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Re: I hate myself [Re: dontknow]
#18787717 - 09/01/13 11:37 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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O well, live and learn, no need to be feeling bad about it. Its your life, your body and your choice, be happy you have learned something. Just don't repeat mistakes.
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Alfred Kinsey did a study in the 50's which revealed that the vast majority of responders had had sexual experiences with members of both sexes. People who are purely homo- or heterosexual are outliers.
People are generally bisexual. This is backed up by common sense and science. Hence the nature of this thread is inherently 
So, someone that has experimental experiences defines them as hetero or homosexual or bi? If a straight guy has his dick sucked by a guy once, is completely disgusted by it, and never does it again, that makes him a Bi to you?
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Why do you think someone would be disgusted by having their cock sucked? Because they're "straight"? Please explain the neurological and psychosocial underpinnings of "straight"ness in such a way that it reduces disgust at having one's cock sucked by a guy to purely biological factors.
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Straight - sexually attracted only to the opposite sex. Pretty simple.
Just because someone experiments with their sexuality doesn't make them one thing or the other. It just makes them open minded enough to try something different. If they don't like it, they don't like it.
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BlindSophist said: Why do you think someone would be disgusted by having their cock sucked? Because they're "straight"? Please explain the neurological and psychosocial underpinnings of "straight"ness in such a way that it reduces disgust at having one's cock sucked by a guy to purely biological factors.
why do you always get so bent out of shape about this stuff?
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Re: I hate myself [Re: dontknow]
#18787772 - 09/02/13 12:01 AM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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dontknow said: I let a guy give me a bj last and I wholeheartedly regret that. I was just wanting to get off and he was willing. This was a huge mistake.
It wasn't even slightly enjoyable. I was just in a rush to get it out of the way and i hate it  Now I feel worthless. I really wanted to die afterwards.
Don't be in a rush to have sex especially if you're young. I feel like I've got nothing to offer anymore... i would do anything to change this.
There's nothing wrong with exploring your sexuality, it's normal, healthy and natural.
Don't live life in regret OP. When you do something that you don't like it's a good thing because you know how to not make the same mistake in the future. You're better off and stronger now than you were yesterday and that's something you should feel good about.
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BlindSophist said: Why do you think someone would be disgusted by having their cock sucked? Because they're "straight"? Please explain the neurological and psychosocial underpinnings of "straight"ness in such a way that it reduces disgust at having one's cock sucked by a guy to purely biological factors.
why do you always get so bent out of shape about this stuff?
Why do I get so bent out of shape? Have you even read this thread?
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Well you said the vast majority of people are bisexual. I disagree.
People experiment with their sexuality to find what they like and don't like. Just because someone busts out some leather cuffs once to experiment.. doesn't make them BDSM / Bondage masters.
On the same token, just because most people experiment with their sexuality at some point and try something with the same sex, does not mean most people are Bi.
Now if they continually try things with the same sex and are comfortable with it, then perhaps they are.
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Shroomism said: Well you said the vast majority of people are bisexual. I disagree.
People experiment with their sexuality to find what they like and don't like. Just because someone busts out some leather cuffs once to experiment.. doesn't make them BDSM / Bondage masters.
On the same token, just because most people experiment with their sexuality at some point and try something with the same sex, does not mean most people are Bi.
Now if they continually try things with the same sex and are comfortable with it, then perhaps they are.
IMO this understanding is purely in the past-tense. It cuts one off to future experiences and it is completely driven by social anxieties, not by one's personal development or best interests.
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BlindSophist said: Why do you think someone would be disgusted by having their cock sucked? Because they're "straight"? Please explain the neurological and psychosocial underpinnings of "straight"ness in such a way that it reduces disgust at having one's cock sucked by a guy to purely biological factors.
why do you always get so bent out of shape about this stuff?
Why do I get so bent out of shape? Have you even read this thread?
Yeah, people are going to be people. I'm not getting upset about it.
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You think I'm "upset" by this thread because I clearly articulated a dissenting opinion to the prevailing wisdom?
Methinks thou doth protest too much!
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BlindSophist said: IMO this understanding is purely in the past-tense. It cuts one off to future experiences and it is completely driven by social anxieties, not by one's personal development or best interests.
I'm not sure I have any idea what you mean.
I had my dick sucked by a guy once. INSISTED.. had to talk me into it really. Didn't much enjoy it. The whole thing disgusted me. It's not in my personal best interest to have sexual relations with things that disgust me. The thought of being with men sexually, absolutely disgusts me. The shape of a women on the other hand. Goddamn.
I then realized I am as straight as an arrow. But hey, I tried.
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Are you calling me a rapist?
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BlindSophist said: IMO this understanding is purely in the past-tense. It cuts one off to future experiences and it is completely driven by social anxieties, not by one's personal development or best interests.
I'm not sure I have any idea what you mean.
I had my dick sucked by a guy once. He INSISTED. Didn't much enjoy it. The whole thing disgusted me. It's not in my personal best interest to have sexual relations with things that disgust me. The thought of being with men sexually, absolutely disgusts me. The shape of a women on the other hand. Goddamn.
I then realized I am as straight as an arrow. But hey, I tried.
IMO people are inherently bisexual. Social conditioning forces us to be "disgusted" with the notion of non-polarized sexual behavior. That's what I mean.
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BlindSophist said: IMO this understanding is purely in the past-tense. It cuts one off to future experiences and it is completely driven by social anxieties, not by one's personal development or best interests.
I'm not sure I have any idea what you mean.
I had my dick sucked by a guy once. He INSISTED. Didn't much enjoy it. The whole thing disgusted me. It's not in my personal best interest to have sexual relations with things that disgust me. The thought of being with men sexually, absolutely disgusts me. The shape of a women on the other hand. Goddamn.
I then realized I am as straight as an arrow. But hey, I tried.
IMO people are inherently bisexual. Social conditioning forces us to be "disgusted" with the notion of non-polarized sexual behavior. That's what I mean.
Why can't people just honestly be straight?
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Because of social engineering that tells us the word "straight" means anything at all.
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No, far from it. At least that's not the case with me.
If it was social conditioning, then everyone would be bi. Because of how open and accepted it is to be Bi or Gay these days, compared to 50 years ago.
I look at it in purely evolutionary terms. Only a woman can use my seed to bring offspring. (Even though I don't even want offspring.. I understand the instinct). On a primal level, I am ONLY sexually attracted to women. This wasn't something that was taught to me. I had to figure it out for myself. Boobs and curvy figure and a vagina. Drives me insane. Purely primal.
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BlindSophist said: Because of social engineering that tells us the word "straight" means anything at all. 
So you don't think there are people who are 100% attracted just to the opposite sex?
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