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Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?!
#18770614 - 08/28/13 09:14 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Okay, so I just started college 3 days ago, and in Sociology class we had to partner up with people and learn about eachother, then present eachother to the class. I sat next to this guy I hadn't really looked at, and when I looked around he suggested we be partners because we were closest together. Then I was like HOLY JESUS YOU'RE SEXY AS HELL I WANT YOU (in mah mind hehe). So, I'm a pretty confident chick, and I say anything on my mind and have no problem flirting with guys. I also consider myself to be pretty attractive, but that doesn't mean anything. Anyway, he's a FILM major who wants to direct, loves Modern/Drama films, wants to go to USC in Cali, and he's 19. I'M 19, an ACTRESS (and singer and dancer), I love Drama/Foreign films, and want to go to USC or UCLA as well. We were also both asked why we wanted to take the class, and we BOTH said we wanted to rebel against society/break chains of society. HE'S MY DREAM GUY. I was pretty chatty with him, and he responded friendly, but not flirty. He wasn't too chatty either, but we both had a lot in common. So...I was thinking next class I go and sit next to him again. Would he think that's weird? How do I approach this situation?
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit] 2
#18770656 - 08/28/13 09:24 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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So...I was thinking next class I go and sit next to him again. Would he think that's weird? How do I approach this situation?
No, he won't think it's weird. An attractive woman with already a foundation of great chemistry in the first meet...he'd love it if you were forward. Just keep flirting with him and ask him if he wants to go grab a bite to eat, or do something or whatever. He'll say yes...trust me.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit] 1
#18770663 - 08/28/13 09:25 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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KelseyRain said: So...I was thinking next class I go and sit next to him again. Would he think that's weird? How do I approach this situation?
No, he wouldn't think it's weird. I'd think you should approach the situation by continuing to be confident, flirty, and talkative with him and vibe it out. At the very least become friends with him if he's not feeling a relationship.
Have fun.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Masked]
#18770666 - 08/28/13 09:25 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Sheekle]
#18770673 - 08/28/13 09:26 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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masked we said the same thing and stuff
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Sheekle] 6
#18770683 - 08/28/13 09:28 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anyway, he's a FILM major who wants to direct, loves Modern/Drama films, wants to go to USC in Cali, and he's 19.
Gay.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
#18770688 - 08/28/13 09:29 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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What these two asses said.
@ koods.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Sheekle]
#18770711 - 08/28/13 09:33 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Sheekle said:
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Masked said: And whatever you do, don't take advice from qman or almond flour on this matter

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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: koods] 1
#18770766 - 08/28/13 09:40 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anyway, he's a FILM major who wants to direct, loves Modern/Drama films, wants to go to USC in Cali, and he's 19.
Gay.
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We were also both asked why we wanted to take the class, and we BOTH said we wanted to rebel against society/break chains of society
Gayer
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: lolwut]
#18770792 - 08/28/13 09:44 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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NOOOO lol that would suck if he's gay. I doubt he is though. I have pretty good gaydar. He seemed straight so....
I mean he surfs too lol that's a straight guy activity I think lmao
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Sheekle]
#18770800 - 08/28/13 09:45 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit] 1
#18770826 - 08/28/13 09:50 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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he's a FILM major
since your attractive, I must point out I'm a film major too
...I'm very good with a camera
*snare-snare-hi hat*
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Masked]
#18770853 - 08/28/13 09:54 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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he's a FILM major
since your attractive, I must point out I'm a film major too
...I'm very good with a camera
*snare-snare-hi hat*
lmfaaaooo. good job
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
#18770859 - 08/28/13 09:54 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Most definitely!
Can't stress enough how attractive it is when women take initiative to start conversations and flirt. Or at least it does for me, I like to be chased
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Masked]
#18770865 - 08/28/13 09:55 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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For future reference there's an emote for that:
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: lolwut]
#18770872 - 08/28/13 09:57 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: philopian_tube]
#18770889 - 08/28/13 10:00 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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philopian_tube said: Most definitely!
Can't stress enough how attractive it is when women take initiative to start conversations and flirt. Or at least it does for me, I like to be chased 
QFT.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: lolwut]
#18770950 - 08/28/13 10:10 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Rim shot. Sounds like it would be one of film major Masked's favorites.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: koods]
#18770953 - 08/28/13 10:11 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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koods said: Rim shot. Sounds like it would be one of film major Masked favorites. 
ooooh snap! Somebody get some water!
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Masked] 3
#18770995 - 08/28/13 10:20 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Just tell him you want him inside you.
That should work unless he is gay.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Uzziel] 1
#18771024 - 08/28/13 10:27 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Lmfaooo no. I also mentioned that one of my hobbies is picking/identifying mushrooms, and he goes "what kind of mushrooms...." and I said "any kind." hehehe... 
He might think I'm weird since I also told him "I like to explore the different realities that coexist within the mind." But that is one of the things he read out to the class lmao so...the class was confused about that statement though. 
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
#18771038 - 08/28/13 10:29 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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He might think I'm weird an attractive woman with a vagina and delicious curves who keeps hitting on him
yep, definitely this.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Masked]
#18771187 - 08/28/13 11:19 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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id just get to class earlier than he does and sees if he sat next to me the second time
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18771200 - 08/28/13 11:21 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: id just get to class earlier than he does and sees if he sat next to me the second time 
That is a very sly move.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18771279 - 08/28/13 11:41 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: id just get to class earlier than he does and sees if he sat next to me the second time 
why the games?
And what if he doesn't? It wouldn't mean anything in my opinion 
I still think the earlier advice from myself and many others is the best course of action.
Be direct, hit on him, ask him out for a beer, or whatever floats you film major's boats Trust me...he will want you badly if you show that kind of confidence and cut through all the bullshit
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Masked]
#18771294 - 08/28/13 11:46 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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I don't think it's a game. It's just a way to feel out the situation.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: koods]
#18771320 - 08/28/13 11:55 PM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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ehh, I don't agree.
