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ever feel like when you're alone for some time
#18794302 - 09/03/13 01:14 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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ever feel like when you're alone for some time, you kind of lose or forget the ability to interact with people?
i feel like my way of treating people is different, like girls make me act differently unless i remind myself that i should treat them like i treat everybody to get back in the right mindset. body language didn't do to well with the nosebleed girl anymore and it sent me into thinking about these things
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Re: ever feel like when you're alone for some time [Re: mr sniffles]
#18794314 - 09/03/13 01:17 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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k3nnyw said: ever feel like when you're alone for some time, you kind of lose or forget the ability to interact with people?
i feel like my way of treating people is different, like girls make me act differently unless i remind myself that i should treat them like i treat everybody to get back in the right mindset. body language didn't do to well with the nosebleed girl anymore and it sent me into thinking about these things 
Nah youre not alone on this. It will just take time and lots of positive thinking, along with more and more social interaction.
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Re: ever feel like when you're alone for some time [Re: Herbologist]
#18794326 - 09/03/13 01:21 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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crazy to think that just 3 days in isolation can totally change your mindset though, thanks
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Re: ever feel like when you're alone for some time [Re: mr sniffles]
#18794342 - 09/03/13 01:24 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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k3nnyw said: ever feel like when you're alone for some time, you kind of lose or forget the ability to interact with people?
i feel like my way of treating people is different, like girls make me act differently unless i remind myself that i should treat them like i treat everybody to get back in the right mindset. body language didn't do to well with the nosebleed girl anymore and it sent me into thinking about these things 
Just be yourself..In my experience girls don't like guys who try to hard.
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Re: ever feel like when you're alone for some time [Re: Magicman69]
#18794354 - 09/03/13 01:27 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I took a semester off from college and upon returning it was so weird to me to be speaking to people that weren't work related or my normal group of friends or family. It's just a matter of reintegrating yourself, kind of like after a strong trip that can wipe out all memory of reality and normal existance and slowly the pieces just fall back into place.
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Re: ever feel like when you're alone for some time [Re: mr sniffles]
#18794366 - 09/03/13 01:31 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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k3nnyw said: crazy to think that just 3 days in isolation can totally change your mindset though, thanks
ive been somewhat isolated for a year and a half now, dont know how ill ever get back.
It definitely messes with you
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Re: ever feel like when you're alone for some time [Re: Herbologist]
#18794485 - 09/03/13 01:58 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Magicman69 said: Just be yourself..In my experience girls don't like guys who try to hard.
yea i guess i was uncomfortable a lot of the time (congruent with not acting out what i feel instead of what i want to do, this is really confusing to me sometimes)
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LuSiD enthusiast said: I took a semester off from college and upon returning it was so weird to me to be speaking to people that weren't work related or my normal group of friends or family. It's just a matter of reintegrating yourself, kind of like after a strong trip that can wipe out all memory of reality and normal existance and slowly the pieces just fall back into place.
i dont even talk to people who are not in my group unless i felt uncomfortable doing nothing but yes it is all about integrating
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k3nnyw said: crazy to think that just 3 days in isolation can totally change your mindset though, thanks
ive been somewhat isolated for a year and a half now, dont know how ill ever get back.
It definitely messes with you
damn man i hope you can do it but i feel like even if you do it will be the same? just like a little different now that you can talk to everyone but the same feelings.
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Re: ever feel like when you're alone for some time [Re: mr sniffles]
#18794494 - 09/03/13 02:00 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I need at least 5 hours of a day to myself or else I am very irritable and edgy (difficult to be around). I never forget how to interact though. I'm very good at talking and being social, although It isn't my favorite thing ever.
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Re: ever feel like when you're alone for some time [Re: lunarpiscean]
#18794513 - 09/03/13 02:05 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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lunarpiscean said: I need at least 5 hours of a day to myself or else I am very irritable and edgy (difficult to be around). I never forget how to interact though. I'm very good at talking and being social, although It isn't my favorite thing ever.
yeah i feel like that too but the only thing different for me is the feeling or the motivation behind the interaction.
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Re: ever feel like when you're alone for some time [Re: mr sniffles]
#18794533 - 09/03/13 02:09 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Fuck it. Let people talk to you. If you don't feel the motivation to talk then don't.
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Re: ever feel like when you're alone for some time [Re: lunarpiscean]
#18794550 - 09/03/13 02:13 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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lunarpiscean said: Fuck it. Let people talk to you. If you don't feel the motivation to talk then don't.
its not quite that simple.
you can't be in a social interaction, most likely filled with extroverts, and just simply not respond to everything being said to you.
OP needs to start slow with interaction and realize that he doesn't have to have the motivation, as long he feels comfortable and can respond appropriately.
In my experience, jumping in a big group and not responding to anyone, makes things a lot worse for you in your head.
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Re: ever feel like when you're alone for some time [Re: mr sniffles]
#18794577 - 09/03/13 02:21 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I know where you're coming from, man. I'm a pretty introverted person a lot of the time and sometimes when I get into a social situation after too much time alone I'm outta my element, but being relaxed and smiling can make a world of difference. When people see somebody who seems to be enjoying life, they want to join in.
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