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thinking about getting a nanny cam
#18785059 - 09/01/13 12:14 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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so the chick im seeing is here more than shes not which isnt a bad thing. she hangs out, cleans up, makes dinner... its all good. however, the other day she had mentioned that she dances around while cleaning up. i simply asked her to show me. she says no. she did tell me how she dances around in panties and can get pretty goofy at times.
would i be in the wrong if i got a nanny cam? i would show her the video afterwards. i wouldnt even watch it till she was there with me. i think we would both get some good laughs from it.
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: current]
#18785071 - 09/01/13 12:17 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Do it but watch it first because who knows she might do some really embarrassing shit and might not be a good idea to show her that you taped it.
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: fee] 1
#18785075 - 09/01/13 12:18 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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hella pervy dude.
do not do this.
just watch voyeur porn or something. it's just as immoral but then at least you know there's a chance it might be staged.
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: current] 5
#18785077 - 09/01/13 12:18 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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It isn't a nanny cam if you don't have a kid. It's a peeping tom cam.
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: zappaisgod]
#18785084 - 09/01/13 12:20 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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^^ He makes a very valid point
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: zappaisgod] 3
#18785086 - 09/01/13 12:20 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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zappaisgod said: It isn't a nanny cam if you don't have a kid. It's a peeping tom cam.
Yep, so OP be sure to bring back video proof.
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: zappaisgod]
#18785087 - 09/01/13 12:20 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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If I had a maid I would use it. Plus its his gf they have sex who gives a fuck.
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: fee] 2
#18785089 - 09/01/13 12:22 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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if its his gf then especially no because he should respect her enough not to creep like that.
the real issue is why she won't dance in her panties for you.
you gotta get the whip crackin', OP.
and sandwich after.
your girl should do pretty much anything you want to, sexually.
and no i'm not sexist, you should be returning the favor.
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: fee]
#18785092 - 09/01/13 12:25 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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fee said: If I had a maid I would use it. Plus its his gf they have sex who gives a fuck.
Would you like your GF to spy on you?
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: zappaisgod]
#18785095 - 09/01/13 12:26 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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zappaisgod said: It isn't a nanny cam if you don't have a kid. It's a peeping tom cam.
it is funny because it is true
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yeah I actually know a girl whose boyfriend did this and even though she deleted the videos she felt INCREDIBLY violated.
this is immoral on so many levels and if she figures it out you will not have a girlfriend anymore
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: zappaisgod]
#18785119 - 09/01/13 12:34 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Its his house he can do what he wants. Would be pretty pervy though if it was like in the bathroom or something.
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Corporal Kielbasa said: Its his house he can do what he wants. Would be pretty pervy though if it was like in the bathroom or something.
its her body and her privacy.
There is definitely a reasonable expectation of privacy even in a friend's living room. cant deny there is an obligation to tell someone you love very much that you are filming them.
like even if I had a maid I'd be like "yo, there is a camera up there"
ESPECIALLY telling your girl though, damn.
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: NWlight]
#18785148 - 09/01/13 12:44 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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If he thought she was stealing from him would a hidden camera be ok then?
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: fee]
#18785152 - 09/01/13 12:45 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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get the cam make the vid post it then tell/show her
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: fee] 2
#18785154 - 09/01/13 12:46 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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fee said: If he thought she was stealing from him would a hidden camera be ok then?
all that would be sufficient in that case would be telling her he set up a camera because some items were disappearing.
under no circumstances is it ok to film someone unknowingly unless its in a public place.
just my opinion. but I've posted like 5 times in this thread already i'd like to hear some other opinions
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: NWlight]
#18785162 - 09/01/13 12:49 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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probably find it funny, might kill the relationship dead.
either way, post the video.
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: druqs]
#18785183 - 09/01/13 12:56 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I don't think that would be a good idea, I wouldn't be too happy to see myself dancing around like no one was watching, nobody else wants to see that either
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: Haxx] 1
#18785199 - 09/01/13 01:00 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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My gf did it to me and I don't mind. I found it funny. If you get butthurt over something like that then I don't want you as a gf.
Its not that big of a deal. I found it funny. Its not like video taping and then posting it on YouTube.
Fuck guys you need to loosen the fuck up.
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: fee]
#18785223 - 09/01/13 01:06 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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yeah for real, and OP you should just hang out with her and play music and I'm sure she will loosen up around you. If you two can't dance around and have fun and you need to resort to spying on her to see her act natural then somethings up..
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: fee]
#18785224 - 09/01/13 01:06 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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fee said: My gf did it to me and I don't mind. I found it funny. If you get butthurt over something like that then I don't want you as a gf.
Its not that big of a deal. I found it funny. Its not like video taping and then posting it on YouTube.
Fuck guys you need to loosen the fuck up.
different people care about different things and there is no way to know for sure how she would feel about it without asking her first.
you might not be with a girl who would care, but it's unfair to tell us to "loosen the fuck up"
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: NWlight]
#18785275 - 09/01/13 01:20 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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i dont think its immoral and i do believe this could back fire, but i have a feeling this video would make our for some great laughs. im actually going to order one now.
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: zappaisgod]
#18785281 - 09/01/13 01:22 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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zappaisgod said: It isn't a nanny cam if you don't have a kid. It's a peeping tom cam.
