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mushroomfred
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Finding a partner after psychedelc brain rewiring?
#18771624 - 08/29/13 02:14 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Is it just me or is it more difficult to find a mate after a lot of psychedelic use?
I use to be not so picky when picking up females... but now that I'm really in tune to the energy of people I find to be more picky then ever before.
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Re: Finding a partner after psychedelc brain rewiring? [Re: mushroomfred] 1
#18771870 - 08/29/13 05:02 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Can go either way I reckon. I was more picky beforehand, to a certain extent, trying to find a girl that fit all my desires. Then she came along and I realized my standards were pretty superficial (mainly about drug use, confidence, uninhibited, intelligent etc) and led to a bunch of other things I didn't like about her. Then a girl came along who was more of a classic cute girl who had a different set of values and I liked her much more.
These days if they're chill and openminded and aren't full on crazy or some shit they're cool to hang out with, but that's the same with choosing friends who are guys too. I think drugs opened me up to the point where I'm more accepting of all types of people from all walks of life and I kinda just enjoy the people's energy in general knowing that we've all got parts of us we keep hidden and have become much more accepting of everyone including the average joe, so there's really not much to be picky about - apart from things like desperation, clinginess, the normal sort of stuff that would make you not want to be around someone in the first place.
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Re: Finding a partner after psychedelc brain rewiring? [Re: mushroomfred]
#18772017 - 08/29/13 07:19 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I've been tripping since I was before I had sex so couldn't really say, but I couldn't be with someone who is sober. If I got sucked into another relationship she would have to be 100% off my dick concerning drugs
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Re: Finding a partner after psychedelc brain rewiring? [Re: Repertoire89]
#18772377 - 08/29/13 10:20 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Find one who's into psychedelics. It's a game changer haha
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mushroomfred
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Re: Finding a partner after psychedelc brain rewiring? [Re: JacksonMetaller]
#18772425 - 08/29/13 10:33 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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JacksonMetaller said: Find one who's into psychedelics. It's a game changer haha
I think that's my problem! I've become a bit too strange for the normal chick, hah... otherwise the frequencies just don't match. o.O
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Re: Finding a partner after psychedelc brain rewiring? [Re: mushroomfred]
#18772598 - 08/29/13 11:12 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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mushroomfred said:
I think that's my problem! I've become a bit too strange for the normal chick
If you don't mind my asking how old are you, and how long have you been tripping?
Personally I used to feel pretty effected by psychedelics socially, but after a decade of on and off binging its become really easy to relate to people again. Been a bit of trial and error, but psychedelics have helped me become a lot more comfortable with myself and by extension other people
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Re: Finding a partner after psychedelc brain rewiring? [Re: mushroomfred] 2
#18774341 - 08/29/13 05:53 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I have been sort of picky with girls all my life but at this point in time I would say that, if anything, I am less particular about the sort of woman I would be willing to have a relationship with... and I have used quite a good bit of psychedelics.
I used to feel like I couldn't be in a relationship with somebody who wasn't into philosophy/counter-culture/specific types of music etc etc. however now I am willing to accept somebody cute and nice/respectful/simple as long as they also truly respect me for who I am. I think getting older+psychedelics have made me over all a more accepting individual. I find some aspect of self in common with most people, thus for me it becomes easy to relate even to those who are quite different from the locus of experience that is referred to as 'me'.
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