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Roommate rant
#18778321 - 08/30/13 04:56 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Hey guys, I know that I shouldn't be bitching about this ha but I just need to get it out. I am starting to hate my roommate. He is throwing parties every single night, doesn't have a job, doesn't clean up after the parties. I have told him the last three times that he needs to clean up after the mess, and is yet to clean up after the last three parties.
So what do you think I should do. I mean if I move out he is screwed because he has no job and can't afford any better place to live. If I stay well then I have to put up with his shit all the time.
I just don't know what to do. I know what I want to do but I don't have the heart to just flip shit at him and tell him for the 4th time to get his act together or I am moving out.
Anyways sorry for the rant it needed to get out. Let me know what you would do in a situation like this. Also I have know-en this guy for 5 years and were decent friends, but it's starting to get to me!
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Re: Roommate rant [Re: mike12] 1
#18778324 - 08/30/13 04:58 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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move out. duh
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Re: Roommate rant [Re: memes] 1
#18778330 - 08/30/13 05:00 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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i had a little roommate troubles but now i live alone with my cute kitty
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Guess it's time to buy a cat and move on out hah.
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Re: Roommate rant [Re: mike12]
#18778343 - 08/30/13 05:04 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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yeah man being friends is one thing but having to live with each other will tell you how much differences you have. it will change the dynamic of your whole relationship.
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Re: Roommate rant [Re: mike12] 1
#18778361 - 08/30/13 05:12 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Five years, wow, that makes him like family right?! Dude, fuck him and move out. No one should have to put up with that shit. You've told him plenty of times.
If not that then keep being his maid I suppose. I'm not trying to be a prick, but really you shouldn't have to put up with bs like that.
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k3nnyw said: i had a little roommate troubles but now i live alone with my cute kitty 
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Re: Roommate rant [Re: Sheekle] 1
#18778376 - 08/30/13 05:16 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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dont you wanna live with this little shit 
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he looks kinda retarded
he could be cool tho
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Re: Roommate rant [Re: Sheekle]
#18778391 - 08/30/13 05:20 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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he was lookan at the bacon strip at the top lol. he let me hug him today lol i cant wait for him to let me use him as a pillow 
sorry for the derail haha
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Re: Roommate rant [Re: Sheekle]
#18778393 - 08/30/13 05:20 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Move out.
It's not your problem that he won't be able to afford rent. Your happiness is more important than his.
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k3nnyw said: dont you wanna live with this little shit 

Oh my goodness, your kitty is beautiful!! 
And OP, I don't have much to say that hasn't already been said. Your roommate's behavior is absolute shit. He doesn't work, lives in a home for free, and doesn't have to worry about cleaning up the messes he makes. Give him the boot.
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As soon as someone posts a fucking cat, the thread derails.
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Re: Roommate rant [Re: Patlal]
#18778526 - 08/30/13 05:51 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Patlal said: As soon as someone posts a fucking cat, the thread derails.
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Re: Roommate rant [Re: mike12]
#18778563 - 08/30/13 06:00 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I hate to condone violence but sometimes

you gots to uppercut a son of a bitch to get them to listen
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#18778576 - 08/30/13 06:04 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sheekle said:
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Patlal said: As soon as someone posts a fucking cat, the thread derails.
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Move out, fuck that shit. It will not get any better.
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I want a Savannah cat so bad!
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Re: Roommate rant [Re: mike12]
#18778832 - 08/30/13 07:05 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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mike12 said: Hey guys, I know that I shouldn't be bitching about this ha but I just need to get it out. I am starting to hate my roommate. He is throwing parties every single night, doesn't have a job, doesn't clean up after the parties. I have told him the last three times that he needs to clean up after the mess, and is yet to clean up after the last three parties.
So what do you think I should do. I mean if I move out he is screwed because he has no job and can't afford any better place to live. If I stay well then I have to put up with his shit all the time.
I just don't know what to do. I know what I want to do but I don't have the heart to just flip shit at him and tell him for the 4th time to get his act together or I am moving out.
Anyways sorry for the rant it needed to get out. Let me know what you would do in a situation like this. Also I have know-en this guy for 5 years and were decent friends, but it's starting to get to me!
honestly...
grow some balls.