I'd call it a security cam since it's in his own place.
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: current]
#18785310 - 09/01/13 01:28 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I've stated my opinion multiple times OP. Creepy and bad news.
I truly hope this doesn't bite you in the ass, I want the best for all shroomerites. hopefully she'll be cool with it if you've made your final decision
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: current] 3
#18785317 - 09/01/13 01:29 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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You're violating her privacy. It's creepy as fuck and I'd be surprised it she found it funny rather than seeing it as you being generally shady and intrusive.
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: JoieDeVivre]
#18785350 - 09/01/13 01:35 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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at the same time who is living in his place when he is not around? Is that not intrusive and violating in its own way? I'm just saying cuz i feel that way everytime i get in a relationship and the lady stays there when i leave for work without discussing moving in. They just feel entitled to clean and go threw my shit when i'm not home. I mean I don't care but sometimes i feel like thats just as creepy.
I get over it though.
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in that situation, honest discourse about your discomfort with them going through your stuff is the best route.
seriously, communication can avoid so much of this creepiness.
let me spell it out
OP communicates how much he would get off seeing his lady dance in her underwear. if she understood, she might hop on board and pick out a sexy outfit and give him a strip tease! no creepy video needed!
and in your situation corporeal, tell the ladies how you feel about them going through your stuff without the "conversation about moving in" etc, problem solved.
so much can be avoided by communicating honestly with your partner.
and trust me, girls dig that shit. they'll be so happy you were honest and came forward with your feelings that they'll be putty in your hands and probably do whatever you wanted originally.
unless you're dating a psycho bitch in which case GTFO yesterday.
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: NWlight]
#18785382 - 09/01/13 01:43 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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true that! Its all about the communication
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You guys are forgetting this is HIS place..however if the sole reason for this is to catch your girl dancing around..I don't get it. I could see if u thought she was stealing or fucking around.
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: current] 3
#18785424 - 09/01/13 01:53 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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its not like everyone is constantly being spied upon and scrutinized in every possible minute detail already.
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: Magicman69]
#18785425 - 09/01/13 01:54 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'd do it, but be careful how you stage it
Buying a nanny cam to do this is creepy Sticking a camcorder up on a bookshelf is a practical joke
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: fiddle] 1
#18785573 - 09/01/13 02:32 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Well, people already do put hidden cameras all over their house. Sometimes it catches people when they get robbed. So there are very legitimate reasons for them.
But to spy on your GF?
That's just kinda weak. Get her to dance naked for you
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: Adden]
#18786287 - 09/01/13 05:57 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Knewnews said:
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zappaisgod said: It isn't a nanny cam if you don't have a kid. It's a peeping tom cam.
it is funny because it is true
Then this must be a riot:
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Dystopia said: Yep, so OP be sure to bring back video proof.
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: current]
#18786557 - 09/01/13 07:00 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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would i be in the wrong if i got a nanny cam? i would show her the video afterwards. i wouldnt even watch it till she was there with me. i think we would both get some good laughs from it.
not necessarily wrong but definitely a shit-tier thing to do. If I was staying with you and found out you were filming me I'd never trust you or feel comfortable in your place ever again.
I wouldn't do it.
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: Dawks]
#18786742 - 09/01/13 07:49 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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im not trying to spy on her... im not trying to be a perv. the camera would be set up facing the living room which is where i assume most the dancing happens. it would be more of a joke type thing. the camera will be here wednesday and ill set it up wed night. ill be sure to keep the house nice and dirty so thursday she will have no choice but to clean. ill leave it running thur and fri then on sat ill show her the tape.
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: current]
#18786767 - 09/01/13 07:55 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I can kinda see why you want to record her, but showing her the video ?... ... . . .
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: current]
#18786958 - 09/01/13 08:44 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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current said: im not trying to spy on her... im not trying to be a perv. the camera would be set up facing the living room which is where i assume most the dancing happens. it would be more of a joke type thing. the camera will be here wednesday and ill set it up wed night. ill be sure to keep the house nice and dirty so thursday she will have no choice but to clean. ill leave it running thur and fri then on sat ill show her the tape.

Looks like you're one of those people that needs to learn from your mistakes.
She'll never feel like being herself or having a private moment in your place again. Making people uncomfortable in your home is a sure-fire recipe for trust and good times. Do it. Best sure to send us the link.
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: Dawks] 1
#18786972 - 09/01/13 08:47 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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OP is gonna ruin his relationship doing this.
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: Adden] 1
#18787028 - 09/01/13 08:59 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Even if OP's friend has a laugh with him about it and is generally good humored, it's certainly going to hurt OP's chances of ever having a spontaneous moment with her in his place.
They might be enjoying themselves, feeling good, start getting a little frisky and then she'll remember this and think "what if he's filming this 'for a joke' too" and withdraw... the poor OP probably won't even have a clue as to why, after effectively cockblocking himself
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: Dawks] 1
#18787238 - 09/01/13 09:38 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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OP's gonna think it's pretty funny when the video of him taking a dump hits the web.
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Re: thinking about getting a nanny cam [Re: Dawks]
#18787262 - 09/01/13 09:42 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Like that one dude said, talk to her about it. If you record her without her knowing, it's both creepy AND disrespectful.
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OP delivers!!
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