If he does or doesn't sit next to her, there's a chance it doesn't mean anything. He choose to sit down in class somewhere /end story
Seems like an elaborate game to me. I say she goes and sits down next to him. Have some more convo with him and then ask him out for a beer.
She wants to do this from the sounds of it and asked if it's weird, which is a resounding no from the majority. 
the old "bait" game just seems kind of pointless, but I dunno
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Masked]
#18771494 - 08/29/13 12:52 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Damn you and your correctitude.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Masked]
#18771573 - 08/29/13 01:32 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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they would probably have to ask some dude outside a liquor store to buy them beer. $5 says they ask for coors/bud light. (i don't actually have $5.)
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Acidic_Sloth]
#18772203 - 08/29/13 09:16 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Acidic_Sloth said: they would probably have to ask some dude outside a liquor store to buy them beer. $5 says they ask for coors/bud light. (i don't actually have $5.)
I forgot...the usa I always forget it's 21. So weird. Legal to get pulverized by cocks for money at 18, legal to vote, but not legal to drink 
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Masked]
#18772644 - 08/29/13 11:20 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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So...I was thinking next class I go and sit next to him again. Would he think that's weird? How do I approach this situation?
No, he won't think it's weird. An attractive woman with already a foundation of great chemistry in the first meet...he'd love it if you were forward. Just keep flirting with him and ask him if he wants to go grab a bite to eat, or do something or whatever. He'll say yes...trust me.
And whatever you do, don't take advice from qman or almond flour on this matter
The only advice I would give this sweet young woman is take her time getting know her potential soul mate, and too enjoy the rich experience of falling in love with another human being.
She is very fortunate to find such an ambitious young man that she has so much in common with, she most likely hit the relationship lottery.
Also, don't rush the sexual aspect of the relationship, let the emotional part of the relationship blossom, get to know each other on a spiritual level, once a true connection of love and respect has taken place, the physical part will naturally develop and a stronger bond will be created.
Best of luck with your romantic endeavor!!
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: qman]
#18772652 - 08/29/13 11:22 AM (10 years, 5 months ago) |
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Also, don't rush the sexual aspect of the relationship,
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Masked]
#18775243 - 08/29/13 09:31 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I DEFINITELY won't rush the sexual intimacy. It might actually be a while. My last boyfriend really messed me up so....I'm gonna take my time.
I think I'll definitely sit next to him. Unless he gets there after me or someone sits next to him first
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
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KelseyRain said: I mean he surfs too lol that's a straight guy activity I think lmao
My good friend who is straight as a circle is really into surfing.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: EDM]
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KelseyRain said: I mean he surfs too lol that's a straight guy activity I think lmao
My good friend who is straight as a circle is really into surfing. 
Thanks for adding the straight as a circle to my repertoire, never heard that one before
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: GoldenEye]
#18791035 - 09/02/13 05:44 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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KelseyRain said: Okay, so I just started college 3 days ago, and in Sociology class we had to partner up with people and learn about eachother, then present eachother to the class. I sat next to this guy I hadn't really looked at, and when I looked around he suggested we be partners because we were closest together. Then I was like HOLY JESUS YOU'RE SEXY AS HELL I WANT YOU (in mah mind hehe). So, I'm a pretty confident chick, and I say anything on my mind and have no problem flirting with guys. I also consider myself to be pretty attractive, but that doesn't mean anything. Anyway, he's a FILM major who wants to direct, loves Modern/Drama films, wants to go to USC in Cali, and he's 19. I'M 19, an ACTRESS (and singer and dancer), I love Drama/Foreign films, and want to go to USC or UCLA as well. We were also both asked why we wanted to take the class, and we BOTH said we wanted to rebel against society/break chains of society. HE'S MY DREAM GUY. I was pretty chatty with him, and he responded friendly, but not flirty. He wasn't too chatty either, but we both had a lot in common. So...I was thinking next class I go and sit next to him again. Would he think that's weird? How do I approach this situation?
You could be indirect or direct.
Indirect would be just being flirty and trying to entice him into making a move. Show off your sexuality, make eyes and all that cute feminine stuff. Try to trigger "that part" of his brain then he should start doing the work.
Or go direct and say "hey dude, I'm way into you, you should ask me out. " This has the advantage of making your intentions known much faster. As a guy I have to admit, as perceptive as I fancy myself, sometimes I completely miss girls "signals." Not because she's not expressing herself, just because I get preoccupied with things going on in my own mind. If you're forward he'll snap out of his head and either be interested or tell you why he's not.
The disadvantage of the direct approach is it may feel more forced and less spontaneous/romantic so there's that. but you gotta do what you gotta do, right? Winners make things happen.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
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Keep telling him that you like to explore alternative realities with drugs that coexist within the mind. Don't be afraid to go into more and more detail. Try to tell him your beliefs and what you think about death, drugs, consciousness and God; and what our mission is in the human body. He will go crazy. Guys love that stuff.
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Dr. Crapsghetti said: Keep telling him that you like to explore alternative realities with drugs that coexist within the mind. Don't be afraid to go into more and more detail. Try to tell him your beliefs and what you think about death, drugs, consciousness and God; and what our mission is in the human body. He will go crazy. Guys love that stuff.
Nope...don't do this lol
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much good advice from the boards. follow your heart.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Anonymous #1]
#18792628 - 09/02/13 11:12 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: id just get to class earlier than he does and sees if he sat next to me the second time 
Do this. It's what I'd do when being a freshy. and did it many times with perfection. Unless he has other friends in the class that he regular sits next too/ talks to it will work.
Damn, the super poon opportunity of first days of class. I miss those days 
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Anonymous #2]
#18794732 - 09/03/13 03:03 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Lol pics aren't necessary, are they?
