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Masturbated to girl at work, now attracted to her
#18774069 - 08/29/13 04:55 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I work with this girl, and have been for about 2 years. We really butted heads in the beginning, she used to look for things to report me for. I know at one point she probably was trying to get me fired. Well none of that worked, I was promoted several times and now we are both admin level. Anyways our relationship smoothed out a lot over the past year. Early this month she came to work sick and I got sick as a result, which pissed me off. I didn't want to bring back any aggression to work so I masturbated a few times to the though of fucking her and such, thinking maybe subconsciously that would even things out for me.
Well now I'm attracted to her. I'm starting to be a little flirtatious at work with her, and am not sure how she's picking up on it. To complicate shit, we are both in relationships. I wouldn't fuck around on my gf, but am sexually frustrated a bit as a result of this.
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Re: Masturbated to girl at work, now attracted to her [Re: Anonymous #1] 2
#18774165 - 08/29/13 05:17 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous said:
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Re: Masturbated to girl at work, now attracted to her [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18774174 - 08/29/13 05:20 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Love-Hate Relationships are very interesting. It's most likely unrequited since you are both in a commitment. It seems that you have developed an emotional ambivalence state with your co-worker. Have you recently lost intimacy with your girlfriend?
On a side note, you guys would have really great sex
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Edited by philopian_tube (08/29/13 05:26 PM)
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Re: Masturbated to girl at work, now attracted to her [Re: philopian_tube]
#18774291 - 08/29/13 05:42 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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The coworker and I? Oh yeah I would fuck her until my dick fell off.
My gf and I have had intimacy issues lately. We have sex maybe twice a month. I have lost attraction to her, she's put on weight, and the flirting between us is much less than earlier in our relationship.
Edited by Anonymous (08/29/13 05:46 PM)
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Re: Masturbated to girl at work, now attracted to her [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18774302 - 08/29/13 05:45 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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And yeah it would not be reciprocated, or I would be like fucking shocked if she did have some similar attraction to me. My emotions are all tangled due to these fantasies and my relationship problems for sure.
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Re: Masturbated to girl at work, now attracted to her [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18777114 - 08/30/13 12:11 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I've been where you are. Except for the masturbating at coworker part. First off, You really don't love your girlfriend if you don't like being around her after she gained some weight. You should end that relationship now. Then, maybe ask coworker to have lunch to ...let's say....bury the hmmmm...oh yeah, hatchet. Sort of get a feel for things. You probably have more in common with her than your present gf.
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Re: Masturbated to girl at work, now attracted to her [Re: Thayendanegea]
#18777173 - 08/30/13 12:33 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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So you masturbated to her before you were attracted to her, then became attracted?
I don't know about you but I'm usually attracted to a person if I'm going to be masturbating to them.
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Re: Masturbated to girl at work, now attracted to her [Re: SARAtonin]
#18777618 - 08/30/13 02:22 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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SARAtonin said: I'm usually attracted to a person if I'm going to be masturbating to them. 
from his post, i read it as: he was frustrated with her and decided to fantasize about hatefucking her. whether he only chose to do this because he had some unaccepted unrealized deep inner desire for her, i couldn't tell ya. but from the way i took his post, it seemed like he had no prior sexual desire
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Re: Masturbated to girl at work, now attracted to her [Re: memes] 1
#18777749 - 08/30/13 02:47 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Falling in love after you come, classic man mistake.
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Re: Masturbated to girl at work, now attracted to her [Re: sonamdrukpa]
#18777816 - 08/30/13 03:01 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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She's not really my type. Truly, the attraction stemmed from my over active imagination when I was fantasizing about her. I wouldn't make a move on her for more reasons than one. I think the one guy responding had it right, I became attracted due to sexual frustrations in my own relationship.
I do love my girlfriend, and have waaaaay more in common with her than the coworker. The whole weight thing is another thread completely. Just learn from my experience: if you masturbate to someone out of frustration, you will likely end up wanting to cum inside them/while they're inside you irl
Edited by Anonymous (08/30/13 03:07 PM)
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Re: Masturbated to girl at work, now attracted to her [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18779071 - 08/30/13 08:03 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I don't know about you but I want to cum inside of about 9/10 girls I meet day-to-day.
I haven't had sex since December though so maybe that has something to do with it
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Re: Masturbated to girl at work, now attracted to her [Re: The5thElement]
#18779076 - 08/30/13 08:04 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Ok 9/10 is a little much, it's more like 8.
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Re: Masturbated to girl at work, now attracted to her [Re: The5thElement]
#18779371 - 08/30/13 09:37 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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i can totaly relate with you. im completely sexually attracted to most women I run into
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Re: Masturbated to girl at work, now attracted to her [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18780377 - 08/31/13 06:25 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: i can totaly relate with you. im completely sexually attracted to most women I run into
i think you guys are confusing "sexually attracted to" with "would fuck"
or maybe i'm confusing 'sexually attracted to' with 'attracted to'
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Re: Masturbated to girl at work, now attracted to her [Re: memes]
#18781234 - 08/31/13 12:42 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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were on the same page... I suppose would knock boots with with wouldve been a clearer phrasing
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Re: Masturbated to girl at work, now attracted to her [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18782002 - 08/31/13 04:48 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Isn't it the same thing? I mean end result would be me wanting to bang.
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