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Lynnch
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Re: Crush on a girl that's in a relationship [Re: Vsnares.Zappa] 1
#18778808 - 08/30/13 07:01 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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sonamdrukpa said: The only way to fix a problem like this is to go out and fall in love (or at least bang) another girl. Seriously. Unrequited love only gets worse if you let it fester.
THIS 
...Not really. I went and fucked other chicks, and fucked up a lot of decent relationships because I couldn't get my mind off another girl. I just had to let it run its course, after a couple years of waiting it's hard to keep believing you're meant for each other. If you don't want it to fester, fucking go balls out and tell her you want her- You'll find out real quick if she's worth obsessing over.
The bigger lesson is that you shouldn't let yourself fall in love before you fall in love. It's hard because well, everyone wants to fall in love. You meet someone that clicks and you want to give it everything you've got. But you have to control yourself.
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Sham87
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Re: Crush on a girl that's in a relationship [Re: Lynnch]
#18786776 - 09/01/13 07:57 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Lynnch and Ellis gave out solid advice.
With that said I just fucked up one of my friendships telling her that I wanted more than a friendship, she didn't take me serious and kept flirting.
I told her that I wanted to fuck the living shit out of her and she got mad at me and doesn't talk to me anymore. We work together and it screwed everything up, I catch her staring at me every so often but I ignore her.
Don't mess up a good thing OP.
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Re: Crush on a girl that's in a relationship [Re: Sham87]
#18790521 - 09/02/13 03:48 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Sham87 said: Lynnch and Ellis gave out solid advice.
With that said I just fucked up one of my friendships telling her that I wanted more than a friendship, she didn't take me serious and kept flirting.
I told her that I wanted to fuck the living shit out of her and she got mad at me and doesn't talk to me anymore. We work together and it screwed everything up, I catch her staring at me every so often but I ignore her.
Don't mess up a good thing OP.
but who knows maybe her opinion on you might change in the future and she may come back to you. How long ago was this anyway?
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Sham87
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Re: Crush on a girl that's in a relationship [Re: gulper2323]
#18790949 - 09/02/13 05:29 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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What up gulper! This was about three weeks ago. To be honest I am kind of over her. I want her but I will live if I don't have her.
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Re: Crush on a girl that's in a relationship [Re: Sham87]
#18793030 - 09/03/13 02:52 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well who knows; she might come around to your place to take you up on that offer to "fuck the living shit out of her" one night when she is very upset with her boyfriend and drunk . Although don't wait for her, it could never happen.
You're doing the right thing by trying to get over her.
Does she have a boyfriend at the moment? Maybe the reason she got upset with you for telling her that you want to fuck the living shit out of her is because she really wants you to fuck the living shit out of her but feels she has to commit to her current boyfriend (even though she doesn't want to) and so freaked out when you said that to her. In other words; if that's true wait until they fight, break up, and your in
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