Well, I came into class early, sat down the same place as before...looked cute...and waited....and waited....AND HE DIDN'T COME TO CLASS -__- So I have to wait a week AGAIN. I give up 
I just wanna quit on guys. They're so fucking stupid (ones here). Like they don't even take you on a proper date anymore. And yeah I am for women's rights, so I like being independent, but when a guy doesn't even want to pick you up, obviously he's just after one things so fuck that. I HATE the guys here. They're HORRIBLE.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
#18794857 - 09/03/13 03:32 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Holy shit you're definitely 19 eh. Met my dream guy. We had fun. He isn't paying attention to me. That makes every guy a huge jerk. No one will pick me up.
First. Idk what you'd call your dream Guy but someone who has similar career plans and looks good is far from what any rational person would call their dream Guy.
Second. Love yourself. Maybe if you love yourself and could care less about anyone else. You might find that guy who's actually willing to woo you. Guys who give up after sex isn't on the table are Fags. Show your real side and tell them you're not a piece of meat.
Third and probably most important. Don't let anyone get you down. All pain stems from yourself. Meaning you're over thinking everything making you this stressed and upset. If u really did love to expand your mind. Don't let the ego get in the way of rationality. He obviously likes you inherently since you're a female human being. Most people actually like animals and think every animal should be treated nicely. If you respect. I'm sure you'll get respect.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Mad Season]
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Sheekle]
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: koods]
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KelseyRain said: Lol pics aren't necessary, are they?
Well, I came into class early, sat down the same place as before...looked cute...and waited....and waited....AND HE DIDN'T COME TO CLASS -__- So I have to wait a week AGAIN. I give up 
I just wanna quit on guys. They're so fucking stupid (ones here). Like they don't even take you on a proper date anymore. And yeah I am for women's rights, so I like being independent, but when a guy doesn't even want to pick you up, obviously he's just after one things so fuck that. I HATE the guys here. They're HORRIBLE.
Lol good things come to those who wait. Yes, we do need a pic! There's no way we can tell if our advice is going to help you without one
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: GoldenEye]
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GoldenEye said: Here's a place for that picture:
http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/17326319/fpart/360
Do I have to...lol. I don't even know how.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
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As you are writing a quick reply, you will see a toolbar right above the text box. Toward the right side of this toolbar, you will see a square button that looks like a small picture of two mountains that will be in between the TEX and flash buttons. If you hold your mouse clicker over the mountain button, it will say image. Click the mountain button and a small panel should appear right underneath it. In the panel there is a small text box, and to the right of this text box, written in bold, is the the word Upload. Click that button and it will open another tab. On this page there is a button on the middle of the screen that says choose files. Before clicking that button, check the box to the right of it that says share. After checking the box, simply click choose files and upload a picture from your computer.
This is not optional.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Mad Season]
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Mad Season said: Holy shit you're definitely 19 eh. Met my dream guy. We had fun. He isn't paying attention to me. That makes every guy a huge jerk. No one will pick me up.
First. Idk what you'd call your dream Guy but someone who has similar career plans and looks good is far from what any rational person would call their dream Guy.
Second. Love yourself. Maybe if you love yourself and could care less about anyone else. You might find that guy who's actually willing to woo you. Guys who give up after sex isn't on the table are Fags. Show your real side and tell them you're not a piece of meat.
Third and probably most important. Don't let anyone get you down. All pain stems from yourself. Meaning you're over thinking everything making you this stressed and upset. If u really did love to expand your mind. Don't let the ego get in the way of rationality. He obviously likes you inherently since you're a female human being. Most people actually like animals and think every animal should be treated nicely. If you respect. I'm sure you'll get respect.
How about you're overreacting to what I've written and taking it too literally. I am not in love with this guy or anything. I don't even have his number. And no, I'm not giving up on guys because of THIS guy. I didn't say anywhere that he was ignoring me, makes all guys jerks, and he wouldn't pick me up. You assumed all of that. "Dream Guy" is to be taken "lightly". Not literally. I don't know. Maybe's it's a girl thing 
I'm also not upset or stressed. Just a bit traumatized, but that will heal with time and patience, lol...
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Fine....I guess these two.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
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Im gay but I would bang you.
Btw, you're right our generation of guys suck. I know a lot of very pretty girls and they have years of dealing with shithead guys.
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I'd let you tickle my pickle.
But for real, maybe he just didn't wanna go to class. Sometimes I just don't wanna go to class, so I don't. College is cool like that. Worry about it when you see him again, it doesn't seem like anything was intentional. Just be cool baby.
Also you're gorgeous so you don't have shit to worry about.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Anonymous #4]
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Anonymous said: I'd let you tickle my pickle.
But for real, maybe he just didn't wanna go to class. Sometimes I just don't wanna go to class, so I don't. College is cool like that. Worry about it when you see him again, it doesn't seem like anything was intentional. Just be cool baby.
Also you're gorgeous so you don't have shit to worry about.

Aww thanks guys lol :3
But no I was just kidding about being sad he didn't come to class lol. Idgaf if he skips or not, I'm just hoping he didn't drop the class or something O.O
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
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jesus shit ur stunningly beautiful
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Sheekle]
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Thanks...lol I try
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
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Im disappointed that post tits wasnt the first response
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
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Well, I came into class early, sat down the same place as before...looked cute...and waited....and waited....AND HE DIDN'T COME TO CLASS -__- So I have to wait a week AGAIN. I give up 
Typical when your working up to something, been there.
For me, being in a class setting adds an extra dimension to a possible rejection. Its not like your never going to see that person again, you will be stuck in a room with them all semester. So that could be his hang up or he could be playing it cool, personally i have talked myself out it when girls are into me or flirting, thinking "oh there just being nice". He might not know you like him.
Be more direct, sit next to him talk to him like you have been, maybe don't force the conciseness talk right away, feel it out more. If you two get close yeah share your mind in that way and if he asks even better.Personally some of my best relationships and bonds have started when the girl takes the initiative or give a clear signal. Your attraction sounds more than physical he should know that you like him. Go for it, follow your heart.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
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No tits with that face?
Gez... those are deal breakers or should I say can be.
Yeah you look pretty good, would bang and keep around to bring to party and meet more chicks with.