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Re: Roommate rant [Re: current]
#18779002 - 08/30/13 07:45 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Got a pair, but thanks..... that was helpful.
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Re: Roommate rant [Re: mike12]
#18779032 - 08/30/13 07:53 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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um...
hes not respecting you. hes not listening to you. he doesnt care what you have to say and continues to do what he does knowing that you have an issue with it.
just sayin...
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Re: Roommate rant [Re: current]
#18779038 - 08/30/13 07:55 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Well there was a usefull comment.. thanks. I know I just don't want to put him out. I care to much. Oh well it will all get worked out, haha.
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Re: Roommate rant [Re: mike12]
#18779055 - 08/30/13 07:58 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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mike12 said: Got a pair, but thanks..... that was helpful.
He is showing you know respect and he knows it. Let him have it.
No matter what you say or how much you threaten to move out, I've got a feeling this dude is gonna keep doing what he's doing. Lay the shit on the table, if he doesn't do what he agreed to, move out.
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Re: Roommate rant [Re: mike12]
#18779059 - 08/30/13 07:59 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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tell him...
let him know that you are not cool with it, it GOD DAMN bothers you, and you are pretty much done. if he doesnt change his shit YOURE FUCKING OUT! let me ask you something. when he throws these parties, where are you? are you the weird room mate that stays in the room the whole time? get some ass and relax. im guessing youre still young. enjoy the parties. get some ass. get fucked up. dude... seriously? youre complaining cause he throws parties every night.
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Re: Roommate rant [Re: mike12]
#18779061 - 08/30/13 07:59 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'd just sit down with him and tell him that you can't handle working, then coming home to a dirty house, and say you're gonna have to leave. Tell him its nothing personal, just that it's a pet peeve of yours. Ex. "It's not you, it's me" 
If the fact that he'll have to find a new place doesn't give him enough initiative to clean up after himself, I doubt anything will. Habits (especially house/living habits) are hard to break.
I think this is probably the best way to avoid arguing too; most people get kinda hostile when having to change their home-habits, and there's no sense in losing a friend over a living situation IMO; some people just aren't good roommates for each other.
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Re: Roommate rant [Re: mike12]
#18779077 - 08/30/13 08:04 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Well I wouldn't mind so much if I didn't work 60 hours a week with two jobs... I am 25 I have had my fun. I am not into it. It's not like I can't afford living on my own because I easly can. I just need to find a way to say it nicely. Anyways thanks for the suggestions.
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#18779105 - 08/30/13 08:14 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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mike12 said: Hey guys, I know that I shouldn't be bitching about this ha but I just need to get it out. I am starting to hate my roommate. He is throwing parties every single night, doesn't have a job, doesn't clean up after the parties. I have told him the last three times that he needs to clean up after the mess, and is yet to clean up after the last three parties.
So what do you think I should do. I mean if I move out he is screwed because he has no job and can't afford any better place to live. If I stay well then I have to put up with his shit all the time.
I just don't know what to do. I know what I want to do but I don't have the heart to just flip shit at him and tell him for the 4th time to get his act together or I am moving out.
Anyways sorry for the rant it needed to get out. Let me know what you would do in a situation like this. Also I have know-en this guy for 5 years and were decent friends, but it's starting to get to me!
Who's name is on the lease? And he is no friend of yours. Friends give a shit about friends and he clearly doesn't give a shit about you.
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It's mine.. I think I am just going to sit down with him and tell him whats up. He knows I don't party anymore and I am constantly telling him to clean up after, so he knows. If he doesn't get his stuff together I'll give him the option to either leave or I'll move out. It's not hard to find another place to live.
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Re: Roommate rant [Re: mike12]
#18779245 - 08/30/13 08:56 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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mike12 said: It's mine.. I think I am just going to sit down with him and tell him whats up. He knows I don't party anymore and I am constantly telling him to clean up after, so he knows. If he doesn't get his stuff together I'll give him the option to either leave or I'll move out. It's not hard to find another place to live.
If it's in your name give him 10 day notice to pack his shit and leave. .
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Re: Roommate rant [Re: mike12]
#18779361 - 08/30/13 09:33 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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yep id move out posthaste. fuck that guy he can learn from the experience and hopefully gain some responsiblilty
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