Home | Community | Message Board


This site includes paid links. Please support our sponsors.


Welcome to the Shroomery Message Board! You are experiencing a small sample of what the site has to offer. Please login or register to post messages and view our exclusive members-only content. You'll gain access to additional forums, file attachments, board customizations, encrypted private messages, and much more!

Shop: Unfolding Nature Unfolding Nature: Being in the Implicate Order   PhytoExtractum Buy Bali Kratom Powder, Maeng Da Thai Kratom Leaf Powder   Bridgetown Botanicals Bridgetown Botanicals

Jump to first unread post Pages: 1
OfflineMark1
Stranger
Registered: 08/18/11
Posts: 347
Last seen: 8 years, 9 months
Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with
    #18771215 - 08/28/13 11:23 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

I met a girl a month or so a go at a bar, she was with her boyfriend at the time. Last week we started chatting on Facebook, and turns out they broke up because he was an *******. Later that week we got a drink after work together, flirted a bit, conversation got sexual, and kissed on the cheek.

Tonight we hung out again, and she said she really likes me, but just got out of a relationship and wants to get her life in order before we hang out more than friends. I said, "that's cool, i'll respect that. but i dig you, just so you know." And she replied, "that is exactly what I wanted to hear, thank you. i like you too."

We hung out and she touched me a few times, and laughed, let me kiss her on the cheek again. She made a joke about us having kids, too.

My question is two fold:

1) How should I play this? Keep hanging out with her, and let her sort herself out, but be respectful?

2) Why does she always try to justify herself to me? She might have 2 or 3 drinks and say, "hey just so you know I'm not a drunk" or "I'm not sloppy." Or, "I just have to text me friend, please don't think I'm being rude, okay?" etc. ALWAYS justifying herself to me. Thoughts?


Edited by Mark1 (08/28/13 11:29 PM)


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Offlinegoldcaphunter
EMS Medic
Male User Gallery


Registered: 07/29/12
Posts: 7,432
Loc: Massachusetts Flag
Last seen: 3 years, 2 months
Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: Mark1] * 1
    #18771254 - 08/28/13 11:33 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Fake and gay.... :nodofunderstanding:


--------------------

The picture to the far left is a reminder to our users to stay safe and healthy, that's my third open heart surgery due to over use of amps. Stay safe kiddos :wink:


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflineMark1
Stranger
Registered: 08/18/11
Posts: 347
Last seen: 8 years, 9 months
Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: goldcaphunter]
    #18771269 - 08/28/13 11:37 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

lol um ok?


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflineDrMambo
hamburger time
 User Gallery


Registered: 04/06/04
Posts: 6,197
Loc: 53rd & 3rd
Last seen: 1 year, 1 month
Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: Mark1]
    #18771287 - 08/28/13 11:44 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

take her to a nice dinner then back to yer pad for some graphically violent horror

or trailer park boys, if she's a keeper
:wayshegoes:

or just keep chilling and meet some friends

girl-friends, while not being fuckable, can lend some solid insight to yer life

oh, and cook her a banging dinner sometime. that shit is like extra credit.


--------------------
"Yeah, he's a professor...... OF BEING A DOG!"


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Offlinelifeiswhatyoumake
Trance in my sig n blood
Male User Gallery


Registered: 09/30/11
Posts: 16,712
Last seen: 13 minutes, 3 seconds
Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: Mark1]
    #18771295 - 08/28/13 11:47 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Just go with the flow man.
Don't talk to her for a few days.
Let her get herself together.
Then hit her up.


--------------------
:rave::rave::rave: I dropped a trance track "Peace Love & Trance": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M4uQBM-mRYU ; :raver2::raver2::raver2::raveface:


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflineMark1
Stranger
Registered: 08/18/11
Posts: 347
Last seen: 8 years, 9 months
Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: lifeiswhatyoumake]
    #18771319 - 08/28/13 11:54 PM (10 years, 5 months ago)

thanks guys!


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflineFarmerwhite
Cultivation student
 User Gallery


Registered: 02/03/13
Posts: 161
Last seen: 4 years, 10 months
Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: Mark1]
    #18771366 - 08/29/13 12:08 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Almost all of this is Shit advice except for "go with the flow". Just enjoy time together for now, have fun and be friends but you can still flirt and when she's ready she'll tell you. Don't rush her or it'll just make things harder on her. Best of luck to you my friend.


--------------------
I'm here to learn from the best

Objects only have meaning that you put upon them




Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflineImaginingEmotions
SkyjumpingDude


Registered: 11/09/09
Posts: 1,489
Last seen: 5 years, 11 months
Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: Farmerwhite]
    #18771560 - 08/29/13 01:23 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Keep hanging out with her and go with the flow.

When she starts justifying herself to you, just act all serious and say how much it really bothers you, then wait for the look on her face, then say i'm just kidding and look down and laugh for a second, then look up straight into her eyes and tell her "You do what you need to do, I'll be here waiting... because you are worth every moment of my time." And don't you dare break eye contact until she looks away.

