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Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with
#18771215 - 08/28/13 11:23 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I met a girl a month or so a go at a bar, she was with her boyfriend at the time. Last week we started chatting on Facebook, and turns out they broke up because he was an *******. Later that week we got a drink after work together, flirted a bit, conversation got sexual, and kissed on the cheek.
Tonight we hung out again, and she said she really likes me, but just got out of a relationship and wants to get her life in order before we hang out more than friends. I said, "that's cool, i'll respect that. but i dig you, just so you know." And she replied, "that is exactly what I wanted to hear, thank you. i like you too."
We hung out and she touched me a few times, and laughed, let me kiss her on the cheek again. She made a joke about us having kids, too.
My question is two fold:
1) How should I play this? Keep hanging out with her, and let her sort herself out, but be respectful?
2) Why does she always try to justify herself to me? She might have 2 or 3 drinks and say, "hey just so you know I'm not a drunk" or "I'm not sloppy." Or, "I just have to text me friend, please don't think I'm being rude, okay?" etc. ALWAYS justifying herself to me. Thoughts?
Edited by Mark1 (08/28/13 11:29 PM)
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Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: Mark1] 1
#18771254 - 08/28/13 11:33 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Fake and gay....
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Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: goldcaphunter]
#18771269 - 08/28/13 11:37 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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lol um ok?
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Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: Mark1]
#18771287 - 08/28/13 11:44 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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take her to a nice dinner then back to yer pad for some graphically violent horror
or trailer park boys, if she's a keeper

or just keep chilling and meet some friends
girl-friends, while not being fuckable, can lend some solid insight to yer life
oh, and cook her a banging dinner sometime. that shit is like extra credit.
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Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: Mark1]
#18771295 - 08/28/13 11:47 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Just go with the flow man. Don't talk to her for a few days. Let her get herself together. Then hit her up.
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Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: lifeiswhatyoumake]
#18771319 - 08/28/13 11:54 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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thanks guys!
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Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: Mark1]
#18771366 - 08/29/13 12:08 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Almost all of this is Shit advice except for "go with the flow". Just enjoy time together for now, have fun and be friends but you can still flirt and when she's ready she'll tell you. Don't rush her or it'll just make things harder on her. Best of luck to you my friend.
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Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: Farmerwhite]
#18771560 - 08/29/13 01:23 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Keep hanging out with her and go with the flow.
When she starts justifying herself to you, just act all serious and say how much it really bothers you, then wait for the look on her face, then say i'm just kidding and look down and laugh for a second, then look up straight into her eyes and tell her "You do what you need to do, I'll be here waiting... because you are worth every moment of my time." And don't you dare break eye contact until she looks away.
Then, receive blowjob.
Edited by ImaginingEmotions (08/29/13 01:23 AM)
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Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: ImaginingEmotions]
#18771746 - 08/29/13 03:32 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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just chill, dont take the situation too seriously, dont over think it and you will be fine
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Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: spazmodog]
#18771818 - 08/29/13 04:24 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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1) Yes.
2) Because she likes you, and it's a nervous reaction. Addressing this in a non-serious manner could make her more comfortable around you.
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Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: ImaginingEmotions]
#18771954 - 08/29/13 06:08 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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This man knows whats up
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Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: Farmerwhite]
#18772132 - 08/29/13 08:27 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Thanks guys!!!
Is one of the reasons she may justify herself around me, because she likes me and wants me to think highly of her, or am I reading into it too much?
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Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: Mark1] 3
#18772163 - 08/29/13 08:48 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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fuck off and join an online dating community to ask these questions to
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Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: claraclairvoyant]
#18772182 - 08/29/13 09:02 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anything goes in the pub! Taker easy and have fun, everything will sort itself out 

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Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: Shortknight] 2
#18772212 - 08/29/13 09:21 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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yeah it's okay until it's the only thing someone posts about
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Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: claraclairvoyant] 2
#18772225 - 08/29/13 09:28 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Edited by HeadTripVertigo (08/29/13 09:32 AM)
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