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Too much sexual frustration and a night with a chick lead to lack of sex drive?!?
#18773445 - 08/29/13 02:43 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I havent had sex in over a year and my sex drive has always been through the roof up until this recent incident.. I usually cant go through the day without jerking off at least once!! But the past weekend I had friends over and we took some LSD together. One of the friends was a girl I used to hang out in highschool. When it was time to sleep, I told her to take my bed and I would sleep on the floor. But she told me that if it was ok with me, she didnt mind if we shared the bed.... So I did and it was REALLY nice. We didnt have sex but we snuggled and caressed each other for hours on end. At one point we started talking and both agreed that we were NOT looking to date and to stay friends... After she realized this, we got even more comfortable with each other. This may very well turn into a friends with benefits situation.
But during all this snuggling and playing, I had to straight up tell her that I have never been so horny in my entire life!! I told her I was not expecting sex or anything, but I HAD to get that off my back because my heart was POUNDING!!! So in ways it helped me overcome my sexual frustrations, and even more importantly, it made me feel AMAZING inside to know that someone cared about me and that she was COMPLETELY comfortable with me.
Strangely ever since that night, I have had no desire to masturbate or fantasize about women. Normally I get hard just thinking about nude pictures of chicks, but Im not getting hard anymore!!! SO it just feels a little weird that I have 0 desire to masturbate. I dont even get hard anymore when I see pictures of naked chicks! This has only been going on for 4-5 days now since that incident, but why do you think this is happening? I figured that being THAT close to a girl would make my sexual frustration even worse afterwords... But it did the opposite!!! So what the heck? How come I am not getting an erection!??!?
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Re: Too much sexual frustration and a night with a chick lead to lack of sex drive?!? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18773501 - 08/29/13 02:53 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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you probably just like her enough that your drive is focused on her and only her, you dont see others because of your infatuation.
its not a bad thing
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Re: Too much sexual frustration and a night with a chick lead to lack of sex drive?!? [Re: Herbologist]
#18773634 - 08/29/13 03:25 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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But we both made it clear that we did not want to date each other... As amazing and cute as this chick is, I never had feelings for her beyond being friends and being sexually attracted to her. After that night, I definitely became more attracted to her, but I honestly wanna be friends with her more than date her.
I just tried looking at porn and for the first time in my life, I had a LOT of difficulty staying hard That horny feeling is just.. gone. I hope this is only temporary.
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