymous #2]
#18798273 - 09/04/13 07:40 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Its not that hard really. You can hang out without fucking her. If she trys to make a move on you, just push her away and tell her you arent gonna disrespect your other friend like that. If she is your friend she will understand that.
And I would for sure tell your other friend about this situation. Its better you tell him yourself than him finding out another way and then he will think you were fucking her behind his back
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Re: need some advice on a bad situation [Re: FruitOfLife]
#18798505 - 09/04/13 09:38 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I really think you should distance yourself from her. At least, until you and your friend can reconcile the situation. Just going hunting with her without your friend knowing may be enough to mess things up even though it was innocent. These situations have no easy answers but they do have simple answers. How much do you value your friendship? If you answer anything over moderately...then you at least need to be honest and upfront with him. That is what friends do. M
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