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Re: i just got a nosebleed from sitting beside a cute girl in class today [Re: mr sniffles]
#18774398 - 08/29/13 06:11 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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k3nnyw said: i sat next to this girl and my nose just started to bleed in class lol.
i thought that only happened in manga
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Re: i just got a nosebleed from sitting beside a cute girl in class today [Re: JoieDeVivre]
#18774404 - 08/29/13 06:12 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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1. unconscious copying of body language (implies being comfortable around the person you are copying) 2. synchronization of movement (implies attention is being held towards the the person you are synchronizing with) 3. joint attention (meaning you are comfortable sharing a moment with some body) 4. she gave me a little look in the beginning of class but turned away when i looked at her (not the basis of my argument but she had put out that i had grabbed her attention just for your sake)
These are literally all coincidences that happen to me with other people hundreds of times per day (I go to a huge UNI so I really do see that many people each day) and I am interested in absolutely none of them, nor do those moments mean anything at all to me. Even when all four of those things happen to me and someone else in a class (which is very common) it doesn't mean anything to me nor does it mean I'm thinking about them at all.
Your mind is still working when you aren't "aware of it" some cues are subconscious. And aside from that, just because you don't emit a lot of energy, or care much about class situations doesn't mean Op, and this chick weren't feeling each others vibes. How would you ever expect to meet a compatible mate if you look at people in such a dull and emotionless way.
I'm with OP on this one.
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Re: i just got a nosebleed from sitting beside a cute girl in class today [Re: mr sniffles]
#18774420 - 08/29/13 06:19 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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k3nnyw said: 1. you are assuming that i think that the girl wants my dick 2. you are assuming that i want to fuck her more than i do 3. you are assuming that synchronicity does not happen better towards some people and worse towards some people, or if people are more open to the frequency of it as a sign of being more comfortable with someone else. 4. you are assuming i am not in the same boat as you in a large college and have to notice this shit all the time
I actually didn't assume any of that. All I'm saying is there's no way she's "comfortable with you" because she has no idea who you are. She knows literally nothing about you. She's never spoken to you, and you're basing your assumption that's she's into "vibing" with you and "more comfortable" with you than with someone else entirely upon the fact that you were in the same class and she glanced at you one time (numbers 3 & 4) and you just so happened to have a few similar movements (1&2).
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Legend said: Your mind is still working when you aren't "aware of it" some cues are subconscious. And aside from that, just because you don't emit a lot of energy, or care much about class situations doesn't mean Op, and this chick weren't feeling each others vibes. How would you ever expect to meet a compatible mate if you look at people in such a dull and emotionless way.
So she's subconsciously interested in him even though she doesn't know him and they've never spoken?
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How would you ever expect to meet a compatible mate if you look at people in such a dull and emotionless way.
Oh, I don't know, maybe by talking to them and not assuming you're having some unspoken connection?
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Re: i just got a nosebleed from sitting beside a cute girl in class today [Re: JoieDeVivre]
#18774429 - 08/29/13 06:21 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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when u tryna fuck?
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Re: i just got a nosebleed from sitting beside a cute girl in class today [Re: Salomon]
#18774462 - 08/29/13 06:33 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Salomon said: when u tryna fuck?
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Re: i just got a nosebleed from sitting beside a cute girl in class today [Re: JoieDeVivre]
#18774470 - 08/29/13 06:35 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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i think you are an introvert who does not spend time trying to understand the people around you or what they are feeling. you spend too much time in your head. i know that look of people who spend time in their head. for an introvert you sure don't have a clue on reflecting. i can see that you process life on a more superficial level. what happens in actual reality is not your thoughts little girl. you think people can't be comfortable with each other if they don't know each other.
tomorrow go out and look at the body language of people and try to feel whats going on. maybe then you'll get a feel between the differences between conscious thought and subconscious thought.
im sorry but i feel like i am arguing with someone who isn't even trying to understand this viewpoint of seperating reality into what is actually happening and what you think is happening. your posts are based on your trying to grasp life as something conscious and concrete when there is so much more going on. what do you feel when you trip?
EDIT: not saying i see life as what it is, i just feel like i am a more down to the present person than you
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Re: i just got a nosebleed from sitting beside a cute girl in class today [Re: Salomon]
#18774477 - 08/29/13 06:36 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Salomon said: when u tryna fuck?
iono just seeing where my feelings take me lol
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Re: i just got a nosebleed from sitting beside a cute girl in class today [Re: mr sniffles]
#18774494 - 08/29/13 06:41 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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JoieDeVivre said: I'm being sexist because I dislike when random guys think that just because I'm a female they can assume that my body language is directed at them and get all weird about it? 
no lol youre being sexist because there are too many variables involved and you disregard them all just because i am a guy
ding ding
In all of these threads where Joei's posts are I will read like three pages before realizing there is no arguing with this woman and no one will convince her against what she went into the discussion thinking.
What if Joei has been trolling us since she registered and is really some dude bored at work and finds this shit hilarious?