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Well, I came into class early, sat down the same place as before...looked cute...and waited....and waited....AND HE DIDN'T COME TO CLASS -__- So I have to wait a week AGAIN. I give up 
Typical when your working up to something, been there.
For me, being in a class setting adds an extra dimension to a possible rejection. Its not like your never going to see that person again, you will be stuck in a room with them all semester. So that could be his hang up or he could be playing it cool, personally i have talked myself out it when girls are into me or flirting, thinking "oh there just being nice". He might not know you like him.
Be more direct, sit next to him talk to him like you have been, maybe don't force the conciseness talk right away, feel it out more. If you two get close yeah share your mind in that way and if he asks even better.Personally some of my best relationships and bonds have started when the girl takes the initiative or give a clear signal. Your attraction sounds more than physical he should know that you like him. Go for it, follow your heart.
This is nice advice thankss
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Anonymous #2]
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Anonymous said: No tits with that face?
Gez... those are deal breakers or should I say can be.
Yeah you look pretty good, would bang and keep around to bring to party and meet more chicks with.
You're vulgar, and obviously aware of it if you're hiding behind anonymous. I'm a human, not a sex object.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
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I guess but it works
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
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You're vulgar, and obviously aware of it if you're hiding behind anonymous. I'm a human, not a sex object.
I like how you stand up for your self. Don't let em compromise you.
Nothing wrong with your face at all that dudes just being obnoxious and "vulgar", you are pretty.
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Could I see you holding a cheeseburger?
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Dr. Crapsghetti said: Could I see you holding a cheeseburger?
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
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If you are comfortable with holding the cheeseburger, could you pretend just this once?
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"More meat please"
 I like how their dressed like nurses, Mouth to mouth after you get a heart attack from that grease pit.
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They don't seem very interested in the burgers. I'm just not believing it. The cheeseburgers are beautiful. The models should be more involved.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
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KelseyRain said: Fine....I guess these two.

Yeah, you'll be fine. Wait, you already are  Just keep showing some initiative.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
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KelseyRain said: Fine....I guess these two.

This is why S.Fla is a great place to be a guy: She is average looking here.
No offence intended kelsey, you should know you would probably be the hottest girl around in about 95% of the USA, but you are surrounded by hot women here at home. 
... believe me I know how it is, i grew up in the north, and you would have three guys of your choice begging you for your love. Down here, well... I chose to live here for a reason
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Anonymous #5]
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No offence intended kelsey, BUT you should know that I'm going to do everything I can in my next few sentences to assert my ego and destroy yours. So I guess the cat's out of the bag...offence intended
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Masked]
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No offence intended kelsey, BUT you should know that I'm going to do everything I can in my next few sentences to assert my ego and destroy yours. So I guess the cat's out of the bag...offence intended
grow up
QFT. Quit hiding behind the anon function.
You're gorgeous kelsey, don't you worry. Personally I went to probably ~10% of my classes in university. It means nothing. Maybe he'll show up next time.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: pwnasaurus]
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No offence intended kelsey, BUT you should know that I'm going to do everything I can in my next few sentences to assert my ego and destroy yours. So I guess the cat's out of the bag...offence intended
grow up
QFT. Quit hiding behind the anon function.
You're gorgeous kelsey, don't you worry. Personally I went to probably ~10% of my classes in university. It means nothing. Maybe he'll show up next time.
I doubt she will be offended by that. My comment mentions she is probably a 10/10 in 95% of cities. Not her fault or mine that all of the hot women flock here. Girls are at a marked disadvantage, irregardless, that's all a bit off topic. Most girls that look like her will get the guy, she should be fine.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Anonymous #5]
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
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KelseyRain said: Fine....I guess these two.

You're adorable.
If anyone else bait/trolls this thread via anon, I'll take the 5 minutes to look up who you are, tell everyone here, then either ban you from this forum or make it so you can only make one post a day, site-wide, for the next year.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Anonymous #5]
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I doubt she will be offended by that. My comment mentions she is probably a 10/10 in 95% of cities. Not her fault or mine that all of the hot women flock here. Girls are at a marked disadvantage, irregardless, that's all a bit off topic. Most girls that look like her will get the guy, she should be fine.
not a word, don't you look silly!
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
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Pony up and talk to the guy. Many, particularly younger attractive girls are under this false media perpetuated impression that they need to sit there being all passive aggressive til he makes the first move otherwise they are considered slutty and uncouth.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MisterMuscaria]
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ask him if he'd like to glaze your face.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
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KelseyRain said: Fine....I guess these two.

That's you? Damn. And you're worried about whether or not this dude is down. You're hot as fuck. If the guy is straight, odds are that he's down.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: automan]
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automan said:
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KelseyRain said: Fine....I guess these two.

You're adorable.
If anyone else bait/trolls this thread via anon, I'll take the 5 minutes to look up who you are, tell everyone here, then either ban you from this forum or make it so you can only make one post a day, site-wide, for the next year.
Pretty sure you just threatened to drop my anon. Cloak that's preventing me from associating the area I live with my account. If that's how shit gets done, by all means do it. I've been needing a reason to stop lurking here.
Let's hear from op before you decide I'm trolling or something. I know south Florida, and im identifying what a late teen girl should know here so you all can give her relevant advice.
This is a highly superficial place where women often make the first move. Guys tend to reject women here, half are litterally gay and the other half get hit on by the remaining surplus. Most of you don't know these things, or consider them when giving advice. I'm helping .. Def not trolling.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Anonymous #5]
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I'm helping...

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This is why S.Fla is a great place to be a guy: She is average looking here.
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you should know you would probably be the hottest girl around in about 95% of the USA, but you are surrounded by hot women here at home - so what I'm basically saying is, you aren't that hot when you put it in perspective
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i grew up in the north, and you would have three guys of your choice begging you for your love. Down here, well...I'm going to dance around it, but what I'm really saying is you wouldn't. I chose to live here for a reason
Please tell me where you are helping?