Then, receive blowjob.


Edited by ImaginingEmotions (08/29/13 01:23 AM)


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Offlinespazmodog
Male


Registered: 02/27/11
Posts: 2,491
Last seen: 1 year, 5 months
Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: ImaginingEmotions]
    #18771746 - 08/29/13 03:32 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

just chill, dont take the situation too seriously, dont over think it and you will be fine :smile:


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Offlinesukhavati12
Level 50 Mushroom Shaman
Male User Gallery


Registered: 07/03/13
Posts: 184
Last seen: 3 years, 6 months
Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: spazmodog]
    #18771818 - 08/29/13 04:24 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

1) Yes.

2) Because she likes you, and it's a nervous reaction. Addressing this in a non-serious manner could make her more comfortable around you.


--------------------


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflineFarmerwhite
Cultivation student
 User Gallery


Registered: 02/03/13
Posts: 161
Last seen: 4 years, 10 months
Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: ImaginingEmotions]
    #18771954 - 08/29/13 06:08 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

This man knows whats up


--------------------
I'm here to learn from the best

Objects only have meaning that you put upon them




Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflineMark1
Stranger
Registered: 08/18/11
Posts: 347
Last seen: 8 years, 9 months
Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: Farmerwhite]
    #18772132 - 08/29/13 08:27 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Thanks guys!!!

Is one of the reasons she may justify herself around me, because she likes me and wants me to think highly of her, or am I reading into it too much?


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Offlineclaraclairvoyant
well oiled machine
 User Gallery


Registered: 05/24/09
Posts: 7,802
Last seen: 6 years, 6 months
Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: Mark1] * 3
    #18772163 - 08/29/13 08:48 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

fuck off and join an online dating community to ask these questions to


--------------------


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflineShortknight
Male


Registered: 02/25/13
Posts: 2,164
Last seen: 6 years, 5 months
Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: claraclairvoyant]
    #18772182 - 08/29/13 09:02 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

Anything goes in the pub!:peace:
Taker easy and have fun, everything will sort itself out :yinyang:

:cheers:
:sunny:Shorty:sunny:


--------------------
Did I say it too loud? Big heart? Or a little misleading!:musicnote:


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Offlineclaraclairvoyant
well oiled machine
 User Gallery


Registered: 05/24/09
Posts: 7,802
Last seen: 6 years, 6 months
Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: Shortknight] * 2
    #18772212 - 08/29/13 09:21 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)

yeah it's okay until it's the only thing someone posts about


--------------------


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
OfflineHeadTripVertigo
at least I'm housebroken
Male User Gallery


Folding@home Statistics
Registered: 05/07/06
Posts: 10,788
Last seen: 5 years, 10 months
Re: Two questions regarding a girl I'm hanging out with [Re: claraclairvoyant] * 2
    #18772225 - 08/29/13 09:28 AM (10 years, 5 months ago)



--------------------
TACOS LIKE A MOTHERFUCKER


Edited by HeadTripVertigo (08/29/13 09:32 AM)


Extras: Filter Print Post Top
Jump to top Pages: 1

Shop: Unfolding Nature Unfolding Nature: Being in the Implicate Order   PhytoExtractum Buy Bali Kratom Powder, Maeng Da Thai Kratom Leaf Powder   Bridgetown Botanicals Bridgetown Botanicals


Similar ThreadsPosterViewsRepliesLast post
* Girl didn't text back
( 1 2 3 all )
Pureintention 792 42 04/09/18 03:53 PM
by Konyap
* how to pick up girls
( 1 2 3 all )
EthanEdwards 8,092 49 07/18/03 02:19 AM
by blowback
* Need advice from Shroomerite girls
( 1 2 3 all )
silversoul7 9,069 57 09/23/03 04:08 AM
by Anonymous
* The Land Of The Free (A question for Americans) Jackal 3,036 19 08/08/03 07:54 PM
by PDU
* question about donating blood at work swm 1,865 16 07/21/03 04:58 PM
by GernBlanston
* question...
( 1 2 all )
ZenBhikku 4,359 22 08/22/03 12:16 AM
by ThEGrEaTBeLoW
* MY COCK, MY GIRL'S TWAT, her period...
( 1 2 3 4 all )
Cracka_X 9,981 60 04/25/03 06:18 AM
by Cracka_X
* WHere do they hide the down to earth girls?
( 1 2 all )
no-tone 2,895 28 08/21/03 01:47 AM
by NapkinOfDoom

Extra information
You cannot start new topics / You cannot reply to topics
HTML is disabled / BBCode is enabled
Moderator: Entire Staff
669 topic views. 3 members, 65 guests and 25 web crawlers are browsing this forum.
[ Show Images Only | Sort by Score | Print Topic ]
Search this thread:

Copyright 1997-2024 Mind Media. Some rights reserved.

Generated in 0.028 seconds spending 0.007 seconds on 14 queries.