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Re: i just got a nosebleed from sitting beside a cute girl in class today [Re: mr sniffles]
#18774505 - 08/29/13 06:44 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I wouldn't take JoieDeVivreS advise on whether or not a chick liked you tbh, if you said the chick grabbed your dick and winked at you she would say it was probably a seizure.
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Re: i just got a nosebleed from sitting beside a cute girl in class today [Re: mr sniffles]
#18774508 - 08/29/13 06:44 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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k3nnyw said: i think you are an introvert who does not spend time trying to understand the people around you or what they are feeling. you spend too much time in your head. i know that look of people who spend time in their head. for an introvert you sure don't have a clue on reflecting. i can see that you process life on a more superficial level. what happens in actual reality is not your thoughts little girl. you think people can't be comfortable with each other if they don't know each other.
Damn, bruhski, I'm not sure I see the logic behind making that statement...
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Re: i just got a nosebleed from sitting beside a cute girl in class today [Re: mr sniffles]
#18774510 - 08/29/13 06:44 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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How is saying that OP is assuming way too much about some random girl he's never even spoken a word to trolling?
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k3nnyw said: i think you are an introvert who does not spend time trying to understand the people around you or what they are feeling. you spend too much time in your head. i know that look of people who spend time in their head. for an introvert you sure don't have a clue on reflecting. i can see that you process life on a more superficial level. what happens in actual reality is not your thoughts little girl. you think people can't be comfortable with each other if they don't know each other.
tomorrow go out and look at the body language of people and try to feel whats going on. maybe then you'll get a feel between the differences between conscious thought and subconscious thought.
im sorry but i feel like i am arguing with someone who isn't even trying to understand this viewpoint of seperating reality into what is actually happening and what you think is happening. your posts are based on your trying to grasp life as something conscious and concrete when there is so much more going on. what do you feel when you trip?
EDIT: not saying i see life as what it is, i just feel like i am a more down to the present person than you
Funny how a minute ago you were accusing me of being an extrovert and that's why I didn't understand what you meant. I dedicate my life to understand how other people think and feel, I'm incredibly empathetic and reflective and have been told so many times including during my intense counseling training this summer. You're really grasping at straws here.
You're delusional and to avoid realizing that, you're acting like I'm naive, unreflective, etc. Funny how you were the one accusing me of assuming things before and now you're telling me all about how I view life unrealistically. 
You think it's reality that you know this girl is comfortable around you and interested in you based on the fact that you made similar body movements in class and she looked at you one time? Go talk to her tomorrow, tell her that and see what she says to you and how her body language changes.
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Re: i just got a nosebleed from sitting beside a cute girl in class today [Re: fapjack]
#18774514 - 08/29/13 06:45 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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fapjack said: I wouldn't take JoieDeVivreS advise on whether or not a chick liked you tbh, if you said the chick grabbed your dick and winked at you she would say it was probably a seizure.
So you think that the fact that this girl looked at OP once and they happened to do a few similar bodily movements during a lecture means that she was interested in him and I'm way off base by saying that she probably has no idea he's thinking this and wasn't trying to subconsciously communicate with him?
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Re: i just got a nosebleed from sitting beside a cute girl in class today [Re: JoieDeVivre] 3
#18774532 - 08/29/13 06:51 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Based on what OP has said I am 99% sure that she wants to blow him and you are only holding him back.
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Re: i just got a nosebleed from sitting beside a cute girl in class today [Re: fapjack]
#18774547 - 08/29/13 06:55 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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So you think that the fact that this girl looked at OP once and they happened to do a few similar bodily movements during a lecture means that she was interested in him
absolutely, women never react to men this way unless they need cock.
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#18774549 - 08/29/13 06:56 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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fapjack said: I wouldn't take JoieDeVivreS advise on whether or not a chick liked you tbh, if you said the chick grabbed your dick and winked at you she would say it was probably a seizure.
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Re: i just got a nosebleed from sitting beside a cute girl in class today [Re: fapjack]
#18774550 - 08/29/13 06:56 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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fapjack said: Based on what OP has said I am 99% sure that she wants to blow him and you are only holding him back.
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Re: i just got a nosebleed from sitting beside a cute girl in class today [Re: fapjack]
#18774551 - 08/29/13 06:56 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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fapjack said: Based on what OP has said I am 99% sure that she wants to blow him and you are only holding him back.
I actually think this is how he should introduce himself in their next class together.
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Re: i just got a nosebleed from sitting beside a cute girl in class today [Re: mr sniffles] 6
#18774554 - 08/29/13 06:57 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I once got a nosebleed from sitting next to a cute girl.
Ok, I was sitting next to her in a bar and we were getting drunk and I grabbed her boob and she punched me in the nose.
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#18774562 - 08/29/13 06:58 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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If I was OP I would use the DENNIS system
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Re: i just got a nosebleed from sitting beside a cute girl in class today [Re: nicechrisman] 1
#18774570 - 08/29/13 06:59 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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nicechrisman said: I once got a nosebleed from sitting next to a cute girl.
Ok, I was sitting next to her in a bar and we were getting drunk and I grabbed her boob and she punched me in the nose.
I think you just won the thread.
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