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trip352
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Ex GF advice?
#18788260 - 09/02/13 04:10 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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So my ex who hasn't talked to me in over a year now messages me in my birth day... I tell her how I miss her and she tells me how depressed and traps she feels cause her current bf lives with her and her mom :/
Dunno what to do...
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Niffla



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Re: Ex GF advice? [Re: trip352] 1
#18788337 - 09/02/13 05:13 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Ummmm...why the fuck doesn't she just dump his ass and boot him out? Seems pretty easy to me.
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Re: Ex GF advice? [Re: Niffla]
#18788343 - 09/02/13 05:18 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Another option: If you miss her(=want her back), then you go kick that fuckers ass to the curb, maybe you'll get her back
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Niffla



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Re: Ex GF advice? [Re: rulesq]
#18788347 - 09/02/13 05:21 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Quote:
rulesq said:
Another option: If you miss her(=want her back), then you go kick that fuckers ass to the curb, maybe you'll get her back 
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rulesq
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Re: Ex GF advice? [Re: Niffla]
#18788348 - 09/02/13 05:22 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Dr Phil approves huh? 
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Re: Ex GF advice? [Re: rulesq]
#18788351 - 09/02/13 05:24 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Lol
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Re: Ex GF advice? [Re: Niffla] 3
#18788373 - 09/02/13 05:38 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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nah shes a ex you'l remember why you didn't get along things dont change.. she pushes people away and thats what shes doing with this boyfriend
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Re: Ex GF advice? [Re: trip352] 3
#18788546 - 09/02/13 07:10 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Seems like a lot of women do this, they won't end their current relationship unless they have something else lined up. Kinda sneaky if you ask me.
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Re: Ex GF advice? [Re: trip352]
#18788636 - 09/02/13 07:57 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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You should have sex with her. That's mostly what exes are good for.
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Re: Ex GF advice? [Re: psi] 3
#18788647 - 09/02/13 08:01 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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It's a faulty logic that stems from a need for security and feeling that they require a significant other to be happy. Perhaps because we (societal pressures) condition them to only ever seek the external for completion, rather than facing themselves and their own problems. Ofc this does not fit every female's profile.
My last girlfriend did that for years before becoming so depressed she did something about it.
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Re: Ex GF advice? [Re: ClockCode] 2
#18788675 - 09/02/13 08:17 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yeah I don't mean to generalize too much, obviously a lot of women don't think that way and there are probably also some men who do. It does seem to stem from insecurity for sure.
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Re: Ex GF advice? [Re: psi]
#18788704 - 09/02/13 08:34 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I say let her go OP. why is she so put off with her bf living with her? If he's a mooch or clingy I get it, but sounds like she just doesn't know what she wants and those types of women are to be avoided.
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Re: Ex GF advice? [Re: trip352]
#18788921 - 09/02/13 09:51 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Quote:
trip352 said: So my ex who hasn't talked to me in over a year now
lol
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Re: Ex GF advice? [Re: Uzziel]
#18788929 - 09/02/13 09:53 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Ask her to come n smoke with you.
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Re: Ex GF advice? [Re: trip352]
#18788960 - 09/02/13 10:03 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Don't do it, sounds like a silly game to me, you broke up for a reason right?
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ShiVersblood
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Re: Ex GF advice? [Re: Haxx]
#18788983 - 09/02/13 10:09 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Leavening now will save alot of head aches, but I understand how hard it is.
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trip352
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Good call SARA I didn't even now that forum existed... I thought I'd get flamed a lot harder here in the boards
And yeah we'll I was moving away is why we split... And the new BF is abusive emotionally if not physically... Both my girl and her mom are afraid of him I think...
(He lives with them cause he punched his own grandfather in the face....has no where else to go)
I could beat the shit out of him but I don't wana go to jail... I'm already on bond for some other shit
How do I arrange a circumstance where some self defense can be used :p
Edited by trip352 (09/02/13 11:39 AM)
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rackem



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Re: Ex GF advice? [Re: trip352] 1
#18789344 - 09/02/13 11:41 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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if he is that short tempered just show your face more often and he will come after you.
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ShiVersblood
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Re: Ex GF advice? [Re: rackem]
#18789417 - 09/02/13 12:04 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I loved my ex so much but all she did was use me and lie to me
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