I didn't pick it apart in my last post. I think this summarizes up your douchebagness quite nicely
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No offence intended kelsey, BUT you should know that I'm going to do everything I can in my next few sentences to assert my ego and destroy yours. So I guess the cat's out of the bag...offence intended
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I doubt she will be offended by that. My comment mentions she is probably a 10/10 in 95% of cities. Not her fault or mine that all of the hot women flock here. Girls are at a marked disadvantage, irregardless, that's all a bit off topic. Most girls that look like her will get the guy, she should be fine.
not a word, don't you look silly!
OP is cute
Irregardless is a word in Miami, but you wouldn't have know that.
All of you should reread op's posts. She knows she's hot, and she's tired of guys rejecting her. I assure u Miami guys have treated her like shit if she says so. Its rough here for girls.
Its also kind of insulting that most people think her idea of a dream guy will date her based on looks alone. Maybe she is over the way people look because she grew up in MIAMi, and would only be content with intellectual/emotional bonding.
Anyone care to tell me why they think I'm wrong, instead of all of this passive aggressive banter that sidesteps my actual statements?
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MisterMuscaria]
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MisterMuscaria said: Pony up and talk to the guy. Many, particularly younger attractive girls are under this false media perpetuated impression that they need to sit there being all passive aggressive til he makes the first move otherwise they are considered slutty and uncouth.
This is not the reality in Miami, although she should talk to the guy.
...Women, IME, just simply prefer the guy make the first 'move'. Thats universal, however im sure there is no such passive aggressiveness here. It is perfectly normal to see a girl walking down the street in nothing but high heels and a bikini.
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ask him if he'd like to glaze your face.
and I get singled out? wow.
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Then I was like HOLY JESUS YOU'RE SEXY AS HELL I WANT YOU (in mah mind hehe). So, I'm a pretty confident chick, and I say anything on my mind and have no problem flirting with guys. I also consider myself to be pretty attractive, but that doesn't mean anything.
Im guessing the 50 comments geared toward the under-confident, late blooming girl seriously do not apply here.
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I just wanna quit on guys. They're so fucking stupid (ones here). Like they don't even take you on a proper date anymore. And yeah I am for women's rights, so I like being independent, but when a guy doesn't even want to pick you up, obviously he's just after one things so fuck that. I HATE the guys here. They're HORRIBLE.
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So...I was thinking next class I go and sit next to him again. Would he think that's weird? How do I approach this situation?
None of you did a great job answering this or that^. I provided relevant context, thats how I helped this thread.
I think OP wants to be talked to like the adult woman she is accepted as in Miami. She has probably seen, and been through things the average 30 y/o woman in the midwest has with men/boys.
step 1: find out he isn't gay. (there is a good chance)
2: Sit and talk with him, but feel out the situation.
3: tell him he should invite you to this http://www.miami.com/drive-movies-debut-wynwood-sept-18-article because you and him would have a good time and get to know each other better. Flirt, but leave the overt sexual advances for a later date.
4: assuming he is not gay, and you are still interested reevaluate.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Anonymous #5]
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FTR, i was being factious. sorry op if i offended you.
but that approach would definitely work under most circumstances.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
#18804169 - 09/05/13 05:02 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I noticed you list yourself as an actress, what type of productions have you been in?
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Anonymous #5]
#18804178 - 09/05/13 05:04 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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None of you did a great job answering this or that^.
It's very apparent with this ignorant comment you didn't even read the thread. There was great advice given on that exact question of hers.
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I provided relevant context
right. I've just called you out and you still haven't been able to show where and how you helped. I doubt you will be able to show how you provided relevant context either.
What I have noticed is that you are now back peddling and trying to appear helpful. I'm particularly focusing on your original post where all you basically said is "your quite average OP. In other areas you might have guys flocking to you, but in this area you won't". And then you had to even assert your own ego, while thinking it was witty of you(which is quite the opposite), by throwing in comments like "hey, I know...that's why I choose to live here"
You clearly failed to help on all levels in that post. Stop back peddling and stop trying to pretend you care.
You need to grow up. End of story
There is NO possible way you could justify to any sane person your original post(the one I'm calling you out on). Which is why you have received so much flak and people concurring with my original response.
Just face the facts. Your original post cannot be taken in any other way, but a way to assert your ego and bring down hers. You contributed NOTHING with that post. You fail
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
#18804209 - 09/05/13 05:09 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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You're rich aren't you.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Anonymous #5]
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KelseyRain said: Fine....I guess these two.

This is why S.Fla is a great place to be a guy: She is average looking here.
No offence intended kelsey, you should know you would probably be the hottest girl around in about 95% of the USA, but you are surrounded by hot women here at home. 
... believe me I know how it is, i grew up in the north, and you would have three guys of your choice begging you for your love. Down here, well... I chose to live here for a reason 
Well you're the typical Miami guy. Biggest assholes on Earth, AND UGLY as a butthole. Miami has the UGLIEST guys, appearance and personality. Now I don't have anything against ugly guys, but here, they're not the nice ones either. They're literally all dicks. Btw, I don't consider myself average-looking. I'm hot! So get outta here with your pussy anon shit. Like you're serious? You think you have the right to talk down to people on ANON? Did I ask for your PERSONAL opinion on me? Nah man.
PS: Go back to where ever you came from because if you like Miami so much, you'll learn the hard way not to talk shit in secret because people will find out and you'll be left with no friends and no chicks. They're Latin and Black here. They won't talk shit back to you, they will FIGHT you. Just saying....
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
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Bodhi of Ankou said: I noticed you list yourself as an actress, what type of productions have you been in?
Mostly theatre but I prefer film acting. There's not many film opportunities here, I need LA or NY for that. I have been in some music videos though and a film that should premiere on Starz or Lifetime called "Back Court".
