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Anonymous #1

Non-state recognized marriage
    #18772513 - 08/29/13 10:52 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

So I think I want to marry this girl, but there are some things stopping me. She has lupus, and other health conditions, and I know there's a good chance she will have big medical costs in the future. My uncle married a woman who had these same issues and she died young, leaving him with millions of dollars in medical bills. I don't want that same fate.

Anyone know of a way to get married but not have the responsibility of the others financial burdens? Or maybe just a marriage but don't submit shit to the state.


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Re: Non-state recognized marriage [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18772517 - 08/29/13 10:53 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Isn't this what a prenup is for?


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Anonymous #1

Re: Non-state recognized marriage [Re: koraks]
    #18772727 - 08/29/13 11:47 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

I don't think a prenup can protect against incurred expenses owed to others. Once you get married the state recognizes both parties as being financially responsible for one another, it's like a binding contract.


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Re: Non-state recognized marriage [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
    #18773507 - 08/29/13 02:54 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Move to Canada. You won't have to worry about your wife's medical costs bankrupting the family,


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Re: Non-state recognized marriage [Re: koods]
    #18773513 - 08/29/13 02:56 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

[Mod edit: No using the anonymous feature to troll]


Edited by tymoteusz3 (08/29/13 08:38 PM)


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Re: Non-state recognized marriage [Re: Anonymous #2] * 2
    #18773560 - 08/29/13 03:09 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
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koods said:
Move to Canada. You won't have to worry about your wife's medical costs bankrupting the family,



STFU commie





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NotSheekle said
“if I believed she was 16 I would become unattracted to her”


Edited by koods (08/29/13 03:11 PM)


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Re: Non-state recognized marriage [Re: koods]
    #18773729 - 08/29/13 03:41 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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koods said:
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Anonymous said:
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koods said:
Move to Canada. You won't have to worry about your wife's medical costs bankrupting the family,



STFU commie









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Re: Non-state recognized marriage [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #18774421 - 08/29/13 06:19 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Why would you even wanna get married? Free Love, man.


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Re: Non-state recognized marriage [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #18774527 - 08/29/13 06:50 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
So I think I want to marry this girl, but there are some things stopping me. She has lupus, and other health conditions, and I know there's a good chance she will have big medical costs in the future. My uncle married a woman who had these same issues and she died young, leaving him with millions of dollars in medical bills. I don't want that same fate.

Anyone know of a way to get married but not have the responsibility of the others financial burdens? Or maybe just a marriage but don't submit shit to the state.



You are essentially married when you get the license.  The ceremony is fluff.  Don't get the license, have the ceremony.


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Anonymous #1

Re: Non-state recognized marriage [Re: zappaisgod]
    #18775793 - 08/30/13 01:04 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Cool zappa, thats exactly what I was thinking. Now to convince the girl of it :lol:


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Re: Non-state recognized marriage [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18777010 - 08/30/13 11:38 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

How would you expect a girl to take a suggestion such as a non-state recognized marriage? I would be honest with her why I think it's a financially responsible decision. She has told me she doesn't plan to live past 50, so I am thinking she would understand my position.


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Re: Non-state recognized marriage [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18777069 - 08/30/13 11:57 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Then go for it. Have a ceremony just don't sign anything. I have medical debt as I am uninsured and have had some issues in the past, been w my dude almost a decade, we want to get married but don't really see the need to make it "official " plus like you said I don't want him to legally have my debt.

We have been talking about having a wedding ceremony just minus the legal factors.

I say go for it OP


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Re: Non-state recognized marriage [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18778267 - 08/30/13 04:42 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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Cool zappa, thats exactly what I was thinking. Now to convince the girl of it :lol:



I am not sure about the legal ramifications in re common law marriage.  You might get fucked just for living with her for a certain number of years as man and wife.


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Re: Non-state recognized marriage [Re: zappaisgod]
    #18778287 - 08/30/13 04:45 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

In Canada after living together for one year you are considered common law and it shares almost all of the same legal ramifications as marriage.


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Re: Non-state recognized marriage [Re: zappaisgod]
    #18778298 - 08/30/13 04:49 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

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zappaisgod said:
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Anonymous said:
Cool zappa, thats exactly what I was thinking. Now to convince the girl of it :lol:



I am not sure about the legal ramifications in re common law marriage.  You might get fucked just for living with her for a certain number of years as man and wife.





yeah that's true, hmmm...

fuck. lol


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Anonymous #1

Re: Non-state recognized marriage [Re: VivaLaMushie]
    #18779400 - 08/30/13 09:43 PM (10 years, 4 months ago)

Yeah thats another hurdle I suppose. I will just have to speak to a lawyer about this when the time comes.


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Re: Non-state recognized marriage [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #18779996 - 08/31/13 01:18 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

common law marriage is state by state. so look up your local laws. In fact most states DO NOT recognize common law marriage
http://www.cadivorce.com/news/common-law-marriage-myths/


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Re: Non-state recognized marriage [Re: psyconaught]
    #18780012 - 08/31/13 01:22 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

If ya do wanna get hitched then come on up to Maine and I'll marry y'all! Doing my first wedding tomorrow actually. would be awesome to marry a shroomerite off lol.


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Re: Non-state recognized marriage [Re: nuentoter]
    #18780159 - 08/31/13 02:27 AM (10 years, 4 months ago)

haha that is awesome!!


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