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Going to parties uninvited.
#18793051 - 09/03/13 03:18 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Hello guys. I have always been awkward around people i don't know. In the last year i've been social dynamics and have made major strides in communicating with others. I can make my self feel conformable around strangers quite easily now. Tomorrow night i plan on making a major stride though. I want to party and meet new people, and improve my social skills better. I found a house party on Facebook. I'm not invited, in fact i don't know the hosts or any one else attending. I plan on going, and by my self. I'm nervous. Any words of advice? I thought i'd just bring some jager and if anyone asked who invited me, i'd bring out the bombs.
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Re: Going to parties uninvited. [Re: Magenta]
#18793053 - 09/03/13 03:21 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Just be careful OP.
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NWlight
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Re: Going to parties uninvited. [Re: abltsandwich]
#18793057 - 09/03/13 03:26 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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if it's the kind of house party that the cops get called on (100+ish and hella loud), then you may have a chance of entry.
if its a smaller gathering (less than a hundred or so people) then your chances of getting in are slim.
but any time we have a party that size we hire a doorman & security.
be ready to name drop or you might have to GTFO.
do you have a picture of yourself, OP?
sorry to say but that's going to be a huge factor here. if you look like creep-o McGee then even if you show up with free booze that will just make you even creepier.
edit: I forgot another factor. your age. I assume you are talking about a college-aged house party? they will be HELLA Skeptical of anybody who looks older than 30
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smack
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Re: Going to parties uninvited. [Re: NWlight]
#18793060 - 09/03/13 03:29 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Story of my night bro.
Smoke stoges outside, converse with randoms that are doing the same. Join the party when they return.
Be drunk as fuck, assuming drunk = fucking, I dont really know. You got this bro.
Cheers.
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NWlight
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Re: Going to parties uninvited. [Re: smack]
#18793061 - 09/03/13 03:30 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I hate being a random 
y'all go to house parties alone?
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Re: Going to parties uninvited. [Re: NWlight]
#18793064 - 09/03/13 03:33 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
NWlight said: if it's the kind of house party that the cops get called on (100+ish and hella loud), then you may have a chance of entry.
if its a smaller gathering (less than a hundred or so people) then your chances of getting in are slim.
but any time we have a party that size we hire a doorman & security.
be ready to name drop or you might have to GTFO.
do you have a picture of yourself, OP?
sorry to say but that's going to be a huge factor here. if you look like creep-o McGee then even if you show up with free booze that will just make you even creepier.
wtf? you must be older or something because where im from house parties are just a fuckin party man unless its explicitly invite only and your not some rapist anyone can party
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Re: Going to parties uninvited. [Re: NWlight]
#18793067 - 09/03/13 03:34 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I hit up dubstep/glitch shows all the time solo. How the fuck else was I supposed to meet people in a new city?
But ya, being the random at a party is last resort. Assuming you have it in you to liven that shit up.
If you stand in a corner and not talk (or be drunk) then it's 'wtf' bizznez
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abltsandwich
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Re: Going to parties uninvited. [Re: Led Zeppelin]
#18793068 - 09/03/13 03:35 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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fuck that house parties are fuckin legit as
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Re: Going to parties uninvited. [Re: abltsandwich] 5
#18793072 - 09/03/13 03:36 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
abltsandwich said: fuck that house parties are fuckin legit as
Dont tell me what to fuck
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NWlight
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Re: Going to parties uninvited. [Re: Led Zeppelin]
#18793073 - 09/03/13 03:36 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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wtf? you must be older or something because where im from house parties are just a fuckin party man unless its explicitly invite only and your not some rapist anyone can party
nope I lived in a party house that regularly had the police called. DJ in the basement, wasted bitches throwing up in the yard, lines of coke being done publicly etc.
but we always had a doorman to "Censor" who got in and who didn't.
usually priorities were:
male/female ratio of larger groups
creepiness of the individual
if they knew anyone inside
granted, almost anyone could get in if they were smooth enough, but not until the party was large enough that we started seeing people we didn't recognize.
if it's still just the people who live there and a few of their close friends then a rando walking in with booze will be super creepy
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Re: Going to parties uninvited. [Re: abltsandwich]
#18793077 - 09/03/13 03:38 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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some may be mad while others are just horrible.
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Re: Going to parties uninvited. [Re: Psychotria]
#18793093 - 09/03/13 03:56 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Whenever I go to party with people I don't usually hang out with it's bad news IMO
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Konyap

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Re: Going to parties uninvited. [Re: Konyap]
#18793094 - 09/03/13 03:57 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Unless you DJ then you get laid
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smack
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Re: Going to parties uninvited. [Re: Konyap]
#18793095 - 09/03/13 04:00 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I play guitar.
All da bitchez.
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volcomstoner
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Re: Going to parties uninvited. [Re: smack]
#18793106 - 09/03/13 04:14 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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If it's a big enough party no one will care, it helps if you bring alcohol or drugs people will be more accepting. Also it's be a good idea to walk by and strike up a conversation with someone outside, if they think your cool(helps if they're good and drunk) I'm sure they'll gladly invite you in.
Pretty much it just looks better if your there with someone, and it needs to be a party that's on the bigger side, if it's a small gathering with just friends and acquaintances then you might not get away with it unless you can really prove to them that your a cool person. Also that wouldn't even be that fun of a party to go to, since everyone else already knows each other,it really creates an entirely different vibe that I personally am not really into.
Also PO, the timing is important, get there too early when things are going slow and people are just starting to loosen up they're likely to notice an unwanted presence, get there when everyone is nice and drunk, having a good time most won't even care.
Who knows man, it might be a rager and they won't even care if you show, could be a great time. Definitely worth a shot IMO, but if you start getting the vibe that your not welcome, leave. Don't want to get anybody pissed off at you.
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Re: Going to parties uninvited. [Re: volcomstoner]
#18793114 - 09/03/13 04:19 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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My friend made his birthday a public event on Facebook.
A bonfire at the beach.
Like 500+ showed up.
He got punched in the back of the head.
All my friends either got beaten up or robbed.
I was just rolling, read the wack vibes and chilled away from the wackness. I still own the iPod I had that night.
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NWlight
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Re: Going to parties uninvited. [Re: smack]
#18793119 - 09/03/13 04:23 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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He got punched in the back of the head.
Donkey Punch style? 
now there's a bday present.
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Re: Going to parties uninvited. [Re: NWlight]
#18793126 - 09/03/13 04:26 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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It set off a whole brawl.
I wander back to the fire, just to see it out. All I can hear is fist hitting body.
Weird experience when all I wanted was to love.
Poor guy, learned his lesson though. Don't invite every teenager in Greater Vancouver to your party.
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volcomstoner
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Re: Going to parties uninvited. [Re: smack] 1
#18793130 - 09/03/13 04:29 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Lol holy fuck man, idk if I announced a party like that on facebook I can guarentee nothing like that would be happening. I only friend people that I actually somewhat give a shit about or want to keep contact with. If someone adds me that I'm unsure about I'll keep em on for maybe a month or two and delete them if we don't talk to each other.
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Re: Going to parties uninvited. [Re: volcomstoner]
#18793133 - 09/03/13 04:32 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Like I said, public event.
Everybody knew, and no security (Bonfire @ the beach).
The lowest scum of a few gangs were even there. I think. Could just have been my friends justifying why they surrendered their valuables at multi-knifepoint.
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