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Masked]
#18804357 - 09/05/13 05:49 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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No offence intended kelsey, BUT you should know that I'm going to do everything I can in my next few sentences to assert my ego and destroy yours. So I guess the cat's out of the bag...offence intended
Please please PLEASE don't tell me you consider yourself a psychonaut. If so...LOL.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
#18804465 - 09/05/13 06:24 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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You oughta ditch florida when you graduate. There are much cooler places in this country.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Dark_Star]
#18804500 - 09/05/13 06:32 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'm definitely leaving for university and for the rest of my life lol. Preferably on the West Coast, or Canada.
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This thread is fuckin' lulzy and represents a major problem with our culture imo...guys suck up to girls ALL THE TIME, coddling their egos, making them feel super secure and happy and shit, and often get ignored when they do so - because society has taught us that having an inflated ego about your looks is the most important thing for a fragile delicate female consciousness to have in the sense that as long as she feels good about herself everything else is OK, so guys play this role to perfection in hope of making her feel good (thus validating his opinion), or getting laid out of it, or getting more (nude) pics...
Yet as soon as "that guy" comes in with some rationality, it's a shitstorm aimed right at him..."You don't think shes a 11/10 super hot babe supermodel sex-bomb like the rest of us are saying??? I'll de-anon you! You're ugly as a butthole! You're a jerk and a troll!!! arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr"
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
#18804544 - 09/05/13 06:41 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'm stuck in Las Cruces and El Paso. There's nothing but mexicans. Aye wey.
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I doubt she will be offended by that. My comment mentions she is probably a 10/10 in 95% of cities. Not her fault or mine that all of the hot women flock here. Girls are at a marked disadvantage, irregardless, that's all a bit off topic. Most girls that look like her will get the guy, she should be fine.
not a word, don't you look silly!
OP is cute
Cute, but also terribly shallow.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
#18804633 - 09/05/13 06:56 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Lol, don't be mad about the truth.
Read what I wrote, not what the guys think I wrote and tell me specifically where I'm wrong. Asshole yes, wrong no. Accept reality then you can deal with it better. I never said anything bad about you, try again. Other wise, I'm not sure who you are responding to.
You don't need someone building u up with complimentaries. You point out you didn't ask, but you're not fighting back against people saying you will get by on looks alone.
Not afraid to fight, Miami is a weak city compared to the shit I'm from. But think about what I wrote on your own without the false authority argument about how unpopular it sounds. Assume I'm on your side. Guys are asshole, momas boys here. I'm not afraid of them, and you shouldn't be either. Pick one that will love you and meet your unique expectations. Stop being tough about it.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Anonymous #5]
#18804698 - 09/05/13 07:09 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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OP. any woman who takes interest in exploring consciousness with psychedelics is A COMPLETE TURN ON!(IMO)
I say this to demonstrate that YOU have the upper hand in this situation. You can make things go as fast or as slow as you want 
He asked what kind of shrooms...he knows what you were referencing..
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: lolwut]
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lolwut said: This thread is fuckin' lulzy and represents a major problem with our culture imo...guys suck up to girls ALL THE TIME, coddling their egos, making them feel super secure and happy and shit, and often get ignored when they do so - because society has taught us that having an inflated ego about your looks is the most important thing for a fragile delicate female consciousness to have in the sense that as long as she feels good about herself everything else is OK, so guys play this role to perfection in hope of making her feel good (thus validating his opinion), or getting laid out of it, or getting more (nude) pics...
Yet as soon as "that guy" comes in with some rationality, it's a shitstorm aimed right at him..."You don't think shes a 11/10 super hot babe supermodel sex-bomb like the rest of us are saying??? I'll de-anon you! You're ugly as a butthole! You're a jerk and a troll!!! arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr"

No, we're angry because it's rude to be an ass for no reason and his opinion and all his other comments were uncalled for. I don't give a fuck if you think I'm hot or not, YOU guys asked for a picture. I wasn't asking for compliments. If you think his comments were "rational"...like...I can't even comment.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Anonymous #5]
#18804728 - 09/05/13 07:16 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: Lol, don't be mad about the truth.
Read what I wrote, not what the guys think I wrote and tell me specifically where I'm wrong. Asshole yes, wrong no. Accept reality then you can deal with it better. I never said anything bad about you, try again. Other wise, I'm not sure who you are responding to.
You don't need someone building u up with complimentaries. You point out you didn't ask, but you're not fighting back against people saying you will get by on looks alone.
Not afraid to fight, Miami is a weak city compared to the shit I'm from. But think about what I wrote on your own without the false authority argument about how unpopular it sounds. Assume I'm on your side. Guys are asshole, momas boys here. I'm not afraid of them, and you shouldn't be either. Pick one that will love you and meet your unique expectations. Stop being tough about it.
You're asking me to "accept reality". What YOU fail to realize is that I am not in YOUR reality, and my reality is different from YOURS. I don't JUST stand up for myself when someone like you comes and decides to be a prick, I am also thanking others who have decided to say nice things and am responding to other questions that aren't related to your comments.
If I'm "average" to YOU, then keep THAT to yourself. Don't go ahead and tell me for no fucking reason that all of Miami finds me average. What's your point? What's the point of that? To tell someone that they're average? What if I did have a shitty self-esteem? And is this not the Shroomery? We should be supporting eachother due to the fact that we all share something rare in common: our love for Psychedelics. So keep the peace and respect. And you're not doing that by being ignorant.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
#18804941 - 09/05/13 08:16 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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You're a bit intense right now. I don't come here to troll, I offered my insight. I wasn't hostile here. I've given you some Miami manswers. You think I'm being a prick, I get it.
I'm not a bad guy for giving my take on things. I was pretty objective about it.
good luck with your man.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
#18804998 - 09/05/13 08:32 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'm sorry, but are you comfortable with the cheeseburger?
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
#18805008 - 09/05/13 08:34 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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lolwut said: This thread is fuckin' lulzy and represents a major problem with our culture imo...guys suck up to girls ALL THE TIME, coddling their egos, making them feel super secure and happy and shit, and often get ignored when they do so - because society has taught us that having an inflated ego about your looks is the most important thing for a fragile delicate female consciousness to have in the sense that as long as she feels good about herself everything else is OK, so guys play this role to perfection in hope of making her feel good (thus validating his opinion), or getting laid out of it, or getting more (nude) pics...
Yet as soon as "that guy" comes in with some rationality, it's a shitstorm aimed right at him..."You don't think shes a 11/10 super hot babe supermodel sex-bomb like the rest of us are saying??? I'll de-anon you! You're ugly as a butthole! You're a jerk and a troll!!! arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr"

No, we're angry because it's rude to be an ass for no reason and his opinion and all his other comments were uncalled for. I don't give a fuck if you think I'm hot or not, YOU guys asked for a picture. I wasn't asking for compliments. If you think his comments were "rational"...like...I can't even comment.
Is it being a "rude ass" to tell an ugly girl she's ugly? Or is it only acceptable to follow social convention and tell every girl she's stunningly beautiful simply because we've been told by TV and mass media that that's how to get laid and that girls are super sensitive anyway and NEED to feel super hot?
If a girl called me ugly I'd be like "whatever" and if a girl told me I was hot I'd be like "whatever". Ya know?
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Yes it is. She's well aware of how ugly she is, she doesnt need some banal little asshole coming up to her and informing her of it. OP's also fairly hot, your constant denial of this is really only indicative of your own misgivings. Bitter much? Please dont tell us how you score all these fine ladies either, we know your constant rejection from them is probably why your lashing out at OP.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#18805061 - 09/05/13 08:47 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I never said she wasn't hot, I reckon she's a solid 8/10 since you pretty much asked. And you call that lashing out? I call it pointing out a different mode of thinking.
Thanks for the insults, they have made me reconsider myself on a deep level and reevaluate existence and the meaning of my life here.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: lolwut]
#18805088 - 09/05/13 08:51 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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lolwut said: This thread is fuckin' lulzy and represents a major problem with our culture imo...guys suck up to girls ALL THE TIME, coddling their egos, making them feel super secure and happy and shit, and often get ignored when they do so - because society has taught us that having an inflated ego about your looks is the most important thing for a fragile delicate female consciousness to have in the sense that as long as she feels good about herself everything else is OK, so guys play this role to perfection in hope of making her feel good (thus validating his opinion), or getting laid out of it, or getting more (nude) pics...
Yet as soon as "that guy" comes in with some rationality, it's a shitstorm aimed right at him..."You don't think shes a 11/10 super hot babe supermodel sex-bomb like the rest of us are saying??? I'll de-anon you! You're ugly as a butthole! You're a jerk and a troll!!! arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr"

No, we're angry because it's rude to be an ass for no reason and his opinion and all his other comments were uncalled for. I don't give a fuck if you think I'm hot or not, YOU guys asked for a picture. I wasn't asking for compliments. If you think his comments were "rational"...like...I can't even comment.
Is it being a "rude ass" to tell an ugly girl she's ugly? Or is it only acceptable to follow social convention and tell every girl she's stunningly beautiful simply because we've been told by TV and mass media that that's how to get laid and that girls are super sensitive anyway and NEED to feel super hot?
If a girl called me ugly I'd be like "whatever" and if a girl told me I was hot I'd be like "whatever". Ya know?
Yes, it's rude. One, it's none of your business whether a girl is ugly or not. Two, she doesn't need your opinion because what is calling her ugly do for you? What does it do for her? You just like conflict, and even if you're telling the truth and "being honest", no conflict is intellectual. We don't NEED to feel super hot. If a girl doesn't feel that about herself then that's her problem, and none of your or mine concern. However, if there is a girl who actually likes the way she looks and you shoot her down "you're only average. you're whatever", that's just mean. (I know you might not be that anon who said that but see what I'm saying).
Like...that's like telling someone who has a mental disability who is trying their best at a subject and feeling good about themselves that they're starting to get it, then you come in and say "you're still retarded". If it doesn't need to be said, don't say it.
Can I request a mod to lock this thread? We don't have a use for it anymore. Thank you to all who have answered me kindly.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
#18805108 - 09/05/13 08:55 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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OK, for my own future reference, I will remember to lie to girls so that I can keep them living in their little dream world and so I can get things out of them instead of bursting their bubble and bruising their egos. 
Maybe I'm cynical here but since Myspace and Facebook became popular nearly every girl is full on attention seeking. But so are the guys, but in a different way.
And yea I haven't posted anon in here
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Anonymous #5]
#18805114 - 09/05/13 08:56 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: You're a bit intense right now. I don't come here to troll, I offered my insight. I wasn't hostile here. I've given you some Miami manswers. You think I'm being a prick, I get it.
I'm not a bad guy for giving my take on things. I was pretty objective about it.
good luck with your man.
After all of this I think I'm considering just sticking to women permanently lmfao. Btw, just because you're in Miami doesn't mean you have to always have THE hottest girl. If you only care about looks, where will that get you?
K. I'm done now.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: lolwut]
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lolwut said: OK, for my own future reference, I will remember to lie to girls so that I can keep them living in their little dream world and so I can get things out of them instead of bursting their bubble and bruising their egos. 
Maybe I'm cynical here but since Myspace and Facebook became popular nearly every girl is full on attention seeking. But so are the guys, but in a different way.
And yea I haven't posted anon in here
For your info, I'm not an attention seeking girl. If I was, I'd probably post more pics, or more revealing pics. Matter of fact, my whole instagram is just my dogs and food lmao, not even me. And you don't need to "lie" to girls. I didn't ask "do i look hot guys!?!?!?!!" No. I already stated I consider myself attractive. That's a STATEMENT, not a question.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
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I doubt she will be offended by that. My comment mentions she is probably a 10/10 in 95% of cities. Not her fault or mine that all of the hot women flock here. Girls are at a marked disadvantage, irregardless, that's all a bit off topic. Most girls that look like her will get the guy, she should be fine.
not a word, don't you look silly!
OP is cute
Cute, but also terribly shallow.
Lol okay. "Shallow"
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
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All I'm saying is try to stop caring when people say things that go against your grain. If someone thinks you're ugly...who cares, seriously? In the same way you can't be everybody's friend, not everyone will think you're hot. It's much more attractive to be secure and solid inside than be so volatile as to react vehemently at one "you're not that hot" comment.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: lolwut]
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lolwut said: All I'm saying is try to stop caring when people say things that go against your grain. If someone thinks you're ugly...who cares, seriously? In the same way you can't be everybody's friend, not everyone will think you're hot. It's much more attractive to be secure and solid inside than be so volatile as to react vehemently at one "you're not that hot" comment.
Because I don't care if they're insulting me, but I do believe in standing up for myself and for others when ignorance is present. When you've been bullied and abused to the extent that I have in my past, it's only natural for me to feel to defend myself and try to make you see your own ignorance.
I just don't understand why telling a girl "you're not that hot" even needs to be said.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
#18805182 - 09/05/13 09:10 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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So is the cheeseburger still in question or what?
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
#18805187 - 09/05/13 09:10 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I think there's a few grey areas in this thread, namely that you weren't too keen on posting a pic anyway and the fact that that guy said you're hot everywhere else except where he lives, and not "you're ugly". But there's a lot of attention seeking girls, living in their own heads, thinking they're really attractive, dressing slutty, all because the guys they have added on facebook or whatever are the sleezy type of "fuck you're really hot" etc. I'm sure you know the type. It's good to hear you're not that way...but a lot of people are and a lot of them need a reality check.
I've been bullied as a kid and growing up too and I've found a way to just brush it off. Then again I'm a lover not a fighter lol. But if it gets to the point of being pushed around, I stand up for myself then
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: lolwut]
#18805201 - 09/05/13 09:13 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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lolwut said: I think there's a few grey areas in this thread, namely that you weren't too keen on posting a pic anyway and the fact that that guy said you're hot everywhere else except where he lives, and not "you're ugly". But there's a lot of attention seeking girls, living in their own heads, thinking they're really attractive, dressing slutty, all because the guys they have added on facebook or whatever are the sleezy type of "fuck you're really hot" etc. I'm sure you know the type. It's good to hear you're not that way...but a lot of people are and a lot of them need a reality check.
I've been bullied as a kid and growing up too and I've found a way to just brush it off. Then again I'm a lover not a fighter lol. But if it gets to the point of being pushed around, I stand up for myself then
I have also deleted the pictures because I prefer my identity remain anonymous.
Forreal though. Can a mod lock this? I'm done here.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
#18805232 - 09/05/13 09:21 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Mod edit: User is banned
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Edited by tymoteusz3 (09/06/13 06:45 AM)
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
#18805281 - 09/05/13 09:29 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I doubt she will be offended by that. My comment mentions she is probably a 10/10 in 95% of cities. Not her fault or mine that all of the hot women flock here. Girls are at a marked disadvantage, irregardless, that's all a bit off topic. Most girls that look like her will get the guy, she should be fine.
not a word, don't you look silly!
OP is cute
Cute, but also terribly shallow.
Lol okay. "Shallow"
Lol "actress"
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
#18805360 - 09/05/13 09:48 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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It's almost impossible to have a normal conversation with these people. I told them that I was going to beat my roommates dogs because they were being obnoxious and they took me completely literal, told me to basically kidnap the dogs and drop them off at a shelter where they'd probably be killed and then labeled me an animal abuser.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#18805457 - 09/05/13 10:09 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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OP is cute
Cute, but also terribly shallow.
Lol okay. "Shallow"
Lol "actress"
WOOOOOWWWWW, so you're saying I'm shallow because I'm an actor? Stereotypical much?
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
#18805471 - 09/05/13 10:11 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yes.
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#18805517 - 09/05/13 10:23 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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I doubt she will be offended by that. My comment mentions she is probably a 10/10 in 95% of cities. Not her fault or mine that all of the hot women flock here. Girls are at a marked disadvantage, irregardless, that's all a bit off topic. Most girls that look like her will get the guy, she should be fine.
not a word, don't you look silly!
OP is cute
Cute, but also terribly shallow.
how so? i've kind of grazed over this thread but didn't really gather 'shallow' from the OP
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He says it's because I'm an actor...................
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He's trollinnn
Edited by MoonSpirit (09/05/13 10:27 PM)
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
#18805671 - 09/05/13 10:55 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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lolwut said: This thread is fuckin' lulzy and represents a major problem with our culture imo...guys suck up to girls ALL THE TIME, coddling their egos, making them feel super secure and happy and shit, and often get ignored when they do so - because society has taught us that having an inflated ego about your looks is the most important thing for a fragile delicate female consciousness to have in the sense that as long as she feels good about herself everything else is OK, so guys play this role to perfection in hope of making her feel good (thus validating his opinion), or getting laid out of it, or getting more (nude) pics...
Yet as soon as "that guy" comes in with some rationality, it's a shitstorm aimed right at him..."You don't think shes a 11/10 super hot babe supermodel sex-bomb like the rest of us are saying??? I'll de-anon you! You're ugly as a butthole! You're a jerk and a troll!!! arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr"

No, we're angry because it's rude to be an ass for no reason and his opinion and all his other comments were uncalled for. I don't give a fuck if you think I'm hot or not, YOU guys asked for a picture. I wasn't asking for compliments. If you think his comments were "rational"...like...I can't even comment.
I think you missed lolwuts point here. My comments were about ur thread topic, and related a variety of circumstances including how you look, and how guys think and act here.
It was never about if your hot (i said you were if you read carefully), it was about some things you should see/look out for.
I think people's advice was missing, and the normal male/female constant where they live has a different dynamic here, you seem to agree with me more than anything...
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: Anonymous #5]
#18805681 - 09/05/13 10:57 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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Just so you don't think I'm the above anon -
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Re: Met DREAM GUY in class...now what?! [Re: MoonSpirit]
#18805872 - 09/05/13 10:57 PM (10 years, 4 months ago) |
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This thread has been closed.
Reason: a man a plan a canal panama
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